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By *ornyuk23 OP Man
over a year ago
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Hi I'm looking to take my girlfriend to a club - she likes dressing up but on our first visit probably wouldn't want to play.
Can anyone suggest a club and a night where we could go and be dressed up but possibly just watch? |
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Any club will allow you to just watch, if that's all you're comfortable doing. Nowhere will force you to play. Other attendees will get the message if you say No to them asking about anything you don't want to do - and the club should be happy to intervene if people don't take No for an answer.
Whereabouts in the country are you from? |
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By *ornyuk23 OP Man
over a year ago
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Thanks for the replies - for info were in st Helen's in the northwest.
A couples only night sounds like the way to go - if any northern people can recommend a club - I don't mind travelling so any north west clubs would be ok
Simon  |
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over a year ago
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We don't always find anyone we would like to play with at clubs sometimes and have our own fun - everyone is free to do their own thing with no pressure.
Have been to Partners, No.3 & Townhouse and out of the 3 we prefer No.3
Hope this helps ease your / her nerves, maybe find someone suitable local who has been to a club and ask to go with them? |
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Best club is Chameleons, Darlaston, Wonderful staff, marvelious atmosphere, rooms to stay in (very nice rooms! ask jane!!) plenty of viewing spots, and fantastic jucuzzi area,
Just put a note in your current status asking is anyone going to which ever club you decide on and arrange to go with them |
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"Same here, we still getting the courage to go and find one in Northeast area, and sometime we Think we are not good looking enough to goto a Club.."
Clubs are full of normal people...they let us in  Dont worry ,its about about being a supermodel or size zero,but about attitude.
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"Same here, we still getting the courage to go and find one in Northeast area, and sometime we Think we are not good looking enough to goto a Club.."
First time I went to Chams I was very self-conscious but as soon as I walked through the door I suddenly felt incredibly at ease. Lots of sexy people (including the lady I went with) but I never felt uncomfortable there. |
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"Same here, we still getting the courage to go and find one in Northeast area, and sometime we Think we are not good looking enough to goto a Club..
First time I went to Chams I was very self-conscious but as soon as I walked through the door I suddenly felt incredibly at ease. Lots of sexy people (including the lady I went with) but I never felt uncomfortable there."
Exactly! no one is judgmental there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi I'm looking to take my girlfriend to a club - she likes dressing up but on our first visit probably wouldn't want to play.
Can anyone suggest a club and a night where we could go and be dressed up but possibly just watch? "
we are members of about 8 clubs and would say for your first swingers club it would have to be xtasia on a S DC night very sexy not the best club but best for a first timer good luck  |
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Some of the best clubs for newbies in the UK, would be (In our opinion, and depending on if you like dancing or not)
Vanilla Alternative
Liberty Elite
La Chambre
Chameleons (Darlaston)
Ourplace4fun
Xtasia
Uptopias
Theres several others, but that should keep you busy. Most couples nights are Saturdays, so aim for that. |
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Ha, we announced that we were newbies on our second visit to our club. We were in a spa pool with two other couples.
Before we knew it we weren't "newbies" any more.
Watch out for the "fresh meat" quotient.
( was great night, btw ) |
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"Same here, we still getting the courage to go and find one in Northeast area, and sometime we Think we are not good looking enough to goto a Club.."
No such thing as not good looking enough, look at me.
Take your courage in both hands and jump in, you will wonder why you were nervous. You will be very welcome, if you still can't do it find a local to go with or as a last choice come down to London, and I take you both. Lol
Welcome and have fun, that's what It's all about, you can do nothing, just watch, play with each other in private or not or shag everybody. It's entirely your choice .
That's why its so great.
Good luck
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