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"I've been chatting with a lovely lady for a while was arranging a meet with her for today. I said jo_ingly id have to bulk buy some condoms.she then went of on one how we could only fuck if went bare and made sure I fill her with cum. Alarm bells started to ring at this point. Why would anyone risk it with some one that have never met.maybe she was just after getting preggers." | |||
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"Point her in my direction " Does your wife know | |||
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"Point her in my direction Does your wife know " What makes you think in married then | |||
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"Point her in my direction Does your wife know What makes you think in married then" Can't accommodate = married male Can't accommodate = careful female #fabfacts | |||
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"Point her in my direction Does your wife know What makes you think in married then" That reply clearly wasn’t for you, read the quote references back! But anyway, count your blessings for that red flag, rather than it occurring on the night... (: | |||
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"Point her in my direction Does your wife know What makes you think in married then Can't accommodate = married male Can't accommodate = careful female #fabfacts" That's not true! I can't accommodate because I house share.... #fact Not everyone on here who can't accommodate is in some relationship! Other factors play in to it!!! | |||
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"Point her in my direction Does your wife know What makes you think in married then Can't accommodate = married male Can't accommodate = careful female #fabfacts That's not true! I can't accommodate because I house share.... #fact Not everyone on here who can't accommodate is in some relationship! Other factors play in to it!!!" it's a #fabfact not a real fact. Everyone knows that men are cheats. If they can't accommodate it proves it. Whereas a woman can choose not to accommodate and no one bats an eyelid. | |||
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"Point her in my direction Does your wife know What makes you think in married then Can't accommodate = married male Can't accommodate = careful female #fabfacts" That fabfact is in fact alot of balls. That is a fact. | |||
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"Point her in my direction Does your wife know What makes you think in married then Can't accommodate = married male Can't accommodate = careful female #fabfacts That's not true! I can't accommodate because I house share.... #fact Not everyone on here who can't accommodate is in some relationship! Other factors play in to it!!! it's a #fabfact not a real fact. Everyone knows that men are cheats. If they can't accommodate it proves it. Whereas a woman can choose not to accommodate and no one bats an eyelid. " If I roll my eyes any harder they will stay in the back of my head... | |||
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"Don't get me wrong I'm not against bare back fun with some one you trust and met before just felt a bit dodgy " Then its pretty clear you won't be meeting her now as she is stic_ing with her unprotected demands. | |||
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"Never ever has a man turned up with a condom ! I have loads lol" I always use my own condoms then I know I can trust them | |||
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"Never ever has a man turned up with a condom ! I have loads lol I always use my own condoms then I know I can trust them" It's always better to trust your own - I've been using the same one for 17 years and it's never let me down. | |||
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"Never ever has a man turned up with a condom ! I have loads lol I always use my own condoms then I know I can trust them It's always better to trust your own - I've been using the same one for 17 years and it's never let me down." Lol! | |||
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"I ( Mr ) barebacked a girl 20 years ago and have only just stopped paying for my mistake. £400 a month or £96,000 later ... wasn’t even a good shag ... " Aids treatment is expensive | |||
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"I ( Mr ) barebacked a girl 20 years ago and have only just stopped paying for my mistake. £400 a month or £96,000 later ... wasn’t even a good shag ... " Bet your son/daughter loves being called a mistake!!! | |||
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"I ( Mr ) barebacked a girl 20 years ago and have only just stopped paying for my mistake. £400 a month or £96,000 later ... wasn’t even a good shag ... Bet your son/daughter loves being called a mistake!!! " I was just thin_ing the same | |||
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"I ( Mr ) barebacked a girl 20 years ago and have only just stopped paying for my mistake. £400 a month or £96,000 later ... wasn’t even a good shag ... " | |||
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"I ( Mr ) barebacked a girl 20 years ago and have only just stopped paying for my mistake. £400 a month or £96,000 later ... wasn’t even a good shag ... Bet your son/daughter loves being called a mistake!!! " To him the child was! | |||
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"I've been chatting with a lovely lady for a while was arranging a meet with her for today. I said jo_ingly id have to bulk buy some condoms.she then went of on one how we could only fuck if went bare and made sure I fill her with cum. Alarm bells started to ring at this point. Why would anyone risk it with some one that have never met.maybe she was just after getting preggers." peggets ! Fuck me chap . If she's having bareback , I wouldn't touch her . Till her to feck herself the mad woman . She's chicken oriental mate | |||
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"I've been chatting with a lovely lady for a while was arranging a meet with her for today. I said jo_ingly id have to bulk buy some condoms.she then went of on one how we could only fuck if went bare and made sure I fill her with cum. Alarm bells started to ring at this point. Why would anyone risk it with some one that have never met.maybe she was just after getting preggers." I had a couple a while back do the exact same thing. | |||
