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I have just been blocked by a couple because I didn't leave them a verification after they left me one which was days after. I was away working and planned to leave one when I got back. Are we bound to leave verification when you get one?? Views please |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No one is bound to leave one but if they leave one it's courteous to do the same.
The problem is people think they are reviews rather than a verification that your genuine.
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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You don't have to, however, if they left one for you and you displayed it yet didn't bother sending one back, in order to remove their verification to you, they have to block, so it is no longer displayed.
That might be the case in this situation |
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But my question is do I have to be courteous. Do i have to leave one cos they left me one.do they gave to now block me cos they didn't get one at the time they wanted.note.i intended leaving one for them but they were not patient.but that said.i have left veris for people that never gave me one back.i never blocked them or sulked.the fact am on fab swingers looking for sex doesn't mean I must be courteous or do everything right. Leaving a veri should not be under pressure or a must or am I wrong here?? I mean am sure u have gotten messages from guys u never replied to right.?? Was it not courteous to reply to a message?? But fact is u didn't have to.u don't have to reply to everyone that writes to you do u. So being courteous on fab swingers is kinda far fetched. |
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over a year ago
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I think if the meet was sucessful and both parties enjoyed it then I think it's important. I've left a few lately and not one has left me one back. To me that's not nice. Im the type to worry if I wasn't good or a nice person. More so for a man as it's not easy for them to get meets. Varies help alot x |
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"I have just been blocked by a couple because I didn't leave them a verification after they left me one which was days after. I was away working and planned to leave one when I got back. Are we bound to leave verification when you get one?? Views please"
nope you can do as you please some do it weeks later
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"But my question is do I have to be courteous. Do i have to leave one cos they left me one.do they gave to now block me cos they didn't get one at the time they wanted.note.i intended leaving one for them but they were not patient.but that said.i have left veris for people that never gave me one back.i never blocked them or sulked.the fact am on fab swingers looking for sex doesn't mean I must be courteous or do everything right. Leaving a veri should not be under pressure or a must or am I wrong here?? I mean am sure u have gotten messages from guys u never replied to right.?? Was it not courteous to reply to a message?? But fact is u didn't have to.u don't have to reply to everyone that writes to you do u. So being courteous on fab swingers is kinda far fetched."
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"But my question is do I have to be courteous. Do i have to leave one cos they left me one.do they gave to now block me cos they didn't get one at the time they wanted.note.i intended leaving one for them but they were not patient.but that said.i have left veris for people that never gave me one back.i never blocked them or sulked.the fact am on fab swingers looking for sex doesn't mean I must be courteous or do everything right. Leaving a veri should not be under pressure or a must or am I wrong here?? I mean am sure u have gotten messages from guys u never replied to right.?? Was it not courteous to reply to a message?? But fact is u didn't have to.u don't have to reply to everyone that writes to you do u. So being courteous on fab swingers is kinda far fetched."
As far as I am concerned I don't think anyone needs to be verified.
Still that is my opinion. It should not be a detailed document of a fuck. It's to say to others you are genuine that is all.
Freedom of choice getting one
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"But my question is do I have to be courteous. Do i have to leave one cos they left me one.do they gave to now block me cos they didn't get one at the time they wanted.note.i intended leaving one for them but they were not patient.but that said.i have left veris for people that never gave me one back.i never blocked them or sulked.the fact am on fab swingers looking for sex doesn't mean I must be courteous or do everything right. Leaving a veri should not be under pressure or a must or am I wrong here?? I mean am sure u have gotten messages from guys u never replied to right.?? Was it not courteous to reply to a message?? But fact is u didn't have to.u don't have to reply to everyone that writes to you do u. So being courteous on fab swingers is kinda far fetched.
This comment clearly shows you have strong feelings about the situation. Are you genuinely looking for peoples opinions, or just for people to agree with your mindset? "
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I assume from what you've said that they msgd to tell you why they were blocking you. I don't always return a veri straight away. I like to think about it but if I've received one & I'm busy, I would send a msg (because I can't be that busy if I've seen the veri) to say that I will return the favour when I have a bit more time.
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"But my question is do I have to be courteous. Do i have to leave one cos they left me one.do they gave to now block me cos they didn't get one at the time they wanted.note.i intended leaving one for them but they were not patient.but that said.i have left veris for people that never gave me one back.i never blocked them or sulked.the fact am on fab swingers looking for sex doesn't mean I must be courteous or do everything right. Leaving a veri should not be under pressure or a must or am I wrong here?? I mean am sure u have gotten messages from guys u never replied to right.?? Was it not courteous to reply to a message?? But fact is u didn't have to.u don't have to reply to everyone that writes to you do u. So being courteous on fab swingers is kinda far fetched.
This comment clearly shows you have strong feelings about the situation. Are you genuinely looking for peoples opinions, or just for people to agree with your mindset? ... you tell me"
Well, I do think it's a bit silly to compare a verification, to a woman not replying to a random man they haven't communicated with previously. They are completely different things. You have met and sometimes played with someone, after all. |
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"I assume from what you've said that they msgd to tell you why they were blocking you. I don't always return a veri straight away. I like to think about it but if I've received one & I'm busy, I would send a msg (because I can't be that busy if I've seen the veri) to say that I will return the favour when I have a bit more time.
For people that don't have many, veris do mean a lot. "
I hope you know sometimes you can be busy but can quickly browse through your messages or veri quickly and return to them later when you have more time.the fact you read a veri or read a message and you didn't reply doesn't mean you had time to. I mean reading quickly and writing are two different things.i look at fab sometimes on my phone while walking to work. Does that mean cos I look and saw it then I must have the time to reply or write while walking to a train station. Come on.lets be realistic here. I take on board yr opinion but I still personally think given a veri because you received one is pretence.i don't pretend. I have had some shit meets. Would u say I should give a veri talking bout how shit the meet was. Would it be displayed?? |
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"I assume from what you've said that they msgd to tell you why they were blocking you. I don't always return a veri straight away. I like to think about it but if I've received one & I'm busy, I would send a msg (because I can't be that busy if I've seen the veri) to say that I will return the favour when I have a bit more time.
For people that don't have many, veris do mean a lot. I hope you know sometimes you can be busy but can quickly browse through your messages or veri quickly and return to them later when you have more time.the fact you read a veri or read a message and you didn't reply doesn't mean you had time to. I mean reading quickly and writing are two different things.i look at fab sometimes on my phone while walking to work. Does that mean cos I look and saw it then I must have the time to reply or write while walking to a train station. Come on.lets be realistic here. I take on board yr opinion but I still personally think given a veri because you received one is pretence.i don't pretend. I have had some shit meets. Would u say I should give a veri talking bout how shit the meet was. Would it be displayed??"
Maybe the couple thought they were in the 'shit meet' category, when you took your time and that's why they blocked you.
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"But my question is do I have to be courteous. Do i have to leave one cos they left me one.do they gave to now block me cos they didn't get one at the time they wanted.note.i intended leaving one for them but they were not patient.but that said.i have left veris for people that never gave me one back.i never blocked them or sulked.the fact am on fab swingers looking for sex doesn't mean I must be courteous or do everything right. Leaving a veri should not be under pressure or a must or am I wrong here?? I mean am sure u have gotten messages from guys u never replied to right.?? Was it not courteous to reply to a message?? But fact is u didn't have to.u don't have to reply to everyone that writes to you do u. So being courteous on fab swingers is kinda far fetched.
