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By *obleton OP Man
over a year ago
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First off I'd just like to qualify this by pointing out that the worst blow job I've ever had was FANTASTIC - so anyone reading this who may have on occasion had a little suck on Tobleton Junior, need not feel slighted.
However....
Is it just me, or do other guys find it nigh on impossible to cum from oral alone?
I'm not talking about getting to the point of no return than then being finished off orally - but a full start to finish BJ.
I love them but for some reason I can count on one hand the number of women who have been able to do it to me - and even for them it took a lot of time and patience.
Am I normal? do I have a malfunctioning member?
would anybody like to try to cure me lol! |
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over a year ago
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First off I'd just like to qualify this by pointing out that the worst blow job I've ever had was FANTASTIC - so anyone reading this who may have on occasion had a little suck on Tobleton Junior, need not feel slighted.
However....
Is it just me, or do other guys find it nigh on impossible to cum from oral alone?
I'm not talking about getting to the point of no return than then being finished off orally - but a full start to finish BJ.
I love them but for some reason I can count on one hand the number of women who have been able to do it to me - and even for them it took a lot of time and patience.
Am I normal? do I have a malfunctioning member?
would anybody like to try to cure me lol!"
I am exactly the same! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's just you, or you haven't had a really good blow job queen give you a nosh. My hubby lives off bj's for one week of the month.
It might help you cum if you were face fucking (excuse my crassness but I couldn't think of a more delicate way of putting it) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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First off I'd just like to qualify this by pointing out that the worst blow job I've ever had was FANTASTIC - so anyone reading this who may have on occasion had a little suck on Tobleton Junior, need not feel slighted.
However....
Is it just me, or do other guys find it nigh on impossible to cum from oral alone?
I'm not talking about getting to the point of no return than then being finished off orally - but a full start to finish BJ.
I love them but for some reason I can count on one hand the number of women who have been able to do it to me - and even for them it took a lot of time and patience.
Am I normal? do I have a malfunctioning member?
would anybody like to try to cure me lol!"
Exactly the same here mate!
I've heard stories that woman can do this, they all think they can (well alot do) and no-one can.
Yeah it can be done after other things, but from start to finish its a no from me. I am a long stayer in general though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Apparently its from watching too much porn 
I have had men tell me that they usually struggle with cumming from just oral.... afterwards...
Either way, I just try to please  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apparently its from watching too much porn
yeah it might help if you guys would stop wanking as often !!!  "
hmmm dammed if we do dammed if we don't - if we do we don't cum easily enough for a bj and if we don't then we're probably going to cum too soon for sex lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Apparently its from watching too much porn
yeah it might help if you guys would stop wanking as often !!!
hmmm dammed if we do dammed if we don't - if we do we don't cum easily enough for a bj and if we don't then we're probably going to cum too soon for sex lol"
Easy, start with a blowjob.
Give her plenty of oral... long enough for your recovery time AND to please her...
Then fuck, simple! |
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By *obleton OP Man
over a year ago
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"Its all in the technique oral is not just about sucking cock its about teasing and playing the base and sucking balls teasing and if all else fails try a bit of rimming or a finger up the ass works every time. The whole oral experience. "
see none of that works on me at all - or rather I like most of that, but it won't make me cum - quite the opposite - it distracts me from it.
only 5 women have ever been able to make me cum through oral alone - and while they all had very different techniques - the one thing they had in common was that they would work with a very steady metronomic rhythmn and not distract me by faffing about with other things, or break the rhythmn and send me back to square one by deciding to lick my balls at a crucial moment. |
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"Its all in the technique oral is not just about sucking cock its about teasing and playing the base and sucking balls teasing and if all else fails try a bit of rimming or a finger up the ass works every time. The whole oral experience.
see none of that works on me at all - or rather I like most of that, but it won't make me cum - quite the opposite - it distracts me from it.
only 5 women have ever been able to make me cum through oral alone - and while they all had very different techniques - the one thing they had in common was that they would work with a very steady metronomic rhythmn and not distract me by faffing about with other things, or break the rhythmn and send me back to square one by deciding to lick my balls at a crucial moment."
