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My kinda girl. Do people find love here?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i don't think any person on here would find love. there a difference between Lust and Love and you can easily get it mistake with "Love" so therefore i don't think is a place for love as in having a relationship... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i don't think any person on here would find love. there a difference between Lust and Love and you can easily get it mistake with "Love" so therefore i don't think is a place for love as in having a relationship..."
There are lots of loving couples on here, you only have to read the threads regularly to see that.  |
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By *edhotminxWoman
over a year ago
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"i don't think any person on here would find love. there a difference between Lust and Love and you can easily get it mistake with "Love" so therefore i don't think is a place for love as in having a relationship..."
My other half and I met on FAB, and it's moved on to being a relationship. We both weren't looking for a permanent partner, but we clicked and have been together ever since and thoroughly enjoying the party scene as a couple. So it does happen, but there is a big difference between 'lust' and 'love', it's just recognising the fact. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"I need a girl who enjoys being a total slut, with me and with others. Who enjoys having her man help her explore and push her boundaries to the max. A girl who wants her cake and to eat it 
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Pretty much already doing this already, but on my own. Yay emancipation!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i don't think any person on here would find love. there a difference between Lust and Love and you can easily get it mistake with "Love" so therefore i don't think is a place for love as in having a relationship..."
You're quite wrong there pal. Siren & I met through swinging in 2007, we were married in 2008, our first child was born in 2009 and our second is due in January. Don't so much swinging these days but we'll be come back to it at some point in the future. |
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"I need a girl who enjoys being a total slut, with me and with others. Who enjoys having her man help her explore and push her boundaries to the max. A girl who wants her cake and to eat it
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There's a difference between need and want.
I don't recall "a girl who enjoys being a total slut" featuring on Maslow's Hierarchy of Human Needs. I'm sure I'd have paid a helluva lot more attention if it did. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i don't think any person on here would find love. there a difference between Lust and Love and you can easily get it mistake with "Love" so therefore i don't think is a place for love as in having a relationship..."
Sorry, but there are a fair few on here who would disagree with you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We also met on Fab, nearly a year and a half ago, neither of us were looking for a relationship, but we ended up falling madly in love, now living together and couldn't be happier :D |
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I know loads of people that have met through the scene and found love. 1 such couple are getting married next year.
It is perfectly possible, you just have to be honest with yourself and each other. |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
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"i don't think any person on here would find love. there a difference between Lust and Love and you can easily get it mistake with "Love" so therefore i don't think is a place for love as in having a relationship...
Sorry, but there are a fair few on here who would disagree with you!"
Yep, me for one!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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IMO people are at their most attractive when they're relaxed and enjoying themselves so it's little wonder that people connect on more than a sexual level when playing. |
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it seems to me that the one thing that all the couples that i know of who met on fab have in common is that non of them were looking for a partner but found one in spite of that.
the harder you look and the more you define what you're looking for the less likely it is that you will recognise an actual match - many of the best, most loving and well matched couples i know don't fit each others original 'type'.
good look in your quest, but i do believe that love finds you not the other way around. |
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"i don't think any person on here would find love. there a difference between Lust and Love and you can easily get it mistake with "Love" so therefore i don't think is a place for love as in having a relationship..."
I definitely think people find love on here, there are many examples of that. At the end of the day when you are on a meet you are still meeting a person and like any other encounter that can become something more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Another couple here who met on the site. As the other posts on here and countless other threads demonstrate, it's clearly not uncommon.
We were also not looking for it. No one ever finds love when they are looking for it. And to address the OP no one ever finds love when they have such a specific idea of what they want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i don't think any person on here would find love. there a difference between Lust and Love and you can easily get it mistake with "Love" so therefore i don't think is a place for love as in having a relationship..."
. I did
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"i don't think any person on here would find love. there a difference between Lust and Love and you can easily get it mistake with "Love" so therefore i don't think is a place for love as in having a relationship..."
Another single man who doesnt understand swinging  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i don't think any person on here would find love. there a difference between Lust and Love and you can easily get it mistake with "Love" so therefore i don't think is a place for love as in having a relationship...
Sorry, but there are a fair few on here who would disagree with you!
Yep, me for one!!"
And me fa another lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After a time people change maybe a sub to start untill she starts to wish to call the tune ...... theres more to life ... subs are people and alot have there own values and needs .. her cake no its the cake your feeding her , lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i don't think any person on here would find love. there a difference between Lust and Love and you can easily get it mistake with "Love" so therefore i don't think is a place for love as in having a relationship...
Sorry, but there are a fair few on here who would disagree with you!
Yep, me for one!!
And me fa another lol xx "
Do you two know each other by any chance? |
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"I need a girl who enjoys being a total slut, with me and with others. Who enjoys having her man help her explore and push her boundaries to the max. A girl who wants her cake and to eat it
There's a difference between need and want.
I don't recall "a girl who enjoys being a total slut" featuring on Maslow's Hierarchy of Human Needs. I'm sure I'd have paid a helluva lot more attention if it did."
Bloody hell, never thought I'd see Maslow appear on a Swinging Site |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i don't think any person on here would find love. there a difference between Lust and Love and you can easily get it mistake with "Love" so therefore i don't think is a place for love as in having a relationship...
Sorry, but there are a fair few on here who would disagree with you!
Yep, me for one!!
And me fa another lol xx
Do you two know each other by any chance?
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Na never seen her before in me life xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I need a girl who enjoys being a total slut, with me and with others. Who enjoys having her man help her explore and push her boundaries to the max. A girl who wants her cake and to eat it
There's a difference between need and want.
I don't recall "a girl who enjoys being a total slut" featuring on Maslow's Hierarchy of Human Needs. I'm sure I'd have paid a helluva lot more attention if it did.
Bloody hell, never thought I'd see Maslow appear on a Swinging Site "
Maslow!? feckin hell will you lot behave trying to be all sophisticated on me at this time of year and that and on a Sunday as well lol as if no ones feckin ever heard of Maslow! lol I much prefer a nice walls veeaneto anyhow to maslow but to cold for ice cream today xx |
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"After a time people change maybe a sub to start untill she starts to wish to call the tune ...... theres more to life ... subs are people and alot have there own values and needs .. her cake no its the cake your feeding her , lol "
Cake...
Sir never told me there was cake! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Neither of us were looking for it and tbph, don't think we really wanted it, met thro fab and haven't stopped talking, laughing & loving since - planning a future together to take us into old age but with friends & benefits!
Her.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i wish i could find love 
but
to all those that have...
well done
i wish you all the best."
love may come over time but lust starts it all off so you never know xxx fingers crossed you find one day what your looking for xxx  |
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