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Hi Folks, we have been on here a fair while now and have some lovely couples and a couple of nice guys. At this time we want MMF fun but have been messed around by "fakes".
Any advice on how to them out early doors gratefully appreciated. Thanks |
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over a year ago
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"Block non verified users in your filters if you haven't already. Its not foolproof but helps.
Doesn't that just means verified by meet tho ?"
No you can be just photo verified and get through them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are just lots of them, it is so hard to spot them, they are so good at it, they go along with it and pull out last thing, if you want to make up a extra guy, I would love to help |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have never bothered with photo verification as never thought it crucial
Do I look fake? If so I will have to sort that and maybe it accounts for some of the lack of meets.
Also I did not know why anyone would bother to set up a fake account. Seems a lot of work for nowt!
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"Block non verified users in your filters if you haven't already. Its not foolproof but helps.
Doesn't that just means verified by meet tho ?
No you can be just photo verified and get through them."
Ah cool. Thanks x |
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Had a “couple” message us yesterday telling us that they’re nervous newbies like us. We noticed they had no verifications and had photos that were 3 years old so just politely asked if they had met anyone before as they had been on here for a few years. They haven’t bothered replying  . There’s no definitive way of spotting fakes, even our profile looks genuine  . Go with your gut instinct. |
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I assume you're looking for single guys if you want mfm fun, so it's not so much that they're fake- I bet they are real blokes - as they talk a good game but don't deliver?
I don't put any weight on photo veris. Recent meet veris are good but still no guarantee.
From experience if they can't tell you what they want from the site/a meet they have come on here with grand ideas but take fright when you actually try and meet them. Experience counts.
I go a lot by gut feeling after a bit of a chat. And I don't consider someone a time waster unless they cancel after I get ready with no decent excuse. Everyone gets chance to change their minds, and I don't plan meets that involve a lot of effort and planning unless there's a back up so I'm not disappointed (why clubs are great) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Non-photo verified, but verified at a meet by one person.
Click on that person - they'll be non-photo verified.... but verified at a meet by -you guessed who.
On my old account I started naming no shows on my profile if I had proof via DMs that they disappeared at the last minute. That saw a sharp reduction in timewasters.
Last but not leaat are the profile clearly using a number of different people in their gallery ! 5 dick pics (of course).... but 2 have moles. In different places.
**Special award to the guy in Bolton whose MF profile clearly had 2 different womwn as the F - not even a close resemblance.
"Got any hobbies ?"
"Impersonating 8 different people on swingers website"
"Oh"
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"Thanks for the replies folks. It's bloody frustrating especially when "play time" is so limited. We would gladly pay a little more for membership if it meant it discouraged fakes. "
I used to be on another site which charged quite a hefty fee and it was far worse! And so few local guys matching my criteria. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the replies folks. It's bloody frustrating especially when "play time" is so limited. We would gladly pay a little more for membership if it meant it discouraged fakes. "
What do you mean by fakes? Because its quite easy to find genuine male profiles here. If you mean they don't turn up, that doesn't necessarily mean they're fake, just chicken. |
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over a year ago
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Anyone who keeps to seem finding excuses as to why simple means of communication can’t be had. Fake.
Anyone who only send you the pictures which are in their fabs... Fake.
Anyone who’s pictures just look fake, definite fake.
Any couple which constantly advertises the male half is only free, fake.
They’re the rules I go by. |
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"Had a “couple” message us yesterday telling us that they’re nervous newbies like us. We noticed they had no verifications and had photos that were 3 years old so just politely asked if they had met anyone before as they had been on here for a few years. They haven’t bothered replying . There’s no definitive way of spotting fakes, even our profile looks genuine . Go with your gut instinct."
That's pretty good advice thanks. We have found couples are normally genuine. It's the single guys that are hard to suss out. |
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"Thanks for the replies folks. It's bloody frustrating especially when "play time" is so limited. We would gladly pay a little more for membership if it meant it discouraged fakes.
What do you mean by fakes? Because its quite easy to find genuine male profiles here. If you mean they don't turn up, that doesn't necessarily mean they're fake, just chicken. "
That's a very fair point. Thank you. I guess we mean fakes. Our last experience involved arranging to meet the guy. He blocked us last minute for no apparent reason. Another source told us that he subsequently put "need another user name now ha ha" then closed his account. |
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"We always like to see a green flag verification, not fool proof I know but is quite tricky if you’re blagging it.
Ed"
Another good point. We are going to start applying stricter conditions on who we even speak to. PS. Had a sneak at your profile. WOW that is an impressive penis!!! |
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"Anyone who keeps to seem finding excuses as to why simple means of communication can’t be had. Fake.
Anyone who only send you the pictures which are in their fabs... Fake.
Anyone who’s pictures just look fake, definite fake.
Any couple which constantly advertises the male half is only free, fake.