This comment clearly shows you have strong feelings about the situation. Are you genuinely looking for peoples opinions, or just for people to agree with your mindset? ... you tell me
Well, I do think it's a bit silly to compare a verification, to a woman not replying to a random man they haven't communicated with previously. They are completely different things. You have met and sometimes played with someone, after all. "
ok.... fair enough.what if the meet was shit and u never enjoyed it but they gave you a lovely veri.what would u do. Would u give a veri talking about how shit the veri is.i think the silly one here is definitely not me. But I can understand your type and how desperate for veri your type can be. I guess if you have so much confidence in your self you should act desperately and expecting a veri. I don't expect a veri cos I have the confidence to know I don't need it to prove anything. Bit then I can understand your passion for defending it
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"I assume from what you've said that they msgd to tell you why they were blocking you. I don't always return a veri straight away. I like to think about it but if I've received one & I'm busy, I would send a msg (because I can't be that busy if I've seen the veri) to say that I will return the favour when I have a bit more time.
For people that don't have many, veris do mean a lot. I hope you know sometimes you can be busy but can quickly browse through your messages or veri quickly and return to them later when you have more time.the fact you read a veri or read a message and you didn't reply doesn't mean you had time to. I mean reading quickly and writing are two different things.i look at fab sometimes on my phone while walking to work. Does that mean cos I look and saw it then I must have the time to reply or write while walking to a train station. Come on.lets be realistic here. I take on board yr opinion but I still personally think given a veri because you received one is pretence.i don't pretend. I have had some shit meets. Would u say I should give a veri talking bout how shit the meet was. Would it be displayed??"
in the cold light of day does it matter you had a meet it went well, you probably wouldn’t have met again anyway so it changes nothing really, I agree sometimes you look but can't reply for different reasons but they blocked you to get rid of their veri of you ok you could say out of impatience or just plain bad manners but what do veris amount to at end of day complimentary notches on your belt , sexual itineraries, reference points for others to consider not meeting you  |
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"But my question is do I have to be courteous. Do i have to leave one cos they left me one.do they gave to now block me cos they didn't get one at the time they wanted.note.i intended leaving one for them but they were not patient.but that said.i have left veris for people that never gave me one back.i never blocked them or sulked.the fact am on fab swingers looking for sex doesn't mean I must be courteous or do everything right. Leaving a veri should not be under pressure or a must or am I wrong here?? I mean am sure u have gotten messages from guys u never replied to right.?? Was it not courteous to reply to a message?? But fact is u didn't have to.u don't have to reply to everyone that writes to you do u. So being courteous on fab swingers is kinda far fetched.
This comment clearly shows you have strong feelings about the situation. Are you genuinely looking for peoples opinions, or just for people to agree with your mindset? ... you tell me
Well, I do think it's a bit silly to compare a verification, to a woman not replying to a random man they haven't communicated with previously. They are completely different things. You have met and sometimes played with someone, after all. ok.... fair enough.what if the meet was shit and u never enjoyed it but they gave you a lovely veri.what would u do. Would u give a veri talking about how shit the veri is.i think the silly one here is definitely not me. But I can understand your type and how desperate for veri your type can be. I guess if you have so much confidence in your self you should act desperately and expecting a veri. I don't expect a veri cos I have the confidence to know I don't need it to prove anything. Bit then I can understand your passion for defending it
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You misunderstand. I didn't call you silly. Merely the comparison. There was no need to be so rude. Good luck to anyone you meet  |
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"I assume from what you've said that they msgd to tell you why they were blocking you. I don't always return a veri straight away. I like to think about it but if I've received one & I'm busy, I would send a msg (because I can't be that busy if I've seen the veri) to say that I will return the favour when I have a bit more time.
For people that don't have many, veris do mean a lot. I hope you know sometimes you can be busy but can quickly browse through your messages or veri quickly and return to them later when you have more time.the fact you read a veri or read a message and you didn't reply doesn't mean you had time to. I mean reading quickly and writing are two different things.i look at fab sometimes on my phone while walking to work. Does that mean cos I look and saw it then I must have the time to reply or write while walking to a train station. Come on.lets be realistic here. I take on board yr opinion but I still personally think given a veri because you received one is pretence.i don't pretend. I have had some shit meets. Would u say I should give a veri talking bout how shit the meet was. Would it be displayed??in the cold light of day does it matter you had a meet it went well, you probably wouldn’t have met again anyway so it changes nothing really, I agree sometimes you look but can't reply for different reasons but they blocked you to get rid of their veri of you ok you could say out of impatience or just plain bad manners but what do veris amount to at end of day complimentary notches on your belt , sexual itineraries, reference points for others to consider not meeting you "
..... But I have never seen a bad veri so the essence is to gather more fans I guess |
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"But my question is do I have to be courteous. Do i have to leave one cos they left me one.do they gave to now block me cos they didn't get one at the time they wanted.note.i intended leaving one for them but they were not patient.but that said.i have left veris for people that never gave me one back.i never blocked them or sulked.the fact am on fab swingers looking for sex doesn't mean I must be courteous or do everything right. Leaving a veri should not be under pressure or a must or am I wrong here?? I mean am sure u have gotten messages from guys u never replied to right.?? Was it not courteous to reply to a message?? But fact is u didn't have to.u don't have to reply to everyone that writes to you do u. So being courteous on fab swingers is kinda far fetched.
This comment clearly shows you have strong feelings about the situation. Are you genuinely looking for peoples opinions, or just for people to agree with your mindset? ... you tell me
Well, I do think it's a bit silly to compare a verification, to a woman not replying to a random man they haven't communicated with previously. They are completely different things. You have met and sometimes played with someone, after all. ok.... fair enough.what if the meet was shit and u never enjoyed it but they gave you a lovely veri.what would u do. Would u give a veri talking about how shit the veri is.i think the silly one here is definitely not me. But I can understand your type and how desperate for veri your type can be. I guess if you have so much confidence in your self you should act desperately and expecting a veri. I don't expect a veri cos I have the confidence to know I don't need it to prove anything. Bit then I can understand your passion for defending it
You misunderstand. I didn't call you silly. Merely the comparison. There was no need to be so rude. Good luck to anyone you meet "
.... I never called you silly too and if you check my veris I have definitely met alot and so far no complaints unless of cos your type that sulk over not given a verification |
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"But my question is do I have to be courteous. Do i have to leave one cos they left me one.do they gave to now block me cos they didn't get one at the time they wanted.note.i intended leaving one for them but they were not patient.but that said.i have left veris for people that never gave me one back.i never blocked them or sulked.the fact am on fab swingers looking for sex doesn't mean I must be courteous or do everything right. Leaving a veri should not be under pressure or a must or am I wrong here?? I mean am sure u have gotten messages from guys u never replied to right.?? Was it not courteous to reply to a message?? But fact is u didn't have to.u don't have to reply to everyone that writes to you do u. So being courteous on fab swingers is kinda far fetched.
This comment clearly shows you have strong feelings about the situation. Are you genuinely looking for peoples opinions, or just for people to agree with your mindset? ... you tell me
Well, I do think it's a bit silly to compare a verification, to a woman not replying to a random man they haven't communicated with previously. They are completely different things. You have met and sometimes played with someone, after all. ok.... fair enough.what if the meet was shit and u never enjoyed it but they gave you a lovely veri.what would u do. Would u give a veri talking about how shit the veri is.i think the silly one here is definitely not me. But I can understand your type and how desperate for veri your type can be. I guess if you have so much confidence in your self you should act desperately and expecting a veri. I don't expect a veri cos I have the confidence to know I don't need it to prove anything. Bit then I can understand your passion for defending it
You misunderstand. I didn't call you silly. Merely the comparison. There was no need to be so rude. Good luck to anyone you meet "
.... funny you talk about being rude but u sure can't take it.your first message on this forum was questioning the real reason I had an opinion which was to me rude. Then your second message was saying my opinion was silly. Yet you don't think that was rude?? Then u get my reply to you apparent sarcasm and ohhh... you can't take it. Typical ehh |
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"I assume from what you've said that they msgd to tell you why they were blocking you. I don't always return a veri straight away. I like to think about it but if I've received one & I'm busy, I would send a msg (because I can't be that busy if I've seen the veri) to say that I will return the favour when I have a bit more time.
