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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So a guy we have meet on here on our couples page wants my wife alone for the night,
Wants me to drop her off at pub and end up back at hotel room
Any advice? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So a guy we have meet on here on our couples page wants my wife alone for the night,
Wants me to drop her off at pub and end up back at hotel room
Any advice?"
Is there a payment of $1million involved? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So a guy we have meet on here on our couples page wants my wife alone for the night,
Wants me to drop her off at pub and end up back at hotel room
Any advice?"
Depends on you, I m a cuck so we love it. If you not wired that way it a rocky road |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So a guy we have meet on here on our couples page wants my wife alone for the night,
Wants me to drop her off at pub and end up back at hotel room
Any advice?"
so you'll be on your own while he's fucking your wife......... Hey sounds like a great deal for the guy and possibly your wife......... Knock yourself out  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So if you have met him as a couple I presume you have a couples account?
Just that you have been on for over a year and are not meet verified ...... single guy perhaps ?"
I stated in the first message on couples page |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I should of said we have meet him before as a couple so.
I love the idea of it just I won't get to see
So how do you feel about that? What emotions does it stir in you?"
Love the thought of her doing it and turns me on her coming home and telling me what happened.
But it's just her alone with me not there with her |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We have a amazing relationship so all good on the front.
I am comfortable with it apart from me missing out on the fun, just wondering how other people were with it any do or don't etc |
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By *roticaCouple
over a year ago
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My concern....can you trust him for her to be safe. We met a chap who seemed nice but kept wanting to play with me alone. Luckily we only let him with my partner in the same room with the lights off because as soon as it was 1 to 1 he became aggressive and bit me, gave me love bites and pulled my hair. You need to trust the chap. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My concern....can you trust him for her to be safe. We met a chap who seemed nice but kept wanting to play with me alone. Luckily we only let him with my partner in the same room with the lights off because as soon as it was 1 to 1 he became aggressive and bit me, gave me love bites and pulled my hair. You need to trust
the chap. "
I would say we do meet him before and he was fine and agreed to all we asked etc |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Recording it could be a good idea...they would have fun playing to the camera...you would be able to see it after "
Yeah the thing I like is letting her be with him knowing that she isn't under pressure from me watching she can let her down etc |
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OP sounds like you want to be involved.
Seems this single fella is calling all the shots which really is not right!
If it was me I would not let it happen, you have a couples profile, she isn’t single and why doesn’t he want you there?
Suspicious!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If ANY party is uncomfortable with this, and that includes you, then the answer should be no!
Only you know how you both feel about it, so the only people who know if it’s right will be the two of you! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well when we had our meet before we had 3sum and then he had her alone in our bedroom so think he enjoyed her alone and wants to up it.
He has said it's what we are happy with its just something he would like to do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP sounds like you want to be involved.
Seems this single fella is calling all the shots which really is not right!
If it was me I would not let it happen, you have a couples profile, she isn’t single and why doesn’t he want you there?
Suspicious!
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Nothing suspicious about it the guy wants to have his wicked way with the other guys wife |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So OP it's ok for you to play without your wife (given your 'single guy' profile) but not your wife without you because you might miss some fun?! have you asked yourself why that is?"
Very good point
I just wanna see it all as it's my biggest fantasy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP sounds like you want to be involved.
Seems this single fella is calling all the shots which really is not right!
If it was me I would not let it happen, you have a couples profile, she isn’t single and why doesn’t he want you there?
Suspicious!
Nothing suspicious about it the guy wants to have his wicked way with the other guys wife "
Always more naughty it been someone wife/gf |
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"OP sounds like you want to be involved.
Seems this single fella is calling all the shots which really is not right!
If it was me I would not let it happen, you have a couples profile, she isn’t single and why doesn’t he want you there?
Suspicious!
Nothing suspicious about it the guy wants to have his wicked way with the other guys wife "
Alone though? They are a ‘couple’!
How does OP know she will be safe?
No it’s suspicious!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP sounds like you want to be involved.
Seems this single fella is calling all the shots which really is not right!
If it was me I would not let it happen, you have a couples profile, she isn’t single and why doesn’t he want you there?
Suspicious!
Nothing suspicious about it the guy wants to have his wicked way with the other guys wife
Alone though? They are a ‘couple’!
How does OP know she will be safe?
No it’s suspicious!
