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like said above, this site is used by many different people for many different reason there are couples who just like to be WATCHED believe it or not and not just full of watchers.
we all have different standards anyway so some will only meet those who have met in person some will do by phone or cam |
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over a year ago
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cam verifications are good if your a new couple or a single female, just to let others know there is a woman there and you will get more meets being cam verified when people know your not just a guy |
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over a year ago
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"Totaly and utterly agree with you, phone/cam verification isn't worth a cent! And this is fabSWINGERS not fabvoyiers or fabphonesex"
...to you!
I'm sure Admin will welcome your comments re how they allow voyeurs etc to use THEIR site!  |
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over a year ago
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"cam verifications are good if your a new couple or a single female, just to let others know there is a woman there and you will get more meets being cam verified when people know your not just a guy "
I've got to agree with that one.
We had a meet within a couple of days of joining fab with an unverified fella. We were unable to verify each other because of the rules so even though me and hubby aren't into camming we went on cam and got verified that way. |
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As we are an offending party herethought we would give our two pence worth.
For us a verification means some one has seen these people so they not just a single guy. So when looking for a meet it reduces the chances of being drawn in by someone who is just here for fantasy. It does not reduce the chance of being drawn in by people who just cam but its about helping the odds not mqaking it certain.
A cam verification was useful for us as when we where looking for meets we tended to go to clubs and so did not ask for swinging calling cards with other peoples fab swingers id.
We did meet one couple in la chambre and then saw them on here and so we verified each other. but they have now left the site sso that verification went with them.
We are not ready to give up our profile just yet and so if we do go back to meets then our cam verifications just let people know that both male and female have been seen. nothing more than that.
dont forget people out there also verify meets that have not happened so you cant take any kind of verification as more than a increased likelyhood of someone being real as stated on their profile.
Some people add to this as they will only meet if there is a face pic. This too is no garuntee as face pics are easy to come by on the net were as a phone call or getting some to come on cam with you is a little trickier to fake. |
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"why do you get a verified swinger green tick when you only cam ??? ,,,thought this was a swingers site not a voyer site"
Personally we have taken the decision to only verify people we have actually met and played with. To us that defines "genuine" swingers which by definition of the site name "fabswingers.com" is what this site was devised for.
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Everyone has their own way of using the site, just because their verification only shows cam veri, this does not also mean that they havn't had a meet. Some do not show all veri's. They might have meet an unverified person. If you dont like move on to next one. |
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how on gods earth can you take any notice of people who have been verified by cam,its like giving them credit for waving out the window to you,and by phone,its to daft to laugh at!!we would never dream of having a meet with anybody out the chatrooms,because thats all they want to,but they will have the cheek and send you an invite,and when you look at their verifications,they have a mamouth for phone and cam,they must thing people came down with the last shower |
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"why do you get a verified swinger green tick when you only cam ??? ,,,thought this was a swingers site not a voyer site
Personally we have taken the decision to only verify people we have actually met and played with. To us that defines "genuine" swingers which by definition of the site name "fabswingers.com" is what this site was devised for.
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Just the point we we're making! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This site is what you want it to be....theres no set rules....."
yes but it should be for swingers you are not a swinger if you get your tits out on a web cam . |
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over a year ago
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to be honest i have verified a few folks on cam ,
at the end of the day it helps them out then all good , some folk take time to find their feet on a site like this ,
i wont do it right away until i have been speaking to them for a while.
but if it helps them get a meet on here then who the hell are we to stop it ......
if you had been the one verified by cam would you be making all this fuss about a verification , its what it is .. says that you are you an thats all thats needed is it not ?????????? to many folks get caught up. its a site for all as well as those who swing an a site is only what you personally make it .
less moaning an bitching would be nice to see and lots more shagging folk get caught up in silly little things such as veries shag an smile eh  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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think some people confuse the verifications for ebay feedback, you verify someone that they are who they are advertising themselves as on their profile, be that by cam, phone or in person |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"think some people confuse the verifications for ebay feedback, you verify someone that they are who they are advertising themselves as on their profile, be that by cam, phone or in person"
nicely put lol |
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We find the 'webcam' verifications very useful..as it normally means that those people are happy to cam..and we have added 90% of our contacts on that basis..
Re the 'site for swingers' issue...we understand that point...but we have supported the site for the 2+ years we have been here, we have never wasted anyones time, we often just compliment people by PM for various reasons and leave it at that..and always try to have a chat in the rooms or add to a thread here..
99% of people here are simply not interested in us..but we occasionally enjoy watching cams, or camming ourselves..(well..I do..hubs isnt always as keen)
We dont hurt anyone, and feel our 'presence' may be worth more to the site in general than someone who is a full on swinger but never contributes a penny towards it, talks in chat or leaves a message on a forum..
It takes all sorts..
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it's all clear u get choice if u see someone on cam u say cam same for phone or meet in person, it's a guide for people to play the way they want, it is for the individual, if we chat to some1 that says look at my verifies, as we only wanna meet and see say 5 cam 2 phone well we chose if we want to carry on |
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when hubby and i first joined fab we were brand new to this and were a bit nervous of meeting folk, so the first verification we got was by cam,we would never rule out anyone who had only been verified by cam as we all need to start somewhere and to get the most out of this site you do need to be verified, but that is only my opinion and i am sure there are loads of folk who think differently, but thats what makes it a fun place, we are all different |
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yeah same as us,,on this site,,cam was first veri,,but we dont care about veris,,so relax,,it will work |
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thats like us, i dont even look at verifications anymore, if i speak to them on cam and get on, then thats enough for us to go on and have a social meet with them, and if all is good, then let the fun begin, verifications for me are worthless as i need to feel comfy first and foremost, some of our best meets have been with couples whose profile i havent even looked at lol |
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