For people that don't have many, veris do mean a lot. I hope you know sometimes you can be busy but can quickly browse through your messages or veri quickly and return to them later when you have more time.the fact you read a veri or read a message and you didn't reply doesn't mean you had time to. I mean reading quickly and writing are two different things.i look at fab sometimes on my phone while walking to work. Does that mean cos I look and saw it then I must have the time to reply or write while walking to a train station. Come on.lets be realistic here. I take on board yr opinion but I still personally think given a veri because you received one is pretence.i don't pretend. I have had some shit meets. Would u say I should give a veri talking bout how shit the meet was. Would it be displayed??in the cold light of day does it matter you had a meet it went well, you probably wouldn’t have met again anyway so it changes nothing really, I agree sometimes you look but can't reply for different reasons but they blocked you to get rid of their veri of you ok you could say out of impatience or just plain bad manners but what do veris amount to at end of day complimentary notches on your belt , sexual itineraries, reference points for others to consider not meeting you "
.. cheers James.your comment makes alot of sense.i guess we learn everyday |
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"I assume from what you've said that they msgd to tell you why they were blocking you. I don't always return a veri straight away. I like to think about it but if I've received one & I'm busy, I would send a msg (because I can't be that busy if I've seen the veri) to say that I will return the favour when I have a bit more time.
For people that don't have many, veris do mean a lot. I hope you know sometimes you can be busy but can quickly browse through your messages or veri quickly and return to them later when you have more time.the fact you read a veri or read a message and you didn't reply doesn't mean you had time to. I mean reading quickly and writing are two different things.i look at fab sometimes on my phone while walking to work. Does that mean cos I look and saw it then I must have the time to reply or write while walking to a train station. Come on.lets be realistic here. I take on board yr opinion but I still personally think given a veri because you received one is pretence.i don't pretend. I have had some shit meets. Would u say I should give a veri talking bout how shit the meet was. Would it be displayed??in the cold light of day does it matter you had a meet it went well, you probably wouldn’t have met again anyway so it changes nothing really, I agree sometimes you look but can't reply for different reasons but they blocked you to get rid of their veri of you ok you could say out of impatience or just plain bad manners but what do veris amount to at end of day complimentary notches on your belt , sexual itineraries, reference points for others to consider not meeting you ..... But I have never seen a bad veri so the essence is to gather more fans I guess"
yes but my point there was that many look at who your veris are from and discount you on that, they mean nothing to me or the people I meet |
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"But my question is do I have to be courteous. Do i have to leave one cos they left me one.do they gave to now block me cos they didn't get one at the time they wanted.note.i intended leaving one for them but they were not patient.but that said.i have left veris for people that never gave me one back.i never blocked them or sulked.the fact am on fab swingers looking for sex doesn't mean I must be courteous or do everything right. Leaving a veri should not be under pressure or a must or am I wrong here?? I mean am sure u have gotten messages from guys u never replied to right.?? Was it not courteous to reply to a message?? But fact is u didn't have to.u don't have to reply to everyone that writes to you do u. So being courteous on fab swingers is kinda far fetched.
This comment clearly shows you have strong feelings about the situation. Are you genuinely looking for peoples opinions, or just for people to agree with your mindset? ... you tell me
Well, I do think it's a bit silly to compare a verification, to a woman not replying to a random man they haven't communicated with previously. They are completely different things. You have met and sometimes played with someone, after all. ok.... fair enough.what if the meet was shit and u never enjoyed it but they gave you a lovely veri.what would u do. Would u give a veri talking about how shit the veri is.i think the silly one here is definitely not me. But I can understand your type and how desperate for veri your type can be. I guess if you have so much confidence in your self you should act desperately and expecting a veri. I don't expect a veri cos I have the confidence to know I don't need it to prove anything. Bit then I can understand your passion for defending it
You misunderstand. I didn't call you silly. Merely the comparison. There was no need to be so rude. Good luck to anyone you meet .... I never called you silly too and if you check my veris I have definitely met alot and so far no complaints unless of cos your type that sulk over not given a verification"
When did I mention myself desperately needing a a verification? Haha. I merely said that to compare random messages with leaving a veri was a bit silly. But thank you for answering my initial question. You were looking for people to agree with you |
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"But my question is do I have to be courteous. Do i have to leave one cos they left me one.do they gave to now block me cos they didn't get one at the time they wanted.note.i intended leaving one for them but they were not patient.but that said.i have left veris for people that never gave me one back.i never blocked them or sulked.the fact am on fab swingers looking for sex doesn't mean I must be courteous or do everything right. Leaving a veri should not be under pressure or a must or am I wrong here?? I mean am sure u have gotten messages from guys u never replied to right.?? Was it not courteous to reply to a message?? But fact is u didn't have to.u don't have to reply to everyone that writes to you do u. So being courteous on fab swingers is kinda far fetched.
This comment clearly shows you have strong feelings about the situation. Are you genuinely looking for peoples opinions, or just for people to agree with your mindset? ... you tell me
Well, I do think it's a bit silly to compare a verification, to a woman not replying to a random man they haven't communicated with previously. They are completely different things. You have met and sometimes played with someone, after all. ok.... fair enough.what if the meet was shit and u never enjoyed it but they gave you a lovely veri.what would u do. Would u give a veri talking about how shit the veri is.i think the silly one here is definitely not me. But I can understand your type and how desperate for veri your type can be. I guess if you have so much confidence in your self you should act desperately and expecting a veri. I don't expect a veri cos I have the confidence to know I don't need it to prove anything. Bit then I can understand your passion for defending it
You misunderstand. I didn't call you silly. Merely the comparison. There was no need to be so rude. Good luck to anyone you meet .... funny you talk about being rude but u sure can't take it.your first message on this forum was questioning the real reason I had an opinion which was to me rude. Then your second message was saying my opinion was silly. Yet you don't think that was rude?? Then u get my reply to you apparent sarcasm and ohhh... you can't take it. Typical ehh"
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"But my question is do I have to be courteous. Do i have to leave one cos they left me one.do they gave to now block me cos they didn't get one at the time they wanted.note.i intended leaving one for them but they were not patient.but that said.i have left veris for people that never gave me one back.i never blocked them or sulked.the fact am on fab swingers looking for sex doesn't mean I must be courteous or do everything right. Leaving a veri should not be under pressure or a must or am I wrong here?? I mean am sure u have gotten messages from guys u never replied to right.?? Was it not courteous to reply to a message?? But fact is u didn't have to.u don't have to reply to everyone that writes to you do u. So being courteous on fab swingers is kinda far fetched."
It seems to me that you think it’s fne to have a meet , and that if it’s a good meet you will verify the people in your time , not when they expect you to do it . So they sent you a veri , and you were too busy to do one back , so a few days later they blocked you . I think that’s fair enough from their perspective , and from yours too . If you really couldn’t find a few minutes to write them one back , why should they have to deal with that kind of ignorance ? And if you couldn’t be bothered to find the time to be courteous , why are you bothered ? |
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"But my question is do I have to be courteous. Do i have to leave one cos they left me one.do they gave to now block me cos they didn't get one at the time they wanted.note.i intended leaving one for them but they were not patient.but that said.i have left veris for people that never gave me one back.i never blocked them or sulked.the fact am on fab swingers looking for sex doesn't mean I must be courteous or do everything right. Leaving a veri should not be under pressure or a must or am I wrong here?? I mean am sure u have gotten messages from guys u never replied to right.?? Was it not courteous to reply to a message?? But fact is u didn't have to.u don't have to reply to everyone that writes to you do u. So being courteous on fab swingers is kinda far fetched.
