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By *aling69 OP Man
over a year ago
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How difficult is it to arrange a threesome (MMF, FFM) with like minded people who you can trust. May be others find it easy especially if you're a couple, but for a guy trying to arrange one really sucks. I would go on to say it's nearly impossible. It's on my bucket list so I won't give up!!!
Just wondering are others finding it difficult on here to arrange one or if there's another site I could try? |
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I would say the hardest part is finding a female and thus where to put your focus. If you find the above then you'll have a queue a mile long of candidates looking to be the other male component in your MMF. |
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"How difficult is it to arrange a threesome (MMF, FFM) with like minded people who you can trust. May be others find it easy especially if you're a couple, but for a guy trying to arrange one really sucks. I would go on to say it's nearly impossible. It's on my bucket list so I won't give up!!!
Just wondering are others finding it difficult on here to arrange one or if there's another site I could try? "
I doesn’t matter what sex you are it’s damn well hard !!
I’m always looking for a guy who’s my type to come and play in a MFM
Almost impossible |
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over a year ago
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Part of the problem is there are normally two people (the couple) looking for a third, and what each of them are looking for might be completely different from the other.
But when it does happen .... bloody hell it is fun!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single woman it's really difficult finding 2 men for a MMF. Not all men are happy to share and it's not something I would want to do with 2 random strangers.
MFF have been easier for me as I've been fortunate enough to find some great couples. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hello, we're a couple and we look exclusively for males. So the first thing we look for is someone who is willing to chat, not want an instant meet and is willing to not rush things. When meeting a third person there needs to feel some level of trust. We also like to socialise before fun and this puts most guys off. A coffee a day or week before makes us feel better about arranging a proper meet. Someone who is willing to chat and have banter is going to get further then someone who asks for pics constantly too. Just be yourselves and not desperate and if you want pics... Buy a magazine. And remember cpls want you to join them for extra fun. Not because their relationship is bad so don't private msg the lady when group chats are open, another deal breaker. Hope this helps. |
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"We enjoy the pleasure of mmf, I love it Ms"
I was lucky enough to experience MMF recently at a club. Eye contact , chat with the couple in the hot tub led to a fantastic experience in a play room. |
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MFM is fairly easy, i've been lucky that most of my regular meets were up for 3sums. Some are up for meeting me and my partner now but we aren't meeting like that yet.
Also been lucky a few times that random guys who had never met me or each other were happy to join me for 3sum fun at short notice.
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By *aling69 OP Man
over a year ago
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Some really interesting comments. I totally agree with the comment made by hornycoupl3. Chatting is key and building some trust is essential. May be I will try and contact some couples but as I'm fairly new here, I do not have verifications which is another problem with this site, let's not go there. But yes, good advice, thanks and I love coffee!!
Ruby wild, interesting that you're finding it hard to meet 2 males that you can trust, seems like both male and female find it difficult to meet the right people for a threesome. How frustrating is that, people are out there wanting MMF or FFM, but we do not know you!!
Oh, I dream of a 3sum.......
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a single woman it's really difficult finding 2 men for a MMF. Not all men are happy to share and it's not something I would want to do with 2 random strangers.
MFF have been easier for me as I've been fortunate enough to find some great couples."
Exactly what I’ve found. Very few men are prepared to share. They view it as a ‘favour’. |
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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
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"As a single woman it's really difficult finding 2 men for a MMF. Not all men are happy to share and it's not something I would want to do with 2 random strangers.
MFF have been easier for me as I've been fortunate enough to find some great couples.
Exactly what I’ve found. Very few men are prepared to share. They view it as a ‘favour’."
Totally agree. Happy to meet one on one and they're happy to meet couples on their own but won't have another single male join us  |
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"How difficult is it to arrange a threesome (MMF, FFM) with like minded people who you can trust. May be others find it easy especially if you're a couple, but for a guy trying to arrange one really sucks. I would go on to say it's nearly impossible. It's on my bucket list so I won't give up!!!
Just wondering are others finding it difficult on here to arrange one or if there's another site I could try? "
Easiet way I find to arrange a ffm is to put the 2 females in a room, leave them to chat and if it happens it happens I find it cannot be forced |
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By *aling69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"As a single woman it's really difficult finding 2 men for a MMF. Not all men are happy to share and it's not something I would want to do with 2 random strangers.
