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Why is it some couples and females hate Hotel meet?
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"Hotel meet in my eyes is the best neutral ground to meet.I dont understand why some people hate it. I prefer hotel meet to club meet.what about you?"
In our opinion, hotel and club meets are a different kind of meet so can’t really be compared |
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"Hotel meet in my eyes is the best neutral ground to meet.I dont understand why some people hate it. I prefer hotel meet to club meet.what about you?"
I've personally had a couple of hotel meets where I've turned up and not been attracted to the guy. Both times I then sat there awkwardly making small talk while building up the courage to say there wouldn't be anything happening and then felt shit for having wasted their time and money. Now, if neither of us can accommodate I have the good sense to ask for a social first. |
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I imagine it’s when they’ve had an experience where a hotel meet is set up and then there is a no show. You’re stuck in the hotel grinding your teeth! At least in a club there’s the opportunity to have fun with others. |
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If we’re away, staying in a hotel and fancy a meet, we always have a phone conversation and tell them we’ll meet in the bar or local for a social first. We always invite a few chaps as as there’s bound to be a dreamer or two. If all do show up, it’s a great night  |
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Why does the sun shine? Why do some people love Marmite when others hate it? Did we or did we not go to the moon? What is your opinion of Donald Trump? In or out?
We are all built differently, we all think differently, we all like and dislike different things. It keeps the World an interesting place.
Don’t over analyse x |
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"Hotel meet in my eyes is the best neutral ground to meet.I dont understand why some people hate it. I prefer hotel meet to club meet.what about you?"
So,because you prefer hotel meets,everyone has to as well?
Really?
We enjoy hotel meets ourselves,but we also respect the wishes of those that don't.
Each to their own op. |
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Not done a hotel meet but can't say I'm particularly attracted to the idea. Most hotels are so sterile and unerotic. I can't help but suspect it would feel more like an transaction of some sort  |
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"As long as I've socialled and feel like I know the person I'm happy with a hotel meet "
Same here, I'd do a social first then follow it up with a hotel meet.
Love a cheeky afternoon in a hotel, always feels a bit naughty to me. Also I look great on white sheets and and I don't have to Hoover....it's a win win. |
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I prefer inviting people back to mine. Why pay for a hotel when i have a perfectly good house?
I did book a hotel once for a meet and she bailed out. £85 not very well spent and I wasnt a happy bunny |
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I like hotel meets. I like stayong in hotels too so it makes sense. I think it's better than having someone round. I've had stalkers in the past, not on here, would have been better if they didn't know where I lived. |
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"Hotel meet in my eyes is the best neutral ground to meet.I dont understand why some people hate it. I prefer hotel meet to club meet.what about you?"
Anyone can hire a hotel room. You have no real idea who will be meeting you until that for opens.
Not only that, that person could be a danger to whoever they're meeting.
I prefer meeting in a guys own home. A potentially dangerous guy with bad intentions, wouldn't give out his home address would he?
Sorry but I despise cheating. As such a married guy is very unlikely to also give his own address. Same reason I don't do clubs and hotels.
When meeting a guy for sexual purposes, I feel safe going to his house because I'll also have his face pic, number and of course address. I'll leave a copy of each with my one trusted best friend as an extra safety precaution. I make sure that guy knows that too. |
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"Hotel meet in my eyes is the best neutral ground to meet.I dont understand why some people hate it. I prefer hotel meet to club meet.what about you?
I've personally had a couple of hotel meets where I've turned up and not been attracted to the guy. Both times I then sat there awkwardly making small talk while building up the courage to say there wouldn't be anything happening and then felt shit for having wasted their time and money. Now, if neither of us can accommodate I have the good sense to ask for a social first. "
I will never meet for sex on first meeting, always insist on a social meet first in public for a coffee and a chat see if we like each other enough to actually go to a hotel room  |
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"Hotel meet in my eyes is the best neutral ground to meet.I dont understand why some people hate it. I prefer hotel meet to club meet.what about you?"
It involves money maybe, they lack character maybe
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I'm more than happy to book hotels
Great deals on line if you surf...
Can also sit in the bar and book it on your phone if you decide you need a room
Couples please ......... |
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"I actually enjoy hotel meets so do i but I always pay
I take it in turns (I don't usually meet once ) me neither I meet forever "
Well, that doesn't sound creepy at all!  |
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This sounds dull I know but its more about the embarrassment of walking into the hotel. I feel like the reception knows why im there and it makes me feel awkward lol especially when I walk out a few hours later lol
Plus i also can't afford a hotel and hate the fact a mans paid.
The hotel room itself is perfect and for a woman I feel a little safer x |
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