It seems to me that you think it’s fne to have a meet , and that if it’s a good meet you will verify the people in your time , not when they expect you to do it . So they sent you a veri , and you were too busy to do one back , so a few days later they blocked you . I think that’s fair enough from their perspective , and from yours too . If you really couldn’t find a few minutes to write them one back , why should they have to deal with that kind of ignorance ? And if you couldn’t be bothered to find the time to be courteous , why are you bothered ? "
... fair enough.so if I was so busy with work and away both day n night trying to meet deadlines and i couldn't leave a veri on fab swingers which to you it's my life like i got no life it's ignorance?? Well your comment tells me the ignorant one here. Listen you might take swinging so deep and big but I don't.i don't compromise my job or life just to fullfill a norm of given a veri at the time I get one.if they couldn't wait four days or even a week then I am ignorant?? Typical ehhh. Sorry for taking my job and life serious than taking swinging |
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"But my question is do I have to be courteous. Do i have to leave one cos they left me one.do they gave to now block me cos they didn't get one at the time they wanted.note.i intended leaving one for them but they were not patient.but that said.i have left veris for people that never gave me one back.i never blocked them or sulked.the fact am on fab swingers looking for sex doesn't mean I must be courteous or do everything right. Leaving a veri should not be under pressure or a must or am I wrong here?? I mean am sure u have gotten messages from guys u never replied to right.?? Was it not courteous to reply to a message?? But fact is u didn't have to.u don't have to reply to everyone that writes to you do u. So being courteous on fab swingers is kinda far fetched.
It seems to me that you think it’s fne to have a meet , and that if it’s a good meet you will verify the people in your time , not when they expect you to do it . So they sent you a veri , and you were too busy to do one back , so a few days later they blocked you . I think that’s fair enough from their perspective , and from yours too . If you really couldn’t find a few minutes to write them one back , why should they have to deal with that kind of ignorance ? And if you couldn’t be bothered to find the time to be courteous , why are you bothered ? "
Personally I don't believe the OP
He had the time to message back and forth.
He had the time to arrange and attend a meet.
He had the time to read accept and display their verification.
He had the time to go away for a break.
He had the time to take his mobile phone with him.
He didn't have time to write a few kind words.
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"But my question is do I have to be courteous. Do i have to leave one cos they left me one.do they gave to now block me cos they didn't get one at the time they wanted.note.i intended leaving one for them but they were not patient.but that said.i have left veris for people that never gave me one back.i never blocked them or sulked.the fact am on fab swingers looking for sex doesn't mean I must be courteous or do everything right. Leaving a veri should not be under pressure or a must or am I wrong here?? I mean am sure u have gotten messages from guys u never replied to right.?? Was it not courteous to reply to a message?? But fact is u didn't have to.u don't have to reply to everyone that writes to you do u. So being courteous on fab swingers is kinda far fetched.
It seems to me that you think it’s fne to have a meet , and that if it’s a good meet you will verify the people in your time , not when they expect you to do it . So they sent you a veri , and you were too busy to do one back , so a few days later they blocked you . I think that’s fair enough from their perspective , and from yours too . If you really couldn’t find a few minutes to write them one back , why should they have to deal with that kind of ignorance ? And if you couldn’t be bothered to find the time to be courteous , why are you bothered ? "
... woww what an ignorant statement. Because the couple expect a veri I should leave all I gave to do.work.life.child to leave them a verification?? And I am the ignorant one?? |
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"But my question is do I have to be courteous. Do i have to leave one cos they left me one.do they gave to now block me cos they didn't get one at the time they wanted.note.i intended leaving one for them but they were not patient.but that said.i have left veris for people that never gave me one back.i never blocked them or sulked.the fact am on fab swingers looking for sex doesn't mean I must be courteous or do everything right. Leaving a veri should not be under pressure or a must or am I wrong here?? I mean am sure u have gotten messages from guys u never replied to right.?? Was it not courteous to reply to a message?? But fact is u didn't have to.u don't have to reply to everyone that writes to you do u. So being courteous on fab swingers is kinda far fetched.
It seems to me that you think it’s fne to have a meet , and that if it’s a good meet you will verify the people in your time , not when they expect you to do it . So they sent you a veri , and you were too busy to do one back , so a few days later they blocked you . I think that’s fair enough from their perspective , and from yours too . If you really couldn’t find a few minutes to write them one back , why should they have to deal with that kind of ignorance ? And if you couldn’t be bothered to find the time to be courteous , why are you bothered ? ... fair enough.so if I was so busy with work and away both day n night trying to meet deadlines and i couldn't leave a veri on fab swingers which to you it's my life like i got no life it's ignorance?? Well your comment tells me the ignorant one here. Listen you might take swinging so deep and big but I don't.i don't compromise my job or life just to fullfill a norm of given a veri at the time I get one.if they couldn't wait four days or even a week then I am ignorant?? Typical ehhh. Sorry for taking my job and life serious than taking swinging"
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"But my question is do I have to be courteous. Do i have to leave one cos they left me one.do they gave to now block me cos they didn't get one at the time they wanted.note.i intended leaving one for them but they were not patient.but that said.i have left veris for people that never gave me one back.i never blocked them or sulked.the fact am on fab swingers looking for sex doesn't mean I must be courteous or do everything right. Leaving a veri should not be under pressure or a must or am I wrong here?? I mean am sure u have gotten messages from guys u never replied to right.?? Was it not courteous to reply to a message?? But fact is u didn't have to.u don't have to reply to everyone that writes to you do u. So being courteous on fab swingers is kinda far fetched.
It seems to me that you think it’s fne to have a meet , and that if it’s a good meet you will verify the people in your time , not when they expect you to do it . So they sent you a veri , and you were too busy to do one back , so a few days later they blocked you . I think that’s fair enough from their perspective , and from yours too . If you really couldn’t find a few minutes to write them one back , why should they have to deal with that kind of ignorance ? And if you couldn’t be bothered to find the time to be courteous , why are you bothered ?
Personally I don't believe the OP
He had the time to message back and forth.
He had the time to arrange and attend a meet.
He had the time to read accept and display their verification.
He had the time to go away for a break.
He had the time to take his mobile phone with him.
He didn't have time to write a few kind words.
cynical aint we "
... you still missing the point. I didn't have to leave one.i don't think I am.bound to leave one. I never asked for one.i don't need one.i don't beg for one.i am not desperate.i don't sulk when I don't get one.i have had meets from couples who for personal reasons didn't leave me a verification. My point is should I sulk and cry like a child?? Verification I used to think are discretionary. No one wants to answer this question. What if to me the meet was shit?? Do i still have to pretend and leave a nice lovely verification because they left me one?? Or am I in a different world here?? |
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"But my question is do I have to be courteous. Do i have to leave one cos they left me one.do they gave to now block me cos they didn't get one at the time they wanted.note.i intended leaving one for them but they were not patient.but that said.i have left veris for people that never gave me one back.i never blocked them or sulked.the fact am on fab swingers looking for sex doesn't mean I must be courteous or do everything right. Leaving a veri should not be under pressure or a must or am I wrong here?? I mean am sure u have gotten messages from guys u never replied to right.?? Was it not courteous to reply to a message?? But fact is u didn't have to.u don't have to reply to everyone that writes to you do u. So being courteous on fab swingers is kinda far fetched.