..... or falling asleep |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First off I'd just like to qualify this by pointing out that the worst blow job I've ever had was FANTASTIC - so anyone reading this who may have on occasion had a little suck on Tobleton Junior, need not feel slighted.
However....
Is it just me, or do other guys find it nigh on impossible to cum from oral alone?
I'm not talking about getting to the point of no return than then being finished off orally - but a full start to finish BJ.
I love them but for some reason I can count on one hand the number of women who have been able to do it to me - and even for them it took a lot of time and patience.
Am I normal? do I have a malfunctioning member?
would anybody like to try to cure me lol!
I am exactly the same!"
and me
i need a bit of wrist action too as well as mouth action |
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By *obleton OP Man
over a year ago
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"I never normally find a problem..but then if a guy tells me he cant come from oral.. then I dont meet.. lol
Cali x"
what if I wass to pull out of your bum and the last moment and cum in your mouth?
oh shit - did I just say that outloud?  |
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By *obleton OP Man
over a year ago
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"Have met a rather gorg young man who said the same.... um. Cured him. 
is there a waiting list for treatment?
yes but its not available on the nhs "
is it a quick in-out procedure? |
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"Have met a rather gorg young man who said the same.... um. Cured him.
is there a waiting list for treatment?
yes but its not available on the nhs
is it a quick in-out procedure?"
Its as long as I say it is |
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By *obleton OP Man
over a year ago
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"Have met a rather gorg young man who said the same.... um. Cured him.
is there a waiting list for treatment?
yes but its not available on the nhs
is it a quick in-out procedure?
Its as long as I say it is "
who am I to argue with my physician? |
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"Have met a rather gorg young man who said the same.... um. Cured him.
is there a waiting list for treatment?
yes but its not available on the nhs
is it a quick in-out procedure?
Its as long as I say it is
who am I to argue with my physician?"
Wise. I dont take any nonsense... unless its mine |
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By *obleton OP Man
over a year ago
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"Have met a rather gorg young man who said the same.... um. Cured him.
is there a waiting list for treatment?
yes but its not available on the nhs
is it a quick in-out procedure?
Its as long as I say it is
who am I to argue with my physician?
Wise. I dont take any nonsense... unless its mine "
so running down the street (as far as it's possible to run with my kecks around my ankles) immediately afterwards shouting "I'm cured! I'm cured!" is out then? |
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First off I'd just like to qualify this by pointing out that the worst blow job I've ever had was FANTASTIC - so anyone reading this who may have on occasion had a little suck on Tobleton Junior, need not feel slighted.
However....
Is it just me, or do other guys find it nigh on impossible to cum from oral alone?
I'm not talking about getting to the point of no return than then being finished off orally - but a full start to finish BJ.
I love them but for some reason I can count on one hand the number of women who have been able to do it to me - and even for them it took a lot of time and patience.
Am I normal? do I have a malfunctioning member?
would anybody like to try to cure me lol!"
We really have to meet
Seriously it is only with help from kev that i have got over my problem...guys kept coming in my mouth minute into our meets |
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"Have met a rather gorg young man who said the same.... um. Cured him.
is there a waiting list for treatment?
yes but its not available on the nhs
is it a quick in-out procedure?
Its as long as I say it is
who am I to argue with my physician?
Wise. I dont take any nonsense... unless its mine
so running down the street (as far as it's possible to run with my kecks around my ankles) immediately afterwards shouting "I'm cured! I'm cured!" is out then?"
erm... yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Aside from all the very typical comments that were inevitable on this thread about how great women are at bj's and how there's not a man in the world that they couldn't bring to orgasm, I think lots of men feel the same in relation to oral sex.
Its not indicitive of how good your oral sex technique is as to whether a guy cums. My OH needs a good firm up and down vigorous stroke to get him to orgasm and I can't always achieve it because I don't have the strength in my mouth to do it as hard and fast as he likes. I'm also not keen on up and down monotonous headbobbing, as I get pleasure from a more sensual tongue and mouth massage.
