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over a year ago
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"Im just wondering where is the best place to find the older ladies that want younger men? Every one I’ve come across is looking for men round their age "
Your age limit is 38 ????? |
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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago
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If you want more mature ladies the just use the search. It also depends what she range you are looking at and what their expectations are. My wife is 47, almost 48, but looks amazing still, to the point that a lot of 20 some things would no to look as good. Being older and classy she also carries some undefined extra element of sexiness.
Now, we are ok with younger guys, I even prefer to see younger guys want her, but there is a limit. We have children up to 28 so going that low seems like kids friends ages (Although there's a good fantasy scenario to be had there) so our age range is 30 to 50.
If we saw a guy at a club she liked then we're not going to ask his age to decide whether we want to play with him so it's not set in stone. There are younger guys that look more mature and there are older guys that look less mature.
The last guy we had a good time, and he had a great time taking her from behind while she took me in her mouth, was 31 but looked more like late 30s. He was a great guy we got on with, very polite and respectful and we will definitely meet him again sometime.
One thing my wife does say is that the younger guys mostly seem to get excited quick and don't have as much stamina. Not all, but more generally that older guys. That's not a major.problem as she has me to finish the job off .
Basically you need to decide what you mean by older and what you are looking for. There are some gorgeous women around in their 40s and 50s but obviously not as many as in 20s and 30s. Finding a great looking older lady that takes care of herself is the trick.
I personally think club event nights are the best place to do that as classy clubs will see lovely ladies dressing up for their night out. Thats where tou will see all the nice ladies in their sexiest outfits and looking hot. It's certainly why Iove heading to the club on a Friday night with my wife, S. |
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"If you want more mature ladies the just use the search. It also depends what she range you are looking at and what their expectations are. My wife is 47, almost 48, but looks amazing still, to the point that a lot of 20 some things would no to look as good. Being older and classy she also carries some undefined extra element of sexiness.
Now, we are ok with younger guys, I even prefer to see younger guys want her, but there is a limit. We have children up to 28 so going that low seems like kids friends ages (Although there's a good fantasy scenario to be had there) so our age range is 30 to 50.
If we saw a guy at a club she liked then we're not going to ask his age to decide whether we want to play with him so it's not set in stone. There are younger guys that look more mature and there are older guys that look less mature.
The last guy we had a good time, and he had a great time taking her from behind while she took me in her mouth, was 31 but looked more like late 30s. He was a great guy we got on with, very polite and respectful and we will definitely meet him again sometime.
One thing my wife does say is that the younger guys mostly seem to get excited quick and don't have as much stamina. Not all, but more generally that older guys. That's not a major.problem as she has me to finish the job off .
Basically you need to decide what you mean by older and what you are looking for. There are some gorgeous women around in their 40s and 50s but obviously not as many as in 20s and 30s. Finding a great looking older lady that takes care of herself is the trick.
I personally think club event nights are the best place to do that as classy clubs will see lovely ladies dressing up for their night out. Thats where tou will see all the nice ladies in their sexiest outfits and looking hot. It's certainly why Iove heading to the club on a Friday night with my wife, S."
Mmmm she does look very good for her age fine figure of a woman |
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"Im just wondering where is the best place to find the older ladies that want younger men? Every one I’ve come across is looking for men round their age
Your age limit is 38 ?????"
Yeah I haven’t changed it yet, was going to after making this post but fell asleep ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"Im just wondering where is the best place to find the older ladies that want younger men? Every one I’ve come across is looking for men round their age
Your age limit is 38 ?????" ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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I like younger guys but not too much younger. Unfortunately in general they aren’t very good communicators. I dislike text speak and lack of punctuation.
In addition most haven’t learned how to be a gentleman. And I cannot handle that.
But certainly if a decent one crosses my path...hot bodies & plenty energy
Ps. ‘Older’ ladies don’t want to be referred to that way![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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"I like younger guys but not too much younger. Unfortunately in general they aren’t very good communicators. I dislike text speak and lack of punctuation.
In addition most haven’t learned how to be a gentleman. And I cannot handle that.
But certainly if a decent one crosses my path...hot bodies & plenty energy
Ps. ‘Older’ ladies don’t want to be referred to that way "
Yeah I was just thinking to myself that I haven’t got a clue how to address them
Thankfully I can speak proper English though instead of chav! ![](/icons/s/cool.gif) |
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"Im just wondering where is the best place to find the older ladies that want younger men? Every one I’ve come across is looking for men round their age
Your age limit is 38 ?????"
