We are in swinging since 7 years now but it is only (all most) a year sine we are into UK swingers scene. In this last year sine we have moved into UK, we've meet some fabulous couples but unfortunately we had also some "funny" experiences... One of this experiences on short version:
They (a couple) send us winks .. we replay with a message .. they replay back saying that they love or profile and send also photo attached asking for photos in return.. we answer back sending photos too ..no answer, no comments, they just block us. OK.. until this point everything is OK ..Maybe for they we are a kind of Shreck and Fiona, and maybe they are looking for White Snow and Her Prince... we understand that, they don't like us and we don't have a problem with that. BUT .. after a month or something, we saw this couple at a party into a swingers club. They didn't recognized us.. They took the initiative coming to us. We chat a bit about whatever, and after a while they ask, both of us, to join them for play! We ask them if they are sure, "because with only a few weeks before you blocked us on fabswingers.com" I said. ... "Well, yes.. now I remember you guys, and indeed, we blocked you, but you know what.. is just because your husband isn't my wife's type! But you look astonishing and if you join us then maybe she will accept your husband too, as a fair exchange" said the man looking into his wife eyes, searching for approval. Of course we decline "the offer", they were very upset, and although, since then we have meet into different clubs we just ignored each other.
The question is.. It's happen often or were we more "lucky" then others? |
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By *slandcplCouple
over a year ago
canvey island |
You did the right thing and its the couple that have a problem. We have had similar experiences and have found the best approach is to smile politely and leave them to their own duplicity in the hope that one day they may learn from their mistake. |
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Never happened to us...but i think your reaction was spot on.Sadly since swinging has become more popular it seems to have become more common that some women are pushed into it,and to "take on for the team" |
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By *reyyaMan
over a year ago
North Yorkshire |
You handled it with aplomb. There are far too many people like that on Fab. I had a similar treatment involving a very pretty single lady. Quite a while later, I was ecstatic, you can imagine, when I met her in a club where she was very friendly indeed. She did not recognise me. During our entanglement I could not help smiling as I remembered her snubbing remarks when she refused to meet me.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we had a similar experience with someone from another site and meeting them at a private party... we just out right said when they started talking to us that we didnt want to talk to people who were so impolite that they couldn't even reply saying we weren't their type in the end.. and just got on with having fun... you get some weird ones in the scene but you just get used to it after a while.. especially on the free sites.. free sites breed time wasters |
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