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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve had a dildo and other stuff like that in me but never had the real thing is they more of a difference as I wouldn’t love to know does anyone have any input into this matter ? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"I’ve had a dildo and other stuff like that in me but never had the real thing is they more of a difference as I wouldn’t love to know does anyone have any input into this matter ? "
The sensation is different with the real thing - a cock is more flexible so it doesn't feel quite so rigid like a dildo does |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quick question, is male anal any good? Like a dildo up the back poop chute  (asking for a friend) 
Have you ever put a finger up x
Nope! I’ve never done anything lol "
Try that and see if you like it then. Start off with a pinky and work up to a thumb x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve had a dildo and other stuff like that in me but never had the real thing is they more of a difference as I wouldn’t love to know does anyone have any input into this matter ?
The sensation is different with the real thing - a cock is more flexible so it doesn't feel quite so rigid like a dildo does"
Thanks very much I have a feeling I would like it just got to try find someone on here that’s up for it theirs a lot of time wasters wich is quite bad thanks for your input |
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If you’re that curious just go for it, if you don’t like it don’t do it again but at least you’ll know. Might be worth finding someone with a lot of experience though as they’ll know how to make it more pleasurable if you’re open and honest with them about it being your first time |
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Like most things, it can grow on you - most sexually stimulating experiences are like that. Ok, wanking is fairly easy, though anal technique could take some mastering. Ideally you are as relaxed as possible but turned on but keeping a focus on technique could hamper that a little. It's probably why you'd need to explore a few times, so you're increasingly comfortable and skilled. In many respects it's simple but you'll ideally not cause yourself pain, which would possibly tighten you up.
In the perfect world you'd be with a partner, where you can hand over some control and they'll heighten sexually getting more turned on.
Do it when you are ready and expect early attempts to be more mechanical undertakings than sexual revelations - that comes with expertise and your mind and body being in synch more.
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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"The sensation is different with the real thing - a cock is more flexible so it doesn't feel quite so rigid like a dildo does"
This. Both feel fantastic though.
Also OP:
men have a prostate so actually more pleasurable for a man then for a woman... And done right for a woman it feels fucking amazing... Just remember, go slow, use lots of lube and I find backing onto a finger/toy/cock easier then it trying to push it's way in |
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"just get a good pounding , feels amazing , try a gay sauna , might get a queue lol just tell them your new to it "
Not my kind of scene I’m afraid! (Talking about receiving anal pleasure hypocritical I know!) lol |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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"just get a good pounding , feels amazing , try a gay sauna , might get a queue lol just tell them your new to it
Not my kind of scene I’m afraid! (Talking about receiving anal pleasure hypocritical I know!) lol "
Not really hypocritical at all. Enjoying anal play doesn't make you gay. (God damn I'm getting sick of saying that. It's like saying if a woman likes a man going down on her, using his fingers or fisting her then she's a lesbian....what makes you gay is an attraction or desire for the same gender...)
The poster may have been refering to the guy asking about the difference between a dildo and a cock and his comment that he wants to try it. |
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"just get a good pounding , feels amazing , try a gay sauna , might get a queue lol just tell them your new to it
Not my kind of scene I’m afraid! (Talking about receiving anal pleasure hypocritical I know!) lol
Not really hypocritical at all. Enjoying anal play doesn't make you gay. (God damn I'm getting sick of saying that. It's like saying if a woman likes a man going down on her, using his fingers or fisting her then she's a lesbian....what makes you gay is an attraction or desire for the same gender...)
The poster may have been refering to the guy asking about the difference between a dildo and a cock and his comment that he wants to try it. "
Ahhh I get you! I guess I’m just curious into how it feels, if I don’t like it then I don’t and if I do that’s bonus in the bedroom!
Right I’m off to watch a program about sloths  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"just get a good pounding , feels amazing , try a gay sauna , might get a queue lol just tell them your new to it "
Kind of nervous about going to a gay sauna to be honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"just get a good pounding , feels amazing , try a gay sauna , might get a queue lol just tell them your new to it
Kind of nervous about going to a gay sauna to be honest
Same here! "
Yes I would prefer like private meets as I’m not out or anything like thayb |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why don’t you just try it. No one will judge you.
Promise!
I’m not sure if I want to try it but then I’m not sure if I don’t want to  "
Simple rules in life try every thing 3 times..