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"Point her in my direction Does your wife know What makes you think in married then Can't accommodate = married male Can't accommodate = careful female #fabfacts That's not true! I can't accommodate because I house share.... #fact Not everyone on here who can't accommodate is in some relationship! Other factors play in to it!!! it's a #fabfact not a real fact. Everyone knows that men are cheats. If they can't accommodate it proves it. Whereas a woman can choose not to accommodate and no one bats an eyelid. " Not every man is a cheat your logic is flawed | |||
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"Don't see the problem, you can tell how many STDs a person has by how good loo_ing they are. If she was hot then what's the risk. " ..really are you that stupid, just becouse somebody looks good it dosent mean they dont have the clap or other nasty things ,safe sex is a must if swinging.. | |||
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"Fuck with a condom on, fuck without a condom. Your choice and nobody else. These threads about barebac_ing are fuc_ing annoying and too many times they are started by men with no or very little meets just trying to get attention." Here Here old chap | |||
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"Don't see the problem, you can tell how many STDs a person has by how good loo_ing they are. If she was hot then what's the risk. ..really are you that stupid, just becouse somebody looks good it dosent mean they dont have the clap or other nasty things ,safe sex is a must if swinging.." I think he was jo_ing | |||
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"My mate has got 3 girls pregnant this year! So watch your ass lmfao" Ass is probably safe, if pregnancy is your only concern. | |||
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"Point her in my direction Does your wife know What makes you think in married then Can't accommodate = married male Can't accommodate = careful female #fabfacts" Not true, I just would much rather just go to a hotel. Sometimes it takes a while to realise someone is a phycho and I don’t want them having my address. Lol but I do get your gist x | |||
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"Point her in my direction Does your wife know What makes you think in married then Can't accommodate = married male Can't accommodate = careful female #fabfacts" I can't accommodate as I live with family. Must mean I'm married. | |||
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"No glove no love - Simple " thats so a toilet attendant on a saturday night saying. but it true did make me lol | |||
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"Fuck with a condom on, fuck without a condom. Your choice and nobody else. These threads about barebac_ing are fuc_ing annoying and too many times they are started by men with no or very little meets just trying to get attention." My thoughts exactly. | |||
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"Point her in my direction Does your wife know " It might be his wife | |||
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"Fuck that shit...." Only if it's bareback anal. | |||
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"We had a guy contact us for a meet..we looked at his profile..we replied back, you say on your profile Safe Sex only..so your not for us sorry, we are a bareback couple ..he replied back...I do bareback too ... a lot of folk say they only do safe sex because they think it's what people want to see/read.. but when in fact, if offered sex bareback,they would not refuse. " That is so true, couples, single men and single women and indeed your profile, a very attractive one it is too | |||
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"We had a guy contact us for a meet..we looked at his profile..we replied back, you say on your profile Safe Sex only..so your not for us sorry, we are a bareback couple ..he replied back...I do bareback too ... a lot of folk say they only do safe sex because they think it's what people want to see/read.. but when in fact, if offered sex bareback,they would not refuse. " hit the nail on the head there very true | |||
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"Point her in my direction Does your wife know What makes you think in married then Can't accommodate = married male Can't accommodate = careful female #fabfacts That's not true! I can't accommodate because I house share.... #fact Not everyone on here who can't accommodate is in some relationship! Other factors play in to it!!! it's a #fabfact not a real fact. Everyone knows that men are cheats. If they can't accommodate it proves it. Whereas a woman can choose not to accommodate and no one bats an eyelid. Not every man is a cheat your logic is flawed " I'm not in the habit of justifying myself but for the hard of hearing, here is an explanation... #fabfact - a fact that is taken to be true, based on the misconceptions of a majority of people on fab. It isn't my stated opinion or indeed an actual fact. Loo_ing round the forums, you will see #fabfacts littered everywhere as people jump to conclusions. some #fabfacts based on forum posts only. #fabfact bi men are more likely to jump on straight men in a mmf threesome. Actual fact - Generally bi men respect boundaries as much as any other men and if they aren't attracted to your fella are less likely to pounce. #fabfact If a man cannot accommodate, it is assumed he is married. Actual fact - It means he chooses not to for a myriad of reasons. It isn't a difficult concept. | |||
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"My profile says safe sex and I always have the conversation before a meet. Sadly most guys turn up without condoms, moan about not li_ing them and try to persuade me otherwise. It's a turn off at that point as I then feel trust is lost and start wondering if they are going to take it off! " Don't be afraid of either reporting them or showing them the door. Again, this goes back to informed choice. There is no excuse nowadays for not wearing condoms. | |||
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"My profile says safe sex and I always have the conversation before a meet. Sadly most guys turn up without condoms, moan about not li_ing them and try to persuade me otherwise. It's a turn off at that point as I then feel trust is lost and start wondering if they are going to take it off! Don't be afraid of either reporting them or showing them the door. Again, this goes back to informed choice. There is no excuse nowadays for not wearing condoms." I have a couple of times refused and sent them home. just ruins it x | |||
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"Totally understand why women can't accom you need to know who your inviting in to your house " Some women love that risk or prepared to risk it, due to other commitments.... Not me though! | |||
