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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m hoping to meet an incredibly hot, very young man next week. I’m hoping my self consciousness about it isn’t going to ruin the occasion.
How big an age difference was there between you and the youngest person you’ve met from Fab? Was it a good meet?
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By (user no longer on site)
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Some of the best meets I've have had have been with much younger. Just my personal experience, but younger guys tend to be well mannered and respectful, not overflowing with confidence that more experienced men sometimes are. It does depend on the guy though.
Biggest difference was probably half my age. (19 when I was 38). We had a great night, a proper laugh, and the sex was very decent. |
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"I’m hoping to meet an incredibly hot, very young man next week. I’m hoping my self consciousness about it isn’t going to ruin the occasion.
How big an age difference was there between you and the youngest person you’ve met from Fab? Was it a good meet?
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The youngest man I’ve met from fab was 30. Was a very good meet, we continued to meet for about eight months |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Met a 19 year old when I was 25. That was a hot meet. She was skinny and so tight. Meet went more than well "
Not to denigrate your post, but the age difference between me and this guy is almost the same as your age in that meet. |
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By *reygorCouple
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"I’m hoping to meet an incredibly hot, very young man next week. I’m hoping my self consciousness about it isn’t going to ruin the occasion.
How big an age difference was there between you and the youngest person you’ve met from Fab? Was it a good meet?
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miss lilly think you know we have a 36 year gap,[been together for years]i k am a great admirer of you .you are stunning fuck age .you could be with a 26 plus guy and you would not look out of place .just do it. |
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15 years both ways.
Each had their advantages.
I’m a strong believer in the idea that if I find you attractive then age and any other label is irrelevant.
Have fun, indulge and enjoy. Pleasure and be pleased. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"15 years both ways.
Each had their advantages.
I’m a strong believer in the idea that if I find you attractive then age and any other label is irrelevant.
Have fun, indulge and enjoy. Pleasure and be pleased. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Honestly don't think about what others say or think, your having fun and you certainly not hurting anyone so do what makes you feel good. I used to get judged because my ex was older than me but at the end of the day she made me happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Im 34 and have a 24yo fwb, i usually go for older, at 21 i had afew meets with a 49 year old she was incredibly sexy and experienced with bags of confidence. Ages just a number, i wouldnt go younger than 10 years though |
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One of the hottest and sexiest experiences ive ever had (not from Fab) is with a woman 19 years older than me. I was 27 at the time and she was my violin teacher. She seduced me and i loved every single minute of it. We dated for 2 years after that and she was simply fantastic in the bedroom. Still look back on that experience with fondness. Tigerli!y don’t worry about it for a second! trust me - from his point of view it definitely adds a fantastic dimension to the whole experience! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m hoping to meet an incredibly hot, very young man next week. I’m hoping my self consciousness about it isn’t going to ruin the occasion.
How big an age difference was there between you and the youngest person you’ve met from Fab? Was it a good meet?
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OP go for it! Having gone with someone so much younger a few weeks back at a club I highly recommend it. Staying power was amazing! |
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I've met women 20 years older than me. But I think once you're in your late 20s people don't get hung up on the age gap thing as your emotionally mature enough by that age and know how to hold a decent conversation |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m hoping to meet an incredibly hot, very young man next week. I’m hoping my self consciousness about it isn’t going to ruin the occasion.......
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In all honesty, young guys turning up for a meet with you aren't considering what you might consider your flaws or insecurities, a younger guy will be so turned on by the thought of meeting you, an older attractive woman, that he'll adore every inch of you.
Own your look, own your sexuality, and you'll floor him with you beauty |
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"I’m hoping to meet an incredibly hot, very young man next week. I’m hoping my self consciousness about it isn’t going to ruin the occasion.
How big an age difference was there between you and the youngest person you’ve met from Fab? Was it a good meet?
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28 years.
Although he’d said 27 on his profile and was actually only 25. But I was sold on him by the time we found out!
Went very well btw! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Since my last divorce at the age of 40 (from a man, incidentally, 13 years my junior) I have met men 10-30 years younger with no problems at all. Recently at a club I played with a man 40 years younger, though didn't find out till too late! These days my preferred age for a man is 45, though I remain flexible |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Since my last divorce at the age of 40 (from a man, incidentally, 13 years my junior) I have met men 10-30 years younger with no problems at all. Recently at a club I played with a man 40 years younger, though didn't find out till too late! These days my preferred age for a man is 45, though I remain flexible "
45 years old is my sweet spot for meets generally. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It seems to be that women are more worried about age difference than the men on here  "
I’d go further, Id say a lot of men actively seek out much younger women. |
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"It seems to be that women are more worried about age difference than the men on here
I’d go further, Id say a lot of men actively seek out much younger women."
On what factual basis do you make that comment? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It seems to be that women are more worried about age difference than the men on here
I’d go further, Id say a lot of men actively seek out much younger women.
On what factual basis do you make that comment? "
I’d probably agree from experience.