Once to try it.
Twice to see if you liked it.
Thrice to see if you really liked it...
Mistress Amelia x  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I'VE had a dildo up there but I imagine the real thing is so much better "
Not better just different as I said above - although as you're listed as straight I guess you'll never find out |
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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Kind of nervous about going to a gay sauna to be honest "
Whilst this is natural with this sort of new experience there really isn't reason to be over nervous. Most gay/bi saunas have discreet entrances and once your inside nobody is going to negatively judge you for being there. I have always found the other patrons to be well behaved about accepting boundaries. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it hurts, you're doing it wrong. As everyone else has said, just have a go, experiment, take your time. Soon you'll relax into it and be able to take more and be more relaxed about it.
I've only experieced it with solo play, but am keen to experiment further. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Kind of nervous about going to a gay sauna to be honest
Whilst this is natural with this sort of new experience there really isn't reason to be over nervous. Most gay/bi saunas have discreet entrances and once your inside nobody is going to negatively judge you for being there. I have always found the other patrons to be well behaved about accepting boundaries. "
I’m just nervous as I don’t know how to act or if I may meet someone in their if you understand where I’m
Coming from |
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By *exfordMan
over a year ago
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"Why don’t you just try it. No one will judge you.
Promise!
I’m not sure if I want to try it but then I’m not sure if I don’t want to "
Obviously you do otherwise you wouldn't ask. As another contributor has stated, no one will judge you. Get on and get one up you, it's 2018 not 1918. |
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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I’m just nervous as I don’t know how to act or if I may meet someone in their if you understand where I’m
Coming from "
At the saunas I have been to you enter into a lobby area where the staff check you are aware of the nature of the establishment before buzzing you through to a reception area which is shared with the rest area. You then pay usually being asked to give a first name, it is up to you if you give your real one especially when paying by cash. You then get given a towel and a locker key along with directions to the changing area.
You are expected to strip down and put on your towel. Depending o how busy it is you may get watched by others in the changing area but this is usually reasonably discrete.
From the changing area it is normal to go and have a shower. Normally the wet areas of saunas are nominally no play areas but these rules can be ignored by some so it is possible that this could be the first area where more overt interest could be shown towards you. Typically when someone else is interested they will start with non verbal ques this can be similar flirting found in other areas of life or more explicit. Typically this ranges from making eye contact, smiling and then looking you up and down through looking at you and holding or rubbing crotch through to the more brazen possibly placing a gand o your arm or leg. If your interested show positive response such as smiling back, mirroring behaviour or in the case of touching movong into the touch or touching back. If you not interested it is usually sufficient to break eye contact or move slightly away but occasionally with the more determined you may have to say no or sorry your not interested.
After showering you normally find most men will spend some time in the sauna and streamroom. Again you can get some flirting in the saunas but the steamroom is often an area where more overt interest may be shown. Most will sit or lay on top of thier towel in the sauna and leave the towel outside the steamroom on a hook. In the steamroom it is not uncommon to find oral sex occuring but rairly anything further. The steamroom is an area where intrest is quiet likely to be shown by someone gradually reaching over and touching an arm or leg although others will do so by openly watching you whilst stroking themselves. Again if you interested give positive signals but if you not it is quiet reasonable to move away a bit or gently remove a hand.
Most gay saunas then have a seperate set of play rooms. These usually have subdued lighting and may include cubicals with gloryholes between them, video rooms showing gay porn, private cabins with locking doors, group play rooms and dark group play rooms. Most saunas will have pots of condoms and satchets of lube dotted around the play spaces along with bins for the used items.
In the play areas you will find the other patrons take a number of different approaches. Some will wander around criusing who is about and what is going on. Some will loiter around the corridors usually in key points like the enterance to the video room. Some will go into the video room and sit watching possibly openly masturbating. Some will go into private cabins and sit or lie down with the door open, this is an invitation for others to join them. Finally the darkroom which tends to be a much more full on experience where men are very likely to make thier interest known by making physical contact possibly directly reaching for genitals.