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"We had a guy contact us for a meet..we looked at his profile..we replied back, you say on your profile Safe Sex only..so your not for us sorry, we are a bareback couple ..he replied back...I do bareback too ... a lot of folk say they only do safe sex because they think it's what people want to see/read.. but when in fact, if offered sex bareback,they would not refuse. " Why does your profile have Safe Sex ticked if you only bareback? Also if you are bareback only you should state that clearly in your profile text so sane people can avoid you. Seriously wonder about the basic intelligence of some people on this website. | |||
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"I've been chatting with a lovely lady for a while was arranging a meet with her for today. I said jo_ingly id have to bulk buy some condoms.she then went of on one how we could only fuck if went bare and made sure I fill her with cum. Alarm bells started to ring at this point. Why would anyone risk it with some one that have never met.maybe she was just after getting preggers." Soooooooo, alarm bells rang..... You don't say whether you've cancelled the meet or not..... | |||
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"Don't see the problem, you can tell how many STDs a person has by how good loo_ing they are. If she was hot then what's the risk. ..really are you that stupid, just becouse somebody looks good it dosent mean they dont have the clap or other nasty things ,safe sex is a must if swinging.." Only unattractive women have STDs. I saw it on a documentary on BBC three. | |||
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"Don't see the problem, you can tell how many STDs a person has by how good loo_ing they are. If she was hot then what's the risk. ..really are you that stupid, just becouse somebody looks good it dosent mean they dont have the clap or other nasty things ,safe sex is a must if swinging.. Only unattractive women have STDs. I saw it on a documentary on BBC three." yay Can I steal that as a #fabfact? | |||
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"Don't see the problem, you can tell how many STDs a person has by how good loo_ing they are. If she was hot then what's the risk. ..really are you that stupid, just becouse somebody looks good it dosent mean they dont have the clap or other nasty things ,safe sex is a must if swinging.. Only unattractive women have STDs. I saw it on a documentary on BBC three. yay Can I steal that as a #fabfact?" It's just a fact-fact. Bree olsen was barebac_ing HIV positive sheen for years and didn't get infected, why - because she's hot as fuck. | |||
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"We had a guy contact us for a meet..we looked at his profile..we replied back, you say on your profile Safe Sex only..so your not for us sorry, we are a bareback couple ..he replied back...I do bareback too ... a lot of folk say they only do safe sex because they think it's what people want to see/read.. but when in fact, if offered sex bareback,they would not refuse. Why does your profile have Safe Sex ticked if you only bareback? Also if you are bareback only you should state that clearly in your profile text so sane people can avoid you. Seriously wonder about the basic intelligence of some people on this website." Our choice folks.. we don't mind meeting those that want to wear a condom and those that do not..as for the safe sex tick, I did not even notice that was ticked.. thanks for pointing that out..the sane people can ask if we do bareback or not.. | |||
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"Don't get me wrong I'm not against bare back fun with some one you trust and met before just felt a bit dodgy " If in doubt walk away its not worth it for the potential dangers and questionable intent. | |||
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"We had a guy contact us for a meet..we looked at his profile..we replied back, you say on your profile Safe Sex only..so your not for us sorry, we are a bareback couple ..he replied back...I do bareback too ... a lot of folk say they only do safe sex because they think it's what people want to see/read.. but when in fact, if offered sex bareback,they would not refuse. Why does your profile have Safe Sex ticked if you only bareback? Also if you are bareback only you should state that clearly in your profile text so sane people can avoid you. Seriously wonder about the basic intelligence of some people on this website. Our choice folks.. we don't mind meeting those that want to wear a condom and those that do not..as for the safe sex tick, I did not even notice that was ticked.. thanks for pointing that out..the sane people can ask if we do bareback or not.. " Ah yes, the good old "choice" argument again. Blair has a lot more to answer for than Iraq. | |||
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"Fuck with a condom on, fuck without a condom. Your choice and nobody else. These threads about barebac_ing are fuc_ing annoying and too many times they are started by men with no or very little meets just trying to get attention." Here we go again.male bashing episode .if the op was female no qualms. Pathetic lol | |||
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"yep our choice and others too.. we do bareback .. " #and | |||
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"We had a guy contact us for a meet..we looked at his profile..we replied back, you say on your profile Safe Sex only..so your not for us sorry, we are a bareback couple ..he replied back...I do bareback too ... a lot of folk say they only do safe sex because they think it's what people want to see/read.. but when in fact, if offered sex bareback,they would not refuse. " Very true | |||
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"I'm just glad that I can't get pregnant ....." Indeed, it's not much fun to be honest it's fuc_ing awful But on thread, I personally wouldn't engage in sexual activity with anyone bareback except the Mr. It's just a preference of ours, we play safe as our sexual health is a priority. It only takes one person to change your life.forever... | |||
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"We had a guy contact us for a meet..we looked at his profile..we replied back, you say on your profile Safe Sex only..so your not for us sorry, we are a bareback couple ..he replied back...I do bareback too ... a lot of folk say they only do safe sex because they think it's what people want to see/read.. but when in fact, if offered sex bareback,they would not refuse. Why does your profile have Safe Sex ticked if you only bareback? Also if you are bareback only you should state that clearly in your profile text so sane people can avoid you. Seriously wonder about the basic intelligence of some people on this website. Our choice folks.. we don't mind meeting those that want to wear a condom and those that do not..as for the safe sex tick, I did not even notice that was ticked.. thanks for pointing that out..the sane people can ask if we do bareback or not.. Ah yes, the good old "choice" argument again. Blair has a lot more to answer for than Iraq. " Politics and condoms how interesting | |||