MFF have been easier for me as I've been fortunate enough to find some great couples.
Exactly what I’ve found. Very few men are prepared to share. They view it as a ‘favour’.
Totally agree. Happy to meet one on one and they're happy to meet couples on their own but won't have another single male join us "
I'm really struggling to believe that, how stupid are they. What a waste, the thought of sharing a girl with a bloke is absolutely great. No problems at all from my perspective. |
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By *aling69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
So another option is meet a woman first who wants to expand to MMF, easy peasy.... well not so easy as I'm sure women receive too may massages on here from guys so there's another uphill struggle.
Interesting enough, no one on this thread has mentioned another site to use. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It must be hard for singles but maybe a Club offers the best way to be in a situation where oppertunity knocks? We've had FFM threesomes before and loved it. Not had a MMF yet but hopefully that will come soon, love the thought of a Spit-Roast  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"wise words, I suppose a club is also a safe place that people feel more comfortable in that environment "
For us it's the case of arranging to meet a guy outside a club and for whatever reason it doesn't work out. Wasted evening. If you either arrange for it to happen at a club or it happens naturally at a club then cool..if not then both parties may still potentially find what they want in the club. Lexi  |
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"We enjoy the pleasure of mmf, I love it Ms
I was lucky enough to experience MMF recently at a club. Eye contact , chat with the couple in the hot tub led to a fantastic experience in a play room. "
it wouldn’t have happened to be quest would it. We are regulars there and we always look for a single guy to join us xxx |
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By *aling69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"It must be hard for singles but maybe a Club offers the best way to be in a situation where oppertunity knocks? We've had FFM threesomes before and loved it. Not had a MMF yet but hopefully that will come soon, love the thought of a Spit-Roast "
It's really hard for singles to arrange a 3some, especially single men but I'm surprised to hear women also struggle to arrange it which is a surprise for me, seems like there's too many time wasters on this site which is a shame for us reliable folk. Spit-Roast is a major horny turn on for me, it's on my bucket list but seems impossible to ever experience it.... |
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By *aling69 OP Man
over a year ago
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"wise words, I suppose a club is also a safe place that people feel more comfortable in that environment
For us it's the case of arranging to meet a guy outside a club and for whatever reason it doesn't work out. Wasted evening. If you either arrange for it to happen at a club or it happens naturally at a club then cool..if not then both parties may still potentially find what they want in the club. Lexi "
Fair comment |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It must be hard for singles but maybe a Club offers the best way to be in a situation where oppertunity knocks? We've had FFM threesomes before and loved it. Not had a MMF yet but hopefully that will come soon, love the thought of a Spit-Roast
It's really hard for singles to arrange a 3some, especially single men but I'm surprised to hear women also struggle to arrange it which is a surprise for me, seems like there's too many time wasters on this site which is a shame for us reliable folk. Spit-Roast is a major horny turn on for me, it's on my bucket list but seems impossible to ever experience it.... "
Do You go to Clubs? |
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By *aling69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"It must be hard for singles but maybe a Club offers the best way to be in a situation where oppertunity knocks? We've had FFM threesomes before and loved it. Not had a MMF yet but hopefully that will come soon, love the thought of a Spit-Roast
It's really hard for singles to arrange a 3some, especially single men but I'm surprised to hear women also struggle to arrange it which is a surprise for me, seems like there's too many time wasters on this site which is a shame for us reliable folk. Spit-Roast is a major horny turn on for me, it's on my bucket list but seems impossible to ever experience it....
Do You go to Clubs? "
Have not so far, the thought of a big crowd and going on my own is intimidating for me, I suppose I need to get over it!
I would prefer to build up some trust here with a female then go look for another male or female or meet a lovely couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ive found most of my threesomes have been with two or more male mates. They seem more comfortable with guys they already know
Also much easier at clubs if mates attend or they get chatting to another guy first
I did find arranging meets with single blokes such an issue due to timewasters and dreamers, I now just meet at clubs in the first instance |
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By *aling69 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Ive found most of my threesomes have been with two or more male mates. They seem more comfortable with guys they already know
Also much easier at clubs if mates attend or they get chatting to another guy first
I did find arranging meets with single blokes such an issue due to timewasters and dreamers, I now just meet at clubs in the first instance "
That's sound advice, thanks.
