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over a year ago
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You can reach a point where you have a certain mumber of people you chat with or meet and there isn't enough time in the week to spend quality time with any of them.
By limiting myself to one or two regular playfriends, it is more manageable and pleasurable.
I'm not currently at saturation point though |
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"You can reach a point where you have a certain mumber of people you chat with or meet and there isn't enough time in the week to spend quality time with any of them.
By limiting myself to one or two regular playfriends, it is more manageable and pleasurable.
I'm not currently at saturation point though"
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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It's more a saturation point for me from people who message every day and want to have a chat about absolutely nothing, but in reality have no intention of actually meeting me.
I'm not looking to chat, I like going to clubs. I don't like to be rude to people, so it ends up with my time often being taken answering the same "how is your day going" message from the same person 5 times a day. I try to subtly explain that I'm not up for chatting but it's hard for people to want to get the message.
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"You can reach a point where you have a certain mumber of people you chat with or meet and there isn't enough time in the week to spend quality time with any of them.
By limiting myself to one or two regular playfriends, it is more manageable and pleasurable.
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Yes!
I have set childfree weekends, and I've planned them all out through to January.
I get free time during the week, but it varies so I never know more than a few days in advance when it will be.
I'm a planner, I don't do instant meets, plus have an ltp, so right now I've really not got any interest in spending time chatting to anyone new, knowing it will be a waste of both our times, as I won't be meeting them.
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"Does anyone get to the point where they are happy with the amount of contacts they have made and doesnt want to meet anyone else? "
Absolutely not, For us this is about meeting new people and new experiences, not repeating old ones. I've already got that in perfection at home. |
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Every time I think I’ve reached a nice set of regular friends and am not looking for new contacts, something happens and a couple of them move on...
Maybe I should be less voracious.  |
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"Every time I think I’ve reached a nice set of regular friends and am not looking for new contacts, something happens and a couple of them move on...
Maybe I should be less voracious. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone get to the point where they are happy with the amount of contacts they have made and doesnt want to meet anyone else? "
No,as all never stick around so the number of contacts always changes. Lexi |
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