It seems to me that you think it’s fne to have a meet , and that if it’s a good meet you will verify the people in your time , not when they expect you to do it . So they sent you a veri , and you were too busy to do one back , so a few days later they blocked you . I think that’s fair enough from their perspective , and from yours too . If you really couldn’t find a few minutes to write them one back , why should they have to deal with that kind of ignorance ? And if you couldn’t be bothered to find the time to be courteous , why are you bothered ? ... fair enough.so if I was so busy with work and away both day n night trying to meet deadlines and i couldn't leave a veri on fab swingers which to you it's my life like i got no life it's ignorance?? Well your comment tells me the ignorant one here. Listen you might take swinging so deep and big but I don't.i don't compromise my job or life just to fullfill a norm of given a veri at the time I get one.if they couldn't wait four days or even a week then I am ignorant?? Typical ehhh. Sorry for taking my job and life serious than taking swinging
Yep , that response sums it up really "
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"But my question is do I have to be courteous. Do i have to leave one cos they left me one.do they gave to now block me cos they didn't get one at the time they wanted.note.i intended leaving one for them but they were not patient.but that said.i have left veris for people that never gave me one back.i never blocked them or sulked.the fact am on fab swingers looking for sex doesn't mean I must be courteous or do everything right. Leaving a veri should not be under pressure or a must or am I wrong here?? I mean am sure u have gotten messages from guys u never replied to right.?? Was it not courteous to reply to a message?? But fact is u didn't have to.u don't have to reply to everyone that writes to you do u. So being courteous on fab swingers is kinda far fetched.
It seems to me that you think it’s fne to have a meet , and that if it’s a good meet you will verify the people in your time , not when they expect you to do it . So they sent you a veri , and you were too busy to do one back , so a few days later they blocked you . I think that’s fair enough from their perspective , and from yours too . If you really couldn’t find a few minutes to write them one back , why should they have to deal with that kind of ignorance ? And if you couldn’t be bothered to find the time to be courteous , why are you bothered ?
Personally I don't believe the OP
He had the time to message back and forth.
He had the time to arrange and attend a meet.
He had the time to read accept and display their verification.
He had the time to go away for a break.
He had the time to take his mobile phone with him.
He didn't have time to write a few kind words.
cynical aint we ... you still missing the point. I didn't have to leave one.i don't think I am.bound to leave one. I never asked for one.i don't need one.i don't beg for one.i am not desperate.i don't sulk when I don't get one.i have had meets from couples who for personal reasons didn't leave me a verification. My point is should I sulk and cry like a child?? Verification I used to think are discretionary. No one wants to answer this question. What if to me the meet was shit?? Do i still have to pretend and leave a nice lovely verification because they left me one?? Or am I in a different world here??"
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"But my question is do I have to be courteous. Do i have to leave one cos they left me one.do they gave to now block me cos they didn't get one at the time they wanted.note.i intended leaving one for them but they were not patient.but that said.i have left veris for people that never gave me one back.i never blocked them or sulked.the fact am on fab swingers looking for sex doesn't mean I must be courteous or do everything right. Leaving a veri should not be under pressure or a must or am I wrong here?? I mean am sure u have gotten messages from guys u never replied to right.?? Was it not courteous to reply to a message?? But fact is u didn't have to.u don't have to reply to everyone that writes to you do u. So being courteous on fab swingers is kinda far fetched.
It seems to me that you think it’s fne to have a meet , and that if it’s a good meet you will verify the people in your time , not when they expect you to do it . So they sent you a veri , and you were too busy to do one back , so a few days later they blocked you . I think that’s fair enough from their perspective , and from yours too . If you really couldn’t find a few minutes to write them one back , why should they have to deal with that kind of ignorance ? And if you couldn’t be bothered to find the time to be courteous , why are you bothered ?
Personally I don't believe the OP
He had the time to message back and forth.
He had the time to arrange and attend a meet.
He had the time to read accept and display their verification.
He had the time to go away for a break.
He had the time to take his mobile phone with him.
He didn't have time to write a few kind words.
cynical aint we ... you still missing the point. I didn't have to leave one.i don't think I am.bound to leave one. I never asked for one.i don't need one.i don't beg for one.i am not desperate.i don't sulk when I don't get one.i have had meets from couples who for personal reasons didn't leave me a verification. My point is should I sulk and cry like a child?? Verification I used to think are discretionary. No one wants to answer this question. What if to me the meet was shit?? Do i still have to pretend and leave a nice lovely verification because they left me one?? Or am I in a different world here??
simple.
Don't display their verification "
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"But my question is do I have to be courteous. Do i have to leave one cos they left me one.do they gave to now block me cos they didn't get one at the time they wanted.note.i intended leaving one for them but they were not patient.but that said.i have left veris for people that never gave me one back.i never blocked them or sulked.the fact am on fab swingers looking for sex doesn't mean I must be courteous or do everything right. Leaving a veri should not be under pressure or a must or am I wrong here?? I mean am sure u have gotten messages from guys u never replied to right.?? Was it not courteous to reply to a message?? But fact is u didn't have to.u don't have to reply to everyone that writes to you do u. So being courteous on fab swingers is kinda far fetched.
It seems to me that you think it’s fne to have a meet , and that if it’s a good meet you will verify the people in your time , not when they expect you to do it . So they sent you a veri , and you were too busy to do one back , so a few days later they blocked you . I think that’s fair enough from their perspective , and from yours too . If you really couldn’t find a few minutes to write them one back , why should they have to deal with that kind of ignorance ? And if you couldn’t be bothered to find the time to be courteous , why are you bothered ?
Personally I don't believe the OP
He had the time to message back and forth.
He had the time to arrange and attend a meet.
He had the time to read accept and display their verification.
He had the time to go away for a break.
He had the time to take his mobile phone with him.
He didn't have time to write a few kind words.
cynical aint we ... you still missing the point. I didn't have to leave one.i don't think I am.bound to leave one. I never asked for one.i don't need one.i don't beg for one.i am not desperate.i don't sulk when I don't get one.i have had meets from couples who for personal reasons didn't leave me a verification. My point is should I sulk and cry like a child?? Verification I used to think are discretionary. No one wants to answer this question. What if to me the meet was shit?? Do i still have to pretend and leave a nice lovely verification because they left me one?? Or am I in a different world here??"
I answered it , and suggested that them blocking you was the best for everyone .
They clearly take swinging far more seriously than you , so the fact that they thought it was important and you didn’t sums it up .
You’ve spent so long on this thread that you could have written twenty verifications , yet couldn’t find the time to write just the one for them . They were rightly upset , and anyone who disagrees with you is wrong in your eyes . |
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"But my question is do I have to be courteous. Do i have to leave one cos they left me one.do they gave to now block me cos they didn't get one at the time they wanted.note.i intended leaving one for them but they were not patient.but that said.i have left veris for people that never gave me one back.i never blocked them or sulked.the fact am on fab swingers looking for sex doesn't mean I must be courteous or do everything right. Leaving a veri should not be under pressure or a must or am I wrong here?? I mean am sure u have gotten messages from guys u never replied to right.?? Was it not courteous to reply to a message?? But fact is u didn't have to.u don't have to reply to everyone that writes to you do u. So being courteous on fab swingers is kinda far fetched.
It seems to me that you think it’s fne to have a meet , and that if it’s a good meet you will verify the people in your time , not when they expect you to do it . So they sent you a veri , and you were too busy to do one back , so a few days later they blocked you . I think that’s fair enough from their perspective , and from yours too . If you really couldn’t find a few minutes to write them one back , why should they have to deal with that kind of ignorance ? And if you couldn’t be bothered to find the time to be courteous , why are you bothered ?
Personally I don't believe the OP
He had the time to message back and forth.