Even though I’m looking for older men a lot of the men who message me seem to send the “I’m looking for a younger woman” line, but then when I look at their profile their age preference is set at 18-99, so they probably tweak their messag a bit to match the person they’re sending it to.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m hoping to meet an incredibly hot, very young man next week. I’m hoping my self consciousness about it isn’t going to ruin the occasion.
How big an age difference was there between you and the youngest person you’ve met from Fab? Was it a good meet?
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A lot! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m hoping to meet an incredibly hot, very young man next week. I’m hoping my self consciousness about it isn’t going to ruin the occasion.
How big an age difference was there between you and the youngest person you’ve met from Fab? Was it a good meet?
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38 years. Just enjoy it. They love the older lady lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m hoping to meet an incredibly hot, very young man next week. I’m hoping my self consciousness about it isn’t going to ruin the occasion.
How big an age difference was there between you and the youngest person you’ve met from Fab? Was it a good meet?
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15 years and very good met for a year |
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The best advice might be from someone who had a meet with a 44 year old woman when I was 25. You could tell she was older but she was hot and well up for it. They whole thing was very kinky. Basically he knows you are older and likes it. So don’t be self conscious and go for it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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For us, not from fan, but within a local swinger's group Fem 25 Male 27/so about 30 years difference for hubby, 23 for Mrs.
It went okay, they were new to our group, she was the more experienced and enthusiastic of that couple, he seemed a tad over awed and quite jealous, it ended a quite nice experience for us all, and the age difference didn't matter one iota. |
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"It seems to be that women are more worried about age difference than the men on here
I’d go further, Id say a lot of men actively seek out much younger women.
On what factual basis do you make that comment?
I’d probably agree from experience.
Even though I’m looking for older men a lot of the men who message me seem to send the “I’m looking for a younger woman” line, but then when I look at their profile their age preference is set at 18-99, so they probably tweak their messag a bit to match the person they’re sending it to.
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I obviously don’t search single male profiles so I can’t comment, however the number of single women and couples profile that request younger athletic men is significant |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Age is just a number in my opinion. If the attraction is there and you both equally want each other as much. Makes for an amazing meet.
Still yet to meet someone around my age.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Met with a 27 year old. She is older headed but has the body of someone younger.
I don’t see age as a problem either way...it’s about the connection you have.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Met with a 27 year old. She is older headed but has the body of someone younger.
I don’t see age as a problem either way...it’s about the connection you have.
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Yeah. I have the body of someone older.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I get the attraction of younger firmer flesh but there always seems to be this issue regarding the stamina of older men....I may be unusual but I’ve always enjoyed longer sessions, 3 or 4 hours as a rule, and the only trouble I have is occasional cramp and maybe not coming as often as a younger chap but there’s plenty of life in the old fella yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m hoping to meet an incredibly hot, very young man next week. I’m hoping my self consciousness about it isn’t going to ruin the occasion.
How big an age difference was there between you and the youngest person you’ve met from Fab? Was it a good meet?
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You may be fulfilling his older owman fantasy but so what? He obviously fancies you. He will obviously be very turned on when he meets you. Have fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m hoping to meet an incredibly hot, very young man next week. I’m hoping my self consciousness about it isn’t going to ruin the occasion.
How big an age difference was there between you and the youngest person you’ve met from Fab? Was it a good meet?
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When I was 19 and living in London I was seeing a 50 year old woman for 6 months. She taught me a lot lol. She loved my young stamina. In them days I could very quickly get another hard on after cumming. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I met with a 69 year old man when I was 18.
He bragged about how great he was at oral & it was quite the turn on hearing about it so we ended up meeting, his bragging was completely spot on & he looked early 50s! Quite the experience that was.  |
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"I’m hoping to meet an incredibly hot, very young man next week. I’m hoping my self consciousness about it isn’t going to ruin the occasion.
How big an age difference was there between you and the youngest person you’ve met from Fab? Was it a good meet?
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My experience is they have not been as good as the young men I met in my youth - I don't think their age is against them, but maybe their 'porn education' is.
But, having said that, my oldest veri is from a young French guy 30 years my junior, and he was one of my best fab meets!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I get the attraction of younger firmer flesh but there always seems to be this issue regarding the stamina of older men....I may be unusual but I’ve always enjoyed longer sessions, 3 or 4 hours as a rule, and the only trouble I have is occasional cramp and maybe not coming as often as a younger chap but there’s plenty of life in the old fella yet "
I have had no complaints about my mid-40s to early 50s meets, and I require men with stamina. From my experience that is a perception only. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’m hoping to meet an incredibly hot, very young man next week. I’m hoping my self consciousness about it isn’t going to ruin the occasion.
How big an age difference was there between you and the youngest person you’ve met from Fab? Was it a good meet?
My experience is they have not been as good as the young men I met in my youth - I don't think their age is against them, but maybe their 'porn education' is.
But, having said that, my oldest veri is from a young French guy 30 years my junior, and he was one of my best fab meets! "
This man was very highly recommended by a female friend so I’m not anticipating a rubbish, mock-porn experience.. |
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