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over a year ago
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"My kids are a little older now, dad seems more appropriate these days.
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Same here and wouldn't feel right to use for my own father at 52 years of age. |
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Using the word “daddy” has more meaning in role play for many. It’s about protection and dominance for many not your father meaning.
Lots of people use the word “son” or “baby” it’s as an endearment word! So why’s that not the same? |
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"Id think it pretty damn odd someone calling me daddy considering im a 53 year old woman"
It’s not literally meaning being your dad! It’s hard to explain to people who aren’t open minded to others kinks. I don’t use it myself but I get it! Not my kink but I get it and respect it. |
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
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"Using the word “daddy” has more meaning in role play for many. It’s about protection and dominance for many not your father meaning.
Lots of people use the word “son” or “baby” it’s as an endearment word! So why’s that not the same?"
Probably because many men on here have daughters. When you spend years with a small child calling you daddy with everything perfectly innocent. Then hearing the same term from someone in a sexual sense is really weird and a bit emotionally confusing. (From experience) |
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"Using the word “daddy” has more meaning in role play for many. It’s about protection and dominance for many not your father meaning.
Lots of people use the word “son” or “baby” it’s as an endearment word! So why’s that not the same?"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Using the word “daddy” has more meaning in role play for many. It’s about protection and dominance for many not your father meaning.
Lots of people use the word “son” or “baby” it’s as an endearment word! So why’s that not the same?
Probably because many men on here have daughters. When you spend years with a small child calling you daddy with everything perfectly innocent. Then hearing the same term from someone in a sexual sense is really weird and a bit emotionally confusing. (From experience)"
For you maybe! But for others it’s a sexual word that plays a big role in the kink world! If you don’t get it that’s fine! But others do and it’s not in any way meant in a insestual context |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Using the word “daddy” has more meaning in role play for many. It’s about protection and dominance for many not your father meaning.
Lots of people use the word “son” or “baby” it’s as an endearment word! So why’s that not the same?"
Thank you!
But I think you're a very strange one, being open minded on a swingers site? I mean how dare you 
Personally I love it. |
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over a year ago
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"Using the word “daddy” has more meaning in role play for many. It’s about protection and dominance for many not your father meaning.
Lots of people use the word “son” or “baby” it’s as an endearment word! So why’s that not the same?
Thank you!
But I think you're a very strange one, being open minded on a swingers site? I mean how dare you
Personally I love it. "
Gosh I know!! Imagine ! Obviously swinging and couples fooking others infront of their partners is ok! Going to clubs is ok! But god forbid if you have a kink that isn’t in your ideology as being “ok” |
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"Id think it pretty damn odd someone calling me daddy considering im a 53 year old woman
It’s not literally meaning being your dad! It’s hard to explain to people who aren’t open minded to others kinks. I don’t use it myself but I get it! Not my kink but I get it and respect it. "
i get it. But do you here many 53 year old women being called daddy? It was a flippant answer surely you can see that |
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"Id think it pretty damn odd someone calling me daddy considering im a 53 year old woman
It’s not literally meaning being your dad! It’s hard to explain to people who aren’t open minded to others kinks. I don’t use it myself but I get it! Not my kink but I get it and respect it. i get it. But do you here many 53 year old women being called daddy? It was a flippant answer surely you can see that"
Age is unrelated to Dd/LG role play! It’s a role play! Just as any other role play so it’s not real regardless of age , role, gender , occupation etc |
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"Id think it pretty damn odd someone calling me daddy considering im a 53 year old woman
It’s not literally meaning being your dad! It’s hard to explain to people who aren’t open minded to others kinks. I don’t use it myself but I get it! Not my kink but I get it and respect it. i get it. But do you here many 53 year old women being called daddy? It was a flippant answer surely you can see that
Age is unrelated to Dd/LG role play! It’s a role play! Just as any other role play so it’s not real regardless of age , role, gender , occupation etc "
lol ok. I will leave you to it seems your on a role. Ive already said it was flippant
Guess im the only one that would think it strange if someone started calling me daddy during sex |
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"Id think it pretty damn odd someone calling me daddy considering im a 53 year old woman
It’s not literally meaning being your dad! It’s hard to explain to people who aren’t open minded to others kinks. I don’t use it myself but I get it! Not my kink but I get it and respect it. i get it. But do you here many 53 year old women being called daddy? It was a flippant answer surely you can see that
