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By *ottie_84 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
I don’t understand why when you explain to someone YOU will let them know once you know your rota etc you’ll let them know when you’re free but then literally message you 2/3x a day asking when you’re meeting
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t understand why when you explain to someone YOU will let them know once you know your rota etc you’ll let them know when you’re free but then literally message you 2/3x a day asking when you’re meeting
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as they think that. if they pester you.
you will either give up and meet them or they wont let you forget them
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By *ottie_84 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"Yeah, nagging! Espically when you don't even want to meet them!  "
I wouldn’t mind so much meeting them but it is literally gawd knows how many messages a day asking about what’s happening etc |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
Craggy Island |
"I don’t understand why when you explain to someone YOU will let them know once you know your rota etc you’ll let them know when you’re free but then literally message you 2/3x a day asking when you’re meeting
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Impatient fucker |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From a male side, we don’t get the green light very often and probably get excited and over keen. A lesson I’ve had to learn. I now know to let things happen naturally and not push. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When we meeting? 
Lol I’m always happy to meet you  "
We must have our priorities wrong. Fancy letting work and the outside world interfere with the desperate fellas needs lol |
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By *ottie_84 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"When we meeting?
Lol I’m always happy to meet you
We must have our priorities wrong. Fancy letting work and the outside world interfere with the desperate fellas needs lol"
Lmao tell me about it |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
When I get that, I get pissed off and end up blocking them for pestering as it would actually put me off meeting them altogether, even after I did want to initially meet them. There's keeping in touch and borderline stalking. Huge difference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He’s keen give him a break, he may think you are just giving him the runaround, but if he is becoming a nuisance just tell him straight
“Now, you keep messaging me, it’s getting on my nerves, I will meet you, just let me sort stuff out and I will come back to you as soon as I can” |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t understand why when you explain to someone YOU will let them know once you know your rota etc you’ll let them know when you’re free but then literally message you 2/3x a day asking when you’re meeting
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I wish you would let me know when I can get my meat in....how many men write you poems?? |
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By *imjayneCouple
over a year ago
Stafford |
We get the same guys pestering us to meet, we try to be nice to them as we try to treat people like we want to be treated ourselves.
I suppose it’s a sex site, so guys see your profile and assume you want to meet them all. |
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By *ottie_84 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"I don’t understand why when you explain to someone YOU will let them know once you know your rota etc you’ll let them know when you’re free but then literally message you 2/3x a day asking when you’re meeting
I wish you would let me know when I can get my meat in....how many men write you poems??"
Up your poem game & I’ll let you know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t understand why when you explain to someone YOU will let them know once you know your rota etc you’ll let them know when you’re free but then literally message you 2/3x a day asking when you’re meeting
I wish you would let me know when I can get my meat in....how many men write you poems??
Up your poem game & I’ll let you know "
Challenge accepted |
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Yes, I find it annoying too.
I've also found that generally the ones that nag and nag for a meet are the ones that then mess you around if you do agree to a meet...
This has happened a couple of times recently, then followed up by status updates bemoaning how they never get meets!
Fab fail. |
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By *igwilly2kMan
over a year ago
The Land of Kink! |
"Yes, I find it annoying too.
I've also found that generally the ones that nag and nag for a meet are the ones that then mess you around if you do agree to a meet...
This has happened a couple of times recently, then followed up by status updates bemoaning how they never get meets!
Fab fail."
MiniTheMix, i totally agree! If you want to meet up with A genuine Liverpudlian that won't let your down mess your surroundings it water your time send me a message to my inbox! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t understand why when you explain to someone YOU will let them know once you know your rota etc you’ll let them know when you’re free but then literally message you 2/3x a day asking when you’re meeting
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Drives me insane.  |
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"I don’t understand why when you explain to someone YOU will let them know once you know your rota etc you’ll let them know when you’re free but then literally message you 2/3x a day asking when you’re meeting
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Are you sure you want to meet them if they're that needy before you meet ?
God only knows what they'll be like when you've fucked them !! |
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By *ottie_84 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"I don’t understand why when you explain to someone YOU will let them know once you know your rota etc you’ll let them know when you’re free but then literally message you 2/3x a day asking when you’re meeting
Are you sure you want to meet them if they're that needy before you meet ?
God only knows what they'll be like when you've fucked them !!"
That’s what hubby said as well! |
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He sounds the type of person that the minute he puts his dick in you , he will be telling you about the next 10 meets he's planned in his head already
He needs the block button before it's too late  |
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By *ottie_84 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"He sounds the type of person that the minute he puts his dick in you , he will be telling you about the next 10 meets he's planned in his head already
He needs the block button before it's too late "
Already have done |
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"He sounds the type of person that the minute he puts his dick in you , he will be telling you about the next 10 meets he's planned in his head already
He needs the block button before it's too late
Already have done "
Phew. You could of been married to him in 6mths time if he had had his way |
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Some times i think women don't understand men. pretty sure some survey somewhere shows how many times men think about sex daily, hours, minutes.
He just have a irritation way of expressing himself. why not tell him.
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By *ottie_84 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"Some times i think women don't understand men. pretty sure some survey somewhere shows how many times men think about sex daily, hours, minutes.
