Ok so I have done this in the past with fuck buddies and had lots of fun with it. Am now seeing someone and we have fallen in love. We’ve talked about fantasies and 3somes came up. The question I have is is a 3some harder when you’re with someone who you actually properly care about? Can they work or is it best to steer clear? |
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"Probably the wrong place to ask. Most couples on here do seriously care about each other and still swing for fun  "
That’s why I’m asking! To find out if it can still work. I love the thrill of it but a bit hesitant about seeing someone I love (instead of a casual fb) get off with another man |
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"Probably the wrong place to ask. Most couples on here do seriously care about each other and still swing for fun
That’s why I’m asking! To find out if it can still work. I love the thrill of it but a bit hesitant about seeing someone I love (instead of a casual fb) get off with another man "
I can speak from my own experiences - having been through it. Of course you care for the assortment of friends you've had mmf with. But when you go through the same with someone you are genuinely emotionally connected with - love - it took it to a completely different level of intensity. Not without its issues - for the first time ever i felt jealousy but made my pulse race in a way nothing else did ...and some open and honest conversations sorted out the other stuff. |
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"Probably the wrong place to ask. Most couples on here do seriously care about each other and still swing for fun
That’s why I’m asking! To find out if it can still work. I love the thrill of it but a bit hesitant about seeing someone I love (instead of a casual fb) get off with another man
I can speak from my own experiences - having been through it. Of course you care for the assortment of friends you've had mmf with. But when you go through the same with someone you are genuinely emotionally connected with - love - it took it to a completely different level of intensity. Not without its issues - for the first time ever i felt jealousy but made my pulse race in a way nothing else did ...and some open and honest conversations sorted out the other stuff. "
That makes a lot of sense, thanks |
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