Age is unrelated to Dd/LG role play! It’s a role play! Just as any other role play so it’s not real regardless of age , role, gender , occupation etc "
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Its not always role play some people live the lifestyle 24/7 |
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"Id think it pretty damn odd someone calling me daddy considering im a 53 year old woman
It’s not literally meaning being your dad! It’s hard to explain to people who aren’t open minded to others kinks. I don’t use it myself but I get it! Not my kink but I get it and respect it. i get it. But do you here many 53 year old women being called daddy? It was a flippant answer surely you can see that
Age is unrelated to Dd/LG role play! It’s a role play! Just as any other role play so it’s not real regardless of age , role, gender , occupation etc lol ok. I will leave you to it seems your on a role. Ive already said it was flippant
Guess im the only one that would think it strange if someone started calling me daddy during sex"
I’m not on a role at all! And I’m struggling to see why anyone would call you daddy yes as your a woman ? Ok if your into gender role play fair enough but that’s not what we’re discussing, |
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"Id think it pretty damn odd someone calling me daddy considering im a 53 year old woman
It’s not literally meaning being your dad! It’s hard to explain to people who aren’t open minded to others kinks. I don’t use it myself but I get it! Not my kink but I get it and respect it. i get it. But do you here many 53 year old women being called daddy? It was a flippant answer surely you can see that
Age is unrelated to Dd/LG role play! It’s a role play! Just as any other role play so it’s not real regardless of age , role, gender , occupation etc ps
Its not always role play some people live the lifestyle 24/7"
Oh yes indeed they do and to them it’s a lifestyle! As is swinging to others. |
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"Id think it pretty damn odd someone calling me daddy considering im a 53 year old woman
It’s not literally meaning being your dad! It’s hard to explain to people who aren’t open minded to others kinks. I don’t use it myself but I get it! Not my kink but I get it and respect it. i get it. But do you here many 53 year old women being called daddy? It was a flippant answer surely you can see that
Age is unrelated to Dd/LG role play! It’s a role play! Just as any other role play so it’s not real regardless of age , role, gender , occupation etc lol ok. I will leave you to it seems your on a role. Ive already said it was flippant
Guess im the only one that would think it strange if someone started calling me daddy during sex
I’m not on a role at all! And I’m struggling to see why anyone would call you daddy yes as your a woman ? Ok if your into gender role play fair enough but that’s not what we’re discussing, "
i wasnt discussing anything i was answering the op
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"Id think it pretty damn odd someone calling me daddy considering im a 53 year old woman
It’s not literally meaning being your dad! It’s hard to explain to people who aren’t open minded to others kinks. I don’t use it myself but I get it! Not my kink but I get it and respect it. i get it. But do you here many 53 year old women being called daddy? It was a flippant answer surely you can see that
Age is unrelated to Dd/LG role play! It’s a role play! Just as any other role play so it’s not real regardless of age , role, gender , occupation etc lol ok. I will leave you to it seems your on a role. Ive already said it was flippant
Guess im the only one that would think it strange if someone started calling me daddy during sex
I’m not on a role at all! And I’m struggling to see why anyone would call you daddy yes as your a woman ? Ok if your into gender role play fair enough but that’s not what we’re discussing, i wasnt discussing anything i was answering the op
You seemed to have picked me up on it "
I’m sorry if it seems that way I apologise, x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Daddy is a fascinating term and the permutations it can imply...its all relative and subjective...i prefer being called Pappi at times"
There was a member on here once called pappi I recall. Anyone remember him? Sorry I’ve gone off the OP, just reminded me of him |
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"Id think it pretty damn odd someone calling me daddy considering im a 53 year old woman
It’s not literally meaning being your dad! It’s hard to explain to people who aren’t open minded to others kinks. I don’t use it myself but I get it! Not my kink but I get it and respect it. i get it. But do you here many 53 year old women being called daddy? It was a flippant answer surely you can see that
Age is unrelated to Dd/LG role play! It’s a role play! Just as any other role play so it’s not real regardless of age , role, gender , occupation etc lol ok. I will leave you to it seems your on a role. Ive already said it was flippant
Guess im the only one that would think it strange if someone started calling me daddy during sex
I’m not on a role at all! And I’m struggling to see why anyone would call you daddy yes as your a woman ? Ok if your into gender role play fair enough but that’s not what we’re discussing, i wasnt discussing anything i was answering the op
You seemed to have picked me up on it
I’m sorry if it seems that way I apologise, x"
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Whilst respecting other peoples right to participate in activities which stir deep emotional / sexual reactions through the medium of consenting role play, which may include dd/lg scenario's, I would rather not be referred to as a daddy as it would have a negative association with me. It is something that would be as unwelcome as me trying to piss on you without duscussing it beforehand.