How about this for an idea, we build up a group of trustworthy females and males who are into threesomes either MMF, FFM or whatever, then you know that they will turn up otherwise we expel them from the group.
Thinking about it, that's called a club I suppose!!
Thoughts? |
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By *m3232Man
over a year ago
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"How difficult is it to arrange a threesome (MMF, FFM) with like minded people who you can trust. May be others find it easy especially if you're a couple, but for a guy trying to arrange one really sucks. I would go on to say it's nearly impossible. It's on my bucket list so I won't give up!!!
Just wondering are others finding it difficult on here to arrange one or if there's another site I could try?
I doesn’t matter what sex you are it’s damn well hard !!
I’m always looking for a guy who’s my type to come and play in a MFM
Almost impossible "
Would never of thought it would be hard for you as your pictures are stunning |
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By *aling69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"How difficult is it to arrange a threesome (MMF, FFM) with like minded people who you can trust. May be others find it easy especially if you're a couple, but for a guy trying to arrange one really sucks. I would go on to say it's nearly impossible. It's on my bucket list so I won't give up!!!
Just wondering are others finding it difficult on here to arrange one or if there's another site I could try?
I doesn’t matter what sex you are it’s damn well hard !!
I’m always looking for a guy who’s my type to come and play in a MFM
Almost impossible
Would never of thought it would be hard for you as your pictures are stunning "
Fair comment, I do need to work on that, thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ive found most of my threesomes have been with two or more male mates. They seem more comfortable with guys they already know
Also much easier at clubs if mates attend or they get chatting to another guy first
I did find arranging meets with single blokes such an issue due to timewasters and dreamers, I now just meet at clubs in the first instance "
Wow, I'd expect the Fellas queuing up for a Girl like You?? Just goes to show everyone has a struggle in certain situations...
PS, Love Your pics & if You ever want to try a FFM just let us know  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a single woman it's really difficult finding 2 men for a MMF. Not all men are happy to share and it's not something I would want to do with 2 random strangers.
MFF have been easier for me as I've been fortunate enough to find some great couples."
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By *aling69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Ive found most of my threesomes have been with two or more male mates. They seem more comfortable with guys they already know
Also much easier at clubs if mates attend or they get chatting to another guy first
I did find arranging meets with single blokes such an issue due to timewasters and dreamers, I now just meet at clubs in the first instance
Wow, I'd expect the Fellas queuing up for a Girl like You?? Just goes to show everyone has a struggle in certain situations...
PS, Love Your pics & if You ever want to try a FFM just let us know "
Both of you are stunning, lucky man whoever gets you both |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I arranged a blindfolded threesome for the missus as a surprise when she came back from a trip abroad.
I messaged several guys and it got whittled down to one by judging their responses and them backing out.
I'd set out the rules and what we going to do and he was brilliant,it was a great night and certainly one to remember. |
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"I arranged a blindfolded threesome for the missus as a surprise when she came back from a trip abroad.
I messaged several guys and it got whittled down to one by judging their responses and them backing out.
I'd set out the rules and what we going to do and he was brilliant,it was a great night and certainly one to remember."
This sounds great fun. I’m doing something similar with some friends next week, but it’s him who’s getting blindfolded and tied to a chair while he listens to me and her play....and tease him  |
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By *aling69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"I arranged a blindfolded threesome for the missus as a surprise when she came back from a trip abroad.
I messaged several guys and it got whittled down to one by judging their responses and them backing out.
I'd set out the rules and what we going to do and he was brilliant,it was a great night and certainly one to remember."
Excellent and a great idea, if you ever decide to surprise her again, I'm here |
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I've finely had one recently after 18 months of trying...
It was a great experience and worth the wait, but generally I've struggled on here to find genuine couples who a)actually are a couple not just a male, and b) don't expect you to meet at the drop of a hat.
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By *aling69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"I've finely had one recently after 18 months of trying...
It was a great experience and worth the wait, but generally I've struggled on here to find genuine couples who a)actually are a couple not just a male, and b) don't expect you to meet at the drop of a hat.
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There's hope for me yet!! What did you like most about the experience?
Did you try and find 1 guy first then let him find another guy?
