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over a year ago
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why do you always get a flipping spot when you due for a meet
seriously would you turn up to meet someone with a spot? bareing in mind ive never met him before and you never get a second chanced to make a first impression
im thinking of trying to re arrange for another time lol
the big question is do i lie or tell the truth, what sounds better, sorry my sitters let me down or sorry i've got a spot and i feel to embarrassed to meet you with it?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i just meet anyway if the meet is shallow enough to not want to play due to a spot they are not worth it. go for the meet guys ive met havent said anything at all and at 44 i get great teenage spots at times lol.
go have fun and believe you will wonder after what you were worried about. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i wont cause i know what im like, i'll be avoiding eye contact all night and looking at the floor, dead paranoid to look up in hope that he not notice it if i sit with the back of my head to him all night lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i wont cause i know what im like, i'll be avoiding eye contact all night and looking at the floor, dead paranoid to look up in hope that he not notice it if i sit with the back of my head to him all night lol"
I dont know what you are worried about with a face and figure like yours if he is worried about a spot he is mad xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i get bitten to bits by mayflies and gnats had loads this summer. i carried on meeting no one said anything.
it is down to how confident you feel. if your sure tell the meet and see what they say. |
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over a year ago
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"i wont cause i know what im like, i'll be avoiding eye contact all night and looking at the floor, dead paranoid to look up in hope that he not notice it if i sit with the back of my head to him all night lol
I dont know what you are worried about with a face and figure like yours if he is worried about a spot he is mad xx"
haha i paid her to say that..... |
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Carry on and meet the bloke, don't let a spot spoil it for you. The guy probably won't even notice it anyway and even if he does I doubt it would bother him in the least. He will have had his share of spots in his time too so he will know these things just happen, not much we can do about it.
Have your meet and enjoy. |
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"why do you always get a flipping spot when you due for a meet
seriously would you turn up to meet someone with a spot? bareing in mind ive never met him before and you never get a second chanced to make a first impression
im thinking of trying to re arrange for another time lol
the big question is do i lie or tell the truth, what sounds better, sorry my sitters let me down or sorry i've got a spot and i feel to embarrassed to meet you with it? "
Suppose it depends how large, swollen or yellow! Eewww!
Change your razor!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why do you always get a flipping spot when you due for a meet
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As you said, they always come when you have a meet arranged... so concealer and go for it.... or you will be frustrated for nowt |
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"why do you always get a flipping spot when you due for a meet
seriously would you turn up to meet someone with a spot? bareing in mind ive never met him before and you never get a second chanced to make a first impression
im thinking of trying to re arrange for another time lol
the big question is do i lie or tell the truth, what sounds better, sorry my sitters let me down or sorry i've got a spot and i feel to embarrassed to meet you with it? "
Oh go on, Ms. Dudley, and enjoy yourself!! Don't make a small thing such as a spot make you into a spoilsport!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Change your razor!
 its not a shaving rash lol
cheeky 
I've seen and felt your stubble! lol"
well if ive got stubble its deffo not a shavuig rash is it  |
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Surely you aren't naiVe enough to imagine guys meet woman from fab for their clear complexion. Lol
They don't see us as we see ourselves but would think us a bit shallow or lacking in confidence to cancel over something like that. Either warn him and make a joke of it or cover it up...bet he won't notice/care. Have fun. X |
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over a year ago
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"Oi missy! Do you really think he will notice a pimple?!
Extra cleavage, shorter skirt...he will not notice the pimple...pimple?! what pimple?! "
haha i'll pop round yours instead then see if you notice it |
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over a year ago
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The same happened to me once and I was mortified about it
I really felt that I could'nt cancel because the meet had been a long time coming and id had to postpone it once before,so if I said sorry im not meeting you because I have a spot it would have sounded like the worst excuse ever
So we went ahead with it,he ripped the piss out of me all night about it and we've met up a few more times since then (without any spot) and I regard him as a great mate now
Don't worry about the spot,just have a great time x |
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Get in there and enjoy yourself..... My poor sister in law has just had to sit through a meeting with us and a load of teachers etc with 2 spots! Can you imagine how she felt she had 2 and shes 41! Poor thing lol |
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"why do you always get a flipping spot when you due for a meet
seriously would you turn up to meet someone with a spot? bareing in mind ive never met him before and you never get a second chanced to make a first impression
im thinking of trying to re arrange for another time lol
the big question is do i lie or tell the truth, what sounds better, sorry my sitters let me down or sorry i've got a spot and i feel to embarrassed to meet you with it? "
Sod's Law isn't it, same thing happened to me, why do they always appear when you least want one? I felt like cancelling but it seemed a lame reason...anyway I went ahead and the meet didn't work out.
I blamed the spot! It was my scapegoat. Better than the alternatives
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Im very lucky i never gets spots on my face but once i had one between the bottom of my arse and top of my leg. Couldnt see anything in the mirror but it felt mahoosive to me. The guy i was due to meet was a regular guy so told him why i wouldnt meet and he obviously said come on stop being stupid but i refused as all i could imagine was doing it doggy and this spot slamming against his face lol |
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"Im very lucky i never gets spots on my face but once i had one between the bottom of my arse and top of my leg. Couldnt see anything in the mirror but it felt mahoosive to me. The guy i was due to meet was a regular guy so told him why i wouldnt meet and he obviously said come on stop being stupid but i refused as all i could imagine was doing it doggy and this spot slamming against his face lol"
And bursting!!!!
mmmmm yummy !!!! lol |
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"Oi missy! Do you really think he will notice a pimple?!
Extra cleavage, shorter skirt...he will not notice the pimple...pimple?! what pimple?!
haha i'll pop round yours instead then see if you notice it "
You could always wear PVC suit and mask |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't suffer from spots and haven't had one on my face for years, but one singular spot wouldn't make me cancel a meet. A bit of concealer would hide that, unless its covering the whole face.
I'd be more embarrassed if it was on my foofoo as I'd be worried he thought I had genital warts.
He won't notice at all, even a large angry spot is not that big and can be covered. If you want to meet then tell him. But imagine if you'd got sitters sorted, new outfit ready, all excited and he text last minute to say sorry can't meet, I've a spot. You wouldn't be bothered about him having one would you ? |
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I have a meet tomorrow! Have a huge blind spot on my butt cheek! Hurts like hell and is not going anywhere! Lol
No way would I not meet him, been ages since I seen him!
Am sure he won't even notice but if he does so what! He will no doubt kiss it! |
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If it's really red, and you have time, do the following. Pop to boots/superdrug and get a green stick concealer (yes, really lol)
As you 'make up' put your foundation on first (if you use it) then grab an ice cube from the freezer and hold it to the spot for a couple of minutes. This should bring some of the redness/swelling down. Then take your green concealer and blend it in round the red areas. Green cancels our red and is much more effective at covering spots. You can pop some of your normal concealer over the top if you like. Blot with powder and hey presto - GO MEET!
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"Oi missy! Do you really think he will notice a pimple?!
Extra cleavage, shorter skirt...he will not notice the pimple...pimple?! what pimple?!
haha i'll pop round yours instead then see if you notice it "
I know I wouldn't :p |
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