Because it fits into your comfort zone, doesn't make others small minded if it doesn't fit into yours.
Communication is key after all. |
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Each to their own really, like someone has said earlier if I was having my wicked way with a lady and she started saying daddy etc it is just background noise! Same with some of the stuff I can get as some girls like the idea of me being portrayed as the dominant race (everyone is equal! just their kink) and I play along with it. |
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"Whilst respecting other peoples right to participate in activities which stir deep emotional / sexual reactions through the medium of consenting role play, which may include dd/lg scenario's, I would rather not be referred to as a daddy as it would have a negative association with me. It is something that would be as unwelcome as me trying to piss on you without duscussing it beforehand.
Because it fits into your comfort zone, doesn't make others small minded if it doesn't fit into yours.
Communication is key after all."
Most people who enjoy this kink wouldn't dream of just calling out daddy willy nilly. Its always something that should be discussed as with any d/s arrangement.
The problem is instead of just commenting that it's not something they are into they have to try and use every angle in which to belittle the people who do. They come across as being small minded and that's of their own doing! |
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"No chance of it happening to me as I don’t meet people but if I was and a man called me (a 52 year old woman) daddy he would be asked to get dressed and leave  "
Why would a man call you daddy though? Your a woman |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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I've been called it when getting intimate and to be perfectly honest it made me feel pretty uncomfortable - shocked even, as I wasn't expecting it at all. It suddenly had me worrying about what kind of fantasies she might have going through her head which I wasn't to be party to. |
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"I've been called it when getting intimate and to be perfectly honest it made me feel pretty uncomfortable - shocked even, as I wasn't expecting it at all. It suddenly had me worrying about what kind of fantasies she might have going through her head which I wasn't to be party to. "
I’ve been called “baby girl” I’m not a baby or a girl as such but hey ho. |
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"I've been called it when getting intimate and to be perfectly honest it made me feel pretty uncomfortable - shocked even, as I wasn't expecting it at all. It suddenly had me worrying about what kind of fantasies she might have going through her head which I wasn't to be party to.
I’ve been called “baby girl” I’m not a baby or a girl as such but hey ho. "
baby girl is a very american saying
I used to be on an international site and the american guys said it all the while. Made me cringe but got used to it after a while |
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"I've been called it when getting intimate and to be perfectly honest it made me feel pretty uncomfortable - shocked even, as I wasn't expecting it at all. It suddenly had me worrying about what kind of fantasies she might have going through her head which I wasn't to be party to.
I’ve been called “baby girl” I’m not a baby or a girl as such but hey ho. baby girl is a very american saying
I used to be on an international site and the american guys said it all the while. Made me cringe but got used to it after a while"
Its used frequently and many don’t bat an eyelid, it’s not meant literally your my baby girl! As in daddy role play. |
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"No chance of it happening to me as I don’t meet people but if I was and a man called me (a 52 year old woman) daddy he would be asked to get dressed and leave
Why would a man call you daddy though? Your a woman "
There’s some strange people about believe me |
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Personally I prefer to call a man sir who has that nurturing role over me in a Ds scene rather than daddy, but I'm comfortable being called baby, baby girl and princess when I'm in a "little" role. As said earlier the parameters would be well defined before any Ds play took place |
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
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"Using the word “daddy” has more meaning in role play for many. It’s about protection and dominance for many not your father meaning.
