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Sharing girlfriend for the first time
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Need some advice. My girlfriends fantasy is getting fucked by another guy while I watch and she moans for me. She also thinks she wants a gang bang. Has anyone done this if so could you put some advice here please |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Probably all of us at a point.
Is it something YOU’D like too or are you just going along with it for her? X"
I really like the thought of it and it really turns me on but I’m fairly jealous. I think while we was in the moment and fucking it would be fine but w few days after it may cause argument |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably all of us at a point.
Is it something YOU’D like too or are you just going along with it for her? X
I really like the thought of it and it really turns me on but I’m fairly jealous. I think while we was in the moment and fucking it would be fine but w few days after it may cause argument "
If in doubt do nowt, you really need to talk this through with each other to make sure your relationship is strong enough as not to cause problems later or any regrets |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Probably all of us at a point.
Is it something YOU’D like too or are you just going along with it for her? X
I really like the thought of it and it really turns me on but I’m fairly jealous. I think while we was in the moment and fucking it would be fine but w few days after it may cause argument "
And how does your girlfriend feel about you being on Fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Probably all of us at a point.
Is it something YOU’D like too or are you just going along with it for her? X
I really like the thought of it and it really turns me on but I’m fairly jealous. I think while we was in the moment and fucking it would be fine but w few days after it may cause argument "
go play at a club first, maybe just soft play to start, see how both of you get along with her touching another guy, or sucking, cock, and agree no penetration that visit, the move onto full swing if that's goes well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably all of us at a point.
Is it something YOU’D like too or are you just going along with it for her? X
I really like the thought of it and it really turns me on but I’m fairly jealous. I think while we was in the moment and fucking it would be fine but w few days after it may cause argument "
As part of a couple that has been onhere for a couple of years now i would say this...
If there is even the smallest part of you that thinks it might cause problems then DONT do it. |
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My advice, as the male half of the couple, would be that both of you must be really comfortable with the idea and both of you must feel strong in your relationship.
Talk, talk, and talk a lot before hand set boundaries that you both agree on. be open, honest with each other both before and after the event. I always feel a little of jealousy but it’s always mixed with other emotions: being horny, being proud of my wife and the reassurance we’re doing this together as a couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My advice, as the male half of the couple, would be that both of you must be really comfortable with the idea and both of you must feel strong in your relationship.
Talk, talk, and talk a lot before hand set boundaries that you both agree on. be open, honest with each other both before and after the event. I always feel a little of jealousy but it’s always mixed with other emotions: being horny, being proud of my wife and the reassurance we’re doing this together as a couple. "
This 100% |
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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago
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Try a bit of exhibitionist fun, see how it feels putting her on show to another guy or guys, only take the step to letting them touch her on the second occasion, and then try more if you both feel ok with it, baby steps, don't rush in, give yourself time to both explore it  |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Try a bit of exhibitionist fun, see how it feels putting her on show to another guy or guys, only take the step to letting them touch her on the second occasion, and then try more if you both feel ok with it, baby steps, don't rush in, give yourself time to both explore it "
That's really good advice  |
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"Probably all of us at a point.
Is it something YOU’D like too or are you just going along with it for her? X
I really like the thought of it and it really turns me on but I’m fairly jealous. I think while we was in the moment and fucking it would be fine but w few days after it may cause argument "
in that case its probably not for you then, why risk your relationship, to share there has to be no jealousy or doubts (in our opinion)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Cue all the questions like why are you on here as a single guy.. does your Mrs know your on here.. so predictable"
They are predictable, but genuine questions..if his wife was OK with him being on a swinging/sex site, then surley she is already open to the swinging scene in theory..if not, he is cheating and his wife who would probably be devastated..the main thing anyone should have in swinging is trust.. and in life too.. |
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"Need some advice. My girlfriends fantasy is getting fucked by another guy while I watch and she moans for me. She also thinks she wants a gang bang. Has anyone done this if so could you put some advice here please "
We were trying to setup something like that few times. We found it hard to realise or we were just unlucky or too demanding.
