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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We are looking for our first meet but are only looking to have sex in the same room as another/other couples for the excitement of being watched & watching others and maybe some role play too but not actually swap partners. We think this is turning a lot of people off. Are there any other couples just into this or just us?  |
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It is a pretty niche thing but if that’s what you want then stick to your guns and I’m sure someone will tick that box. Never change your boundaries to suit others, unless you both agree and want to progress further. Only fools rush in.
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"It is a pretty niche thing but if that’s what you want then stick to your guns and I’m sure someone will tick that box. Never change your boundaries to suit others, unless you both agree and want to progress further. Only fools rush in.
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"We are looking for our first meet but are only looking to have sex in the same room as another/other couples for the excitement of being watched & watching others and maybe some role play too but not actually swap partners. We think this is turning a lot of people off. Are there any other couples just into this or just us? "
Many but by far the easiest way to do this would be to head on down to a swingers club...
The reality is that most couples who want this have little experience, which correlates with 'most likely to drop out at the last minute', meaning a lot of frustrating nights for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are looking for our first meet but are only looking to have sex in the same room as another/other couples for the excitement of being watched & watching others and maybe some role play too but not actually swap partners. We think this is turning a lot of people off. Are there any other couples just into this or just us? "
We have had plenty of offers of this kind of fun so there are definitely others out there who are on your level. Keep heart and hopefully your sexy dreams will come true  |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"We are looking for our first meet but are only looking to have sex in the same room as another/other couples for the excitement of being watched & watching others and maybe some role play too but not actually swap partners. We think this is turning a lot of people off. Are there any other couples just into this or just us? "
We've done this however it's much easier to do in a club.
Make sure all parties are clear of your set boundaries before play starts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're looking for similar, although Mrs wants ff play as well and it's pretty hard to find. I'm sure one day it will happen.
Oh and yes we have had it with one couple who are also friends but we want to mix it up a bit.
For us it's about taking things slowly and seeing what our limits are when meeting couples. |
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"We are looking for our first meet but are only looking to have sex in the same room as another/other couples for the excitement of being watched & watching others and maybe some role play too but not actually swap partners. We think this is turning a lot of people off. Are there any other couples just into this or just us? "
There are lots of couples who prefer this - often, we do too. Just do what you enjoy the most.
Janet xxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are looking for our first meet but are only looking to have sex in the same room as another/other couples for the excitement of being watched & watching others and maybe some role play too but not actually swap partners. We think this is turning a lot of people off. Are there any other couples just into this or just us? "
There’s a good few soft swap couples on here and people like you,it’s just finding them.Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why not try a couple's room at a club? would be perfect for exactly your kind of play!"
Exactly this. I did this at the weekend. There were 3 couples in the couple room, all of us playing with our own partners but watching the others.
It's very horny and people fully respected each other. |
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"why not try a couple's room at a club? would be perfect for exactly your kind of play!
Exactly this. I did this at the weekend. There were 3 couples in the couple room, all of us playing with our own partners but watching the others.
It's very horny and people fully respected each other."
agree! did it with a fb in the past and damn it was sexy but very relaxed at the same time as everyone has someone to play with so no one needs to hassle anyone else... |
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"We are looking for our first meet but are only looking to have sex in the same room as another/other couples for the excitement of being watched & watching others and maybe some role play too but not actually swap partners. We think this is turning a lot of people off. Are there any other couples just into this or just us? "
This is how we started on here, we met a lovely couple on here went to theres just to watch and be watched, we now class them as friends and have built a lasting relationship with them.
We have however moved on from the watching and being watched after saying thats all we would ever do lol x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"why not try a couple's room at a club? would be perfect for exactly your kind of play!
Exactly this. I did this at the weekend. There were 3 couples in the couple room, all of us playing with our own partners but watching the others.
It's very horny and people fully respected each other."
Sounds perfect for us  |
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"We are looking for our first meet but are only looking to have sex in the same room as another/other couples for the excitement of being watched & watching others and maybe some role play too but not actually swap partners. We think this is turning a lot of people off. Are there any other couples just into this or just us? "
This is definitely something that we have talked about doing next. |
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"We are looking for our first meet but are only looking to have sex in the same room as another/other couples for the excitement of being watched & watching others and maybe some role play too but not actually swap partners. We think this is turning a lot of people off. Are there any other couples just into this or just us? "
It wouldn’t bother us to do this.
We’re not that bothered about full swap, if it happens it happens, but it’s by no means a deal breaker.
Do ever be pressured into a scenario either of you isn’t comfortable with, it’s a recipe for disaster.
Swinging can be a steep learning curve so it’s best to take baby steps until you both know if you want to take things to another level or not |
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"We are looking for our first meet but are only looking to have sex in the same room as another/other couples for the excitement of being watched & watching others and maybe some role play too but not actually swap partners. We think this is turning a lot of people off. Are there any other couples just into this or just us? "
Tried to PM you to possibly offer you a solution.
We can’t because we’re outside your upper age limit 
So maybe there’s other couples who would be happy to meet but you’ll never know because of your message filters.
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"We are looking for our first meet but are only looking to have sex in the same room as another/other couples for the excitement of being watched & watching others and maybe some role play too but not actually swap partners. We think this is turning a lot of people off. Are there any other couples just into this or just us?
Tried to PM you to possibly offer you a solution.
We can’t because we’re outside your upper age limit
So maybe there’s other couples who would be happy to meet but you’ll never know because of your message filters.
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Same here. We are obviously too old and wrinkly for them. |
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By *andD300Couple
over a year ago
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"why not try a couple's room at a club? would be perfect for exactly your kind of play!
Exactly this. I did this at the weekend. There were 3 couples in the couple room, all of us playing with our own partners but watching the others.
It's very horny and people fully respected each other."
This is so something that we want to do. |
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They're are couples about that are into this. It doesn't do anything for us, we're happy with a soft swap if no sex is the thing but they're got to be involvement with all.
Maybe a club would be a good place for you? Loads of rooms where you can be in the same room and be watched |
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"We are looking for our first meet but are only looking to have sex in the same room as another/other couples for the excitement of being watched & watching others and maybe some role play too but not actually swap partners. We think this is turning a lot of people off. Are there any other couples just into this or just us? "
Perhaps give ourplace4fun a go. We had started off in a similar fashion too.  |
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