In any of these play areas it is quiet reasonable to politely decline someone and virtually everyone responds to even the most subtle clues but occasionally you may need to firmly say no. If all you want is to experiment with oral this will be fine this is all quiet a lot want. If you decide you want more you need to decide what you want and be prepared to possibly flirt with several guys during the visit and also give some guidance of what you want. Agai this guidance can be verbal but is often using body positioning for example men looking to be fucked will often position themselve somewhere, naked, with their bottoms prominently displayed. It is also worth knowing that it is common for interest to be shown in more public areas but one or other other the parties to then ask if this is moving to a private cabin.
Remember if you ever unhappy it is always acceptible to move away either to somewhere you feel safer like the relaxation lounge or to just get dressed and leave.
If you have any other questions please ask either in the forum or privately.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m just nervous as I don’t know how to act or if I may meet someone in their if you understand where I’m
Coming from
At the saunas I have been to you enter into a lobby area where the staff check you are aware of the nature of the establishment before buzzing you through to a reception area which is shared with the rest area. You then pay usually being asked to give a first name, it is up to you if you give your real one especially when paying by cash. You then get given a towel and a locker key along with directions to the changing area.
Thank you very much I feel
A lot better about going and experimenting with a few things I would love to suck a lot of. Guys off in the one sitting tho
You are expected to strip down and put on your towel. Depending o how busy it is you may get watched by others in the changing area but this is usually reasonably discrete.
From the changing area it is normal to go and have a shower. Normally the wet areas of saunas are nominally no play areas but these rules can be ignored by some so it is possible that this could be the first area where more overt interest could be shown towards you. Typically when someone else is interested they will start with non verbal ques this can be similar flirting found in other areas of life or more explicit. Typically this ranges from making eye contact, smiling and then looking you up and down through looking at you and holding or rubbing crotch through to the more brazen possibly placing a gand o your arm or leg. If your interested show positive response such as smiling back, mirroring behaviour or in the case of touching movong into the touch or touching back. If you not interested it is usually sufficient to break eye contact or move slightly away but occasionally with the more determined you may have to say no or sorry your not interested.
After showering you normally find most men will spend some time in the sauna and streamroom. Again you can get some flirting in the saunas but the steamroom is often an area where more overt interest may be shown. Most will sit or lay on top of thier towel in the sauna and leave the towel outside the steamroom on a hook. In the steamroom it is not uncommon to find oral sex occuring but rairly anything further. The steamroom is an area where intrest is quiet likely to be shown by someone gradually reaching over and touching an arm or leg although others will do so by openly watching you whilst stroking themselves. Again if you interested give positive signals but if you not it is quiet reasonable to move away a bit or gently remove a hand.
Most gay saunas then have a seperate set of play rooms. These usually have subdued lighting and may include cubicals with gloryholes between them, video rooms showing gay porn, private cabins with locking doors, group play rooms and dark group play rooms. Most saunas will have pots of condoms and satchets of lube dotted around the play spaces along with bins for the used items.
In the play areas you will find the other patrons take a number of different approaches. Some will wander around criusing who is about and what is going on. Some will loiter around the corridors usually in key points like the enterance to the video room. Some will go into the video room and sit watching possibly openly masturbating. Some will go into private cabins and sit or lie down with the door open, this is an invitation for others to join them. Finally the darkroom which tends to be a much more full on experience where men are very likely to make thier interest known by making physical contact possibly directly reaching for genitals.
In any of these play areas it is quiet reasonable to politely decline someone and virtually everyone responds to even the most subtle clues but occasionally you may need to firmly say no. If all you want is to experiment with oral this will be fine this is all quiet a lot want. If you decide you want more you need to decide what you want and be prepared to possibly flirt with several guys during the visit and also give some guidance of what you want. Agai this guidance can be verbal but is often using body positioning for example men looking to be fucked will often position themselve somewhere, naked, with their bottoms prominently displayed. It is also worth knowing that it is common for interest to be shown in more public areas but one or other other the parties to then ask if this is moving to a private cabin.
Remember if you ever unhappy it is always acceptible to move away either to somewhere you feel safer like the relaxation lounge or to just get dressed and leave.
If you have any other questions please ask either in the forum or privately.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had the real thing thismorning and to be honest don’t know if because wasn’t much lube or what but wasn’t and good as I had built it up to be just wanting to try again already lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quick question, is male anal any good? Like a dildo up the back poop chute (asking for a friend) "
It can be a pleasure if done correctly.... lube, lube and when you think you’ve used enough .... more lube!
Settle in, don’t rush things, adjust to the feel and then enjoy the ride 
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