They’re the rules I go by. "
Thank you. Nice profile btw. Sexy without showing too much.  |
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"Thanks for the replies folks. It's bloody frustrating especially when "play time" is so limited. We would gladly pay a little more for membership if it meant it discouraged fakes.
I used to be on another site which charged quite a hefty fee and it was far worse! And so few local guys matching my criteria. "
I guess we still have a lot to learn. Lol. Although we have been members a while now and had a few meets (clubs inc) we ain't that experienced. |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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There isn't one simple sign it is more a combination of things:
Lack of photo verification,
Been on a long time with no verification of any kind,
No photos, little or profile write up,
Try to move the conversation quickly on to sex talk or move to another platform such as kik.
Won't exchange face pics or if you say you want to speak to them on the phone they won't provide a number,
If a couple the female is always busy,
Ask to see more photos or friends only photos.
None of the above definitely defines a profile as fake but in our experience 9 time out of 10 it does.
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"There isn't one simple sign it is more a combination of things:
Lack of photo verification,
Been on a long time with no verification of any kind,
No photos, little or profile write up,
Try to move the conversation quickly on to sex talk or move to another platform such as kik.
Won't exchange face pics or if you say you want to speak to them on the phone they won't provide a number,
If a couple the female is always busy,
Ask to see more photos or friends only photos.
None of the above definitely defines a profile as fake but in our experience 9 time out of 10 it does.
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That's very good advice. Thank you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us they are dead easy to spot.
We always insist on a strictly social meet first, it is always on a Friday or Saturday evening in a public place with no time constraints. We also exchange text's at the very least beforehand.
If they turn up, fair enough. If we feel it is worth pursuing, we insist that they invite us to their home before we invite them to ours.
Seems to out the fakes
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We’re not photo verified but definitely not fake at all
So why wouldn't you get photo verified? Surely it would be beneficial to you  "
Why on earth would it be beneficial to them? They’re a well verified couple. |
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"Anyone who keeps to seem finding excuses as to why simple means of communication can’t be had. Fake.
Anyone who only send you the pictures which are in their fabs... Fake.
Anyone who’s pictures just look fake, definite fake.
Any couple which constantly advertises the male half is only free, fake.
They’re the rules I go by. "
I disagree with your second point, if you mean they only send pics that are on their profile. I'm still adding to this incarnation but on my previous one had a good number and I used to get very fed up of being asked for more, if you want wank fodder there's plenty free on the web. |
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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago
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no big issue to us .more good guys than fakes on here .had many many meets been let down only a few times .and hey ho we just have a bit of fun ourselfs .we not travell more than 20 miles .so not the end of the world if some one no show.dont know if that helps but just our view.
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We all have to be understanding of the dynamic of sorting three or four people who are ready to meet up, its not always straight forward, we all at times either feel less than confident or under pressure so sometimes it won’t work.
We’ve had to pull out of a meeting with a couple we’d already met previously because of my menstrual cycle and the other guy of the couple was a dick about it but then said he understood (too late!).
But to sort the dreamers from the shaggers, talk on the phone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi Folks, we have been on here a fair while now and have some lovely couples and a couple of nice guys. At this time we want MMF fun but have been messed around by "fakes".
Any advice on how to them out early doors gratefully appreciated. Thanks"
If it's a couple ask to speak to the lady on the phone. The single guys with couple profiles will run a mile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone who keeps to seem finding excuses as to why simple means of communication can’t be had. Fake.
Anyone who only send you the pictures which are in their fabs... Fake.
Anyone who’s pictures just look fake, definite fake.
Any couple which constantly advertises the male half is only free, fake.
They’re the rules I go by.
I disagree with your second point, if you mean they only send pics that are on their profile. I'm still adding to this incarnation but on my previous one had a good number and I used to get very fed up of being asked for more, if you want wank fodder there's plenty free on the web. "
I don’t mean wank fodder photos I mean a simple request like, send me one of your face or one of the two of you together.
Simple photos that everyone can do.
Excuses like “I only use this phone for fabs it doesn’t have a camera on it...” what phone is hooked up to the internet but doesn’t have a camera now a days? |
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"Anyone who keeps to seem finding excuses as to why simple means of communication can’t be had. Fake.
Anyone who only send you the pictures which are in their fabs... Fake.
Anyone who’s pictures just look fake, definite fake.
Any couple which constantly advertises the male half is only free, fake.
They’re the rules I go by.
I disagree with your second point, if you mean they only send pics that are on their profile. I'm still adding to this incarnation but on my previous one had a good number and I used to get very fed up of being asked for more, if you want wank fodder there's plenty free on the web.
I don’t mean wank fodder photos I mean a simple request like, send me one of your face or one of the two of you together.
Simple photos that everyone can do.
Excuses like “I only use this phone for fabs it doesn’t have a camera on it...” what phone is hooked up to the internet but doesn’t have a camera now a days? "
That's fair enough if they aren't on the profile already but I still wouldn't humour you with more if they were. |
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