Lots of people use the word “son” or “baby” it’s as an endearment word! So why’s that not the same?
Probably because many men on here have daughters. When you spend years with a small child calling you daddy with everything perfectly innocent. Then hearing the same term from someone in a sexual sense is really weird and a bit emotionally confusing. (From experience)
For you maybe! But for others it’s a sexual word that plays a big role in the kink world! If you don’t get it that’s fine! But others do and it’s not in any way meant in a insestual context "
I am aware of that, but I don't class myself as a kinkster, so when she started with it I was a bit put out. I was merely extrapolating my experience out as a reason why it doesn't sit well with some. I let the lady i mentioned know from the start it wasn't my thing and I was playing along to keep her happy, as she introduced it several months into the relationship and everything else was good. However when we split she was slagging me off on her profile as not knowing how deep her kink was and being too vanilla. I now avoid it. |
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"Personally I prefer to call a man sir who has that nurturing role over me in a Ds scene rather than daddy, but I'm comfortable being called baby, baby girl and princess when I'm in a "little" role. As said earlier the parameters would be well defined before any Ds play took place "
Again it’s a kink or a fetish that some have, I don’t like baby girl or princess but I get that others do and understand it. I know how the sub takes on that roll of feeling protected and feeling looked after, I take on a brat more slut role than a little, but I get a lot of dynamics and try to understand everyone has different kinks. |
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"I've been called it when getting intimate and to be perfectly honest it made me feel pretty uncomfortable - shocked even, as I wasn't expecting it at all. It suddenly had me worrying about what kind of fantasies she might have going through her head which I wasn't to be party to. "
That's not on then. If she felt that way she should have spoken to you about it first.
If a guy called me a slut during sex, I'd stop play and talk about it. It's not my thing but I know it gets a lot of women off. |
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"Using the word “daddy” has more meaning in role play for many. It’s about protection and dominance for many not your father meaning.
Lots of people use the word “son” or “baby” it’s as an endearment word! So why’s that not the same?
Probably because many men on here have daughters. When you spend years with a small child calling you daddy with everything perfectly innocent. Then hearing the same term from someone in a sexual sense is really weird and a bit emotionally confusing. (From experience)
For you maybe! But for others it’s a sexual word that plays a big role in the kink world! If you don’t get it that’s fine! But others do and it’s not in any way meant in a insestual context
I am aware of that, but I don't class myself as a kinkster, so when she started with it I was a bit put out. I was merely extrapolating my experience out as a reason why it doesn't sit well with some. I let the lady i mentioned know from the start it wasn't my thing and I was playing along to keep her happy, as she introduced it several months into the relationship and everything else was good. However when we split she was slagging me off on her profile as not knowing how deep her kink was and being too vanilla. I now avoid it."
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She was wrong for doing that and I that wasn’t right for her. Everyone has their kinks vanilla or no vanilla and doesn’t make it right to poke fun either way x |
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I have used the word many time before and don’t mind it in certain situations.
However what I don’t like is when older men on here message me, they don’t know me but they assume I want a “Daddy” or want me to call them “daddy” it’s a bit strange to go straight to that when we haven’t spoken or “Daddy would like to fuck you” is a complete put off since I’ve never spoken to that person or said it’s okay to use that word. Just weird! |
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"I have used the word many time before and don’t mind it in certain situations.
However what I don’t like is when older men on here message me, they don’t know me but they assume I want a “Daddy” or want me to call them “daddy” it’s a bit strange to go straight to that when we haven’t spoken or “Daddy would like to fuck you” is a complete put off since I’ve never spoken to that person or said it’s okay to use that word. Just weird! "
Yes that’s just weird, some men do use it as a label , just as some men message saying hey I’m a DOM or master ,, oh godddddd I’ll delete you sunshine I think |
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"I have used the word many time before and don’t mind it in certain situations.