I agree with you as there's a lot of fake couples on here which is a shame for genuine, lovely and friendly couples on here. |
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"I've finely had one recently after 18 months of trying...
It was a great experience and worth the wait, but generally I've struggled on here to find genuine couples who a)actually are a couple not just a male, and b) don't expect you to meet at the drop of a hat.
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Recently we were in a hotel and put the word out we were looking for another couple to join us .
Three couples responded ,all three gradually, over messages ,became a guy on their own because the missus either was at a party ,was ill and or had suddenly gone on holiday ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I often play fantasy mmf in my head, putting together horny combos of the men I know. Getting everyone together though and up for it is a different thing entirely.
I have a couple of combos in mind at the moment that may, just possibly happen. |
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"I've been on here a while and I've only had the pleasure a couple of times. Each time it was me and a guy I was meeting up regularly with then someone one of us knew. "
Ditto! Dont know bt u but i just felt comfier knowing both guys. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As has been said clubs are easier and there seems less restrictions on type age etc as your face to face not through messaging. When on my own I've done a few mfm connections. As has been said though no competition helps and everyone helping each person to be fully satisfied is a game changer.  |
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By *aling69 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I often play fantasy mmf in my head, putting together horny combos of the men I know. Getting everyone together though and up for it is a different thing entirely.
I have a couple of combos in mind at the moment that may, just possibly happen."
Well, I really hope it's a success for you, lucky guys whoever they may be |
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By *aling69 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Have had a few mmf in my time here on fab
Maybe one mff meets
Think it might be easier to win the lotto for another mff "
So how easy was it to arrange your MMF meets? Did you know them?
Defo agree with winning the lotto to arrange a mff!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I found arranging an MMF quite easy. The same with an FFM.... I just joined couples. I will be looking to arrange an FFM with my significant other in a few months and I have a feeling that will be far more difficult to achieve  |
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By *aling69 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I found arranging an MMF quite easy. The same with an FFM.... I just joined couples. I will be looking to arrange an FFM with my significant other in a few months and I have a feeling that will be far more difficult to achieve "
Does your other half know you want to arrange FFM?
When you arranged MMF, did you know both the males? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I didnt already have a regular F play mate then we would not have experianced any mff.
Plenty of M will join me and my guy but F's are near impossible. I think we are just going to go to VA or parties x |
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By *aling69 OP Man
over a year ago
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"If I didnt already have a regular F play mate then we would not have experianced any mff.
Plenty of M will join me and my guy but F's are near impossible. I think we are just going to go to VA or parties x "
I'm sure plenty of M will join you both, looking at your pics I can see why, fab pics.
Interesting comment about finding Fs |
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By *aling69 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Almost impossible.
Normally find one of the other 2 backs out last minute "
I really do not understand why people pull out at the last minute, if you say you want to meet, meet, simples....
I really thought it would be easy to arrange a MMF or FFM as lots of Fs would be keen to do it, I naturally thought Ms would be queuing up.
How wrong I am, my quest goes on, I will not give up... there must be a F out there somewhere who is keen. |
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Part of the problem is if you're a guy, nobody trusts a guy to arrange a meet on behalf of another female (let alone 2) coz quite often there is no other woman involved and that's a lie to get men to come round for sex with a single guy on his own. Another problem is if you're only interested in vanilla sex.
With being female myself i got to have one on one sex with a lot of guys, i also prefer kinky guys or open minded men. So the type of guys i go for are more open to 3sums. They're open to a lot more fun stuff but it's easy to find them for 3sums. |
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By *aling69 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Part of the problem is if you're a guy, nobody trusts a guy to arrange a meet on behalf of another female (let alone 2) coz quite often there is no other woman involved and that's a lie to get men to come round for sex with a single guy on his own. Another problem is if you're only interested in vanilla sex.
With being female myself i got to have one on one sex with a lot of guys, i also prefer kinky guys or open minded men. So the type of guys i go for are more open to 3sums. They're open to a lot more fun stuff but it's easy to find them for 3sums."
Good point about Ms lying, we are not all like that believe me.
I will certainly update my profile about not just wanting vanilla sex so hopefully that might attract more Fs for MMF or FFMs but your points are so true and yes, it does seem a lot easier for Fs to have lots of sex with Ms |
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"Part of the problem is if you're a guy, nobody trusts a guy to arrange a meet on behalf of another female (let alone 2) coz quite often there is no other woman involved and that's a lie to get men to come round for sex with a single guy on his own. Another problem is if you're only interested in vanilla sex.