He had the time to arrange and attend a meet.
He had the time to read accept and display their verification.
He had the time to go away for a break.
He had the time to take his mobile phone with him.
He didn't have time to write a few kind words.
cynical aint we ... you still missing the point. I didn't have to leave one.i don't think I am.bound to leave one. I never asked for one.i don't need one.i don't beg for one.i am not desperate.i don't sulk when I don't get one.i have had meets from couples who for personal reasons didn't leave me a verification. My point is should I sulk and cry like a child?? Verification I used to think are discretionary. No one wants to answer this question. What if to me the meet was shit?? Do i still have to pretend and leave a nice lovely verification because they left me one?? Or am I in a different world here??
simple.
Don't display their verification "
He can’t as they’ve blocked him .
Perhaps that’s why they blocked him ?
If he displayed theirs and didn’t do one back it looks like they enjoyed the meet and he didn’t . That wouldn’t do much for their self esteem . |
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"But my question is do I have to be courteous. Do i have to leave one cos they left me one.do they gave to now block me cos they didn't get one at the time they wanted.note.i intended leaving one for them but they were not patient.but that said.i have left veris for people that never gave me one back.i never blocked them or sulked.the fact am on fab swingers looking for sex doesn't mean I must be courteous or do everything right. Leaving a veri should not be under pressure or a must or am I wrong here?? I mean am sure u have gotten messages from guys u never replied to right.?? Was it not courteous to reply to a message?? But fact is u didn't have to.u don't have to reply to everyone that writes to you do u. So being courteous on fab swingers is kinda far fetched.
It seems to me that you think it’s fne to have a meet , and that if it’s a good meet you will verify the people in your time , not when they expect you to do it . So they sent you a veri , and you were too busy to do one back , so a few days later they blocked you . I think that’s fair enough from their perspective , and from yours too . If you really couldn’t find a few minutes to write them one back , why should they have to deal with that kind of ignorance ? And if you couldn’t be bothered to find the time to be courteous , why are you bothered ?
Personally I don't believe the OP
He had the time to message back and forth.
He had the time to arrange and attend a meet.
He had the time to read accept and display their verification.
He had the time to go away for a break.
He had the time to take his mobile phone with him.
He didn't have time to write a few kind words.
cynical aint we ... you still missing the point. I didn't have to leave one.i don't think I am.bound to leave one. I never asked for one.i don't need one.i don't beg for one.i am not desperate.i don't sulk when I don't get one.i have had meets from couples who for personal reasons didn't leave me a verification. My point is should I sulk and cry like a child?? Verification I used to think are discretionary. No one wants to answer this question. What if to me the meet was shit?? Do i still have to pretend and leave a nice lovely verification because they left me one?? Or am I in a different world here??"
Yes, veri's are at your discretion but others also have a block button they can use as they see fit. Maybe they thought you were in your own words "a shit meet". |
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"But my question is do I have to be courteous. Do i have to leave one cos they left me one.do they gave to now block me cos they didn't get one at the time they wanted.note.i intended leaving one for them but they were not patient.but that said.i have left veris for people that never gave me one back.i never blocked them or sulked.the fact am on fab swingers looking for sex doesn't mean I must be courteous or do everything right. Leaving a veri should not be under pressure or a must or am I wrong here?? I mean am sure u have gotten messages from guys u never replied to right.?? Was it not courteous to reply to a message?? But fact is u didn't have to.u don't have to reply to everyone that writes to you do u. So being courteous on fab swingers is kinda far fetched.
It seems to me that you think it’s fne to have a meet , and that if it’s a good meet you will verify the people in your time , not when they expect you to do it . So they sent you a veri , and you were too busy to do one back , so a few days later they blocked you . I think that’s fair enough from their perspective , and from yours too . If you really couldn’t find a few minutes to write them one back , why should they have to deal with that kind of ignorance ? And if you couldn’t be bothered to find the time to be courteous , why are you bothered ?
Personally I don't believe the OP
He had the time to message back and forth.
He had the time to arrange and attend a meet.
He had the time to read accept and display their verification.
He had the time to go away for a break.
He had the time to take his mobile phone with him.
He didn't have time to write a few kind words.
cynical aint we ... you still missing the point. I didn't have to leave one.i don't think I am.bound to leave one. I never asked for one.i don't need one.i don't beg for one.i am not desperate.i don't sulk when I don't get one.i have had meets from couples who for personal reasons didn't leave me a verification. My point is should I sulk and cry like a child?? Verification I used to think are discretionary. No one wants to answer this question. What if to me the meet was shit?? Do i still have to pretend and leave a nice lovely verification because they left me one?? Or am I in a different world here??
simple.
Don't display their verification
He can’t as they’ve blocked him .
Perhaps that’s why they blocked him ?
If he displayed theirs and didn’t do one back it looks like they enjoyed the meet and he didn’t . That wouldn’t do much for their self esteem ."
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"But my question is do I have to be courteous. Do i have to leave one cos they left me one.do they gave to now block me cos they didn't get one at the time they wanted.note.i intended leaving one for them but they were not patient.but that said.i have left veris for people that never gave me one back.i never blocked them or sulked.the fact am on fab swingers looking for sex doesn't mean I must be courteous or do everything right. Leaving a veri should not be under pressure or a must or am I wrong here?? I mean am sure u have gotten messages from guys u never replied to right.?? Was it not courteous to reply to a message?? But fact is u didn't have to.u don't have to reply to everyone that writes to you do u. So being courteous on fab swingers is kinda far fetched.
It seems to me that you think it’s fne to have a meet , and that if it’s a good meet you will verify the people in your time , not when they expect you to do it . So they sent you a veri , and you were too busy to do one back , so a few days later they blocked you . I think that’s fair enough from their perspective , and from yours too . If you really couldn’t find a few minutes to write them one back , why should they have to deal with that kind of ignorance ? And if you couldn’t be bothered to find the time to be courteous , why are you bothered ?
Personally I don't believe the OP
He had the time to message back and forth.
He had the time to arrange and attend a meet.
He had the time to read accept and display their verification.
He had the time to go away for a break.
He had the time to take his mobile phone with him.
He didn't have time to write a few kind words.
cynical aint we ... you still missing the point. I didn't have to leave one.i don't think I am.bound to leave one. I never asked for one.i don't need one.i don't beg for one.i am not desperate.i don't sulk when I don't get one.i have had meets from couples who for personal reasons didn't leave me a verification. My point is should I sulk and cry like a child?? Verification I used to think are discretionary. No one wants to answer this question. What if to me the meet was shit?? Do i still have to pretend and leave a nice lovely verification because they left me one?? Or am I in a different world here??
simple.
Don't display their verification
He can’t as they’ve blocked him .
Perhaps that’s why they blocked him ?
If he displayed theirs and didn’t do one back it looks like they enjoyed the meet and he didn’t . That wouldn’t do much for their self esteem .Hey can't you tell him the negative of displaying too many veris "
I could , but I doubt he would be interested |
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"But my question is do I have to be courteous. Do i have to leave one cos they left me one.do they gave to now block me cos they didn't get one at the time they wanted.note.i intended leaving one for them but they were not patient.but that said.i have left veris for people that never gave me one back.i never blocked them or sulked.the fact am on fab swingers looking for sex doesn't mean I must be courteous or do everything right. Leaving a veri should not be under pressure or a must or am I wrong here?? I mean am sure u have gotten messages from guys u never replied to right.?? Was it not courteous to reply to a message?? But fact is u didn't have to.u don't have to reply to everyone that writes to you do u. So being courteous on fab swingers is kinda far fetched.