However what I don’t like is when older men on here message me, they don’t know me but they assume I want a “Daddy” or want me to call them “daddy” it’s a bit strange to go straight to that when we haven’t spoken or “Daddy would like to fuck you” is a complete put off since I’ve never spoken to that person or said it’s okay to use that word. Just weird!
Yes that’s just weird, some men do use it as a label , just as some men message saying hey I’m a DOM or master ,, oh godddddd I’ll delete you sunshine I think "
Oh god. The “I’m a Dom” messages make my eyes roll.
I mention I’m a submissive for those who are actually into kink but the amount of men on here who call themselves a Dom because they slapped a woman’s arse once make me laugh. |
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"I have used the word many time before and don’t mind it in certain situations.
However what I don’t like is when older men on here message me, they don’t know me but they assume I want a “Daddy” or want me to call them “daddy” it’s a bit strange to go straight to that when we haven’t spoken or “Daddy would like to fuck you” is a complete put off since I’ve never spoken to that person or said it’s okay to use that word. Just weird!
Yes that’s just weird, some men do use it as a label , just as some men message saying hey I’m a DOM or master ,, oh godddddd I’ll delete you sunshine I think
Oh god. The “I’m a Dom” messages make my eyes roll.
I mention I’m a submissive for those who are actually into kink but the amount of men on here who call themselves a Dom because they slapped a woman’s arse once make me laugh. "
bit like the amount of men who claim to be police lol. |
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"I have used the word many time before and don’t mind it in certain situations.
However what I don’t like is when older men on here message me, they don’t know me but they assume I want a “Daddy” or want me to call them “daddy” it’s a bit strange to go straight to that when we haven’t spoken or “Daddy would like to fuck you” is a complete put off since I’ve never spoken to that person or said it’s okay to use that word. Just weird!
Yes that’s just weird, some men do use it as a label , just as some men message saying hey I’m a DOM or master ,, oh godddddd I’ll delete you sunshine I think
Oh god. The “I’m a Dom” messages make my eyes roll.
I mention I’m a submissive for those who are actually into kink but the amount of men on here who call themselves a Dom because they slapped a woman’s arse once make me laugh. "
Some talk the talk, yet get a pair of cuffs on them and I’m like “ now who’s the daddy, bend over “ No darling your a switch at best now relax and enjoy  |
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"I have used the word many time before and don’t mind it in certain situations.
However what I don’t like is when older men on here message me, they don’t know me but they assume I want a “Daddy” or want me to call them “daddy” it’s a bit strange to go straight to that when we haven’t spoken or “Daddy would like to fuck you” is a complete put off since I’ve never spoken to that person or said it’s okay to use that word. Just weird!
Yes that’s just weird, some men do use it as a label , just as some men message saying hey I’m a DOM or master ,, oh godddddd I’ll delete you sunshine I think
Oh god. The “I’m a Dom” messages make my eyes roll.
I mention I’m a submissive for those who are actually into kink but the amount of men on here who call themselves a Dom because they slapped a woman’s arse once make me laugh.
Some talk the talk, yet get a pair of cuffs on them and I’m like “ now who’s the daddy, bend over “ No darling your a switch at best now relax and enjoy "
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"I have used the word many time before and don’t mind it in certain situations.
However what I don’t like is when older men on here message me, they don’t know me but they assume I want a “Daddy” or want me to call them “daddy” it’s a bit strange to go straight to that when we haven’t spoken or “Daddy would like to fuck you” is a complete put off since I’ve never spoken to that person or said it’s okay to use that word. Just weird!
Yes that’s just weird, some men do use it as a label , just as some men message saying hey I’m a DOM or master ,, oh godddddd I’ll delete you sunshine I think
Oh god. The “I’m a Dom” messages make my eyes roll.
I mention I’m a submissive for those who are actually into kink but the amount of men on here who call themselves a Dom because they slapped a woman’s arse once make me laugh. bit like the amount of men who claim to be police lol. "
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"I have used the word many time before and don’t mind it in certain situations.
