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By *ill74 OP Man
over a year ago
New forest area |
"Under the bed ones, i use them because i haven't managed to get my fella to marry me and from past experience they will fuck off and do one otherwise."
That made me laugh. Keep him there 'til he asks you! |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
"Under the bed ones, i use them because i haven't managed to get my fella to marry me and from past experience they will fuck off and do one otherwise."
I love the idea of leaving him there till he does. |
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"Under the bed ones, i use them because i haven't managed to get my fella to marry me and from past experience they will fuck off and do one otherwise.
I love the idea of leaving him there till he does. "
Lol, he has to get divorced first. |
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By *ill74 OP Man
over a year ago
New forest area |
"Under the bed ones, i use them because i haven't managed to get my fella to marry me and from past experience they will fuck off and do one otherwise.
I love the idea of leaving him there till he does.
Lol, he has to get divorced first."
Yeah, you need to untie him! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Under the bed ones, i use them because i haven't managed to get my fella to marry me and from past experience they will fuck off and do one otherwise.
I love the idea of leaving him there till he does.
Lol, he has to get divorced first.
Yeah, you need to untie him!"
He'll struggle to sign the divorce papers while in restraints lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Under the bed ones, i use them because i haven't managed to get my fella to marry me and from past experience they will fuck off and do one otherwise.
I love the idea of leaving him there till he does.
Lol, he has to get divorced first.
Yeah, you need to untie him!
He'll struggle to sign the divorce papers while in restraints lol"
Nah, he only needs one hand free for a few seconds to sign  |
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"we have cuffs, hog ties and spreader bar. They all have their charms 
Do you have a favourite?"
It entirely depends on the circumstances. Cuffs are nice to keep your arms behind your back when you're giving a blow job, hog ties are nice for rendering you vulnerable and helpless and spreader bar is good for making you feel a bit exposed.
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By *ill74 OP Man
over a year ago
New forest area |
"we have cuffs, hog ties and spreader bar. They all have their charms
Do you have a favourite?It entirely depends on the circumstances. Cuffs are nice to keep your arms behind your back when you're giving a blow job, hog ties are nice for rendering you vulnerable and helpless and spreader bar is good for making you feel a bit exposed.
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When you say hog tied, I'm thinking breasts. But that's not what you mean - and that doesn't do anything for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wrist restraints when you don’t want them to use their hands.
Spreader bar for when you want them in certain positions.
Wrist restraints and spreader bar for when they want to hand over complete control and allow you to do whatever you want...  |
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"we have cuffs, hog ties and spreader bar. They all have their charms
Do you have a favourite?It entirely depends on the circumstances. Cuffs are nice to keep your arms behind your back when you're giving a blow job, hog ties are nice for rendering you vulnerable and helpless and spreader bar is good for making you feel a bit exposed.
When you say hog tied, I'm thinking breasts. But that's not what you mean - and that doesn't do anything for me."
no it does nothing for either of us. Hogties restrain your wrists and ankles in such a way that your body is arched.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My favourite is a set that passes under the bed and connects wrists and ankles together in a spread position.If you try to pull in any direction they pull you the other way. Great fun. Especially leaving you there blindfolded for a while... |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
Sutton |
"we have cuffs, hog ties and spreader bar. They all have their charms
Do you have a favourite?It entirely depends on the circumstances. Cuffs are nice to keep your arms behind your back when you're giving a blow job, hog ties are nice for rendering you vulnerable and helpless and spreader bar is good for making you feel a bit exposed.
When you say hog tied, I'm thinking breasts. But that's not what you mean - and that doesn't do anything for me.
no it does nothing for either of us. Hogties restrain your wrists and ankles in such a way that your body is arched.
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If you use rope, you can construct a chest harness or use a TK/box tie (this will then include the breasts) and run the rope from the stem or central point at the back down to the ankles. This has the advantage of taking the stress off the shoulder joints and the wrists.
Ease the bottom onto their side side, lie facing them and looking in their eyes remind them of what you are going to do to them. Then produce toy of your choice.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have restraining ties on the bed all the time then metal handcuffs, spreader bars and leather wrist/ankle restraints.