If I watch him masturbate he's always so much rougher than I would be with my gentle feminine girly hands. So he tends to prefer to cum via penetrative sex as he can control the strength and depth of his thrusts and he enjoys oral sex as a more sensual sexual activity |
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By (user no longer on site)
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i have never started oral on a guy and not finished it off. i used to be the same used to take me ages with someone down on me but now i never seem to last long at all. maybe being more relaxed and alot of teasing before hand and dont think bout nothing else only how its feeling.xx |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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First off I'd just like to qualify this by pointing out that the worst blow job I've ever had was FANTASTIC - so anyone reading this who may have on occasion had a little suck on Tobleton Junior, need not feel slighted.
However....
Is it just me, or do other guys find it nigh on impossible to cum from oral alone?
I'm not talking about getting to the point of no return than then being finished off orally - but a full start to finish BJ.
I love them but for some reason I can count on one hand the number of women who have been able to do it to me - and even for them it took a lot of time and patience.
Am I normal? do I have a malfunctioning member?
would anybody like to try to cure me lol!"
No don't think you have a malfunctioning member..lol Probably more common than you think.
Met a few guys who haven't been able to cum from just oral sex.
Like to do my bit, so always happy to offer my services to try and help cure your problem |
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For some reason I'm the same for BJ only. It just feels a bit one sided... But for some reason in a 69 I have no problem at all! I guess it's just the heightened sense of arousal for both involved. And feeling her getting turned on also |
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By (user no longer on site)
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never had a problem making a guy come from a blow job only,, but yip everyones diffrent ,,im the opposite tho lol iv never came from sex alone lol i only cum with oral,,mmmm
auds xx  |
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ive never had a problen from women giving oral from start to finish if they have a good technice and tease a bit when it happens move there head well back. is i spurt and am a heavy cummer can hit the headboard from the bottom of the bed lol x |
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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago
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First off I'd just like to qualify this by pointing out that the worst blow job I've ever had was FANTASTIC - so anyone reading this who may have on occasion had a little suck on Tobleton Junior, need not feel slighted.
However....
Is it just me, or do other guys find it nigh on impossible to cum from oral alone?
I'm not talking about getting to the point of no return than then being finished off orally - but a full start to finish BJ.
I love them but for some reason I can count on one hand the number of women who have been able to do it to me - and even for them it took a lot of time and patience.
Am I normal? do I have a malfunctioning member?
would anybody like to try to cure me lol!
I am exactly the same!"
+1 |
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By (user no longer on site)
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First off I'd just like to qualify this by pointing out that the worst blow job I've ever had was FANTASTIC - so anyone reading this who may have on occasion had a little suck on Tobleton Junior, need not feel slighted.
However....
Is it just me, or do other guys find it nigh on impossible to cum from oral alone?
I'm not talking about getting to the point of no return than then being finished off orally - but a full start to finish BJ.
I love them but for some reason I can count on one hand the number of women who have been able to do it to me - and even for them it took a lot of time and patience.
Am I normal? do I have a malfunctioning member?
would anybody like to try to cure me lol!"
why would you want to bring a guy off from oral alone? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My ex swing partner claimed no woman could make him cum from start to finish all orally, glad to say i took his cherry and after that there was no going back lol
Mmmmmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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why would you want to bring a guy off from oral alone?
Who? Me personally ?  "
anyone......
i can honestly say its not something i even try to do
Some guys on here are selfish enough in the sack without making them cum from a bj so they can get dressed and go, im not that easy, you have to put much more into a meet with me than get your cock out for a suck |
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Don't know if we're unique on here from all the posts earlier. We get as much pleasure from making our playmates cum. From an anatomical point of view, this usually means the ladies get theirs first! Seems to work! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some guys can ans some guys cant....