With being female myself i got to have one on one sex with a lot of guys, i also prefer kinky guys or open minded men. So the type of guys i go for are more open to 3sums. They're open to a lot more fun stuff but it's easy to find them for 3sums.
Good point about Ms lying, we are not all like that believe me.
I will certainly update my profile about not just wanting vanilla sex so hopefully that might attract more Fs for MMF or FFMs but your points are so true and yes, it does seem a lot easier for Fs to have lots of sex with Ms "
Yeah i know not all men are like this it is just that some are and so all men are looked on with cynicism now because of that.
You don't have to change your profile but i'd say keep your eyes peeled for more kinky and open minded individuals on the site.
Most guys fantasy tends to be for a MFF also, so that's in high demand. I've had one while not even looking for one (and decided they aren't my thing) but it was at a club and was easy to manage but again because i went to the club as a single female and not as a guy. |
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"Hello, we're a couple and we look exclusively for males. So the first thing we look for is someone who is willing to chat, not want an instant meet and is willing to not rush things. When meeting a third person there needs to feel some level of trust. We also like to socialise before fun and this puts most guys off. A coffee a day or week before makes us feel better about arranging a proper meet. Someone who is willing to chat and have banter is going to get further then someone who asks for pics constantly too. Just be yourselves and not desperate and if you want pics... Buy a magazine. And remember cpls want you to join them for extra fun. Not because their relationship is bad so don't private msg the lady when group chats are open, another deal breaker. Hope this helps. "
Ah very well said and as a couple too who also enjoy only males, we totally agree. Mutual respect is very important to us and we think it’s hard for the guy coming into the situation - he’s entering into the couples space. Socials are important and chat. We take people to kik to chat and we soon find out if they are right for us: some just want pictures and yes a magazine probably would be better for them; others you just click with and the chat flows. When it’s easy to talk it feels like all three people have made a good sound foundation to take things to the bedroom and have some fun. |
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By *aling69 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Part of the problem is if you're a guy, nobody trusts a guy to arrange a meet on behalf of another female (let alone 2) coz quite often there is no other woman involved and that's a lie to get men to come round for sex with a single guy on his own. Another problem is if you're only interested in vanilla sex.
With being female myself i got to have one on one sex with a lot of guys, i also prefer kinky guys or open minded men. So the type of guys i go for are more open to 3sums. They're open to a lot more fun stuff but it's easy to find them for 3sums.
Good point about Ms lying, we are not all like that believe me.
I will certainly update my profile about not just wanting vanilla sex so hopefully that might attract more Fs for MMF or FFMs but your points are so true and yes, it does seem a lot easier for Fs to have lots of sex with Ms
Yeah i know not all men are like this it is just that some are and so all men are looked on with cynicism now because of that.
You don't have to change your profile but i'd say keep your eyes peeled for more kinky and open minded individuals on the site.
Most guys fantasy tends to be for a MFF also, so that's in high demand. I've had one while not even looking for one (and decided they aren't my thing) but it was at a club and was easy to manage but again because i went to the club as a single female and not as a guy."
We have mostly been tarnished by stupid guys, big shame but what to do for the honest guys amongst us here. Good advice about MFF and looking for more kinky folk on here, thanks, I'm looking as we speak!! |
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"Part of the problem is if you're a guy, nobody trusts a guy to arrange a meet on behalf of another female (let alone 2) coz quite often there is no other woman involved and that's a lie to get men to come round for sex with a single guy on his own. Another problem is if you're only interested in vanilla sex.
With being female myself i got to have one on one sex with a lot of guys, i also prefer kinky guys or open minded men. So the type of guys i go for are more open to 3sums. They're open to a lot more fun stuff but it's easy to find them for 3sums.
Good point about Ms lying, we are not all like that believe me.
I will certainly update my profile about not just wanting vanilla sex so hopefully that might attract more Fs for MMF or FFMs but your points are so true and yes, it does seem a lot easier for Fs to have lots of sex with Ms
Yeah i know not all men are like this it is just that some are and so all men are looked on with cynicism now because of that.