Clearly that's old ...!! |
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"Im just wondering where is the best place to find the older ladies that want younger men? Every one I’ve come across is looking for men round their age
Your age limit is 38 ?????
Clearly that's old ...!!"
It’s changed now...!! ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Best thing to do is not treat them or address them as 'older ladies' and talk to them/find them like you would any other human being "
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"I like younger guys but not too much younger. Unfortunately in general they aren’t very good communicators. I dislike text speak and lack of punctuation.
In addition most haven’t learned how to be a gentleman. And I cannot handle that.
But certainly if a decent one crosses my path...hot bodies & plenty energy
Ps. ‘Older’ ladies don’t want to be referred to that way " 24 ![](/icons/s/2/halo.gif) ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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"Im just wondering where is the best place to find the older ladies that want younger men? Every one I’ve come across is looking for men round their age
Your age limit is 38 ?????"
I will chat to any disgruntled 39 year olds |
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"I like younger guys but not too much younger. Unfortunately in general they aren’t very good communicators. I dislike text speak and lack of punctuation.
In addition most haven’t learned how to be a gentleman. And I cannot handle that.
But certainly if a decent one crosses my path...hot bodies & plenty energy
Ps. ‘Older’ ladies don’t want to be referred to that way "
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"Im just wondering where is the best place to find the older ladies that want younger men? Every one I’ve come across is looking for men round their age
Your age limit is 38 ?????
I will chat to any disgruntled 39 year olds"
Changed it to 57 now ![](/icons/s/2/halo.gif) |
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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago
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"Im just wondering where is the best place to find the older ladies that want younger men? Every one I’ve come across is looking for men round their age
Your age limit is 38 ?????
I will chat to any disgruntled 39 year olds
Changed it to 57 now "
Phew! Good for a few more years again ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"Im just wondering where is the best place to find the older ladies that want younger men? Every one I’ve come across is looking for men round their age
Your age limit is 38 ?????
I will chat to any disgruntled 39 year olds
Changed it to 57 now
Phew! Good for a few more years again "
Just looked at your photos! WOW! ps I didn’t know what age to put my maximum at so did 57 lol might make it the highest it will go though |
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"Im just wondering where is the best place to find the older ladies that want younger men? Every one I’ve come across is looking for men round their age
Your age limit is 38 ?????"
Agree but even so |
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If you're genuinely interested in older women who want younger men go to a cubs and cougars night at one of the clubs. Otherwise as has been suggested contacted the women who interest you and who who are looking for men your age. |
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"Older lady right here..... Although I'm very much in denial of my age. It's just a number....
I think you look amazing for your age
Also not a good thing to say to an older lady! "
Yep "I think you look amazing" will do, why qualify? |
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"Older lady right here..... Although I'm very much in denial of my age. It's just a number....
I think you look amazing for your age "
We are living longer these days.. Yoko ono was right when she said
“Some people are old at 18 and some are young at 90. Time is a concept that humans created.” ? |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Older lady right here..... Although I'm very much in denial of my age. It's just a number....
I think you look amazing for your age
Also not a good thing to say to an older lady!
Yep "I think you look amazing" will do, why qualify?"
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"Older lady right here..... Although I'm very much in denial of my age. It's just a number....
I think you look amazing for your age
We are living longer these days.. Yoko ono was right when she said
“Some people are old at 18 and some are young at 90. Time is a concept that humans created.” ? "
Also I think perception of what people should look like at a certain age is slow to catch up with reality. |
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"Older lady right here..... Although I'm very much in denial of my age. It's just a number....
I think you look amazing for your age
Also not a good thing to say to an older lady!
Yep "I think you look amazing" will do, why qualify?"
I didn’t mean to come across as rude when I said it I genuinely think she looks amazing thanks for the advice though ![](/icons/s/2/halo.gif) |
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"Older lady right here..... Although I'm very much in denial of my age. It's just a number....
I think you look amazing for your age
We are living longer these days.. Yoko ono was right when she said
“Some people are old at 18 and some are young at 90. Time is a concept that humans created.” ?