It seems to me that you think it’s fne to have a meet , and that if it’s a good meet you will verify the people in your time , not when they expect you to do it . So they sent you a veri , and you were too busy to do one back , so a few days later they blocked you . I think that’s fair enough from their perspective , and from yours too . If you really couldn’t find a few minutes to write them one back , why should they have to deal with that kind of ignorance ? And if you couldn’t be bothered to find the time to be courteous , why are you bothered ?
Personally I don't believe the OP
He had the time to message back and forth.
He had the time to arrange and attend a meet.
He had the time to read accept and display their verification.
He had the time to go away for a break.
He had the time to take his mobile phone with him.
He didn't have time to write a few kind words.
cynical aint we ... you still missing the point. I didn't have to leave one.i don't think I am.bound to leave one. I never asked for one.i don't need one.i don't beg for one.i am not desperate.i don't sulk when I don't get one.i have had meets from couples who for personal reasons didn't leave me a verification. My point is should I sulk and cry like a child?? Verification I used to think are discretionary. No one wants to answer this question. What if to me the meet was shit?? Do i still have to pretend and leave a nice lovely verification because they left me one?? Or am I in a different world here??
simple.
Don't display their verification
He can’t as they’ve blocked him .
Perhaps that’s why they blocked him ?
If he displayed theirs and didn’t do one back it looks like they enjoyed the meet and he didn’t . That wouldn’t do much for their self esteem ."
firstly, Self esteem is overrated.
I did read about 50% of the previous posts, got bored and decided to go on the offensive.
One swift kick unearthed a little fact and all became clear, the OP didn't enjoy their efforts.
It happens.
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Ok. Taken all your opinions on board and even the rude ones. First of all I am here now cos that was my point.i now have the time to leave a veri and if they were patient they would have gotten one.if you took your time to read my post you would notice I said I was away and busy with work hence at the time they wanted a veri I couldn't leave them one.i don't rush veris.i take my time to leave a nice proper veri.so yes I have been here for a she cos now I have time and that was my point.thanks for agreeing with me. Secondly I assumed though wrongly we were all adults and if the couple had a problem with me not given a veri as adults they would have written to say heyy we still haven't gotten one and if I was free I would have explained why.its a shame adults would think and support blocking a person cos at the time they wanted a veri they didn't get one.yea u might take swinging so serious and deep but I don't and that's not knocking you for it.thats just you and this is me. Obviously to them the meet wasn't shit cos they left a nice veri.so the reason they blocked me which I later found out from a different source not them was Becos I didn't leave them one when they left me one. I don't expect you to agree with my opinion like some people assumed.i just wanted to make sure I didn't do anything wrong. Generally I guess if I did something wrong I would have been reported and banned. So point is I was definitely in the right. Finally it's kinda strange to think because you got a veri you definitely have to give one.and because you displayed a veri given was wrong because you were not gonna give one back.i have had couples complain on.why I haven't displayed there verification. So who do u please. But the good thing about life and this forum is you get to hear different opinion and people's mindset. Guess that's why we are different.so thanks to all that agreed and disagreed with me.we learn everyday. Happy swinging |
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"But my question is do I have to be courteous. Do i have to leave one cos they left me one.do they gave to now block me cos they didn't get one at the time they wanted.note.i intended leaving one for them but they were not patient.but that said.i have left veris for people that never gave me one back.i never blocked them or sulked.the fact am on fab swingers looking for sex doesn't mean I must be courteous or do everything right. Leaving a veri should not be under pressure or a must or am I wrong here?? I mean am sure u have gotten messages from guys u never replied to right.?? Was it not courteous to reply to a message?? But fact is u didn't have to.u don't have to reply to everyone that writes to you do u. So being courteous on fab swingers is kinda far fetched.
It seems to me that you think it’s fne to have a meet , and that if it’s a good meet you will verify the people in your time , not when they expect you to do it . So they sent you a veri , and you were too busy to do one back , so a few days later they blocked you . I think that’s fair enough from their perspective , and from yours too . If you really couldn’t find a few minutes to write them one back , why should they have to deal with that kind of ignorance ? And if you couldn’t be bothered to find the time to be courteous , why are you bothered ?
Personally I don't believe the OP
He had the time to message back and forth.
He had the time to arrange and attend a meet.
He had the time to read accept and display their verification.
He had the time to go away for a break.
He had the time to take his mobile phone with him.
He didn't have time to write a few kind words.
cynical aint we ... you still missing the point. I didn't have to leave one.i don't think I am.bound to leave one. I never asked for one.i don't need one.i don't beg for one.i am not desperate.i don't sulk when I don't get one.i have had meets from couples who for personal reasons didn't leave me a verification. My point is should I sulk and cry like a child?? Verification I used to think are discretionary. No one wants to answer this question. What if to me the meet was shit?? Do i still have to pretend and leave a nice lovely verification because they left me one?? Or am I in a different world here??
simple.
Don't display their verification
He can’t as they’ve blocked him .
Perhaps that’s why they blocked him ?
If he displayed theirs and didn’t do one back it looks like they enjoyed the meet and he didn’t . That wouldn’t do much for their self esteem .
firstly, Self esteem is overrated.
I did read about 50% of the previous posts, got bored and decided to go on the offensive.
One swift kick unearthed a little fact and all became clear, the OP didn't enjoy their efforts.
It happens.
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I agree , self esteem is over rated
However , it seems he displayed their veri , and didn’t do one back . After a few days they blocked him , and he says he was going to do one when he found the time .
That’s tells me he just couldn’t be bothered , or forgot . Not that it wasn’t a good meet .
The courteous thing to do if it wasn’t all that , would have been to not display their veri , and block them .
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"I assume from what you've said that they msgd to tell you why they were blocking you. I don't always return a veri straight away. I like to think about it but if I've received one & I'm busy, I would send a msg (because I can't be that busy if I've seen the veri) to say that I will return the favour when I have a bit more time.
For people that don't have many, veris do mean a lot. I hope you know sometimes you can be busy but can quickly browse through your messages or veri quickly and return to them later when you have more time.the fact you read a veri or read a message and you didn't reply doesn't mean you had time to. I mean reading quickly and writing are two different things.i look at fab sometimes on my phone while walking to work. Does that mean cos I look and saw it then I must have the time to reply or write while walking to a train station. Come on.lets be realistic here. I take on board yr opinion but I still personally think given a veri because you received one is pretence.i don't pretend. I have had some shit meets. Would u say I should give a veri talking bout how shit the meet was. Would it be displayed??"
Yes I am aware that you might be busy & are just having a quick scroll, if you have the intention of writing a veri, then it would be courteous to send a quick msg. You're not obliged to do that, I said that's what I would do. You're not obliged to do anything you don't want to do. |
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Just for those who go on about negatives of having too many verifications I really don't know what you mean.but if u mean it stops me having meets then you definitely wrong. My many verification as you call it actually makes me have more meets and personally it's not a negative. Maybe you have negatives on here.i don't. So truly I don't know what you mean by negatives. Point is I have no problem given verification.it has to be at my time and space. No pressure |
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"Ok. Taken all your opinions on board and even the rude ones. First of all I am here now cos that was my point.i now have the time to leave a veri and if they were patient they would have gotten one.if you took your time to read my post you would notice I said I was away and busy with work hence at the time they wanted a veri I couldn't leave them one.i don't rush veris.i take my time to leave a nice proper veri.so yes I have been here for a she cos now I have time and that was my point.thanks for agreeing with me. Secondly I assumed though wrongly we were all adults and if the couple had a problem with me not given a veri as adults they would have written to say heyy we still haven't gotten one and if I was free I would have explained why.its a shame adults would think and support blocking a person cos at the time they wanted a veri they didn't get one.yea u might take swinging so serious and deep but I don't and that's not knocking you for it.thats just you and this is me. Obviously to them the meet wasn't shit cos they left a nice veri.so the reason they blocked me which I later found out from a different source not them was Becos I didn't leave them one when they left me one. I don't expect you to agree with my opinion like some people assumed.i just wanted to make sure I didn't do anything wrong. Generally I guess if I did something wrong I would have been reported and banned. So point is I was definitely in the right. Finally it's kinda strange to think because you got a veri you definitely have to give one.and because you displayed a veri given was wrong because you were not gonna give one back.i have had couples complain on.why I haven't displayed there verification. So who do u please. But the good thing about life and this forum is you get to hear different opinion and people's mindset. Guess that's why we are different.so thanks to all that agreed and disagreed with me.we learn everyday. Happy swinging"
Yes , we are all different and this discussion has highlighted some differences . We all live and learn . I take your point that you would have got round to it , but sometimes people are of a different mindset . This was the case here , and maybe you can see that now . Take care and happy swinging |
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"I assume from what you've said that they msgd to tell you why they were blocking you. I don't always return a veri straight away. I like to think about it but if I've received one & I'm busy, I would send a msg (because I can't be that busy if I've seen the veri) to say that I will return the favour when I have a bit more time.
