 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Why do some people ask for a face pic straight away in their bio otherwise they will just delete messages but don't even have one picture on their profile..... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Because that's obviously want they want. If you don't like it, then move on."
I never send a face pic straight away and if that is their request then I do move on as if they can't even post one picture why would I show them my face... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
With a face picture you can see if you fancy them or not. If not, say I'm not interested. If someone doesn't send a face pic then just delete as they didn't read the profile. I'm not sure men understand the amount of messages woman and even couples get a day! They all say the same thing so to make it easy, we can whittle it down by who we don't fi d attractive and/or who can't read lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
We’ve never insisted on face pics with the initial message but understand how some of the popular people do, it just saves time, we do however appreciate peoples concern with sending initial face pics, reciprocation has always been our rule even if they are not our type, seems only fair x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"With a face picture you can see if you fancy them or not. If not, say I'm not interested. If someone doesn't send a face pic then just delete as they didn't read the profile. I'm not sure men understand the amount of messages woman and even couples get a day! They all say the same thing so to make it easy, we can whittle it down by who we don't fi d attractive and/or who can't read lol "
But as a man how are you supposed to know if a profile is genuine if there are no pictures on show at all, yes I do realise that even if there are headless ones the profile might still be fake, why should we send the first face pic after all attraction should be mutual. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"We’ve never insisted on face pics with the initial message but understand how some of the popular people do, it just saves time, we do however appreciate peoples concern with sending initial face pics, reciprocation has always been our rule even if they are not our type, seems only fair x"
I totally agree with you. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
We have face pics on our profile and we appreciate getting a face pic with an initial message.
It's surprising though how many people insist on recieving a face pic, not being sent a friend request and not being sent a wink without a message all stipulated in their profile but then feel it's ok to send a friend request followed by a message without a face pic |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Ive had many scenarios of sending a face pic with my initial message only to get a reply back with theirs. So it sort of works.
If i see that they have read my message and not replied back, i know my look isnt for them. It doesnt really bother me.
By sending that photo attachment, they can see from their inbox before they have even opened the message if a pic has been attached. Chances are therefore increased compared to the dozens of messages thay have that do not contain a pic.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Does anyone meet without seeing a face pic?  how can you ever establish an attraction without . Yes personality and all that but surely to invite someone to partake in the most intimate of all human behaviour you want to
Know what they look like ? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *W1967Man
over a year ago
South Leicestershire |
"But as a man how are you supposed to know if a profile is genuine if there are no pictures on show at all, yes I do realise that even if there are headless ones the profile might still be fake, why should we send the first face pic after all attraction should be mutual."
You use something called intuition. Does there profile seem "right to you"? Whilst I don't show public face pictures the chances of someone you have sent a face picture to using it for ulterior motives are pretty slim in my opinion. I can appreciate attraction is a requirement so I normally include a face pic. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Does anyone meet without seeing a face pic? how can you ever establish an attraction without . Yes personality and all that but surely to invite someone to partake in the most intimate of all human behaviour you want to
Know what they look like ? "
Some do apparently.
Mind you we met a guy for a social on another site whose face picture was so old that it was difficult to recognise him  . We laugh about it now but we'd driven a long way to meet him. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"With a face picture you can see if you fancy them or not. If not, say I'm not interested. If someone doesn't send a face pic then just delete as they didn't read the profile. I'm not sure men understand the amount of messages woman and even couples get a day! They all say the same thing so to make it easy, we can whittle it down by who we don't fi d attractive and/or who can't read lol "
Exactly this! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Why do some people ask for a face pic straight away in their bio otherwise they will just delete messages but don't even have one picture on their profile....."
They don't want to waste time getting to know you only to find out when you do eventually show your face you are not for them. I am not saying there is anything wrong with your face. If you swap face pics early on it saves a lot of potentially wasted time.
Surely its the same for you? Would you want to chat with a woman for a couple of weeks (or longer) then when you do eventually send a face pic they say thanks but no thank you are not my type? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Why do some people ask for a face pic straight away in their bio otherwise they will just delete messages but don't even have one picture on their profile.....
They don't want to waste time getting to know you only to find out when you do eventually show your face you are not for them. I am not saying there is anything wrong with your face. If you swap face pics early on it saves a lot of potentially wasted time.
Surely its the same for you? Would you want to chat with a woman for a couple of weeks (or longer) then when you do eventually send a face pic they say thanks but no thank you are not my type? "
Yes attraction is important but why would you send a face pic straight away to someone who hasn't even got one picture for you to see initially? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"We’ve never insisted on face pics with the initial message but understand how some of the popular people do, it just saves time, we do however appreciate peoples concern with sending initial face pics, reciprocation has always been our rule even if they are not our type, seems only fair x"
we would never reciprocate with our pictures if they've sent one and aren't for us...we're never going to meet them so they don't need them and then people we're never going to interact with again have our face pictures... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"We’ve never insisted on face pics with the initial message but understand how some of the popular people do, it just saves time, we do however appreciate peoples concern with sending initial face pics, reciprocation has always been our rule even if they are not our type, seems only fair x
we would never reciprocate with our pictures if they've sent one and aren't for us...we're never going to meet them so they don't need them and then people we're never going to interact with again have our face pictures..."
Exactly this for me too x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Why do some people ask for a face pic straight away in their bio otherwise they will just delete messages but don't even have one picture on their profile.....
They don't want to waste time getting to know you only to find out when you do eventually show your face you are not for them. I am not saying there is anything wrong with your face. If you swap face pics early on it saves a lot of potentially wasted time.
Surely its the same for you? Would you want to chat with a woman for a couple of weeks (or longer) then when you do eventually send a face pic they say thanks but no thank you are not my type?
Yes attraction is important but why would you send a face pic straight away to someone who hasn't even got one picture for you to see initially?"
If their pictures are in private, you wouldn't know whether they have them as it doesn't show on the profile...or some might send live pictures right then and there |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
if there are no photos on a profile we ignore it simple.
If somebody asks for a face pic we expect them to go first, just the same as if we ask to swap face pics we will send ours first.
If they won't swap face pics via Fab then that is the end of the conversation and the end of any possible meet.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Why do some people ask for a face pic straight away in their bio otherwise they will just delete messages but don't even have one picture on their profile.....
They don't want to waste time getting to know you only to find out when you do eventually show your face you are not for them. I am not saying there is anything wrong with your face. If you swap face pics early on it saves a lot of potentially wasted time.
Surely its the same for you? Would you want to chat with a woman for a couple of weeks (or longer) then when you do eventually send a face pic they say thanks but no thank you are not my type?
Yes attraction is important but why would you send a face pic straight away to someone who hasn't even got one picture for you to see initially?"
Maybe because they would have to make that face pic public and don't want it to be but are happy to immediately exchange them privately? It's their prerogative just as it's yours to avoid those profiles. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
