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When I look at profiles out of interest to see if they have safe sex on their interests and they clearly have bareback photos of different peoples genitals whilst in play poses is that hypocritical or just lying or just trying to justify it as they r close trusted friends. How can that be if u practice safe sex? Go figure. |
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"When I look at profiles out of interest to see if they have safe sex on their interests and they clearly have bareback photos of different peoples genitals whilst in play poses is that hypocritical or just lying or just trying to justify it as they r close trusted friends. How can that be if u practice safe sex? Go figure."
i use it as a filter  |
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"When I look at profiles out of interest to see if they have safe sex on their interests and they clearly have bareback photos of different peoples genitals whilst in play poses is that hypocritical or just lying or just trying to justify it as they r close trusted friends. How can that be if u practice safe sex? Go figure."
How do you define an "interest"?
Say someone has ticked: anal, dogging, DP, watersports, and webcams on their profile as "interests". Will you assume they will insist on those activities every single time they have sex or meet someone?
Isn't the purpose of a list of interests to indicate what they are more open to?
Don't you use your list of interests to indicate what you are more open to?
Do you insist on every one of your interests?
If you said no to an offer of group sex can they point out that it's an "interest" on your profile ergo you must do it?
Wouldn't you be hypocritical if you refused one or any of your listed interests?
If people having unprotected sex and taking pics of it then posting those pics offends you. Block them. At the end of the day you don't know them, the people they're with, or the background to why it's unprotected. You're forcing your assumptions and prejudices upon them and proclaiming them guilty of not adhering to your personal morals. |
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People here read interest lists as if they were reading a menu in a brothel . Best leave it minimum otherwise you risk an unannounced cock in yer arse for having the nerve to tick anal .  |
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"When I look at profiles out of interest to see if they have safe sex on their interests and they clearly have bareback photos of different peoples genitals whilst in play poses is that hypocritical or just lying or just trying to justify it as they r close trusted friends. How can that be if u practice safe sex? Go figure."
I ONLY have safe sex listed, and I have a bareback photo on my ‘friends only’. It’s my husband  |
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"When I look at profiles out of interest to see if they have safe sex on their interests and they clearly have bareback photos of different peoples genitals whilst in play poses is that hypocritical or just lying or just trying to justify it as they r close trusted friends. How can that be if u practice safe sex? Go figure."
It looks like you’re giving oral sex without a condom..... that’s not safe sex?
He....hehe....  |
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"People here read interest lists as if they were reading a menu in a brothel . Best leave it minimum otherwise you risk an unannounced cock in yer arse for having the nerve to tick anal . "
I'll take 4 x three stones, 2 x more some, 1 x anul, 5 x bj and a safe sex to go thanks. |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
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From what I've read (in the forums) on this subject, some of those partcipating in bare-back sex consider it to be 'safe sex' if they and those they play with have a rigorous and regular clinical test regime.
Therefore, for such people having "safe sex" listed on their interests is not being hypercritical. |
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"When I look at profiles out of interest to see if they have safe sex on their interests and they clearly have bareback photos of different peoples genitals whilst in play poses is that hypocritical or just lying or just trying to justify it as they r close trusted friends. How can that be if u practice safe sex? Go figure."
I would just ignore what is ticked in preferences its more what I want you to think not anything else. If you are thinking of meeting talk to people if alarm bells ring then just avoid them. |
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