We are a soft swap couple, we have had our first experience and love it... we do everything except fucking orher people but yet still ghosted because of soft play approach...it seems a shame as we are a hot and horny couple and find it hard to found other couples willing to meet us... |
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"We are a soft swap couple, we have had our first experience and love it... we do everything except fucking orher people but yet still ghosted because of soft play approach...it seems a shame as we are a hot and horny couple and find it hard to found other couples willing to meet us..."
We also at the minute are soft swap couple and it’s great fun, not to say we’ll never take the next step but as beginners it’s a good way to break ourselves in |
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Some people just want to fuck other people that’s what gets them off so they don’t engage in soft swing, we’ve never taken that stance, fun is fun and still soft swing with people if that’s there preference, there are people out there xx |
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"Some people just want to fuck other people that’s what gets them off so they don’t engage in soft swing, we’ve never taken that stance, fun is fun and still soft swing with people if that’s there preference, there are people out there xx"
I think so long as everyone is honest and open from the start it’s all fun things may change on the night for us but we always state soft swap to begin with |
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All depends on the people and the day, so would never assume the same people on the next meet would interact in the same way as the last meet. Soft swap is a start and end point for many, it's not 'less' than something else. Relationships are developmental, the activities which happen in them don't have to be. Everyone makes their own choices.
We would never push anyone's boundaries or expect them to push ours. And what we choose on each meet is only the business of those present. Respectful but clear conversations before play prevent misunderstanding.
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"We are a soft swap couple, we have had our first experience and love it... we do everything except fucking orher people but yet still ghosted because of soft play approach...it seems a shame as we are a hot and horny couple and find it hard to found other couples willing to meet us..."
We're full swap but have recently met a soft swap couple and surprised ourselves by how much we liked it, even been away with them so there's someone out there for you xx |
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We are a soft swap couple too, for the time being anyway, we do like threesomes etc but intercorse is normally between us with the third party supplying the extra hands lips etc although we would consider letting it go further If we felt the third person connected with us.
I guess it’s just a learning curve until you feel comfortable with everything
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"We are a soft swap couple too, for the time being anyway, we do like threesomes etc but intercorse is normally between us with the third party supplying the extra hands lips etc although we would consider letting it go further If we felt the third person connected with us.
I guess it’s just a learning curve until you feel comfortable with everything
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That situation would suit me well, I love using my hands and lips/tongue.
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We started our swinging journey with soft swop and then moved on to full swop, we still have lots of friends who are still soft swop and we love meeting up with them it's all good hot sexy fun and very sensual  xxx |
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We really don’t see the point of soft swap. In our experience it’s usually couples who are looking for girl on girl action. As we are both straight and don’t participate in that particular activity it would be a little boring for us. 
Great thing about fab is that there are plenty of both soft and full swap couples to play with so you just have to meet the ones who play the same way. |
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We find soft is very sexy as we're everything bar penetration. However we do participate in FFM and MMF where penetration does happen. It's just when we are with couples the full swap hasn't happened (yet!) |
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I would classify us as ‘soft swap’ and you are correct, the main drive is for FF play. Mrs T does play with other men, I only play with her. She is free to play with men, just no kissing or penetration.
I think labels are fine, but everyone has their own motivation for being here... |
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"We are a soft swap couple, we have had our first experience and love it... we do everything except fucking orher people but yet still ghosted because of soft play approach...it seems a shame as we are a hot and horny couple and find it hard to found other couples willing to meet us..."
Soft swap is loads of fun.  |
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We are long past the soft swap stage..we only soft swapped once at the start of our swinging life, and quickly moved on..it's just a case of doing what you are comfortable with..it's your life your rules....it's about mutual enjoyment whatever root you are taking |
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"I would classify us as ‘soft swap’ and you are correct, the main drive is for FF play. Mrs T does play with other men, I only play with her. She is free to play with men, just no kissing or penetration.
I think labels are fine, but everyone has their own motivation for being here..."