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"Point her in my direction Does your wife know What makes you think in married then Can't accommodate = married male Can't accommodate = careful female #fabfacts" Can't accomodate = couple with kids | |||
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"One thing I find silly is when people put on their profile, or wherever... "STI checked on and clear on ...(enter date here") ..... surely only good for that date ...I'm not being very clear but you know what I mean" Yeah cleared results on Friday met and shagged on Saturday infected Sunday..we see a lot of profiles saying, you must be regularly tested otherwise we would not meet you..does that mean they have to bring the results on every meet...and if its every 3/6mths when they get tested ..what happens in between | |||
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"One thing I find silly is when people put on their profile, or wherever... "STI checked on and clear on ...(enter date here") ..... surely only good for that date ...I'm not being very clear but you know what I mean Yeah cleared results on Friday met and shagged on Saturday infected Sunday..we see a lot of profiles saying, you must be regularly tested otherwise we would not meet you..does that mean they have to bring the results on every meet...and if its every 3/6mths when they get tested ..what happens in between " I suppose it just shows a respect for their sexual health, no, it doesn’t mean you’re safe. But if you’ve never been tested or not for years then the chances are higher surely? (Depending on promiscuity I suppose) | |||
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"I've been chatting with a lovely lady for a while was arranging a meet with her for today. I said jo_ingly id have to bulk buy some condoms.she then went of on one how we could only fuck if went bare and made sure I fill her with cum. Alarm bells started to ring at this point. Why would anyone risk it with some one that have never met.maybe she was just after getting preggers." It’s just to risky to do this | |||
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"yep our choice and others too.. we do bareback .. #and" Good for you, well done. How do you feel about driving 60 in a thirty past a school at 3.15 Just for example? You have the choice to do that as well. The fact that a choice is available to you doesn't mean that it is socially responsible. But I guess that argument will go pretty much over your head. Hopefully you'll live along life, not be infected, nor infect anyone else. Hope it goes well for you. And them. | |||
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"yep our choice and others too.. we do bareback .. #and Good for you, well done. How do you feel about driving 60 in a thirty past a school at 3.15 Just for example? You have the choice to do that as well. The fact that a choice is available to you doesn't mean that it is socially responsible. But I guess that argument will go pretty much over your head. Hopefully you'll live along life, not be infected, nor infect anyone else. Hope it goes well for you. And them." Wow that sounded bitter | |||
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"Can't accommodate = married male Can't accommodate = careful female #fabfacts" Sometimes perhaps, but there are single fathers (like myself) and house sharers (ditto) for whom hosting is difficult or impossible | |||
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"Can't accommodate = married male Can't accommodate = careful female #fabfacts Sometimes perhaps, but there are single fathers (like myself) and house sharers (ditto) for whom hosting is difficult or impossible " I explained earlier on what #fabfacts were | |||
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"Can't accommodate = married male Can't accommodate = careful female #fabfacts Sometimes perhaps, but there are single fathers (like myself) and house sharers (ditto) for whom hosting is difficult or impossible I explained earlier on what #fabfacts were " Hey relax about your fab facts | |||
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"One thing I find silly is when people put on their profile, or wherever... "STI checked on and clear on ...(enter date here") ..... surely only good for that date ...I'm not being very clear but you know what I mean" or indeed that minute!!!! lol | |||
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"Not having a dig OP but nothing on your profile me mentions safe sex. Maybe she throught that’s how you played. Sometimes you have to make it clear on here. " Well said | |||
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"yep our choice and others too.. we do bareback .. #and Good for you, well done. How do you feel about driving 60 in a thirty past a school at 3.15 Just for example? You have the choice to do that as well. The fact that a choice is available to you doesn't mean that it is socially responsible. But I guess that argument will go pretty much over your head. Hopefully you'll live along life, not be infected, nor infect anyone else. Hope it goes well for you. And them." Do you smoke..do you drink..do you suck cock without a condom..do you ride a motorbike..do you have a high fat diet.. . | |||
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"yep our choice and others too.. we do bareback .. #and Good for you, well done. How do you feel about driving 60 in a thirty past a school at 3.15 Just for example? You have the choice to do that as well. The fact that a choice is available to you doesn't mean that it is socially responsible. But I guess that argument will go pretty much over your head. Hopefully you'll live along life, not be infected, nor infect anyone else. Hope it goes well for you. And them." Thanks for your concerns..but it is still our choice and other peoples choices if they choose to go bareback..it does not concern you or effect you as you will always use protection..don't forget to use protection when suc_ing cock | |||