You don't have to change your profile but i'd say keep your eyes peeled for more kinky and open minded individuals on the site.
Most guys fantasy tends to be for a MFF also, so that's in high demand. I've had one while not even looking for one (and decided they aren't my thing) but it was at a club and was easy to manage but again because i went to the club as a single female and not as a guy.
We have mostly been tarnished by stupid guys, big shame but what to do for the honest guys amongst us here. Good advice about MFF and looking for more kinky folk on here, thanks, I'm looking as we speak!! "
Good luck, i think you'll find them eventually. |
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"I found arranging an MMF quite easy. The same with an FFM.... I just joined couples. I will be looking to arrange an FFM with my significant other in a few months and I have a feeling that will be far more difficult to achieve
Does your other half know you want to arrange FFM?
When you arranged MMF, did you know both the males? "
Yes. It's something he would love. I'm open to helping him with this. I do like females too, so it's a win-win
I did. One was my fwb at the time and the other was a mutual friend |
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We've had the same issues, after a year we still ain't met another guy. Lots of guys intersted, but they have there own agender on the 3sum, which doesn't match ours. We're gonna try and visit a club and take it from there. |
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"We've had the same issues, after a year we still ain't met another guy. Lots of guys intersted, but they have there own agender on the 3sum, which doesn't match ours. We're gonna try and visit a club and take it from there. "
You say we but your profile says male and all your pics are male only.......that may well be your problem. |
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Well I found it almost impossible at first but after visiting a few clubs the couples meets started to happen.
I don’t mind the other man being in close contact. If he’s straight then I leave them alone. However, at the risk of hijacking the thread, I will say women, secretly like to watch a little bit of MM action in person.
After all my meets, I can quickly count on two fingers the amount of times I’ve had to cancel a session due to reasons beyond my control. Reliability and punctuality and the name of the game |
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By *aling69 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Difficult enough getting 1 guy to turn up half the time on here, never mind 2!  "
Again, I'm preplexed about this. If a girl wanted to meet me, I would defo turn up, what's wrong with guys on here!! |
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It’s the easiest thing in the world... get to clubs, do them!
One word of caution, I think it’s a far easier act for those bi, pan etc... reading a lot of the above sounds a lot like guys uneasy with another cock in the room to be honest. |
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By *aling69 OP Man
over a year ago
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"It’s the easiest thing in the world... get to clubs, do them!
One word of caution, I think it’s a far easier act for those bi, pan etc... reading a lot of the above sounds a lot like guys uneasy with another cock in the room to be honest."
Good comment, guys need to relax and be a bit more open. Seems like a lot of guys want it but when it comes down to it, they shy away. May be go back to arranging FFM which is easy, not!!! |
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over a year ago
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"Easy peasy to arrange mmf. I've not tried to arrange the other but I'm guessing it would be more difficult.
Do you know the men when you are arranging a session? "
I always go with someone I know for one, mainly because it would be a bit dodgy meeting two complete strangers at once, and it's usually quite easy to find another. |
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"It’s the easiest thing in the world... get to clubs, do them!
One word of caution, I think it’s a far easier act for those bi, pan etc... reading a lot of the above sounds a lot like guys uneasy with another cock in the room to be honest.
Good comment, guys need to relax and be a bit more open. Seems like a lot of guys want it but when it comes down to it, they shy away. May be go back to arranging FFM which is easy, not!!!"
I’d argue FFM or FFT is pretty easy too, like any act it all comes down to a bit of confidence, charisma and just being relaxed... I see countless couples/singles doing it every which way week after week. They all share the above common traits and it’s just not an issue.
The equation isn’t hard, 3 people in a sex club all wanting it... it just needs someone to say let’s do it and the others agree... simple, yet for some they build a huge barrier with nerves, fear or whatever.
There’s no fluke about those who have done it before being able to repeat the act on a regular basis. |
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"How difficult is it to arrange a threesome (MMF, FFM) with like minded people who you can trust. May be others find it easy especially if you're a couple, but for a guy trying to arrange one really sucks. I would go on to say it's nearly impossible. It's on my bucket list so I won't give up!!!
Just wondering are others finding it difficult on here to arrange one or if there's another site I could try? "
MFM - easy.
