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over a year ago
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Mostly to the women that show their faces on fab , do you not get weirdos stalking you in the street , maybe at your place of work or even knowing where you live ? And do you not think it gives everyone else the upper hand they know your face but you are oblivious to them ? |
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"Mostly to the women that show their faces on fab , do you not get weirdos stalking you in the street , maybe at your place of work or even knowing where you live ? And do you not think it gives everyone else the upper hand they know your face but you are oblivious to them ? "
I know a lady in Fab who shows her face openly on Fab and guys in Tesco speak to her and say your ...... from fab aren’t you |
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"Mostly to the women that show their faces on fab , do you not get weirdos stalking you in the street , maybe at your place of work or even knowing where you live ? And do you not think it gives everyone else the upper hand they know your face but you are oblivious to them ?
I know a lady in Fab who shows her face openly on Fab and guys in Tesco speak to her and say your ...... from fab aren’t you "
I would have to leave my job if that happened because I would imagine your colleagues would look at you like something they have stepped in ! People judge you on the most ridiculous things sometimes but the fact that you’re a swinger would make most people look down on you . |
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"Mostly to the women that show their faces on fab , do you not get weirdos stalking you in the street , maybe at your place of work or even knowing where you live ? And do you not think it gives everyone else the upper hand they know your face but you are oblivious to them ? "
God it's a worry isn't it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I recognised a few customers at work from fab but they had no idea who I was.. Also it crossed my mind that "I know what your cock looks like"  "
Ha but could you pick them out in a line-out |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Everyone is different though. I guess if you're happy with who you are and not concerned about the opinions of others, then you're not gonna be bothered about showing your face here.
People will always judge, no matter what. If they deem you unworthy because you're on a sex site, then they would never have respected in the first place and therefore arent worth your concern anyway.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I recognised a few customers at work from fab but they had no idea who I was.. Also it crossed my mind that "I know what your cock looks like" Ha but could you pick them out in a line-out "
I wouldn't go that far as they were not my type |
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"Mostly to the women that show their faces on fab , do you not get weirdos stalking you in the street , maybe at your place of work or even knowing where you live ? And do you not think it gives everyone else the upper hand they know your face but you are oblivious to them ? "
I was ‘stalked’ by the location system on here, very very scary! |
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"I recognised a few customers at work from fab but they had no idea who I was.. Also it crossed my mind that "I know what your cock looks like" Ha but could you pick them out in a line-out
I wouldn't go that far as they were not my type "
you can tell by the cock? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have always had my face pics on here and have never really had anything too alarming happen, just a few messages asking if it was me they had seen in a specific location and a few saying "saw you in the pub, ya looked nice" luckily not nice enough to stalk and weirder than the weirdos I guess. As regards to work, I don't really care what people assume about me. They can think what they like, if they want to know then they can ask. I find hiding things from people makes life twice as difficult as it already is, so I am what I am all the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've seen people on here who are also on POF and who I've seen in the street or whatever. I was recognised myself on my last profile, still don't know who he is as he refused to say and I didn't recognise him at all, but he knew my real name and a few other things about me. I wasn't too bothered that he'd recognised me, there is nothing outrageous on my profile, but I didn't like the way he approached it. |
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"Mostly to the women that show their faces on fab , do you not get weirdos stalking you in the street , maybe at your place of work or even knowing where you live ? And do you not think it gives everyone else the upper hand they know your face but you are oblivious to them ? "
Stalking you at work home or in the street just from showing a face pic on here????
Now I’m not saying it’s never happened in here as I guess it has but I’m guessing that’s after two people have spoken and told each other details etc
But just from looking at a face pic I find that very highly unlikely unless as some have stated have bumped into or seen someone by pure chance |
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"Mostly to the women that show their faces on fab , do you not get weirdos stalking you in the street , maybe at your place of work or even knowing where you live ? And do you not think it gives everyone else the upper hand they know your face but you are oblivious to them ?
Stalking you at work home or in the street just from showing a face pic on here????
Now I’m not saying it’s never happened in here as I guess it has but I’m guessing that’s after two people have spoken and told each other details etc
But just from looking at a face pic I find that very highly unlikely unless as some have stated have bumped into or seen someone by pure chance "
I was once stalked on here by a guy using the location system, it’s a good idea to not put your exact location. |
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I had 1 guy shout across via fossa on the gay village oi _mushkitten off fabs is that really you in the flesh. I spat my drink out bust out laughing n ended up with him buying drinks for me n me gay hubby all night
For me it isnt an issue as everyone important to me knows i am a pro domme i work in a swingers club n i am a fabber |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mostly to the women that show their faces on fab , do you not get weirdos stalking you in the street , maybe at your place of work or even knowing where you live ? And do you not think it gives everyone else the upper hand they know your face but you are oblivious to them ?
