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Do couples like to be kissed?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We like to kiss but have noticed other couples saying they don't/won't kiss.
There is no definitive answer because preferences vary.
You'll have to ask your meets individually to see if kissing is something they like. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"I never know to kiss the lady of a couple when having fun, as I went to once and was told NO??
So do couples generally like to kissed or is it best not to and wait to be kissed??
Nick x"
it is one of the questions I always ask before I start playing.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never know to kiss the lady of a couple when having fun, as I went to once and was told NO??
So do couples generally like to kissed or is it best not to and wait to be kissed??
Nick x"
if your meeting people off here best to ask them about their rules before meeting
however if im playing with someone at a club i usually either wait to see if they kiss me first, or just slowly move my face towards theirs and see their recation, if they move their head away i leave and find someone else lol |
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Some say they keep it between themselves as its special! What's more special the penetration?
Personally its something that should have been convayed to you before play or even meeting. As someone else has said to mechanical without. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kissing IS very sensual and intimate...so never for meets for us...
 more intimate than shagging, licking or sucking someone? "
Absolutely...i've done far more intimate things with people than fuck them...fuckimg can be quite mechanical as people have stated...kissing arouses me so much...i could kiss for hours...wouldn't want to do that with a virtual stranger |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kissing IS very sensual and intimate...so never for meets for us...
more intimate than shagging, licking or sucking someone? "
odd isnt it?
to me making something intimate is the feeling you have towards who your doing it with not the act itself
you can make love and you can shag, the difference is how you feel towards who your having sex with
if you can just see sex as a shag why can you just see a kiss as a kiss with no feelings behind it
i do not find kissing intimate at all simply because i have no personal feelings behind who im kissing, its just a act i very much enjoy doing
i do respect peoples views but that does not ean i understand where they are coming from
if you can diffirensiate the difference between making love and shagging and because of this not find sex with others imtimate why cant you do that will a kiss? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can understand where Naughtynympho's coming from because I share similar views, but at the same time I have my own "other" feeling about kissing during play.
We love it, and wont meet couples who don't feel the same, but I can't watch kiss another guy. I'm not a watcher anyway, never have been, but I don't like seeing my wife snogging another bloke.
Strange isn't it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can understand where Naughtynympho's coming from because I share similar views, but at the same time I have my own "other" feeling about kissing during play.
We love it, and wont meet couples who don't feel the same, but I can't watch kiss another guy. I'm not a watcher anyway, never have been, but I don't like seeing my wife snogging another bloke.
Strange isn't it? "
Then who kisses who during meets? And doesn't that make you a tad hypocritical questioning our preference? In order to meet, you demand that people do soemthing you won't do? I'm confused...mind you-that doesn't often take much... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kissing IS very sensual and intimate...so never for meets for us...
more intimate than shagging, licking or sucking someone?
odd isnt it?
to me making something intimate is the feeling you have towards who your doing it with not the act itself
you can make love and you can shag, the difference is how you feel towards who your having sex with
if you can just see sex as a shag why can you just see a kiss as a kiss with no feelings behind it
i do not find kissing intimate at all simply because i have no personal feelings behind who im kissing, its just a act i very much enjoy doing
i do respect peoples views but that does not ean i understand where they are coming from
if you can diffirensiate the difference between making love and shagging and because of this not find sex with others imtimate why cant you do that will a kiss?"
Because we don't want to...I wouldn't dream of talking for everyone, but i imagine most couples like to keep soemthing just for themselves, we share so much else in this game...kissing is something utterly personal to us that we don't want to seperate it...one of the other things for me is anal...I won't have anal with anyone other than him...I just don't trust anyone else enough...if people don't like or understand it, fair enough...it doesn't seem to get in the way of us having meets |
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Kissing is a very important part of sex for us, before during and after! We haven't played with any couples who have not kissed, the only time we've experienced the 'keeping something back' idea has been with soft-swingers who swap back to their partner when it's time to fuck.