We tried 3 times in Chams, however majority of the guys were non-white (no offence, it is our preference) or too young (below 35) or too old (probably 60+) or super muscular, which turns Kama off.
We wanted 4-5 men to join us... or ideally another couple and 4-6 men.
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"Cue all the questions like why are you on here as a single guy.. does your Mrs know your on here.. so predictable
They are predictable, but genuine questions..if his wife was OK with him being on a swinging/sex site, then surley she is already open to the swinging scene in theory..if not, he is cheating and his wife who would probably be devastated..the main thing anyone should have in swinging is trust.. and in life too.."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Really think about it, lots of talking with your Mrs. Once it's done you can't take back. Be very certain it's something that will bring you closer, mutual pleasure, not pull you apart. |
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"Probably all of us at a point.
Is it something YOU’D like too or are you just going along with it for her? X
I really like the thought of it and it really turns me on but I’m fairly jealous. I think while we was in the moment and fucking it would be fine but w few days after it may cause argument
As part of a couple that has been onhere for a couple of years now i would say this...
If there is even the smallest part of you that thinks it might cause problems then DONT do it."
As part of a couple that has been swinging for years, i would totally disagree. You'll never know exactly how it will turn out until you try it. You cannot eliminate all risk that it will cause problems. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Probably all of us at a point.
Is it something YOU’D like too or are you just going along with it for her? X
I really like the thought of it and it really turns me on but I’m fairly jealous. I think while we was in the moment and fucking it would be fine but w few days after it may cause argument "
OP you have just answered your own question x |
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By *khot1Couple
over a year ago
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"Cue all the questions like why are you on here as a single guy.. does your Mrs know your on here.. so predictable
They are predictable, but genuine questions..if his wife was OK with him being on a swinging/sex site, then surley she is already open to the swinging scene in theory..if not, he is cheating and his wife who would probably be devastated..the main thing anyone should have in swinging is trust.. and in life too.."
Exactly this. He says he's the jealous type but has a single profile on a swinging site! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Probably all of us at a point.
Is it something YOU’D like too or are you just going along with it for her? X
I really like the thought of it and it really turns me on but I’m fairly jealous. I think while we was in the moment and fucking it would be fine but w few days after it may cause argument "
From the information you gave, and the fact you'd feel jealous, don't even think about it. It will eat away at you, and break your relationship. |
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When I first did it it was more of a curiosity thing that we both agreed to so whichever way it went if you were honest with yourself you could never resent her for it. You both agreed.
My advice is do it but take it slow. Set limits beforehand (though that's not foolproof in the heat of the moment... another story) and make sure that all concerned are to stop if one says so.
It's all just life experience. Love it now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Need some advice. My girlfriends fantasy is getting fucked by another guy while I watch and she moans for me. She also thinks she wants a gang bang. Has anyone done this if so could you put some advice here please "
Just quoting your profile.
Let her fuck another guy.
Quite if you don't like it don't do it again?.
Why do guy's on here happily fuck other guys women but cannot let other guys fuck their own women? |
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"Need some advice. My girlfriends fantasy is getting fucked by another guy while I watch and she moans for me. She also thinks she wants a gang bang. Has anyone done this if so could you put some advice here please
Just quoting your profile.
Let her fuck another guy.
Quite if you don't like it don't do it again?.
Why do guy's on here happily fuck other guys women but cannot let other guys fuck their own women?"
Because jealously has been a been an evolutionary advantage for men, but less so for women, throughout human evolution. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me personally I was the one who wanted to fuck the mrs with another guy or few guys one day. I love it and the control but im involved always, and she loves being my little slut. For you it sounds like a cuckold thing. If your comfortable with the whole cuckold thing give her what she wants only you know whether the idea turns you on or not if not I think you should be honest and go from there. Good luck and hopefully you'll be fine x |
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