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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So were intrigued, are people on here quiet and secretive of their fab lifestyles with friends or do you activeley include friends and invite them to join/take part and introduce them to the lifestyle - for us most who know us know we swing xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Secret secret secret! It adds to the fun!
Our neighbours and colleagues think we are boring, every time they ask if we had a good weekend we tell them we were in bed early on Saturday night, little do they know it was a clubs orgy bed with 10 other naked couples  |
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Secret except to our closest 2 friends, who are a couple incidentally. K's friend knew before they got together and the sheer amount of time we cumulatively spend together meant that not telling my (D) friend would've had three of us lying about why we (D&K not the friend!) were visiting a certain city or town randomly! Very much had to explain the 'never ever friends' rule to him too aha.
Apart from that I imagine it'll be a secret to the grave! |
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Our closest friends know ... one of Jude's is even joining us for a club visit. To be honest we don't go out of our way to tell everyone but we don't hide it either.
Family ... not so much mainly because it's never come up in conversation my sister knows though. |
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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago
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My group of closest friends know, it would have been too tricky to talk about how things are with the new relationship with SSS if I had to miss out a huge chunk of what we are about and the dynamic between us. Swinging and the openness which comes along with it are a bit part of our relationship so it seemed dishonest to only give my friends half the story.
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There’s a few free ends who know I’m a swinger. However only a very select few know everything. Last friend I told I also work for. It was getting to difficult to filter out certain comments. When he asked what I had been up to at the weekend. 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I couldn’t care less who knows. Just because they’re prudes and is all taboo for them, doesn’t stop me enjoying my life! Quite a lot of people know I’m extremely open about sex, as it should be! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So were intrigued, are people on here quiet and secretive of their fab lifestyles with friends or do you activeley include friends and invite them to join/take part and introduce them to the lifestyle - for us most who know us know we swing xx"
Guess it depends what type of friend you have. Lexi. We don't as they wouldn't get it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We find the more people we tell, the more open to the idea people become, curiousness sets in and they ask more and more, or all of a sudden you get “blah blah told me you into swinging would you have a meet with me etc” |
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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago
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"So were intrigued, are people on here quiet and secretive of their fab lifestyles with friends or do you activeley include friends and invite them to join/take part and introduce them to the lifestyle - for us most who know us know we swing xx
Guess it depends what type of friend you have. Lexi. We don't as they wouldn't get it."
Mine don’t get it, but they’re intrigued and understanding. Like hearing the stories and living vicariously through me I think 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I couldn’t care less who knows. Just because they’re prudes and is all taboo for them, doesn’t stop me enjoying my life! Quite a lot of people know I’m extremely open about sex, as it should be! "
Some people have respect for discretion and privacy. Doesn't make them prudes.
I don't want to know any details of other people's sex lives. I think it's fucking rude to assume everyone wants such information. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fab is fab
Normal life is normal life they never meet or cross for family and professional reasons
Exactly this! 
I like having the two seperate.  "
This for us too! |
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My close friends and family are aware of our swinging, but as I wear a permanently locked steel collar, I'm very open about my relationship with Master and our dynamic. He's my life partner, and hiding the M/s aspect of our relationship would be nearly impossible, nor would I want to. Not everyone is as open as we are, and I respect that. Everyone makes their own decisions in regard to whom they choose to disclose any information about their personal and sexual lives and I'm not going to judge anyone for their choices as it's not my place.
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