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By *aughter OP Man
over a year ago
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I winked at a witty profile and was contacted by them, I at no time requested a meet as I was happy with the people I know. we spoke for a short time and I told the lady this only to get an abusive message ,saying I was a time waster and no right to reply as I am blocked.?
Was I in the wrong? |
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By *aughter OP Man
over a year ago
skelmersdale |
"You didn’t deserve abuse.
I sometimes see a status message on profiles saying ‘not wanting meets for now’. That may be useful in preventing repetition of this."
good point, but never been blocked before |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I winked at a witty profile and was contacted by them, I at no time requested a meet as I was happy with the people I know. we spoke for a short time and I told the lady this only to get an abusive message ,saying I was a time waster and no right to reply as I am blocked.?
Was I in the wrong?"
nobody deserves abuse but a wink to say profile was witty, why not just send a message saying profile was witty....... Not sure I get that but abuse for it noooooooo |
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"You didn’t deserve abuse.
I sometimes see a status message on profiles saying ‘not wanting meets for now’. That may be useful in preventing repetition of this.
good point, but never been blocked before"
You will have been blocked before you just don't know it. As for abuse well we only have your side of the story and from what you have said maybe you didn't deserve it they may have a different tale to tell I will say its not really classy coming on here complaining about it. |
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By *aughter OP Man
over a year ago
skelmersdale |
"You didn’t deserve abuse.
I sometimes see a status message on profiles saying ‘not wanting meets for now’. That may be useful in preventing repetition of this.
good point, but never been blocked before
You will have been blocked before you just don't know it. As for abuse well we only have your side of the story and from what you have said maybe you didn't deserve it they may have a different tale to tell I will say its not really classy coming on here complaining about it. "
not complaining at all ,asking the question, was I wrong? for future reference |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you winked at someone I’d would take that as though you’re looking to meet !!
That’s very presumptuous!!
I would take it to mean ‘hello’ "
Ditto or "I/we like the look of you". Sounds like there was some miscommunication between you two about what the wink meant  Ignore it, move on 
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I never look at my winks personally. No one on this site deserves any sort of abuse but some supposedly grown ups think it's clearly acceptable. If someone isn't right for you, block delete and move on, no need for ignorance. Sorry to hear this OP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe next time establish early on that you just want to chat? Then they can make an informed decision about whether they want to continue exchanging messages.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A timewaster is someone invites you to an event, bangs on about timewasters and how he's only going to invite people who are definitely going to turn up, tells you he'll give you the address later, ignores you from then on then blocks you when you politely ask how the arrangements are going!!! |
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