Also I think perception of what people should look like at a certain age is slow to catch up with reality."
I agree with that for sure! |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Older lady right here..... Although I'm very much in denial of my age. It's just a number....
I think you look amazing for your age
Also not a good thing to say to an older lady!
Yep "I think you look amazing" will do, why qualify?
I didn’t mean to come across as rude when I said it I genuinely think she looks amazing thanks for the advice though "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Best thing to do is not treat them or address them as 'older ladies' and talk to them/find them like you would any other human being "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you want more mature ladies the just use the search. It also depends what she range you are looking at and what their expectations are. My wife is 47, almost 48, but looks amazing still, to the point that a lot of 20 some things would no to look as good. Being older and classy she also carries some undefined extra element of sexiness.
Now, we are ok with younger guys, I even prefer to see younger guys want her, but there is a limit. We have children up to 28 so going that low seems like kids friends ages (Although there's a good fantasy scenario to be had there) so our age range is 30 to 50.
If we saw a guy at a club she liked then we're not going to ask his age to decide whether we want to play with him so it's not set in stone. There are younger guys that look more mature and there are older guys that look less mature.
The last guy we had a good time, and he had a great time taking her from behind while she took me in her mouth, was 31 but looked more like late 30s. He was a great guy we got on with, very polite and respectful and we will definitely meet him again sometime.
One thing my wife does say is that the younger guys mostly seem to get excited quick and don't have as much stamina. Not all, but more generally that older guys. That's not a major.problem as she has me to finish the job off .
Basically you need to decide what you mean by older and what you are looking for. There are some gorgeous women around in their 40s and 50s but obviously not as many as in 20s and 30s. Finding a great looking older lady that takes care of herself is the trick.
I personally think club event nights are the best place to do that as classy clubs will see lovely ladies dressing up for their night out. Thats where tou will see all the nice ladies in their sexiest outfits and looking hot. It's certainly why Iove heading to the club on a Friday night with my wife, S."
I like your reply. We also have an age range but met a guy who was 25 but his maturity and skills made me think he was older. I had a shock as like you we don't like to go below our kids ages. Club would be the best place.
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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago
East Northamptonshire |
"Older lady right here..... Although I'm very much in denial of my age. It's just a number....
I think you look amazing for your age "
Why is it always 'for your age'? These ladies just loom amazing. When you know their age it's just even more amazing how bloody sexy they look! |
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"Older lady right here..... Although I'm very much in denial of my age. It's just a number....
I think you look amazing for your age
Why is it always 'for your age'? These ladies just loom amazing. When you know their age it's just even more amazing how bloody sexy they look!"
I looked at her profile and saw her age, she looks fantastic I agree |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Older lady right here..... Although I'm very much in denial of my age. It's just a number....
I think you look amazing for your age
Why is it always 'for your age'? These ladies just loom amazing. When you know their age it's just even more amazing how bloody sexy they look!"
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I have been speaking to a more experienced lady who I met here in the forums. Although we are out of each others age range, there is definately a connection there.
The only problem is the distance between us, but we have already established that if the oppertunity arises and we are near each other we will definitely be meeting up for some fun ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"Im just wondering where is the best place to find the older ladies that want younger men? Every one I’ve come across is looking for men round their age " local sports centres bowls night, Brighton, retirement homes, library ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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"Best thing to do is not treat them or address them as 'older ladies' and talk to them/find them like you would any other human being
This " your wife's got a time machine and tell her her tans not as good as mine |
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"Best thing to do is not treat them or address them as 'older ladies' and talk to them/find them like you would any other human being
This your wife's got a time machine and tell her her tans not as good as mine "
Why does she have a time machine?
She does love her tan ![](/icons/s/cool.gif) |
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"Best thing to do is not treat them or address them as 'older ladies' and talk to them/find them like you would any other human being
This your wife's got a time machine and tell her her tans not as good as mine
Why does she have a time machine?
She does love her tan " she looks like she's gone back in time ha |
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"Best thing to do is not treat them or address them as 'older ladies' and talk to them/find them like you would any other human being
This your wife's got a time machine and tell her her tans not as good as mine
Why does she have a time machine?
She does love her tan she looks like she's gone back in time ha"
Lost me there? |
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"Best thing to do is not treat them or address them as 'older ladies' and talk to them/find them like you would any other human being
This your wife's got a time machine and tell her her tans not as good as mine
Why does she have a time machine?