I struggle to choose a favourite and a combination of the above is just awesome |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all
What restraints do you use - body/bed etc. And what is your favourite and why? "
sashchord it's cheap long and soft to the touch you can't beat it with a sash hammer |
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By *ill74 OP Man
over a year ago
New forest area |
"Wrist restraints when you don’t want them to use their hands.
Spreader bar for when you want them in certain positions.
Wrist restraints and spreader bar for when they want to hand over complete control and allow you to do whatever you want... "
Sounds bliss. |
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By *ill74 OP Man
over a year ago
New forest area |
"we have cuffs, hog ties and spreader bar. They all have their charms
Do you have a favourite?It entirely depends on the circumstances. Cuffs are nice to keep your arms behind your back when you're giving a blow job, hog ties are nice for rendering you vulnerable and helpless and spreader bar is good for making you feel a bit exposed.
When you say hog tied, I'm thinking breasts. But that's not what you mean - and that doesn't do anything for me.
no it does nothing for either of us. Hogties restrain your wrists and ankles in such a way that your body is arched.
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Ok, interesting. Thanks for the info. |
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By *ill74 OP Man
over a year ago
New forest area |
"We have restraining ties on the bed all the time then metal handcuffs, spreader bars and leather wrist/ankle restraints.
I struggle to choose a favourite and a combination of the above is just awesome "
Sounds like it's a hobby. |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
Craggy Island |
"Hi all
What restraints do you use - body/bed etc. And what is your favourite and why? "
Whatever I can get my hands on, but I always keep a pair of cuffs or a scarf handy. My favourite has to be my belt from my trousers,it just quick and easy. |
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"Hi all
What restraints do you use - body/bed etc. And what is your favourite and why?
Whatever I can get my hands on, but I always keep a pair of cuffs or a scarf handy. My favourite has to be my belt from my trousers,it just quick and easy."
Ooohhhhhhh |
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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago
Gosport |
I have a range of bits for self bondage play and my favourite set up is one which holds me on my back with my legs up. This is done using Bondage Corner's "Super heavy duty LEG RAISER bondage harness as a BDSM restraint version 3". I then lock my hands out to the bedframe using an ice lock.
Works really well especially when used in conjunction with either the estim system or vacuum milking machine. |
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By *ill74 OP Man
over a year ago
New forest area |
"I have a range of bits for self bondage play and my favourite set up is one which holds me on my back with my legs up. This is done using Bondage Corner's "Super heavy duty LEG RAISER bondage harness as a BDSM restraint version 3". I then lock my hands out to the bedframe using an ice lock.
Works really well especially when used in conjunction with either the estim system or vacuum milking machine."
So you restrain yourself? |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"I have a range of bits for self bondage play and my favourite set up is one which holds me on my back with my legs up. This is done using Bondage Corner's "Super heavy duty LEG RAISER bondage harness as a BDSM restraint version 3". I then lock my hands out to the bedframe using an ice lock.
Works really well especially when used in conjunction with either the estim system or vacuum milking machine."
How do you get yourself out of it and do you have any emergency quick release? |
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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago
Gosport |
The hand restraints connect through the ice lock with dyneema rope. I also have a pair of scissors to hand, and tied to the bedframe which will cut the rope if required with a bit of work. The bondage is more symbolic than truely effective in this case. It sometimes takes some considerable willpower not to release early, especially when I have already cum a couple of times and the milker just keeps going but the self control also adds to the fun. |
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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago
Gosport |
"I have a range of bits for self bondage play and my favourite set up is one which holds me on my back with my legs up. This is done using Bondage Corner's "Super heavy duty LEG RAISER bondage harness as a BDSM restraint version 3". I then lock my hands out to the bedframe using an ice lock.
Works really well especially when used in conjunction with either the estim system or vacuum milking machine.
So you restrain yourself?"
Yes, get into location, fit leg restraints and then complete a loop with a padlock which runs between a pair of wrist restraints, around the bedframe and through the ice lock. As the ice lock melts the wrist restraints release.