FFM - erm... We’re beginning to think that people with FFM photos on their profile are amazing with photoshop or we both look like we should under a bridge  |
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By *aling69 OP Man
over a year ago
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"It’s the easiest thing in the world... get to clubs, do them!
One word of caution, I think it’s a far easier act for those bi, pan etc... reading a lot of the above sounds a lot like guys uneasy with another cock in the room to be honest.
Good comment, guys need to relax and be a bit more open. Seems like a lot of guys want it but when it comes down to it, they shy away. May be go back to arranging FFM which is easy, not!!!
I’d argue FFM or FFT is pretty easy too, like any act it all comes down to a bit of confidence, charisma and just being relaxed... I see countless couples/singles doing it every which way week after week. They all share the above common traits and it’s just not an issue.
The equation isn’t hard, 3 people in a sex club all wanting it... it just needs someone to say let’s do it and the others agree... simple, yet for some they build a huge barrier with nerves, fear or whatever.
There’s no fluke about those who have done it before being able to repeat the act on a regular basis."
Seems like a club is the way to go which I was trying to avoid as I've never been to one, don't really know what to expect so a bit on the dark here. |
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"It’s the easiest thing in the world... get to clubs, do them!
One word of caution, I think it’s a far easier act for those bi, pan etc... reading a lot of the above sounds a lot like guys uneasy with another cock in the room to be honest.
Good comment, guys need to relax and be a bit more open. Seems like a lot of guys want it but when it comes down to it, they shy away. May be go back to arranging FFM which is easy, not!!!
I’d argue FFM or FFT is pretty easy too, like any act it all comes down to a bit of confidence, charisma and just being relaxed... I see countless couples/singles doing it every which way week after week. They all share the above common traits and it’s just not an issue.
The equation isn’t hard, 3 people in a sex club all wanting it... it just needs someone to say let’s do it and the others agree... simple, yet for some they build a huge barrier with nerves, fear or whatever.
There’s no fluke about those who have done it before being able to repeat the act on a regular basis.
Seems like a club is the way to go which I was trying to avoid as I've never been to one, don't really know what to expect so a bit on the dark here. "
Expect a threesome!
Come on man, if I can do it in a dress you can rock this, right???
Confidence, confidence, charisma and cool... #win
The secret of fab has always been to take the game offline... go out, mingle, get known, get to know people... it’s so easy. X |
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By *aling69 OP Man
over a year ago
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"It’s the easiest thing in the world... get to clubs, do them!
One word of caution, I think it’s a far easier act for those bi, pan etc... reading a lot of the above sounds a lot like guys uneasy with another cock in the room to be honest.
Good comment, guys need to relax and be a bit more open. Seems like a lot of guys want it but when it comes down to it, they shy away. May be go back to arranging FFM which is easy, not!!!
I’d argue FFM or FFT is pretty easy too, like any act it all comes down to a bit of confidence, charisma and just being relaxed... I see countless couples/singles doing it every which way week after week. They all share the above common traits and it’s just not an issue.
The equation isn’t hard, 3 people in a sex club all wanting it... it just needs someone to say let’s do it and the others agree... simple, yet for some they build a huge barrier with nerves, fear or whatever.
There’s no fluke about those who have done it before being able to repeat the act on a regular basis.
Seems like a club is the way to go which I was trying to avoid as I've never been to one, don't really know what to expect so a bit on the dark here.
Expect a threesome!
Come on man, if I can do it in a dress you can rock this, right???
Confidence, confidence, charisma and cool... #win
The secret of fab has always been to take the game offline... go out, mingle, get known, get to know people... it’s so easy. X"
This gives me loads of hope, well said and thanks for the confidence boost. You're a very nice person. |
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"By fluke or chance threesomes will happen, chasing for it will only frustrate you further x"
I think you hit on a lot of people’s issue... for those of us who have been on fab for eons we slowly but surely are all seeming to adopt a ‘clubs only’ rule for unknowns. There’s no doubt fab has a large number of fantasists, fakers or indeed people who just can’t summon the nerves on ‘game day’. Clubs filter them all out and what you’re left with is a collection of people who you meet safe in the knowledge that they are for real, confident and sincere. |
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By *aling69 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Really hard. Organise 4 guys and you'd be lucky if 1 turned up."
Interesting comment.