He just have a irritation way of expressing himself. why not tell him.
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I did repeatedly and he was still carrying on hence why I’ve had to block him  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t understand why when you explain to someone YOU will let them know once you know your rota etc you’ll let them know when you’re free but then literally message you 2/3x a day asking when you’re meeting
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Pushyness like that would put me off them. They come across as desperate. I would probably block them. |
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"He’s keen give him a break, he may think you are just giving him the runaround, but if he is becoming a nuisance just tell him straight
“Now, you keep messaging me, it’s getting on my nerves, I will meet you, just let me sort stuff out and I will come back to you as soon as I can”"
Wise words, well said.
I would suggest that most genuine guys on here looking for females or couples are given the run around especially with some folk on here: the fake profiles, the time wasters, the shy folk, the pic seekers, the you're not my type, the I'm not looking at the moment (but I'm active on a swingers site) etc and other traps/unnecessary obsticles put in their way e.g. are you married or attached, you do not have any verifications...
food for thought.... |
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By *ottie_84 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"He’s keen give him a break, he may think you are just giving him the runaround, but if he is becoming a nuisance just tell him straight
“Now, you keep messaging me, it’s getting on my nerves, I will meet you, just let me sort stuff out and I will come back to you as soon as I can”
Wise words, well said.
I would suggest that most genuine guys on here looking for females or couples are given the run around especially with some folk on here: the fake profiles, the time wasters, the shy folk, the pic seekers, the you're not my type, the I'm not looking at the moment (but I'm active on a swingers site) etc and other traps/unnecessary obsticles put in their way e.g. are you married or attached, you do not have any verifications...
food for thought...."
I told him repeatedly that I would let him know about my shifts (pub manager) as they change weekly and I told him I would let him know on Friday repeatedly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He’s keen give him a break, he may think you are just giving him the runaround, but if he is becoming a nuisance just tell him straight
“Now, you keep messaging me, it’s getting on my nerves, I will meet you, just let me sort stuff out and I will come back to you as soon as I can”
Wise words, well said.
I would suggest that most genuine guys on here looking for females or couples are given the run around especially with some folk on here: the fake profiles, the time wasters, the shy folk, the pic seekers, the you're not my type, the I'm not looking at the moment (but I'm active on a swingers site) etc and other traps/unnecessary obsticles put in their way e.g. are you married or attached, you do not have any verifications...
food for thought....
I told him repeatedly that I would let him know about my shifts (pub manager) as they change weekly and I told him I would let him know on Friday repeatedly "
Nag nag nag lol xx |
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By *ottie_84 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"He’s keen give him a break, he may think you are just giving him the runaround, but if he is becoming a nuisance just tell him straight
“Now, you keep messaging me, it’s getting on my nerves, I will meet you, just let me sort stuff out and I will come back to you as soon as I can”
Wise words, well said.
I would suggest that most genuine guys on here looking for females or couples are given the run around especially with some folk on here: the fake profiles, the time wasters, the shy folk, the pic seekers, the you're not my type, the I'm not looking at the moment (but I'm active on a swingers site) etc and other traps/unnecessary obsticles put in their way e.g. are you married or attached, you do not have any verifications...
food for thought....
I told him repeatedly that I would let him know about my shifts (pub manager) as they change weekly and I told him I would let him know on Friday repeatedly
Nag nag nag lol xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He’s keen give him a break, he may think you are just giving him the runaround, but if he is becoming a nuisance just tell him straight
“Now, you keep messaging me, it’s getting on my nerves, I will meet you, just let me sort stuff out and I will come back to you as soon as I can”
Wise words, well said.
I would suggest that most genuine guys on here looking for females or couples are given the run around especially with some folk on here: the fake profiles, the time wasters, the shy folk, the pic seekers, the you're not my type, the I'm not looking at the moment (but I'm active on a swingers site) etc and other traps/unnecessary obsticles put in their way e.g. are you married or attached, you do not have any verifications...
food for thought....
I told him repeatedly that I would let him know about my shifts (pub manager) as they change weekly and I told him I would let him know on Friday repeatedly
Nag nag nag lol xx
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STUFF THE REST.
meet meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If they come accross needy beforehand then we wouldn't meet. Too higher likelihood of them being a complete phsyco stalker type after the fact."
This.
i usually add a note on the profile and dont open no more messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t understand why when you explain to someone YOU will let them know once you know your rota etc you’ll let them know when you’re free but then literally message you 2/3x a day asking when you’re meeting
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And they are usually the ones who don't turn up! |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
Leeds |
Uhhhhh...that is the worst! You tell someone that you are busy until at least x date and they then keep messaging you, with random ‘I have a free house tomorrow night...’ or ‘I know you said you can’t do Tuesdays but...’
No. No means no. It’s fricking exhausting!
My other favourite is when you say no politely and explain why, then they send you a hundred messages detailing how they actually do fit what you’re looking for, honest.
Desperation is a bit of a turn off. |
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On the flip side of guys nagging women. I have had the opposite experience of why did you not call or text me a few times?
One of the lady was mad at me because I said i'll call her on Sunday, but called on Monday after we met a day or two before.
this has happened to me at least 3-4 times why did you not call or text I thought we had a great time etc.
can't please you lovely birds |
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