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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Are there people wanting to meet on the site
People will do the chat but it ends there...
Clubs being the same .. noticing more couples just playing between themselves..
It’s all well and good posting the odd saucy pic but these people only want to swing in their head.. notice more people only have cam or social verifies
I know as a soft swing and smoking limits us but it seems harder and harder to talk to gen bi fem couples
We have had a few couples where he seems more interested in wearing womens clothes recently but not for us
We even have trepidation about new clubs in case it’s much the same
Best club we’ve been to has burnt down
This is from female perspective..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I guess OP if you were looking to meet single guys you'd have no shortage of offers,me included if I was local."
In a club group setting we often do ... |
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"Are there people wanting to meet on the site
People will do the chat but it ends there...
Clubs being the same .. noticing more couples just playing between themselves..
It’s all well and good posting the odd saucy pic but these people only want to swing in their head.. notice more people only have cam or social verifies
I know as a soft swing and smoking limits us but it seems harder and harder to talk to gen bi fem couples
We have had a few couples where he seems more interested in wearing womens clothes recently but not for us
We even have trepidation about new clubs in case it’s much the same
Best club we’ve been to has burnt down
This is from female perspective..
Rant over"
Unfortunately the time wasters ruin it for the good members, and sadly that will never change. That's why we only meet in clubs or at parties now. |
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We're actively back on the site after a break of a few months and we've found it more difficult to arrange meets this time around.
We've had one couple who keep asking us to meet during weekdays (don't people work anymore?) and one woman who we arranged a meet with only to be told by her that the meet might be off because she had an invite to VA and was waiting to hear if it was on 
We just keep plugging on but it's getting to be a chore to be honest. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"We're actively back on the site after a break of a few months and we've found it more difficult to arrange meets this time around.
We've had one couple who keep asking us to meet during weekdays (don't people work anymore?) and one woman who we arranged a meet with only to be told by her that the meet might be off because she had an invite to VA and was waiting to hear if it was on
We just keep plugging on but it's getting to be a chore to be honest."
Some people, like myself, do shift work and not 9 to 5 Monday to Friday! |
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I’d more then happily meet in a social way or club, I don’t see the point in wasting peoples time, wh message them to just waste time and not have an end product whether it be a meet or something extra? (My opinion) |
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"We're actively back on the site after a break of a few months and we've found it more difficult to arrange meets this time around.
We've had one couple who keep asking us to meet during weekdays (don't people work anymore?) and one woman who we arranged a meet with only to be told by her that the meet might be off because she had an invite to VA and was waiting to hear if it was on
We just keep plugging on but it's getting to be a chore to be honest.
Some people, like myself, do shift work and not 9 to 5 Monday to Friday! "
Good for you ... we don't and made it clear to the couple in question only to keep being asked. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"We're actively back on the site after a break of a few months and we've found it more difficult to arrange meets this time around.
We've had one couple who keep asking us to meet during weekdays (don't people work anymore?) and one woman who we arranged a meet with only to be told by her that the meet might be off because she had an invite to VA and was waiting to hear if it was on
We just keep plugging on but it's getting to be a chore to be honest.
Some people, like myself, do shift work and not 9 to 5 Monday to Friday!
Good for you ... we don't and made it clear to the couple in question only to keep being asked. "
Then I would suggest you block them and find others who work similar hours to yourselves.x |
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What we noticed is that people are advertising here but they have no chance to meet. We tried to setup a meeting with few couples and they “wanted” but.....kids, work etc.... or we might be just unlucky.
We found it little bit easier in the club, but we also noticed that most of the couples know each other already and they are not interested in meeting new couples... well that was our experience in Xtasia and Chams
M. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There are an awful lot of dreamers and fantasists on here who would never meet, and personally for me it tends to be couples who are the most like that. I've recently noticed quite a few like that who look good, talk the talk but then when you read verifications they haven't met anyone for a long time. This is fine if that's what they want to do but it makes it harder for us genuine swingers who are here to meet.
Just keep persevering and continue going to clubs and try Fab social events, get yourselves known on the scene, it does help. |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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You just ave to keep persevering it is the nature of Fab there are lots of fantasists and picture hunters who get off on talking about meeting but will never actually meet.
Last weekend we put a meet request up whilst in Leeds we had 20 or 30 couples contact us but it quickly became apparent that none of them were serious about meeting we ended up going to Quest and having a brilliant time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What we noticed is that people are advertising here but they have no chance to meet. We tried to setup a meeting with few couples and they “wanted” but.....kids, work etc.... or we might be just unlucky.
We found it little bit easier in the club, but we also noticed that most of the couples know each other already and they are not interested in meeting new couples... well that was our experience in Xtasia and Chams
M."
Found this in chams .. |
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