The loop between the wrist restraints is made from a rope which can be cut by scissors but would be reasonably hard to do. The scissors are also tied off to the bed frame in a way that they cant be lost and always remain reachable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a pair of leather cuffs that are lined with fake fur so they don't rub (I have sensitive skin) red silk rope, a tied rope pair of cuffs and a variety of silk scarves and ties. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a pair of leather cuffs that are lined with fake fur so they don't rub (I have sensitive skin) red silk rope, a tied rope pair of cuffs and a variety of silk scarves and ties."
And forgot I have some bondage tape and use cling film too - great to bind breasts tight. |
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By *ill74 OP Man
over a year ago
New forest area |
"I have a pair of leather cuffs that are lined with fake fur so they don't rub (I have sensitive skin) red silk rope, a tied rope pair of cuffs and a variety of silk scarves and ties."
That sounds very sensual! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have restraining ties on the bed all the time then metal handcuffs, spreader bars and leather wrist/ankle restraints.
I struggle to choose a favourite and a combination of the above is just awesome
Sounds like it's a hobby. "
Fun one |
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Depends on the mood we are in...
Soft rope - for shibari and intimate play
Hemp rope - for the more restraint play
Tow rope - for those moments when you want more than just rough rope play
We also have handcuffs, silk ties, velcro restraints so lots of flavours lol |
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By *ill74 OP Man
over a year ago
New forest area |
"We have restraining ties on the bed all the time then metal handcuffs, spreader bars and leather wrist/ankle restraints.
I struggle to choose a favourite and a combination of the above is just awesome
Sounds like it's a hobby.
Fun one "
Damn, can't message you! |
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By *ill74 OP Man
over a year ago
New forest area |
"Depends on the mood we are in...
Soft rope - for shibari and intimate play
Hemp rope - for the more restraint play
Tow rope - for those moments when you want more than just rough rope play
We also have handcuffs, silk ties, velcro restraints so lots of flavours lol "
That is indeed a lot of flavours! Silk ties, sensual yet naughty. |
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"We have restraining ties on the bed all the time then metal handcuffs, spreader bars and leather wrist/ankle restraints.
I struggle to choose a favourite and a combination of the above is just awesome "
We’re pretty much the same, I love it!
Lou x |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
Sutton |
"Rope does nothing for me .I prefer good old fashioned chain .it feels good ,its heavy and v restrictive .add a nose restraint and a tongue and lip clamp and hey presto job done "
Each to their own, the only missing point is that rope is not heavy.
If you look at the Japanese style they add nose restraints, (and apart from conventional clamps) they use chopsticks for lip and tongue clamps.
But it is about what floats your boat.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have restraining ties on the bed all the time then metal handcuffs, spreader bars and leather wrist/ankle restraints.
I struggle to choose a favourite and a combination of the above is just awesome
Sounds like it's a hobby.
Fun one
Damn, can't message you!"
Nope. MrH doesn’t do singles! |
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By *ill74 OP Man
over a year ago
New forest area |
"We have restraining ties on the bed all the time then metal handcuffs, spreader bars and leather wrist/ankle restraints.
I struggle to choose a favourite and a combination of the above is just awesome
Sounds like it's a hobby.
Fun one
Damn, can't message you!
Nope. MrH doesn’t do singles!"
That's fair enough!
I didn't see many pictures featuring the above? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have restraining ties on the bed all the time then metal handcuffs, spreader bars and leather wrist/ankle restraints.
I struggle to choose a favourite and a combination of the above is just awesome
Sounds like it's a hobby.
Fun one
Damn, can't message you!
Nope. MrH doesn’t do singles!
That's fair enough!
I didn't see many pictures featuring the above? "
No. Not really our style of pic tbh! |
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By *ill74 OP Man
over a year ago
New forest area |
"We have restraining ties on the bed all the time then metal handcuffs, spreader bars and leather wrist/ankle restraints.
I struggle to choose a favourite and a combination of the above is just awesome
Sounds like it's a hobby.
Fun one
Damn, can't message you!
Nope. MrH doesn’t do singles!
That's fair enough!
I didn't see many pictures featuring the above?
No. Not really our style of pic tbh! "
They are nice photos. |
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