I can never understand peoples profiles that state we don't kiss because that is for us only and yet they are letting you do everything else sexually. I personally think kissing sets the mood and the feel of the other person.
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"I can never understand peoples profiles that state we don't kiss because that is for us only and yet they are letting you do everything else sexually. I personally think kissing sets the mood and the feel of the other person.
What does everyone else think??"
you don't need to understand it. It's a preference same as no anal. Or not swallowing cum.
If it's important for you then you don't meet them. I don't kiss very often. In fact about 4 people in 20 years of swinging. And you know it's only affected me getting a meet twice.
I don't understand people not enjoying sex as a messy occurrence.. But there are plenty of women that dislike the mess of sex... ie cum on them or near them but I don't need to understand as it's their preference.
In fact when I'm playing if a lady tells me she hates cum I just think yay. More for me. 
Kissing seems to be one of the few things people seem to think it's okay to bash or diss the person if they don't like or want it. Yet in reality it is no different to any other sexual preference |
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"I can never understand peoples profiles that state we don't kiss because that is for us only and yet they are letting you do everything else sexually. I personally think kissing sets the mood and the feel of the other person.
What does everyone else think?? you don't need to understand it. It's a preference same as no anal. Or not swallowing cum.
If it's important for you then you don't meet them. I don't kiss very often. In fact about 4 people in 20 years of swinging. And you know it's only affected me getting a meet twice.
I don't understand people not enjoying sex as a messy occurrence.. But there are plenty of women that dislike the mess of sex... ie cum on them or near them but I don't need to understand as it's their preference.
In fact when I'm playing if a lady tells me she hates cum I just think yay. More for me.
Kissing seems to be one of the few things people seem to think it's okay to bash or diss the person if they don't like or want it. Yet in reality it is no different to any other sexual preference "
I’m not sure anyone’s bashing it?
I agree it’s a preference like any other. |
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I met someone once on my old profile. Didn't state on her profile she didn't kiss. Until we got cosy I found out she didn't. Was pretty disappointed as I like to show passion on my kisses. Gets both people really in the mood I find |
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I’m not sure anyone’s bashing it?
I agree it’s a preference like any other. "
Not yet but it happens on every thread. The " they must be cold and clinical " or " no passion " and even some that go as far as to call the person weird.
But the op says he doesn't understand... he doesn't need to. And he wouldn't need help to understand why someone doesn't want to do anal for instance |
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"Kiss me like you mean it or gtfo
Pucker up then
There’s only so long I can hold this puckering!
I’ll be there in about 7 hours ok "
I’ll hold off puckering up just yet then! |
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I’m not sure anyone’s bashing it?
I agree it’s a preference like any other.
Not yet but it happens on every thread. The " they must be cold and clinical " or " no passion " and even some that go as far as to call the person weird.
But the op says he doesn't understand... he doesn't need to. And he wouldn't need help to understand why someone doesn't want to do anal for instance "
Is kissing really comparable to anal? I would think the majority of people enjoy kissing (not all!) not sure that’s really the same. |
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"I can never understand peoples profiles that state we don't kiss because that is for us only and yet they are letting you do everything else sexually. I personally think kissing sets the mood and the feel of the other person.
What does everyone else think??"
It make me laugh out loud as some couples put no kissing, but you can put you cock In my Mrs mouth, then fuck her from arshole to breakfast time..then give her anal sex before you go home...really guys & no kissing hmm I think they need a reality check myself  |
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"I can never understand peoples profiles that state we don't kiss because that is for us only and yet they are letting you do everything else sexually. I personally think kissing sets the mood and the feel of the other person.
What does everyone else think??
It make me laugh out loud as some couples put no kissing, but you can put you cock In my Mrs mouth, then fuck her from arshole to breakfast time..then give her anal sex before you go home...really guys & no kissing hmm I think they need a reality check myself "
Very realistic couple here. Realistic enough to respect the way other people do things and realise we aren't all the same. |
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I’m not sure anyone’s bashing it?
I agree it’s a preference like any other.
Not yet but it happens on every thread. The " they must be cold and clinical " or " no passion " and even some that go as far as to call the person weird.
But the op says he doesn't understand... he doesn't need to. And he wouldn't need help to understand why someone doesn't want to do anal for instance "
Haha you weren’t wrong! ^^
Each to their own. There’s always someone on the internet that will disagree with a persons view.