Stalking you at work home or in the street just from showing a face pic on here????
Now I’m not saying it’s never happened in here as I guess it has but I’m guessing that’s after two people have spoken and told each other details etc
But just from looking at a face pic I find that very highly unlikely unless as some have stated have bumped into or seen someone by pure chance
I was once stalked on here by a guy using the location system, it’s a good idea to not put your exact location."
Do you mean use a different (wrong) post code on your profile? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Doesn’t bother me one bit.
I’ve not been here long and have only been recognised a couple times, thankfully they weren’t creepy in person and were blocked on here when they messaged.
I show my face because I want to, I understand not everyone wants to or can. I don’t care about who has the upper hand to be honest.
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By (user no longer on site)
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We live in a small village and had a very weird couple recognise us as we are unique in our village, while sitting in our pub beer garden, message and then refuse to say who they were, very, very creepy, would never publicly post face pictures. |
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I think people will have many reasons for discretion and privacy. Attitudes have also changed (improved) compared to what they were in the past. Men and women seem to be more confident in exploring their sexuality and fantasies. You only have to see the number of members online during a peak time to show that the interest is there.... |
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I had someone who downloaded and printed my pics then put them on the wall in toilets at work, didn't put up face pics tho so no-one worked out it was me except those in the know, bstrd got found out and he was sacked, thats why we dont put them on any more |
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By *ullpa72Man
over a year ago
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"I have always had my face pics on here and have never really had anything too alarming happen, just a few messages asking if it was me they had seen in a specific location and a few saying "saw you in the pub, ya looked nice" luckily not nice enough to stalk and weirder than the weirdos I guess. As regards to work, I don't really care what people assume about me. They can think what they like, if they want to know then they can ask. I find hiding things from people makes life twice as difficult as it already is, so I am what I am all the time."
. Good for you ,no one should judge another person on any of sociaties pre concieved norms .race coupler religion ect let alone their sexual preferances. So enjoy being free minded enough to dare to be different.sorry rant over .good luck and best wishes to you
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I want to have the upper hand "
We are the same we will only show our face pics to people we have intentions of meeting and lots of single guys don’t see us until we turn up .. it means we have control. Showing your face on here especially with a naked body attached means it can end up anywhere on the internet which is not something we are ever going to risk , just isn’t worth it . |
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"Mostly to the women that show their faces on fab , do you not get weirdos stalking you in the street , maybe at your place of work or even knowing where you live ? And do you not think it gives everyone else the upper hand they know your face but you are oblivious to them ?
Stalking you at work home or in the street just from showing a face pic on here????
Now I’m not saying it’s never happened in here as I guess it has but I’m guessing that’s after two people have spoken and told each other details etc
But just from looking at a face pic I find that very highly unlikely unless as some have stated have bumped into or seen someone by pure chance
I was once stalked on here by a guy using the location system, it’s a good idea to not put your exact location.
Do you mean use a different (wrong) post code on your profile?"
Not a ‘wrong’ postcode as such but not your exact one. He was one street away from my work and said he was going to knock on every door and approach every women who he passed. I looked out my office window and I saw him walking up and down with his phone in his hand so I blocked him  |
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"Mostly to the women that show their faces on fab , do you not get weirdos stalking you in the street , maybe at your place of work or even knowing where you live ? And do you not think it gives everyone else the upper hand they know your face but you are oblivious to them ?
Stalking you at work home or in the street just from showing a face pic on here????
Now I’m not saying it’s never happened in here as I guess it has but I’m guessing that’s after two people have spoken and told each other details etc
But just from looking at a face pic I find that very highly unlikely unless as some have stated have bumped into or seen someone by pure chance
I was once stalked on here by a guy using the location system, it’s a good idea to not put your exact location.
Do you mean use a different (wrong) post code on your profile?
Not a ‘wrong’ postcode as such but not your exact one. He was one street away from my work and said he was going to knock on every door and approach every women who he passed. I looked out my office window and I saw him walking up and down with his phone in his hand so I blocked him "
Aargh! Nightmare. A good idea to use a postcode from a different town. Hope you reported his message too. |
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