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"yep our choice and others too.. we do bareback .. #and Good for you, well done. How do you feel about driving 60 in a thirty past a school at 3.15 Just for example? You have the choice to do that as well. The fact that a choice is available to you doesn't mean that it is socially responsible. But I guess that argument will go pretty much over your head. Hopefully you'll live along life, not be infected, nor infect anyone else. Hope it goes well for you. And them. Do you smoke..do you drink..do you suck cock without a condom..do you ride a motorbike..do you have a high fat diet.. . " These carry no HIV risk! Oral higher risk if bleeding gums & other infections ie tonsillitis etc. But multiple jizz vag bareback partners especially if grazes in there more so anal as that tears easier surely is risky. Ive asked as why the gamble is appealing but no-one answers just its their choice. | |||
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"And at least you are in a position to make an informed decision. If we de-stigmatise bareback, everyone can be more open about it. That way if it isn't for you,you know the people who want to bareback and can then say thanks but no thanks. It is the same as straight guys who reveal they are bi when it suits their needs. Because everyone condemns barebackers, they hide so they don't risk blowing their chance of a fuck. " 100% agree. We're all ta_ing risks in the casual sex scene. Risks that we might catch something (even if we're careful.) Risks that we might meet a psycho, or their psycho other half. It's all about risk vs reward. And everyone gets to decide their own balance. Perhaps the risk is part of the rewards for some. Perhaps the whole thing is so much more exciting for them, knowing there might be consequences. I hate condoms. I really wish I didn't have to use the damned things. They kill the spontaneity of going from frottage to penetration, and as often as not, they kill a perfectly good erection on the guys that I meet. But I put up with them for casual sex because a lifetime of HIV isn't a fair trade for a few minutes of fun. In a relationship, with trust, after an honest discussion about sexual histories, and after testing if that discussion makes it necessary, I will stop using them. But for casual? No way. | |||
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"Point her in my direction Does your wife know What makes you think in married then Can't accommodate = married male Can't accommodate = careful female #fabfacts" Not everyone who can't accommodate is cheating stupid thing to say. I can't accommodate because i don't have my own place. | |||
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"Never ever has a man turned up with a condom ! I have loads lol I always use my own condoms then I know I can trust them It's always better to trust your own - I've been using the same one for 17 years and it's never let me down." But but, I’ve spent ages pric_ing minuscule holes in mine ... | |||
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"I can’t accom but I am single so very silly to say " Nothing stupid about it but saying someone is cheating because they can't accommodate is. | |||
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"yep our choice and others too.. we do bareback .. #and Good for you, well done. How do you feel about driving 60 in a thirty past a school at 3.15 Just for example? You have the choice to do that as well. The fact that a choice is available to you doesn't mean that it is socially responsible. But I guess that argument will go pretty much over your head. Hopefully you'll live along life, not be infected, nor infect anyone else. Hope it goes well for you. And them. Do you smoke..do you drink..do you suck cock without a condom..do you ride a motorbike..do you have a high fat diet.. . These carry no HIV risk! Oral higher risk if bleeding gums & other infections ie tonsillitis etc. But multiple jizz vag bareback partners especially if grazes in there more so anal as that tears easier surely is risky. Ive asked as why the gamble is appealing but no-one answers just its their choice." I was just referring to the speed outside a school remark..life is all about risks..we choose which risks to take in life..one risk I would not do is drive 60 in a 30 near a school..that's just a ridiculous comparison | |||
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"This is absolutely classic reading, please all keep going I’m having a pint and loving this thread." This is normal reading from a bareback thread. Weekly thing | |||
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"This is absolutely classic reading, please all keep going I’m having a pint and loving this thread. This is normal reading from a bareback thread. Weekly thing " Then make it Monday’s and I’ll look forward to my nice safe pint and read, brilliant. | |||
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"So no reply to my questions as to how they feel bareback is safe?" I have no idea something with their thought process | |||
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"Point her in my direction Does your wife know What makes you think in married then Can't accommodate = married male Can't accommodate = careful female #fabfacts" not necessarily true, I am a single male and I cannot accommodate as I live on a barracks and can't be bothered to go through all the bullsh*t to book people into my camp whenever I have a meet. #fabfactsdontmeananything | |||
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"Point her in my direction Does your wife know What makes you think in married then Can't accommodate = married male Can't accommodate = careful female #fabfacts not necessarily true, I am a single male and I cannot accommodate as I live on a barracks and can't be bothered to go through all the bullsh*t to book people into my camp whenever I have a meet. #fabfactsdontmeananything" I'm not explaining a third time. | |||
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"yep our choice and others too.. we do bareback .. #and Good for you, well done. How do you feel about driving 60 in a thirty past a school at 3.15 Just for example? You have the choice to do that as well. The fact that a choice is available to you doesn't mean that it is socially responsible. But I guess that argument will go pretty much over your head. Hopefully you'll live along life, not be infected, nor infect anyone else. Hope it goes well for you. And them. Thanks for your concerns..but it is still our choice and other peoples choices if they choose to go bareback..it does not concern you or effect you as you will always use protection..don't forget to use protection when suc_ing cock " Yep. It did go over your head. | |||