She does love her tan she looks like she's gone back in time ha
Lost me there?" omg she looks younger than her years ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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"Best thing to do is not treat them or address them as 'older ladies' and talk to them/find them like you would any other human being
This your wife's got a time machine and tell her her tans not as good as mine
Why does she have a time machine?
She does love her tan she looks like she's gone back in time ha
Lost me there?omg she looks younger than her years "
Lol
Wasn’t sure but thank you for the compliment, she does indeed and we often get told we don’t look in our 50’s ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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"Best thing to do is not treat them or address them as 'older ladies' and talk to them/find them like you would any other human being
This your wife's got a time machine and tell her her tans not as good as mine
Why does she have a time machine?
She does love her tan she looks like she's gone back in time ha
Lost me there?omg she looks younger than her years
Lol
Wasn’t sure but thank you for the compliment, she does indeed and we often get told we don’t look in our 50’s " it'll be the garage full of anti ageing products ha |
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"Best thing to do is not treat them or address them as 'older ladies' and talk to them/find them like you would any other human being
This your wife's got a time machine and tell her her tans not as good as mine
Why does she have a time machine?
She does love her tan she looks like she's gone back in time ha
Lost me there?omg she looks younger than her years
Lol
Wasn’t sure but thank you for the compliment, she does indeed and we often get told we don’t look in our 50’s it'll be the garage full of anti ageing products ha"
Well we do get them for free
Someone has to test them along with that fountain of youth that I had installed a decade or so ago ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"Best thing to do is not treat them or address them as 'older ladies' and talk to them/find them like you would any other human being
This your wife's got a time machine and tell her her tans not as good as mine
Why does she have a time machine?
She does love her tan she looks like she's gone back in time ha
Lost me there?omg she looks younger than her years
Lol
Wasn’t sure but thank you for the compliment, she does indeed and we often get told we don’t look in our 50’s it'll be the garage full of anti ageing products ha
Well we do get them for free
Someone has to test them along with that fountain of youth that I had installed a decade or so ago " Ha omg you're Guinea pigs |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
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The last guy I met was 24, very intelligent, well educated and communication was always there, not forgetting he was very hot, knew what he was doing with lots of stamina, so perfect. I have no kids so don't have to the worry of if they are younger lol so age is a number to me, if you connect with a person doesn't matter on age oh and as long as the attractions there.
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"The last guy I met was 24, very intelligent, well educated and communication was always there, not forgetting he was very hot, knew what he was doing with lots of stamina, so perfect. I have no kids so don't have to the worry of if they are younger lol so age is a number to me, if you connect with a person doesn't matter on age oh and as long as the attractions there.
Hope you are successful in your search. " felicity you can sail and omg what a figure ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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"Im just wondering where is the best place to find the older ladies that want younger men? Every one I’ve come across is looking for men round their age "
Have you tried a club? I've met women who are older than me at a club and they are such lovely ladies ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"Im just wondering where is the best place to find the older ladies that want younger men? Every one I’ve come across is looking for men round their age
Have you tried a club? I've met women who are older than me at a club and they are such lovely ladies "
I’ve not attended a club just yet! I will be soon though I’ve just been too busy with work during harvest ![](/icons/s/sad.gif) |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
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"Older lady right here..... Although I'm very much in denial of my age. It's just a number....
I think you look amazing for your age "
Careful now
As others have said, you can run a search based on what you are looking for and save it
Just getting yourself known on the forums and along to a social or club if you are so inclined |
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"Older lady right here..... Although I'm very much in denial of my age. It's just a number....
I think you look amazing for your age
Careful now
As others have said, you can run a search based on what you are looking for and save it
Just getting yourself known on the forums and along to a social or club if you are so inclined"
I sound so arrogant with the way I said it how would you have worded it?
I’m on the forums quite a lot to be fair as I enjoy looking through them |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
"The last guy I met was 24, very intelligent, well educated and communication was always there, not forgetting he was very hot, knew what he was doing with lots of stamina, so perfect. I have no kids so don't have to the worry of if they are younger lol so age is a number to me, if you connect with a person doesn't matter on age oh and as long as the attractions there.
Hope you are successful in your search. felicity you can sail and omg what a figure "
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