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Ops met him loads of times before in mmf Mfm situations he already knows the guy loves his wife |
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"I think the reason is he had a really really good time with her in the bedroom alone so just wants to have her to himself for the night "
I think it’s suspicious, why a full night? If you have to ask a bunch of strangers for an answer then you aren’t sure! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think the reason is he had a really really good time with her in the bedroom alone so just wants to have her to himself for the night
I think it’s suspicious, why a full night? If you have to ask a bunch of strangers for an answer then you aren’t sure! "
I've asked as we are not harden swingers and seeing what people think If its right wrong what to do not to do etc |
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"I think the reason is he had a really really good time with her in the bedroom alone so just wants to have her to himself for the night
I think it’s suspicious, why a full night? If you have to ask a bunch of strangers for an answer then you aren’t sure! "
This 
Definitely wouldn't be for us.
Even though you seem up for it in a couple of your posts, the fact that you're asking advice rings alarm bells.
I would be tempted to drop the bloke totally ... sounds like he might be infatuated with your wife and that could lead to all sorts of problems.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think the reason is he had a really really good time with her in the bedroom alone so just wants to have her to himself for the night
I think it’s suspicious, why a full night? If you have to ask a bunch of strangers for an answer then you aren’t sure!
This
Definitely wouldn't be for us.
Even though you seem up for it in a couple of your posts, the fact that you're asking advice rings alarm bells.
I would be tempted to drop the bloke totally ... sounds like he might be infatuated with your wife and that could lead to all sorts of problems. "
Not infatuated with her been about 2 years since we last meet him.
We like to spice it up every now and then and we contact him as we are not here for numbers |
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Well it worked for us!
I personally think that as long as you have formed an ongoing arrangement, he can be trusted to look after her and everyone is in agreement then I don’t see what the problem is.
It’s very exciting wondering what they are up to and for how long. Much better than clockwatching from their part and......awesomely exciting depending on the situation when you or your wife returns.  |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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"I've asked as we are not harden swingers and seeing what people think If its right wrong what to do not to do etc "
And as my mother would say; if your friend jumped off a cliff would you do too?
Swinging is exactly what ever you make it and what ever is right for you. Noone can tell you what's right or wrong. You two need to talk about it and decide between you not ask the option of strangers.
Personally if I was your wife I'd get super hacked off if you wanted to play on your own but wouldn't want me to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've asked as we are not harden swingers and seeing what people think If its right wrong what to do not to do etc
And as my mother would say; if your friend jumped off a cliff would you do too?
Swinging is exactly what ever you make it and what ever is right for you. Noone can tell you what's right or wrong. You two need to talk about it and decide between you not ask the option of strangers.
Personally if I was your wife I'd get super hacked off if you wanted to play on your own but wouldn't want me to. "
Well its hardly appropriate to ask that question now is it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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alot of guy go for cuck couples just for this reason they know that some will play alone therefore to them its not really about cuckold it just about them fucking another woman ..my cuck is alway near me when i meet i want him to see n hear whats going on 100% if a guy is not happy to play without the cuck being near by then sorry hes not looking for cuck couples... |
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Fun can be experienced in many ways. If you enjoy it....it’s fun whatever it is.
Some might like it some might not.
In this case it’s personal to the people involved.
Perhaps he is not a true cuck, but at the same time likes to think his wife is having fun and gets off on knowing another man is enjoying his wife.
Live and let live I say. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the reason is he had a really really good time with her in the bedroom alone so just wants to have her to himself for the night "
Yeah and the next thing you know he’s whispering in her ear about how much better it would be if she was with him instead of you. Personally I think you’re treading on dodgy ground but it’s your life mate. Only you can answer your own questions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So a guy we have meet on here on our couples page wants my wife alone for the night,
Wants me to drop her off at pub and end up back at hotel room
Any advice?"
The only advice you need is to talk to your wife and see what she actually wants its her decision after all isn't it. |
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"I think the reason is he had a really really good time with her in the bedroom alone so just wants to have her to himself for the night
Yeah and the next thing you know he’s whispering in her ear about how much better it would be if she was with him instead of you. Personally I think you’re treading on dodgy ground but it’s your life mate. Only you can answer your own questions. "
What is his wife’s opinion of it all? Sounds to me that ‘the men’ are calling all the shots which is not ideal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the reason is he had a really really good time with her in the bedroom alone so just wants to have her to himself for the night
Yeah and the next thing you know he’s whispering in her ear about how much better it would be if she was with him instead of you. Personally I think you’re treading on dodgy ground but it’s your life mate. Only you can answer your own questions.