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"We are a soft swap couple too, for the time being anyway, we do like threesomes etc but intercorse is normally between us with the third party supplying the extra hands lips etc although we would consider letting it go further If we felt the third person connected with us.
I guess it’s just a learning curve until you feel comfortable with everything
We will put your name on our list for future reference x
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We are soft swap too. At the moment it’s what feels right for us. However, if we’re meeting with a couple then the male might have penetrative sex with Abby who is a TV. This works for us.
Unfortunately we’ve found that sometimes people will try to push your boundaries in the heat of the moment.
You generally find soft swap meets can be far more imaginative because it’s not all about penetration.
The main thing is honest communication with any potential meet and never feel pressurised into doing anything you don’t feel comfortable with.
There’s plenty of us softies out there
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"We are a soft swap couple too, for the time being anyway, we do like threesomes etc but intercorse is normally between us with the third party supplying the extra hands lips etc although we would consider letting it go further If we felt the third person connected with us.
I guess it’s just a learning curve until you feel comfortable with everything
That situation would suit me well, I love using my hands and lips/tongue.
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"We are a soft swap couple, we have had our first experience and love it... we do everything except fucking orher people but yet still ghosted because of soft play approach...it seems a shame as we are a hot and horny couple and find it hard to found other couples willing to meet us..."
Same at the moment as a couple. We find that it is not a barrier to us playing with other couples in clubs. |
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We are a full swap or soft swap couple, happy to go with the flow, and have had some amazing soft swap nights with fabsters that we now regard as good friends.
However, dont see the point of meeting those who don't kiss. We find that kissing provides a sensuality and connection that enhances play (soft or full).
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I've always been soft-swing on here. I've met lots of women who really enjoy it, but I'd say I've had two or three times as many who want to go all the way and won't meet without full sex. |
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"We are a soft swap couple, we have had our first experience and love it... we do everything except fucking orher people but yet still ghosted because of soft play approach...it seems a shame as we are a hot and horny couple and find it hard to found other couples willing to meet us..."
We are even softer than that! Non swap , but just voyeurism and exhibitionism + a bit of girls play. Each to their own, it's what we like, and we have found a few like minded couples on here.
Be prepared to do a bit of searching ( try 'softswing' in the name search for example ), and make sure your profile is nice and clear about what you want. You'll find people OK. |
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We are even softer than that! Non swap , but just voyeurism and exhibitionism."
This has made up 90% of our club fun over the past 3 years and it's been amazing fun! It's only very recently that we've started involving others and that's only really consisted of some kissing and wandering hands.
We find it can be hit and miss to meet people we match with online but we rarely have difficulty finding playmates in a club. We can be their appetiser if they want to move on to full swap couples and that works great for us! We always find it a very sensual and sociable experience |
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"We are a soft swap couple, we have had our first experience and love it... we do everything except fucking orher people but yet still ghosted because of soft play approach...it seems a shame as we are a hot and horny couple and find it hard to found other couples willing to meet us..."
I think they have ghosted you because they have moved on from soft swap and want to try something new...
It’s not about how you guys look , it’s more about new experiences ... |
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"We are a soft swap couple too, for the time being anyway, we do like threesomes etc but intercorse is normally between us with the third party supplying the extra hands lips
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We are soft swap. |
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"We are looking for soft swap initially. Who knows what later. Soft can be very erotic after all a lot of sex is in the mind. The anticipation is amazingly sexy."
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We are a soft swap couple, like some have already mentioned for us it’s the girl/girl fun that’s important to Mrs Brum. We have had some great meets and made some great friends along the way. There are couples out there into the same but just a little harder to find. |
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It's a bit like food to me sometimes I like sauce and sometimes I don't. Sometimes I like Italian and sometimes Indian. Sometimes I will go with friends and sometimes just watch people and have a drink and no food. Each experience is different and as enjoyable as any other. Difference and diversity makes it interesting for me. |
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