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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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question for the ladies, i know fab can be a pain for guys, as we do become stupid on them DMs and tbf to you female fabbers i can see why you ignore most messages. but ladies, what makes you think hmmm i should message back, is it the photos, the bio or the message? and does race make a difference?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me personally it has a lot to do with the message esp if someone has quite obvs put a lot of effort in obvs i need to find someone attractive as well and race doesnt matter to myself |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For me personally it has a lot to do with the message esp if someone has quite obvs put a lot of effort in obvs i need to find someone attractive as well and race doesnt matter to myself "
the reason why i ask, im asian (indian decent) and ive seen so many profiles say no asains no blacks, i understand its personal preference but it made me curious to see how many females do like darker skin tones, i do understand asians can be arseholes over DMs but it makes us all look bad, especially when white females are my cup of tea... i want beige babies one day |
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
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"For me personally it has a lot to do with the message esp if someone has quite obvs put a lot of effort in obvs i need to find someone attractive as well and race doesnt matter to myself
the reason why i ask, im asian (indian decent) and ive seen so many profiles say no asains no blacks, i understand its personal preference but it made me curious to see how many females do like darker skin tones, i do understand asians can be arseholes over DMs but it makes us all look bad, especially when white females are my cup of tea... i want beige babies one day"
That kinda comment at the end makes u look bad!
Back to orginal question, personally i check the profile before reading new messages, if its way off from what i look for i just delete unread. If its got past that hurdle then all depends on the message content. If its clearly a copy paste job then i kick myself for opening before deleting. Dick pics = delete, asking stuff clearly covered on my profile = delete |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"For me personally it has a lot to do with the message esp if someone has quite obvs put a lot of effort in obvs i need to find someone attractive as well and race doesnt matter to myself
the reason why i ask, im asian (indian decent) and ive seen so many profiles say no asains no blacks, i understand its personal preference but it made me curious to see how many females do like darker skin tones, i do understand asians can be arseholes over DMs but it makes us all look bad, especially when white females are my cup of tea... i want beige babies one day
That kinda comment at the end makes u look bad!
Back to orginal question, personally i check the profile before reading new messages, if its way off from what i look for i just delete unread. If its got past that hurdle then all depends on the message content. If its clearly a copy paste job then i kick myself for opening before deleting. Dick pics = delete, asking stuff clearly covered on my profile = delete"
the beige babies comment?
yeah id never send a dick pic. i know females don't like them.
Guys really do make it hard for everyone |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yep that comment....its up there with the "i want to impregnate" comments that freely fly around this site lol
Its a swinging site not matchfishdotcoms "
daym, i didnt want it to come across like that. i dont WANT to impregnate anyone... but it was highlighting that i find white females attractive |
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I try and reply to all messages even if it’s a courteous no thanks.
What makes me reply positively is a non sexual first message where they have clearly read our profile. I also look at their profile to see if there’s any attraction
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