What is his wife’s opinion of it all? Sounds to me that ‘the men’ are calling all the shots which is not ideal. "
nooooo men stopped ruling anything years ago |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the reason is he had a really really good time with her in the bedroom alone so just wants to have her to himself for the night
Yeah and the next thing you know he’s whispering in her ear about how much better it would be if she was with him instead of you. Personally I think you’re treading on dodgy ground but it’s your life mate. Only you can answer your own questions.
What is his wife’s opinion of it all? Sounds to me that ‘the men’ are calling all the shots which is not ideal. "
Well he’s asked for advice so I’ve given it from his side of it. If it was the wife asking then she’d get advice from her side. As she’s nowhere to be seen and hasn’t given any input then how can she be given advice? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She is all for it as long as I am happy.
I trust her 100% and know it will only go as far as this meet if it happens "
So what advice are you looking for? Only you know if you are comfortable with the idea or are you concerned for her safety or something? |
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"She is all for it as long as I am happy.
I trust her 100% and know it will only go as far as this meet if it happens
So what advice are you looking for? Only you know if you are comfortable with the idea or are you concerned for her safety or something?"
It’s all very suspicious, you are ok, she’s ok, so what’s the thread about? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Suspicious I have only asked a question nothing from you lol
Just asking if people have done it and how it went the good bit and or bad bit"
Why don’t you bring your wife into the thread so we can see what her take on the idea is? |
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"Suspicious I have only asked a question nothing from you lol
Just asking if people have done it and how it went the good bit and or bad bit"
OP you asked for ‘advice’ and we have given it. If you are all happy with it then what ‘advice’ is needed?
My only concern would be your wife’s safety.
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By *J647Couple
over a year ago
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"alot of guy go for cuck couples just for this reason they know that some will play alone therefore to them its not really about cuckold it just about them fucking another woman ..my cuck is alway near me when i meet i want him to see n hear whats going on 100% if a guy is not happy to play without the cuck being near by then sorry hes not looking for cuck couples..."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So a guy we have meet on here on our couples page wants my wife alone for the night,
Wants me to drop her off at pub and end up back at hotel room
Any advice?"
What’s your couples username out of interest? No mention of you being part of a couple on your profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Suspicious I have only asked a question nothing from you lol
Just asking if people have done it and how it went the good bit and or bad bit"
ignore them just get out of it what you enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Suspicious I have only asked a question nothing from you lol
Just asking if people have done it and how it went the good bit and or bad bit"
ignore them just get out of it what you enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Suspicious I have only asked a question nothing from you lol
Just asking if people have done it and how it went the good bit and or bad bit"
ignore them just get out of it what you enjoy |
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"I think the reason is he had a really really good time with her in the bedroom alone so just wants to have her to himself for the night
I think it’s suspicious, why a full night? If you have to ask a bunch of strangers for an answer then you aren’t sure!
I've asked as we are not harden swingers and seeing what people think If its right wrong what to do not to do etc "
You said previously you're perfectly happy with the scenario, it was missing out on the 'fun', that concerned you. If that's the case why are you asking for opinions on what's right and wrong and how to behave? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"so not 100% then.... there's your 1% doubt!!
100% trust HER
99% trust him (can't be 100% with him)
Would she say she can trust you 100%?"
Trust me in what sence? |
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"so not 100% then.... there's your 1% doubt!!
100% trust HER
99% trust him (can't be 100% with him)
Would she say she can trust you 100%?
Trust me in what sence? "
You say you trust her 100%.
Does she trust you to the same degree? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"so not 100% then.... there's your 1% doubt!!
100% trust HER
99% trust him (can't be 100% with him)
Would she say she can trust you 100%?
Trust me in what sence?
You say you trust her 100%.
Does she trust you to the same degree?"
Yeah she dose but I'm not doing anything that means i need to be trusted.
I will be at home alone wanking lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"so not 100% then.... there's your 1% doubt!!
100% trust HER
99% trust him (can't be 100% with him)
Would she say she can trust you 100%?
Trust me in what sence?
You say you trust her 100%.
Does she trust you to the same degree?
Yeah she dose but I'm not doing anything that means i need to be trusted.
I will be at home alone wanking lol "
Sounds like a bum deal to me but each to their own I suppose. |
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"One of my fantasy
Hey, I could pick you up on my way to Manchester to watch the football (you could wear your new Utd shirt  ). I stay over night and would drop yo back home the next day. "
Good idea!
