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By *ottie_84 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"Hmmm it happens dont mind the first time but its when it gets exesive when it gets hard"
Seems to be happening a lot lately I’m still waiting for the “your a nice person BUT” excuse from them should be used to it by now  |
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I was boinking a guy years ago. Lovely guy but soooooo unreliable. Constantly arranged to meet, I'd prep, then he'd cancel with a plane excuse 10 minutes before we were due to meet.
I now won't even attempt to meet him due to him messing me about, and he constantly begs to meet up again. I've had to cut him off because it gets boring really fast. I know he won't show, so I'm not listening to his crap any more.
His excuses were asking the lines of, fell asleep, daughter (in her 30's) needs a lift to the shop, his mum cooked him food, etc...
It's a shame, as I actually quite liked him, but I'm not giving him wank fodder when he's not getting me off! |
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"I was boinking a guy years ago. Lovely guy but soooooo unreliable. Constantly arranged to meet, I'd prep, then he'd cancel with a plane excuse 10 minutes before we were due to meet.
I now won't even attempt to meet him due to him messing me about, and he constantly begs to meet up again. I've had to cut him off because it gets boring really fast. I know he won't show, so I'm not listening to his crap any more.
His excuses were asking the lines of, fell asleep, daughter (in her 30's) needs a lift to the shop, his mum cooked him food, etc...
It's a shame, as I actually quite liked him, but I'm not giving him wank fodder when he's not getting me off! "
#crap excuse #along the lines of, sorry! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve had a couple of sexy, filthy, fun guys who flaked out on me repeatedly. Niw when they contact me with some intensely dirty idea involving unnamed other parties (I’ve met this 19 yr old acrobat and she really likes the idea of meeting an older couple’. Etc) I just agree to the meet, let them make arrangements etc safe in the knowledge it will never come to anything. Then get on with setting up my own, real plans. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had this. He was meant to be a regular fwb, but in reality all he wanted was a quick hook up when convenient for him. "
Yes, sadly some guys here think we hang on string and just want to wait for them to say... Drop yer knickers love... Sadly its not like that no acceptable.
Told a guy this and he still texts me... You want a fuck says.
Sadly I don't give in... No one should we are not hookers |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I had this. He was meant to be a regular fwb, but in reality all he wanted was a quick hook up when convenient for him.
Yes, sadly some guys here think we hang on string and just want to wait for them to say... Drop yer knickers love... Sadly its not like that no acceptable.
Told a guy this and he still texts me... You want a fuck says.
Sadly I don't give in... No one should we are not hookers"
Oh and he wanted me to be exclusive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have this problem too, women don’t seam to want to meet. Oh they can talk and talk on here but if there’s an actual meet to go to they make excuses. Damn annoying. |
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By *ottie_84 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"I have this problem too, women don’t seam to want to meet. Oh they can talk and talk on here but if there’s an actual meet to go to they make excuses. Damn annoying."
If I arrange to meet I will then up unless my kids are ill or Mother Nature has appeared |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I have this problem too, women don’t seam to want to meet. Oh they can talk and talk on here but if there’s an actual meet to go to they make excuses. Damn annoying."
Neither do men or couples, it's not gender specific. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hmmm it happens dont mind the first time but its when it gets exesive when it gets hard
Seems to be happening a lot lately I’m still waiting for the “your a nice person BUT” excuse from them should be used to it by now "
Ok il come break your funk next month if your a good girl |
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By *ottie_84 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"Hmmm it happens dont mind the first time but its when it gets exesive when it gets hard
Seems to be happening a lot lately I’m still waiting for the “your a nice person BUT” excuse from them should be used to it by now
Ok il come break your funk next month if your a good girl"
Me be good? Got no fucking choice might as well buy a chastity belt! |
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By *ottie_84 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"I'd say if it was a friend or a fwb making excuses they're trying to let you down gently and aren't interested in meeting up with you anymore.
I say bin them off and get some new ones!"
Thing is though I’d rather they were honest instead of stringing me along |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"I'd say if it was a friend or a fwb making excuses they're trying to let you down gently and aren't interested in meeting up with you anymore.
I say bin them off and get some new ones!
Thing is though I’d rather they were honest instead of stringing me along "
Yes, I'd prefer that to. I'd get fed up with the excuses and be off!! |
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By *ottie_84 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"I would just stop asking them to meet and find someone else if it's clear they're not really up for it. "
That’s the thing I haven’t been, it’s just been pretty much radio silence from them with the odd “hello” etc |
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