As my Mam used to say (and occasionally still does) “if you e got nothing nice to say, do t say anything!” So let’s just let them get on with it.
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These threads always go the same way. The vast majority of posts saying "no kissing, no meet" and one or two of us saying "kissing, no meet"  .
I do wonder why people struggle to accept that some of us just don't want to kiss our casual sex partners. |
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Its a preference just like any other. We didn’t used to kiss when we first started out on here but then we discovered we enjoy it. Although id never kiss anyone like i kiss Mrs Cherry  |
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By *uboCouple
over a year ago
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"I can never understand peoples profiles that state we don't kiss because that is for us only and yet they are letting you do everything else sexually. I personally think kissing sets the mood and the feel of the other person.
What does everyone else think?? you don't need to understand it. It's a preference same as no anal. Or not swallowing cum.
If it's important for you then you don't meet them. I don't kiss very often. In fact about 4 people in 20 years of swinging. And you know it's only affected me getting a meet twice.
I don't understand people not enjoying sex as a messy occurrence.. But there are plenty of women that dislike the mess of sex... ie cum on them or near them but I don't need to understand as it's their preference.
In fact when I'm playing if a lady tells me she hates cum I just think yay. More for me.
Kissing seems to be one of the few things people seem to think it's okay to bash or diss the person if they don't like or want it. Yet in reality it is no different to any other sexual preference "
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Those who won't meet if no kissing ? Jog on, Plenty that will. It is all about personal choice. |
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Kissing is quite intimate, I’ve had no kiss meets and although I’m not keen I can understand, sex and fking can be very wham bam but kisses are slow and sensual, I too like to start with them and get the mood going but I can see why some prefer not to, it can involve a lot of feelings whereas to fk doesn’t need to |
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"I can never understand peoples profiles that state we don't kiss because that is for us only and yet they are letting you do everything else sexually. I personally think kissing sets the mood and the feel of the other person.
What does everyone else think??"
Some people don't kiss! More don't do anal and very very few suck cock then kiss after anal  Personal preference isn't it. |
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over a year ago
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Kissing is a big thing for me. I have met couples who don’t kiss and that’s fine. But it’s a mojor turn on to kiss and not just the lips but the boobs, nipples, pussy and ass.
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It's a rule, don't like it then don't get offended, don't cry on a forum, just block and move on. It really isn't hard. You clearly have no understanding of a serious life long relationship and the intricacies of it. Every couple are different, each one will play by their own rules, you are invited as a guest not a partner. |
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It's a personal choice.
Kissing is seen as a intimate thing, as is sex but helps to draw the line between coupling and raw sex ie kissing is for the couple only helps to distinguish the roles and feelings.
Personally I love kissing, it's a major turn on for me and would always respect the couple's wishes.
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"I can never understand peoples profiles that state we don't kiss because that is for us only and yet they are letting you do everything else sexually. I personally think kissing sets the mood and the feel of the other person.
What does everyone else think??"
Without kissing everything else seems so hollow. I'm basorexic. Well, on Fab anyway!  |
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Each to their own but we wouldn’t contemplate a meet where there was no kissing.
It’s that thrill on a meet when someone leans in for that first kiss and kick starts the fun! Sends ripples of pleasure through my body even thinking about it
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"I can never understand peoples profiles that state we don't kiss because that is for us only and yet they are letting you do everything else sexually. I personally think kissing sets the mood and the feel of the other person.
What does everyone else think??"
It's not sex without kissing |
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"I can never understand peoples profiles that state we don't kiss because that is for us only and yet they are letting you do everything else sexually. I personally think kissing sets the mood and the feel of the other person.
What does everyone else think??"
We used to do that. Because kissing is much more personal and important than sex, but It did ruin the vibe sadly, so we gave up on the rule |
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"I can never understand peoples profiles that state we don't kiss because that is for us only and yet they are letting you do everything else sexually. I personally think kissing sets the mood and the feel of the other person.
What does everyone else think??"
I know it's so fucked up isn't it? they will suck my cock, swallow my load, get their holes hammered but STOP "I don't kiss". mostly "straight" men that do this. Now i have stopped meeting anyone unless they kiss but saying that the breath has to be minty fresh and no yellow teeth yuk. |
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"I can never understand peoples profiles that state we don't kiss because that is for us only and yet they are letting you do everything else sexually. I personally think kissing sets the mood and the feel of the other person.
What does everyone else think??