Women kissing while being done by men, kissing your own partner when she/he is with somebody else...etc. Kissing is just too erotic not to do! |
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"We love kissing and my hubby loves to watch me kiss other guys and girls! Big turn on for both of us xxxx"
Guess everyone has their preference. Personally I like to kiss, makes it not so mechanical. Had a meet once and was told AT the meet no kissing, which relieved me and made me glad cos she had bad teeth, 
I like lovely teeth |
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Understanding why people dont kiss is not nessasary. I would not claim to understand why people like watersports but I can accept that some do.
Also I imagine that kissing is variable depending on the person as well. Generally you may kiss as a rule. However I can see that on occasion you could fancy shagging some one but not snogging them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find it bizarre that people don't as for me, that's such a turn on and really helps me relax"
There's nothing 'bizarre' about having preferences. If someone doesn't like something... they don't like it... it's not weird is it?
I love kissing but I don't like anal sex. Some people love anal sex but don't like kissing meets... nowt strange about that. |
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
Norfolk |
"I find it bizarre that people don't as for me, that's such a turn on and really helps me relax
There's nothing 'bizarre' about having preferences. If someone doesn't like something... they don't like it... it's not weird is it?
I love kissing but I don't like anal sex. Some people love anal sex but don't like kissing meets... nowt strange about that."
can I have a snog later please?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find it bizarre that people don't as for me, that's such a turn on and really helps me relax
There's nothing 'bizarre' about having preferences. If someone doesn't like something... they don't like it... it's not weird is it?
I love kissing but I don't like anal sex. Some people love anal sex but don't like kissing meets... nowt strange about that.
can I have a snog later please? "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can understand where Naughtynympho's coming from because I share similar views, but at the same time I have my own "other" feeling about kissing during play.
We love it, and wont meet couples who don't feel the same, but I can't watch kiss another guy. I'm not a watcher anyway, never have been, but I don't like seeing my wife snogging another bloke.
Strange isn't it?
Then who kisses who during meets? And doesn't that make you a tad hypocritical questioning our preference? In order to meet, you demand that people do soemthing you won't do? I'm confused...mind you-that doesn't often take much..."
We have to kiss our playmates during a meet, we'll kiss each other too, but I don't like to watch Kate kiss another guy. I'm happy for her to do it, but just don't want to watch her do it.
I'm not questioning your preference, just putting our own, or rather my own perception on it.
It's not a major problem to us, because we only meet people with similar preferences.
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
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"I find it bizarre that people don't as for me, that's such a turn on and really helps me relax
There's nothing 'bizarre' about having preferences. If someone doesn't like something... they don't like it... it's not weird is it?
I love kissing but I don't like anal sex. Some people love anal sex but don't like kissing meets... nowt strange about that.
can I have a snog later please?
Aye! "
mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm Thank you xxxxxxxxxxxxxx |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"I never know to kiss the lady of a couple when having fun, as I went to once and was told NO??
So do couples generally like to kissed or is it best not to and wait to be kissed??
Nick x"
Everyone has likes and dislikes, so it's always best to find out in advance what they are.
Peronally I love kissing, find it a huge turn on when done well. I find that sex can sometimes feel quite clinical without it.
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"Kissing IS very sensual and intimate...so never for meets for us...
more intimate than shagging, licking or sucking someone?
Absolutely...i've done far more intimate things with people than fuck them...fuckimg can be quite mechanical as people have stated...kissing arouses me so much...i could kiss for hours...wouldn't want to do that with a virtual stranger"
god i used to do it all night in night clubs but didnt shag or give bjs so i think it's just a build up for the real fun |
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I don't really think about it but now reading I think I understand more about a little meet in a club it was a very busy room I was kissing with a women who then played with martyn I went to her husband and had some fun but when I kissed him he turned his head. I was conduced that his wife kissed but not him.
