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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just having this conversation with the wife. I said it might not be if you were giving relief to someone in desperate need. Like scratching an itch you can't reach. Or applying sun cream on someone's back. Thoughts??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I suppose it depends on the relationship. With my ex-wife, I know anything I might have done with someone else would be considered cheating. The partner after her didn’t think anything that was purely physical was cheating - so a handjob would have been fine as long as it wasn’t accompanied by an intense emotional attachment. |
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" someone in desperate need"? U mean like a kidney transplant??? Lol if someone was " desperate use yer own hand !! And yes a handjob is cheating bringing sexual gratification to someone by having their cock in ur hand!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My argument was that the handjob giver may well be fully dressed and get no physical satisfaction whatsoever. Just simply relieving a tension in someone. Possibly in the same way as listening and hugging a friend in ned who wants to talk and be held close. |
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By *hechapMan
over a year ago
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"Just having this conversation with the wife. I said it might not be if you were giving relief to someone in desperate need. Like scratching an itch you can't reach. Or applying sun cream on someone's back. Thoughts???"
If he had no arms then i suppose she could justify that she was only doing a good turn and she could get away with it but its still cheating.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My argument was that the handjob giver may well be fully dressed and get no physical satisfaction whatsoever. Just simply relieving a tension in someone. Possibly in the same way as listening and hugging a friend in ned who wants to talk and be held close. "
Who just sits there and wanks a guy's cock if they get no gratification whatsoever. What a weird conversation you had. |
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"My argument was that the handjob giver may well be fully dressed and get no physical satisfaction whatsoever. Just simply relieving a tension in someone. Possibly in the same way as listening and hugging a friend in ned who wants to talk and be held close.
Who just sits there and wanks a guy's cock if they get no gratification whatsoever. What a weird conversation you had."
Sounds like a ex |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My argument was that the handjob giver may well be fully dressed and get no physical satisfaction whatsoever. Just simply relieving a tension in someone. Possibly in the same way as listening and hugging a friend in ned who wants to talk and be held close.
Who just sits there and wanks a guy's cock if they get no gratification whatsoever. What a weird conversation you had.
Sounds like a ex "
An ex? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just having this conversation with the wife. I said it might not be if you were giving relief to someone in desperate need. Like scratching an itch you can't reach. Or applying sun cream on someone's back. Thoughts???"
Are you a bit mad in the head  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anything you wouldn't tell your partner about / your partner wouldnt be happy about, is cheating - sorted!"
Not sure I fully agree with that. How many women hide shopping in their car and sneak it into the house when their partner isn't there? Some things are best not said about |
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"Just having this conversation with the wife. I said it might not be if you were giving relief to someone in desperate need. Like scratching an itch you can't reach. Or applying sun cream on someone's back. Thoughts???"
yes
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"Just having this conversation with the wife. I said it might not be if you were giving relief to someone in desperate need. Like scratching an itch you can't reach. Or applying sun cream on someone's back. Thoughts???"
It's only cheating if you use the hand you normally use on your partner
Swap to the other hand and all is good  |
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"Just having this conversation with the wife. I said it might not be if you were giving relief to someone in desperate need. Like scratching an itch you can't reach. Or applying sun cream on someone's back. Thoughts???"
This line of justification worked for Clinton for a while. |
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Mind you, i was accused of being unfaithful if i was thinking of anyone else 