I don’t think the wife exists imo |
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"One of my fantasy
Hey, I could pick you up on my way to Manchester to watch the football (you could wear your new Utd shirt ). I stay over night and would drop yo back home the next day.
Good idea!
I don’t think the wife exists imo "
Me neither, but it’s one of TightandBusty fantasies and she’s wearing a Utd shirt in one of her pictures. So I’m thinking good conversation on the way up, bite to eat, drink, watch the match, some fun in the room, sleep and a hug, fun in the morning, breakfast, good conversation on the way back home. |
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"One of my fantasy
Hey, I could pick you up on my way to Manchester to watch the football (you could wear your new Utd shirt ). I stay over night and would drop yo back home the next day.
Good idea!
I don’t think the wife exists imo
Me neither, but it’s one of TightandBusty fantasies and she’s wearing a Utd shirt in one of her pictures. So I’m thinking good conversation on the way up, bite to eat, drink, watch the match, some fun in the room, sleep and a hug, fun in the morning, breakfast, good conversation on the way back home. "
Have you thought of therapy for that obsession? |
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"so not 100% then.... there's your 1% doubt!!
100% trust HER
99% trust him (can't be 100% with him)
Would she say she can trust you 100%?
Trust me in what sence?
You say you trust her 100%.
Does she trust you to the same degree?
Yeah she dose but I'm not doing anything that means i need to be trusted.
I will be at home alone wanking lol "
A 'young, good looking man' seeking 'nsa fun' who's married with a single profile is trusted 100% by his wife?
How do you know she doesn't have the female equivalent profile? |
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"One of my fantasy
Hey, I could pick you up on my way to Manchester to watch the football (you could wear your new Utd shirt ). I stay over night and would drop yo back home the next day.
Good idea!
I don’t think the wife exists imo
Me neither, but it’s one of TightandBusty fantasies and she’s wearing a Utd shirt in one of her pictures. So I’m thinking good conversation on the way up, bite to eat, drink, watch the match, some fun in the room, sleep and a hug, fun in the morning, breakfast, good conversation on the way back home.
Have you thought of therapy for that obsession? "
Which one? There’s a few there  |
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"Well it worked for us!
I personally think that as long as you have formed an ongoing arrangement, he can be trusted to look after her and everyone is in agreement then I don’t see what the problem is.
It’s very exciting wondering what they are up to and for how long. Much better than clockwatching from their part and......awesomely exciting depending on the situation when you or your wife returns. "
We have done this and it was brilliant. Such a turn on for us both. Wife sent me pics and even rang while they we shagging so I could listen. Sex was amazing when she came home. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well it worked for us!
I personally think that as long as you have formed an ongoing arrangement, he can be trusted to look after her and everyone is in agreement then I don’t see what the problem is.
It’s very exciting wondering what they are up to and for how long. Much better than clockwatching from their part and......awesomely exciting depending on the situation when you or your wife returns. We have done this and it was brilliant. Such a turn on for us both. Wife sent me pics and even rang while they we shagging so I could listen. Sex was amazing when she came home."
Would love to chat more to your privately but not able to |
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Never understood this... see what wife and bloke gets out of it ...don’t understand what hubby gets out of it......must be great for the wife , like being single again ... but some one indoors taking care of the bills... great life 
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"Never understood this... see what wife and bloke gets out of it ...don’t understand what hubby gets out of it......must be great for the wife , like being single again ... but some one indoors taking care of the bills... great life
Lol"
There's plenty of women that 'take care of the bills'! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We had a mmf with a guy and my other half, the nicest guy you could meet. It was a mind blowing night for all of us. And seeing them both orgasm together at the same time was out of this world!
She now occasionally stays at hotels all night on her own with him. I get lots of pics and videos! Through the night. And a very used and sore gf back in morning to clean up! Yum! |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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"Never understood this... see what wife and bloke gets out of it ...don’t understand what hubby gets out of it......must be great for the wife , like being single again ... but some one indoors taking care of the bills... great life
Lol"
I love my men going off on their own. I like hearing their tales and we often fuck to stories of their exploits.
What do I get out of it, or what do they get out of it when I'm playing on my own?
A partner who has had fun, is horny, who is happy and confident in their relationship and who's also confident sexually, |
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By *andm288Couple
over a year ago
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Just another single guy dreaming / fantasising
No verifications
No mention of couples profile
If he was part of a couples profile he could quite easily veri his single profile
So fantasist in my humble opinion
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