Somewhere above in the comments someone said some guys do not feel comfortable with another cock in the same room so may be bi-males are more reliable to turn up on the day as long as you don't mind if they play with each other as well. I'm sure a lot of women (and men) would also find this a massive turn on as long as the woman is the centre of attention. |
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By *aling69 OP Man
over a year ago
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"By fluke or chance threesomes will happen, chasing for it will only frustrate you further x"
It must be easier for a couple to arrange one, how do you normally find the 3rd person? What do you look for when you chat to them? |
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"By fluke or chance threesomes will happen, chasing for it will only frustrate you further x
It must be easier for a couple to arrange one, how do you normally find the 3rd person? What do you look for when you chat to them?"
An ability to articulate, arrange a meet with the minimum of fuss and realise our play is based on equal way dynamics |
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I find it incredibly hsrd to arrange a man play. There's availability, hotel thst we can all go to at the same time, there's also trust. I have enough trouble with finding one man whose right never mind two lol. Its been my fantasy 7 yrs and im still no closer to experiencing MFM play x |
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"I find it incredibly hsrd to arrange a man play. There's availability, hotel thst we can all go to at the same time, there's also trust. I have enough trouble with finding one man whose right never mind two lol. Its been my fantasy 7 yrs and im still no closer to experiencing MFM play x"
Never give up |
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By *aling69 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I find it incredibly hsrd to arrange a man play. There's availability, hotel thst we can all go to at the same time, there's also trust. I have enough trouble with finding one man whose right never mind two lol. Its been my fantasy 7 yrs and im still no closer to experiencing MFM play x"
7 years, oh my god. Are you ever in London? |
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By *aling69 OP Man
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"By fluke or chance threesomes will happen, chasing for it will only frustrate you further x
It must be easier for a couple to arrange one, how do you normally find the 3rd person? What do you look for when you chat to them?
An ability to articulate, arrange a meet with the minimum of fuss and realise our play is based on equal way dynamics "
Wise words, would love to meet you both |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’ve had a couple of threesums
A person who I met off of here set it all up
I spoke to the people beforehand so I was comfortable but it was their friends |
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"I find it incredibly hsrd to arrange a man play. There's availability, hotel thst we can all go to at the same time, there's also trust. I have enough trouble with finding one man whose right never mind two lol. Its been my fantasy 7 yrs and im still no closer to experiencing MFM play x
Never give up "
I have given up, its not a realistic wish. It's too hard to find x |
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"I find it incredibly hsrd to arrange a man play. There's availability, hotel thst we can all go to at the same time, there's also trust. I have enough trouble with finding one man whose right never mind two lol. Its been my fantasy 7 yrs and im still no closer to experiencing MFM play x
7 years, oh my god. Are you ever in London? "
No sorry, not been in yrs  |
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"I often play fantasy mmf in my head, putting together horny combos of the men I know. Getting everyone together though and up for it is a different thing entirely.
I have a couple of combos in mind at the moment that may, just possibly happen.
Well, I really hope it's a success for you, lucky guys whoever they may be"
Hoorah! Had a great time with two repeat meets last night. So much hotter knowing them both, knowing how they play, they are experienced so weren’t phased about other cocks in the room and they are both generous. I felt a very lucky girl.
Got even hotter when a sexy lady and another hot guy joined us, initially to watch, then the lights went up... |
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If you know people it can be easy, though many things are fairly tough for you single guys, due to competition etc.
Get to know other decent people,without the pressure, potentially having benefits for each other.
A lot of people find reliability for singles and couples for gang bangs, parties etc to be low - hence why it helps to know people you are meeting.
It's all about the people. Improve your skills at choosing others.
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By *aling69 OP Man
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"If you know people it can be easy, though many things are fairly tough for you single guys, due to competition etc.
Get to know other decent people,without the pressure, potentially having benefits for each other.
A lot of people find reliability for singles and couples for gang bangs, parties etc to be low - hence why it helps to know people you are meeting.
It's all about the people. Improve your skills at choosing others.
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Good advice especially about proving to be reliable. It's definitely an uphill struggle for men on their own on this site given people's past experiences.
Mutual benefits is a very good point, that's defo something to explore and be aware of. As you say you need to get to know people first, however, more than likely if you try and make contact with them out of the blue, they rarely reply (this could also be down to fake profiles). |
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