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"yep our choice and others too.. we do bareback .. #and Good for you, well done. How do you feel about driving 60 in a thirty past a school at 3.15 Just for example? You have the choice to do that as well. The fact that a choice is available to you doesn't mean that it is socially responsible. But I guess that argument will go pretty much over your head. Hopefully you'll live along life, not be infected, nor infect anyone else. Hope it goes well for you. And them. Do you smoke..do you drink..do you suck cock without a condom..do you ride a motorbike..do you have a high fat diet.. . These carry no HIV risk! Oral higher risk if bleeding gums & other infections ie tonsillitis etc. But multiple jizz vag bareback partners especially if grazes in there more so anal as that tears easier surely is risky. Ive asked as why the gamble is appealing but no-one answers just its their choice. I was just referring to the speed outside a school remark..life is all about risks..we choose which risks to take in life..one risk I would not do is drive 60 in a 30 near a school..that's just a ridiculous comparison" You may see it as that. I see it as another selfish activity which has the risk of harming others. But I understand you may not get that. | |||
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"Seriously wonder about the basic intelligence of some people on this website." | |||
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"Only unattractive women have STDs. I saw it on a documentary on BBC three." Yep - and I read it in the Sun, and the Daily Mail. | |||
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"I think a lot of poeple still think they would be able to tell from loo_ing if someone has an STD. Silly fuckers." Better loo_ing = lower risk | |||
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"yep our choice and others too.. we do bareback .. #and Good for you, well done. How do you feel about driving 60 in a thirty past a school at 3.15 Just for example? You have the choice to do that as well. The fact that a choice is available to you doesn't mean that it is socially responsible. But I guess that argument will go pretty much over your head. Hopefully you'll live along life, not be infected, nor infect anyone else. Hope it goes well for you. And them. Do you smoke..do you drink..do you suck cock without a condom..do you ride a motorbike..do you have a high fat diet.. . These carry no HIV risk! Oral higher risk if bleeding gums & other infections ie tonsillitis etc. But multiple jizz vag bareback partners especially if grazes in there more so anal as that tears easier surely is risky. Ive asked as why the gamble is appealing but no-one answers just its their choice. I was just referring to the speed outside a school remark..life is all about risks..we choose which risks to take in life..one risk I would not do is drive 60 in a 30 near a school..that's just a ridiculous comparison You may see it as that. I see it as another selfish activity which has the risk of harming others. But I understand you may not get that." Who are we harming..we meet other that do bareback..we do not need a lecture from you on how we or others run their lifes. You do not do bareback so you have nothing to worry about..but you may not get that..people that suck cock or shag whilst wearing a condom will be fine..they will be protected..those like us that bareback know the risks..again our choice..it should not be of any concern for you, you practice safe sex.. | |||
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"I think a lot of poeple still think they would be able to tell from loo_ing if someone has an STD. Silly fuckers. Better loo_ing = lower risk " If by better loo_ing you mean nothing oozing... | |||
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"I always wear a condom. I even buy them and take plenty when I play. So I can change between anal and vaginal penetration. Once had a women try to pierce it with her nails no way left straight away. Not bragging but the normal size sent big enough and I also buy slightly thicker condoms so I last longer whilst playing." And you think anyone believes a word of this? Please. | |||
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"We had a guy contact us for a meet..we looked at his profile..we replied back, you say on your profile Safe Sex only..so your not for us sorry, we are a bareback couple ..he replied back...I do bareback too ... a lot of folk say they only do safe sex because they think it's what people want to see/read.. but when in fact, if offered sex bareback,they would not refuse. " | |||
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"Don't see the problem, you can tell how many STDs a person has by how good loo_ing they are. If she was hot then what's the risk. " I said this to someone I know when he was playing bb with various ladies as he said they were all 'ok'!? Wasn't touching me again til he got tested as he was only person I did it with..... | |||
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"Point her in my direction Does your wife know What makes you think in married then Can't accommodate = married male Can't accommodate = careful female #fabfacts" #fab facts are wrong I can’t accommodate but I’m not married and I’m not going to explain why you should stop jumping to conclusions about others | |||
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"yep our choice and others too.. we do bareback .. #and Good for you, well done. How do you feel about driving 60 in a thirty past a school at 3.15 Just for example? You have the choice to do that as well. The fact that a choice is available to you doesn't mean that it is socially responsible. But I guess that argument will go pretty much over your head. Hopefully you'll live along life, not be infected, nor infect anyone else. Hope it goes well for you. And them. Do you smoke..do you drink..do you suck cock without a condom..do you ride a motorbike..do you have a high fat diet.. . These carry no HIV risk! Oral higher risk if bleeding gums & other infections ie tonsillitis etc. But multiple jizz vag bareback partners especially if grazes in there more so anal as that tears easier surely is risky. Ive asked as why the gamble is appealing but no-one answers just its their choice. I was just referring to the speed outside a school remark..life is all about risks..we choose which risks to take in life..one risk I would not do is drive 60 in a 30 near a school..that's just a ridiculous comparison You may see it as that. I see it as another selfish activity which has the risk of harming others. But I understand you may not get that. Who are we harming..we meet other that do bareback..we do not need a lecture from you on how we or others run their lifes. You do not do bareback so you have nothing to worry about..but you may not get that..people that suck cock or shag whilst wearing a condom will be fine..they will be protected..those like us that bareback know the risks..again our choice..it should not be of any concern for you, you practice safe sex.." Correct. Your choice. Also your funeral. Enjoy all the sex in the STD clinic/morgue/ graveyard! Yes, we know foreplay has risks but much less than shooting your juice into someone, in any orifice | |||