For people that don't have many, veris do mean a lot. I hope you know sometimes you can be busy but can quickly browse through your messages or veri quickly and return to them later when you have more time.the fact you read a veri or read a message and you didn't reply doesn't mean you had time to. I mean reading quickly and writing are two different things.i look at fab sometimes on my phone while walking to work. Does that mean cos I look and saw it then I must have the time to reply or write while walking to a train station. Come on.lets be realistic here. I take on board yr opinion but I still personally think given a veri because you received one is pretence.i don't pretend. I have had some shit meets. Would u say I should give a veri talking bout how shit the meet was. Would it be displayed??
Yes I am aware that you might be busy & are just having a quick scroll, if you have the intention of writing a veri, then it would be courteous to send a quick msg. You're not obliged to do that, I said that's what I would do. You're not obliged to do anything you don't want to do."
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"Ok. Taken all your opinions on board and even the rude ones. First of all I am here now cos that was my point.i now have the time to leave a veri and if they were patient they would have gotten one.if you took your time to read my post you would notice I said I was away and busy with work hence at the time they wanted a veri I couldn't leave them one.i don't rush veris.i take my time to leave a nice proper veri.so yes I have been here for a she cos now I have time and that was my point.thanks for agreeing with me. Secondly I assumed though wrongly we were all adults and if the couple had a problem with me not given a veri as adults they would have written to say heyy we still haven't gotten one and if I was free I would have explained why.its a shame adults would think and support blocking a person cos at the time they wanted a veri they didn't get one.yea u might take swinging so serious and deep but I don't and that's not knocking you for it.thats just you and this is me. Obviously to them the meet wasn't shit cos they left a nice veri.so the reason they blocked me which I later found out from a different source not them was Becos I didn't leave them one when they left me one. I don't expect you to agree with my opinion like some people assumed.i just wanted to make sure I didn't do anything wrong. Generally I guess if I did something wrong I would have been reported and banned. So point is I was definitely in the right. Finally it's kinda strange to think because you got a veri you definitely have to give one.and because you displayed a veri given was wrong because you were not gonna give one back.i have had couples complain on.why I haven't displayed there verification. So who do u please. But the good thing about life and this forum is you get to hear different opinion and people's mindset. Guess that's why we are different.so thanks to all that agreed and disagreed with me.we learn everyday. Happy swinging"
Got bored again reading this post, got halfway.
But.
I will eat half the humble pie available as you do indeed write a comprehensive verification 'just checked'.
My/others point still stands;
Only display verification's when you have time to reciprocate.
Friends ?
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"Ok. Taken all your opinions on board and even the rude ones. First of all I am here now cos that was my point.i now have the time to leave a veri and if they were patient they would have gotten one.if you took your time to read my post you would notice I said I was away and busy with work hence at the time they wanted a veri I couldn't leave them one.i don't rush veris.i take my time to leave a nice proper veri.so yes I have been here for a she cos now I have time and that was my point.thanks for agreeing with me. Secondly I assumed though wrongly we were all adults and if the couple had a problem with me not given a veri as adults they would have written to say heyy we still haven't gotten one and if I was free I would have explained why.its a shame adults would think and support blocking a person cos at the time they wanted a veri they didn't get one.yea u might take swinging so serious and deep but I don't and that's not knocking you for it.thats just you and this is me. Obviously to them the meet wasn't shit cos they left a nice veri.so the reason they blocked me which I later found out from a different source not them was Becos I didn't leave them one when they left me one. I don't expect you to agree with my opinion like some people assumed.i just wanted to make sure I didn't do anything wrong. Generally I guess if I did something wrong I would have been reported and banned. So point is I was definitely in the right. Finally it's kinda strange to think because you got a veri you definitely have to give one.and because you displayed a veri given was wrong because you were not gonna give one back.i have had couples complain on.why I haven't displayed there verification. So who do u please. But the good thing about life and this forum is you get to hear different opinion and people's mindset. Guess that's why we are different.so thanks to all that agreed and disagreed with me.we learn everyday. Happy swinging
Got bored again reading this post, got halfway.
But.
I will eat half the humble pie available as you do indeed write a comprehensive verification 'just checked'.
My/others point still stands;
Only display verification's when you have time to reciprocate.
Friends ?
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. We have always been friends lol. We only had conflicting opinions.doesnr make us enemies.makes us different which is part of life. All good on my side. He he |
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"But my question is do I have to be courteous. Do i have to leave one cos they left me one.do they gave to now block me cos they didn't get one at the time they wanted.note.i intended leaving one for them but they were not patient.but that said.i have left veris for people that never gave me one back.i never blocked them or sulked.the fact am on fab swingers looking for sex doesn't mean I must be courteous or do everything right. Leaving a veri should not be under pressure or a must or am I wrong here?? I mean am sure u have gotten messages from guys u never replied to right.?? Was it not courteous to reply to a message?? But fact is u didn't have to.u don't have to reply to everyone that writes to you do u. So being courteous on fab swingers is kinda far fetched.
It seems to me that you think it’s fne to have a meet , and that if it’s a good meet you will verify the people in your time , not when they expect you to do it . So they sent you a veri , and you were too busy to do one back , so a few days later they blocked you . I think that’s fair enough from their perspective , and from yours too . If you really couldn’t find a few minutes to write them one back , why should they have to deal with that kind of ignorance ? And if you couldn’t be bothered to find the time to be courteous , why are you bothered ?
Personally I don't believe the OP
He had the time to message back and forth.
He had the time to arrange and attend a meet.
He had the time to read accept and display their verification.
He had the time to go away for a break.
He had the time to take his mobile phone with him.
He didn't have time to write a few kind words.
cynical aint we ... you still missing the point. I didn't have to leave one.i don't think I am.bound to leave one. I never asked for one.i don't need one.i don't beg for one.i am not desperate.i don't sulk when I don't get one.i have had meets from couples who for personal reasons didn't leave me a verification. My point is should I sulk and cry like a child?? Verification I used to think are discretionary. No one wants to answer this question. What if to me the meet was shit?? Do i still have to pretend and leave a nice lovely verification because they left me one?? Or am I in a different world here??
simple.
Don't display their verification
He can’t as they’ve blocked him .
Perhaps that’s why they blocked him ?
If he displayed theirs and didn’t do one back it looks like they enjoyed the meet and he didn’t . That wouldn’t do much for their self esteem .Hey can't you tell him the negative of displaying too many veris
I could , but I doubt he would be interested "
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