I know it's so fucked up isn't it? they will suck my cock, swallow my load, get their holes hammered but STOP "I don't kiss". mostly "straight" men that do this. Now i have stopped meeting anyone unless they kiss but saying that the breath has to be minty fresh and no yellow teeth yuk."
They aren't straight if they've just done that. |
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"I can never understand peoples profiles that state we don't kiss because that is for us only and yet they are letting you do everything else sexually. I personally think kissing sets the mood and the feel of the other person.
What does everyone else think??
I know it's so fucked up isn't it? they will suck my cock, swallow my load, get their holes hammered but STOP "I don't kiss". mostly "straight" men that do this. Now i have stopped meeting anyone unless they kiss but saying that the breath has to be minty fresh and no yellow teeth yuk."
fucked up and not sorry here. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"I can never understand peoples profiles that state we don't kiss because that is for us only and yet they are letting you do everything else sexually. I personally think kissing sets the mood and the feel of the other person.
What does everyone else think??"
What we think is let everyone choose their own boundaries - it is not for others to question them but to respect them. If you can't do that then move on to another profile. There are plenty to choose from |
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I will NOT play without kissing. If im not to be kissed then I will not play. It sets the mood and relaxes me plus gets my heart rate going. I love that kind of connection |
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"It's a rule, don't like it then don't get offended, don't cry on a forum, just block and move on. It really isn't hard. You clearly have no understanding of a serious life long relationship and the intricacies of it. Every couple are different, each one will play by their own rules, you are invited as a guest not a partner. "
Wise words |
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Me and a girly friend (who's actually commented earlier) were talking about this. For me to have sex with someone I need friendship, I need intimacy, I need kissing, cuddles, long meets and passion.
For her she doesn't want intimacy or kissing.
Just because it's someones preference though doesn't mean it's wrong. I can assure you because I like friendship and to build up a rapport I get messed around way more than my friend does so although it's not for me I can understand why others don't want intimacy and kissing |
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"No kissing.... No meet"
This.
If a couple or woman has a no kissing rule I respect their choice to do that. However, kissing is too important to me. I couldn't meet a couple or woman that has a no kissing rule.
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"I can never understand peoples profiles that state we don't kiss because that is for us only and yet they are letting you do everything else sexually. I personally think kissing sets the mood and the feel of the other person.
What does everyone else think??"
When I see a profile that says I am a good kisser or I love kissing it makes me want to meet them and see just how good they are. There is somebody on Fab who says a lot of times they are good kisser that I would love to meet. you can tell this person obviously loves kissing. |
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"I can never understand peoples profiles that state we don't kiss because that is for us only and yet they are letting you do everything else sexually. I personally think kissing sets the mood and the feel of the other person.
What does everyone else think??
It make me laugh out loud as some couples put no kissing, but you can put you cock In my Mrs mouth, then fuck her from arshole to breakfast time..then give her anal sex before you go home...really guys & no kissing hmm I think they need a reality check myself "
Some couples see kissing as very personal. They want to keep kissing just between themselves. I can understand that. |
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"I can never understand peoples profiles that state we don't kiss because that is for us only and yet they are letting you do everything else sexually. I personally think kissing sets the mood and the feel of the other person.
What does everyone else think?? you don't need to understand it. It's a preference same as no anal. Or not swallowing cum.
If it's important for you then you don't meet them. I don't kiss very often. In fact about 4 people in 20 years of swinging. And you know it's only affected me getting a meet twice.
I don't understand people not enjoying sex as a messy occurrence.. But there are plenty of women that dislike the mess of sex... ie cum on them or near them but I don't need to understand as it's their preference.
In fact when I'm playing if a lady tells me she hates cum I just think yay. More for me.
Kissing seems to be one of the few things people seem to think it's okay to bash or diss the person if they don't like or want it. Yet in reality it is no different to any other sexual preference "
This. Couldn't agree more....i just dont get why people feel the need to "understand" someone else's preferences and then get quite offensive about them. Kissing(on mouth) is a NO on any meet I have and if anyone doesn't like that, then cool, we just won't meet....its no biggy. We all are entitled to our own preferences and those that feel the need to verbally "bash" anyone for having different ones from them says a lot more about that person than the people they "don't understand". |
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I know an escort. She lives near me and we have been friends for years. She does the girlfriend experience. A potential client messages her looking to book her. He said in his email he wouldn't be kissing her. As she loves kissing she told him she didn't want to meet him. She turned him and his money down. |
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