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"I've been chatting with a lovely lady for a while was arranging a meet with her for today. I said jo_ingly id have to bulk buy some condoms.she then went of on one how we could only fuck if went bare and made sure I fill her with cum. Alarm bells started to ring at this point. Why would anyone risk it with some one that have never met.maybe she was just after getting preggers." Whenever we see posts like this it makes us wonder if the author knows what risks there are with protected sex. Many seem to think that wearing a condom protects them. At least if people mention bareback we can make an informed decision whether to play or not. There is a risk in having sex with others. | |||
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""Whenever we see posts like this it makes us wonder if the author knows what risks there are with protected sex. Many seem to think that wearing a condom protects them. At least if people mention bareback we can make an informed decision whether to play or not. There is a risk in having sex with others." If you want to be totally safe then I'm afraid the only answer is celibacy, #realfact" Of course that is very true. However you can lower your risk of contracting an infection by ta_ing precautions such as using a condom. By having bareback sex you are only increasing the risk. | |||
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""Whenever we see posts like this it makes us wonder if the author knows what risks there are with protected sex. Many seem to think that wearing a condom protects them. At least if people mention bareback we can make an informed decision whether to play or not. There is a risk in having sex with others." If you want to be totally safe then I'm afraid the only answer is celibacy, #realfact" True | |||
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"This is why Mrs P is a spunky tits whore " Sounds like just my type | |||
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"I've been chatting with a lovely lady for a while was arranging a meet with her for today. I said jo_ingly id have to bulk buy some condoms.she then went of on one how we could only fuck if went bare and made sure I fill her with cum. Alarm bells started to ring at this point. Why would anyone risk it with some one that have never met.maybe she was just after getting preggers." Then you woke up? | |||
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"I've been chatting with a lovely lady for a while was arranging a meet with her for today. I said jo_ingly id have to bulk buy some condoms.she then went of on one how we could only fuck if went bare and made sure I fill her with cum. Alarm bells started to ring at this point. Why would anyone risk it with some one that have never met.maybe she was just after getting preggers. Then you woke up? " I've had a vasectomy so no hope there. Just accept it, lots of women love the feeling of cum shot inside them and lots of men enjoy the feeling of doing it. | |||
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"Don't see the problem, you can tell how many STDs a person has by how good loo_ing they are. If she was hot then what's the risk. ..really are you that stupid, just becouse somebody looks good it dosent mean they dont have the clap or other nasty things ,safe sex is a must if swinging.. I think he was jo_ing " I don't think everyone understands the concept of satire or scarcasim lol | |||
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"Point her in my direction Does your wife know What makes you think in married then That reply clearly wasn’t for you, read the quote references back! But anyway, count your blessings for that red flag, rather than it occurring on the night... (: " | |||
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"Fuck with a condom on, fuck without a condom. Your choice and nobody else. These threads about barebac_ing are fuc_ing annoying and too many times they are started by men with no or very little meets just trying to get attention." not sure this fact is a fact either . | |||
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"I don't see the issue and the drama. If that's what someone likes that's down to them. At least you know the score and you can crack on with them or move on. I agree that some just say they use condoms because it's what people want to hear because if you list you like bb or say so in the forums you're slated for it so no wonder people keep quiet. It's not personally for me and I'd avoid anyone's profile that listed they like bb but that's my preference and my personal choice. I have known people who have caught something from a long term trusted bf before. Just because you have casual sex doesn't mean you are more at risk than these so called trusted people. That's totally double standards. There's no such thing as safe sex however there are ways you can make things a bit safer for yourself if that's what you choose to do. " | |||
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"I don't care about sarcasm, being funny or not. If your fuc_ing about with other people with out any protection then it's just down right selfish and most probably spreading something. Let's just say you have sex tonight with a person with HIV, then have sex with another 10 people. That's 10 people you killed!! If you know someone that is checked and you are regular with then bareback but not just coz you feel like it!!!" Then don't fuck bb or don't fuck at all. Minimise or eliminate your own risk. You have to take some responsibility for your own sexual health. You can't blame someone else for giving you something if you choose to play bb. Those that do play bb know the risks and are clearly happy to take them. | |||
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"I don't care about sarcasm, being funny or not. If your fuc_ing about with other people with out any protection then it's just down right selfish and most probably spreading something. Let's just say you have sex tonight with a person with HIV, then have sex with another 10 people. That's 10 people you killed!! If you know someone that is checked and you are regular with then bareback but not just coz you feel like it!!!" And just because you know someone and are regular with them that doesn't decrease your risk of catching something | |||