However what I don’t like is when older men on here message me, they don’t know me but they assume I want a “Daddy” or want me to call them “daddy” it’s a bit strange to go straight to that when we haven’t spoken or “Daddy would like to fuck you” is a complete put off since I’ve never spoken to that person or said it’s okay to use that word. Just weird!
Yes that’s just weird, some men do use it as a label , just as some men message saying hey I’m a DOM or master ,, oh godddddd I’ll delete you sunshine I think
Oh god. The “I’m a Dom” messages make my eyes roll.
I mention I’m a submissive for those who are actually into kink but the amount of men on here who call themselves a Dom because they slapped a woman’s arse once make me laugh. bit like the amount of men who claim to be police lol. "
Or fire service  |
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"I have used the word many time before and don’t mind it in certain situations.
However what I don’t like is when older men on here message me, they don’t know me but they assume I want a “Daddy” or want me to call them “daddy” it’s a bit strange to go straight to that when we haven’t spoken or “Daddy would like to fuck you” is a complete put off since I’ve never spoken to that person or said it’s okay to use that word. Just weird!
Yes that’s just weird, some men do use it as a label , just as some men message saying hey I’m a DOM or master ,, oh godddddd I’ll delete you sunshine I think
Oh god. The “I’m a Dom” messages make my eyes roll.
I mention I’m a submissive for those who are actually into kink but the amount of men on here who call themselves a Dom because they slapped a woman’s arse once make me laugh. bit like the amount of men who claim to be police lol.
Or fire service "
yep. Show an interest in uniforms and the whole force message you lol. |
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I'm a Daddy to a slightly younger Fab lady who is into D/lg
It took a little getting used to when she first asked me just over a year ago but it's all about being protective and caring and guiding her
Don't knock it if you aren't into it. |
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"I'm a Daddy to a slightly younger Fab lady who is into D/lg
It took a little getting used to when she first asked me just over a year ago but it's all about being protective and caring and guiding her
Don't knock it if you aren't into it."
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Almost every guy on here calls women babe or baby and there isn’t outrage over it!? I think that’s far more inappropriate considering the constant infantilisation of women to sexualise them.
If discussed beforehand, I think a lot of pet names or derogatory terms can be sexy but as with all D/s play, boundaries should be discussed and respected. |
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Some people need to just stop linking this kink to paedophilia. Your forgetting its between CONSENTING ADULTS.
The DD isn't doing it because he secretly wants to fuck children, it has absolutely nothing to do with that.
But I guess the haters will always hate. Or more to the point they're just sheep following the majority because God forbid should the majority not like them! |
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I found that it wasnt for me.
Pounding away then hearing the lady using that word. Ive done most things that are discussed on here and would probably do them again but not that one... |
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I get it. I understand it, and I understand it is completely different to the age play that others jump to screaming from the rafters.
1st it’s between consenting adults. 2nd it’s a kink, nothing more. |
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
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"I'm a Daddy to a slightly younger Fab lady who is into D/lg
It took a little getting used to when she first asked me just over a year ago but it's all about being protective and caring and guiding her
Don't knock it if you aren't into it."
I wouldn't knock it, just stating that it can be disconcerting for those not into it, who are exposed to it when they aren't into that role play.
Having played the part of a Daddy when I was only doing it for the Bg I found it exhausting as it wasn't confined to the bedroom. It's not something I could be consistent with as it's not a natural part of me to want to have control over someone (note** I didn't take control, she asked me to control other parts of her life such as diet and exercise) especially as I have a very full time career.
I'm sure that if both parties are into the role play it can be very fulfilling.
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By *irthandgirthMan
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"Almost every guy on here calls women babe or baby and there isn’t outrage over it!? I think that’s far more inappropriate considering the constant infantilisation of women to sexualise them.
If discussed beforehand, I think a lot of pet names or derogatory terms can be sexy but as with all D/s play, boundaries should be discussed and respected."
I think you have hit the nail on the head. Calling a lady 'Babe' is an infantilisation of an adult. However it is used glibly by both males and females as a term.of endearment of other adults. I don't think many parents call their children 'baby'.
The term "Daddy' is the inverse, used by most children. I found it confusing. But that is only my experience of it. |
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