Tho ive never cum from oral ever...so would guys be different  "
see just goes to show how we are all diferent as i can only come thro oral and have never come thro penetrative sex ever
Even tho, as i posted about, trying to make a guy cum thro a blow job is not something i try to do, i prefer it to last a litttle longer than that, but even tho i havnt made an effort to i have still had guys cum just from a bj, and some guys just seem to last much longer, ive met some guys who just havnt cum at all, i bloody had one guy and we was at it for 15 damn hours and he still never cum, i left him to have a wank in the end while i went or a shower and he still didnt cum lol everyones diferent, does not mean your no good at blow jobs if a man does not cum, nor does it make them some kind of super stud, it just means everyones diferent, and i can honestly say i really dont want a guy to cum from just having oral |
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I have never been able to come from a bj bar a couple of times, and that took too much effort for the ladies concerned to want to go through it again, the lazy sods! Some of us just need a different kind of sensation I think, something more vigorous than a mouth can provide. I also don't like being passive, I feel the need to do something, to thrust, otherwise not much happens for me. Strange how we are all so different, sensitivity-wise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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In response to original post i don't think your unusual, well unless i think myself unusual as at this point in time i have never cum from oral alone.
Some women have found it unusual, others not, so i believe that it must be more common than you suspect.
I too am willing to listen to offers to change this experience. |
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There appears to be a lot of us about, only one lady has managed to make me cum by blow job alone.... mores the pity so usually end up helping out with a hand.
So to stir things up, I don't believe these ladies who say they can...... I say prove it!
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By (user no longer on site)
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A girl i used to see never failed she was very slim and had very small boobs, gave the softest lightest suck i ever had could make me cum every time with it, never had a suck like it before or since,
Think other girls stuggle because they can only take the first 8 inches (20cm if thre are any frenchmen reading) i once came so hard whilest reciveing oral i blew a massive hole in the back of the chicks skull xx |
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Frank here....I dont particularly seek to cum with a BJ, I much prefer a BJ as part of the foreplay etc. However I have only once cum when my fem playmate insisted of giving me a BJ to completion and it was quite simply.....awesome, after which I was wasted for the next hour. |
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I love it when someone takes their time and licks and sucks me to completion. I find it more intense if they don't use their hands just mouth and tongue. MMMMM |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Most women dont know how to give a blowjob, let alone get a guy to cum.
1: The guy needs to be vocal on what he likes
2: Most men dont know what it takes to get them off
3: If you want to learn blowjobs to finish, there are blowjob guides out there or failing that, ask gay guys/TVs
They know how to go about it. |
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First off I'd just like to qualify this by pointing out that the worst blow job I've ever had was FANTASTIC - so anyone reading this who may have on occasion had a little suck on Tobleton Junior, need not feel slighted.
However.... well fella your lucky to count using 1 hand how many women have made you cum through oral. I have never ever came through a blowjob full stop. Not really sure as i have had some fantastic blowjobs over the years and for some unknown reason i have never ever got there. Maybe 2012 will bring a little surprise but until it happens i shall enjoy trying
Is it just me, or do other guys find it nigh on impossible to cum from oral alone?
I'm not talking about getting to the point of no return than then being finished off orally - but a full start to finish BJ.
I love them but for some reason I can count on one hand the number of women who have been able to do it to me - and even for them it took a lot of time and patience.
Am I normal? do I have a malfunctioning member?
would anybody like to try to cure me lol!"
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I'd say the same could be applied to women Plus it can be hard work given oral constantly till orgasm. I personally take ages to come just through oral and a bit of fingering my pussy helps matters hehe |
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Its all down to communication, i cum no problem with a bj, when she hits the tickly bit you simply say yeah thats it babe keep doing that, if shes a good girl she swallows the lot and keeps doing it even after orgasm |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have no problem if it is done well. Which helps if you encourage when it feels really good. I do seem to get more worked up when giving oral at the same time to be honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have met guys who come easily from b.js,guys who take a while and met others who just can come easily by oral alone.
I think a lot of it is communication,some guys like a varied technique with all whistles and bells and some just a plain old suck but you don't know which unless they tell you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Filf says he can count on one hand the ones who can bring him to orgasm from oral alone, he doesn't have that problem with me though!!! Just had my daily protein!!! |
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