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"Fuck with a condom on, fuck without a condom. Your choice and nobody else. These threads about barebac_ing are fuc_ing annoying and too many times they are started by men with no or very little meets just trying to get attention." | |||
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"I don't care about sarcasm, being funny or not. If your fuc_ing about with other people with out any protection then it's just down right selfish and most probably spreading something. Let's just say you have sex tonight with a person with HIV, then have sex with another 10 people. That's 10 people you killed!! If you know someone that is checked and you are regular with then bareback but not just coz you feel like it!!! And just because you know someone and are regular with them that doesn't decrease your risk of catching something " You missed the point! I'm not tal_ing about me, I'm always safe anyway! I'm actually tal_ing about those people who have sex with multiple partners with out protection is being selfish and spreading STI's. Just don't do it! When I said about no protection with regular partners, I'm tal_ing about people who have been checked since there last partner. | |||
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"I've been chatting with a lovely lady for a while was arranging a meet with her for today. I said jo_ingly id have to bulk buy some condoms.she then went of on one how we could only fuck if went bare and made sure I fill her with cum. Alarm bells started to ring at this point. Why would anyone risk it with some one that have never met.maybe she was just after getting preggers. Then you woke up? I've had a vasectomy so no hope there. Just accept it, lots of women love the feeling of cum shot inside them and lots of men enjoy the feeling of doing it." I don’t think anyone said that isn’t enjoyable. It’s just some of us are more wise and tend not to have unprotected penetrative sex with multiple people. As adults we are free to make any choice we like with our lives, some of us don’t want to increase our risk, some of us do. | |||
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"I don't care about sarcasm, being funny or not. If your fuc_ing about with other people with out any protection then it's just down right selfish and most probably spreading something. Let's just say you have sex tonight with a person with HIV, then have sex with another 10 people. That's 10 people you killed!! If you know someone that is checked and you are regular with then bareback but not just coz you feel like it!!! And just because you know someone and are regular with them that doesn't decrease your risk of catching something You missed the point! I'm not tal_ing about me, I'm always safe anyway! I'm actually tal_ing about those people who have sex with multiple partners with out protection is being selfish and spreading STI's. Just don't do it! When I said about no protection with regular partners, I'm tal_ing about people who have been checked since there last partner." I didn't miss any point at all | |||
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"I don't care about sarcasm, being funny or not. If your fuc_ing about with other people with out any protection then it's just down right selfish and most probably spreading something. Let's just say you have sex tonight with a person with HIV, then have sex with another 10 people. That's 10 people you killed!! If you know someone that is checked and you are regular with then bareback but not just coz you feel like it!!!" 1. If you have unprotected vaginal sex with someone with hiv, your chances of catching hiv are less than 1 in 100. 2. If you do catch hiv, with treatment, you can now live a normal lifespan. This is not to advocate bareback, it's to advocate accuracy. | |||
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"I just don't agree. It's selfish and irrisposble. If you do it then you a pertentially spreading infections. That's the facts. End of." The double standards and assumption is strong in you lol. | |||
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"I just don't agree. It's selfish and irrisposble. If you do it then you a pertentially spreading infections. That's the facts. End of." If you participate in oral sex with no protection you’re doing exactly the same! #justsaying | |||
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"I just don't agree. It's selfish and irrisposble. If you do it then you a pertentially spreading infections. That's the facts. End of. If you participate in oral sex with no protection you’re doing exactly the same! #justsaying " Exactly | |||
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"I just don't agree. It's selfish and irrisposble. If you do it then you a pertentially spreading infections. That's the facts. End of. If you participate in oral sex with no protection you’re doing exactly the same! #justsaying Exactly " I’m not into bareback but I respect other people’s choices and unprotected oral (most do participate in) has it’s risks! Uneducated comments like his irritate me x | |||
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"I've been chatting with a lovely lady for a while was arranging a meet with her for today. I said jo_ingly id have to bulk buy some condoms.she then went of on one how we could only fuck if went bare and made sure I fill her with cum. Alarm bells started to ring at this point. Why would anyone risk it with some one that have never met.maybe she was just after getting preggers. Then you woke up? I've had a vasectomy so no hope there. Just accept it, lots of women love the feeling of cum shot inside them and lots of men enjoy the feeling of doing it. I don’t think anyone said that isn’t enjoyable. It’s just some of us are more wise and tend not to have unprotected penetrative sex with multiple people. As adults we are free to make any choice we like with our lives, some of us don’t want to increase our risk, some of us do. " Hear hear | |||
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"I just don't agree. It's selfish and irrisposble. If you do it then you a pertentially spreading infections. That's the facts. End of. The double standards and assumption is strong in you lol." Where is my double standard!? I wrap up, to put it bluntly. Some people have STI, some life threatening! If you have unprotected sex then you playing Russian roulette. It can't be compared to a car getting struck by lightning. I've never had an STI, and never will. I know that. As for people having unprotected sex then chances are they will.if not not then your just playing with luck. | |||
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