I am glad I read this thread it's made me think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i love being snogged whilst fucking strangers
I know some women think it is "too intimate", which seems a bit hypocritical as you open your legs to receive their cocks....
no, a good snog by a stranger (or five in my case) and I love it |
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"i love being snogged whilst fucking strangers
I know some women think it is "too intimate", which seems a bit hypocritical as you open your legs to receive their cocks....
no, a good snog by a stranger (or five in my case) and I love it"
I'm a good kisser?? someone once told me they could tell its me kissing them if they were blindfolded!! |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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"i love being snogged whilst fucking strangers
I know some women think it is "too intimate", which seems a bit hypocritical as you open your legs to receive their cocks....
no, a good snog by a stranger (or five in my case) and I love it
I'm a good kisser?? someone once told me they could tell its me kissing them if they were blindfolded!! "
Doesnt mean you were good though...I would recognise a slobberin dog if I was blinfolded |
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"i love being snogged whilst fucking strangers
I know some women think it is "too intimate", which seems a bit hypocritical as you open your legs to receive their cocks....
no, a good snog by a stranger (or five in my case) and I love it
I'm a good kisser?? someone once told me they could tell its me kissing them if they were blindfolded!!
Doesnt mean you were good though...I would recognise a slobberin dog if I was blinfolded "
Lol.. but what breed of dog?? lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I will only kiss those Master asks me too.. or my regular playmate.. but just meets then no...
Kissing does nothing for me with others.. and to be honest prefer to get straight to the sex part with no foreplay with a meet anyway.
Cali,x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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couldnt imagine having sex with someone and not kissing them?
myself and hubby play as a cpl also and if a cpl said no kissing,,,well,,no shagging either then lol
auds xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i love being snogged whilst fucking strangers
I know some women think it is "too intimate", which seems a bit hypocritical as you open your legs to receive their cocks....
no, a good snog by a stranger (or five in my case) and I love it
I'm a good kisser?? someone once told me they could tell its me kissing them if they were blindfolded!! "
now theres a challenge lol
auds xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"couldnt imagine having sex with someone and not kissing them?
myself and hubby play as a cpl also and if a cpl said no kissing,,,well,,no shagging either then lol
auds xx"
There is a big difference between a quick fuck and sex though... I like to have a guy in and out in 20mins.. So kissing isnt needed..
Its about what suits people... I still dont kiss my regular playmate much... its just one thing I dont really get much from.
cali |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its all about what floats your boat
me personally if i go to the bother of meeting someone,,,i dont want a quick 20 min shag 
iv got a husband for thatlol
auds xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its all about what floats your boat
me personally if i go to the bother of meeting someone,,,i dont want a quick 20 min shag
iv got a husband for thatlol
auds xx"
I rarely fuck anyone though.. its mostly oral... get a facial.. and bye..
I would hate to have someone going at it for ages.. would be so bored..
cali x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yeah i like to kiss too. nothing wrong with it? put it this way you cant get more intimate than having sex so i dont see why kissing can be a problem.x"
See I disagree there... sex is not intimate.. Sex is an act.. intimacy is different.. I could suck a cock put in front of me without fancying the guy attached to it.. but couldnt kiss a guy I didnt think mmmm
Cali x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yeah i like to kiss too. nothing wrong with it? put it this way you cant get more intimate than having sex so i dont see why kissing can be a problem.x
See I disagree there... sex is not intimate.. Sex is an act.. intimacy is different.. I could suck a cock put in front of me without fancying the guy attached to it.. but couldnt kiss a guy I didnt think mmmm
Cali x"
very true hun but i cant say i would suck a cock of someone i wouldnt wanna kiss for me kissing is getting things horny dont always kiss though as people dont like it but thats fine for me i just like kissing turns me on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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very true hun but i cant say i would suck a cock of someone i wouldnt wanna kiss for me kissing is getting things horny dont always kiss though as people dont like it but thats fine for me i just like kissing turns me on."
But kissing doesnt turn me on. seeing and feeling a hard cock does.. seeing the way a man wants me to touch him does.. kissing can and often does turn me off.. and make me not in the mood.. even kissing women doesnt.
BUt seriously I have kissed 2 men out of all my meets... maybe 3 actually.. and I think I am heading for triple figures..
Cali |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like kissing, its very sensual and moves away from it just being a fuck. "
What's wrong with just a fuck? I have all the sensuality i want within my relationship...the added extra is the NSA, random fuck with like minded people, who understand what it is, take it for what it is and say goodbye at the end of the night... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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i just dont see kissing someone is intimate but everyone is different i suppose. it is something i do ask before meeting anyone and if i wanna meet that person or people then kissing isnt a big thing. as i much prefere to kiss everything else. |
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