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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I read on someone’s status
“ I had to bulk delete 1,000 messages, I’m sorry but message me again “
Why would you ask people to message you again? If you didn’t answer the first time....
It’s kinda like calling a exterminator to get rid of your rats and roaches ..... but leaving food out for them to come back again.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I read on someone’s status
“ I had to bulk delete 1,000 messages, I’m sorry but message me again “
Why would you ask people to message you again? If you didn’t answer the first time....
It’s kinda like calling a exterminator to get rid of your rats and roaches ..... but leaving food out for them to come back again...."
it was an accidental bulk delete cmon give him a break |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Okay I sort of get what they’re saying. I bulk delete and I’m sure in midst there are probably messages from ‘friends’ and those are the ones I would be asking to message again, not the randoms...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Okay I sort of get what they’re saying. I bulk delete and I’m sure in midst there are probably messages from ‘friends’ and those are the ones I would be asking to message again, not the randoms... "
Still can't believe you deleted my 956 messages without reading a single one  |
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By *iggerd69Man
over a year ago
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"I read on someone’s status
“ I had to bulk delete 1,000 messages, I’m sorry but message me again “
Why would you ask people to message you again? If you didn’t answer the first time....
It’s kinda like calling a exterminator to get rid of your rats and roaches ..... but leaving food out for them to come back again...."
I see this pop up on my local updates from 1 lady in particular,I'm guessing it's an attention thing to generate more messages! |
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My guess is the majority of those messages will be copy/paste ones or just 'u k?' messages. The senders probably won't be bothered if they got deleted as they were throw away messages.
Anyone genuinely interested would likely be following the profile via the hotlist function so would know to message again if they had a real connection. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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2 nice messages a day would be nice, not total “silence” I get now. If you view or message me please chat. We might have something in common. You may make a new chat friend, who knows??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"2 nice messages a day would be nice, not total “silence” I get now. If you view or message me please chat. We might have something in common. You may make a new chat friend, who knows???"
Hi how are you, nice day?  |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
"Okay I sort of get what they’re saying. I bulk delete and I’m sure in midst there are probably messages from ‘friends’ and those are the ones I would be asking to message again, not the randoms... "
That’s why you’re so hard to talk to!  |
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"I read on someone’s status
“ I had to bulk delete 1,000 messages, I’m sorry but message me again “
Why would you ask people to message you again? If you didn’t answer the first time....
This ....
It’s kinda like calling a exterminator to get rid of your rats and roaches ..... but leaving food out for them to come back again....it was an accidental bulk delete cmon give him a break "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I read on someone’s status
“ I had to bulk delete 1,000 messages, I’m sorry but message me again “
Why would you ask people to message you again? If you didn’t answer the first time....
This ....
It’s kinda like calling a exterminator to get rid of your rats and roaches ..... but leaving food out for them to come back again....it was an accidental bulk delete cmon give him a break "
I used to chat to a woman who lives local to me she put a really sexy pic of her very large breasts up and her inbox had 2109 unread messages you have no choice but to bulk delete you can only see the first 200 |
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"I see this pop up on my local updates from 1 lady in particular,I'm guessing it's an attention thing to generate more messages!"
^ This ^
I know that attractive single women do get a lot of messages but I see some awful looking people with terrible profiles claiming the same. There is just no way they get many messages.
Do they think everyone will suddenly start messaging them thinking they are missing out on something?
I don't get it either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I read on someone’s status
“ I had to bulk delete 1,000 messages, I’m sorry but message me again “
Why would you ask people to message you again? If you didn’t answer the first time....
It’s kinda like calling a exterminator to get rid of your rats and roaches ..... but leaving food out for them to come back again...."
Ah these people are just showing off, or fibbing. Not sure why you’d even put up a status like that. It’s weird.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see this pop up on my local updates from 1 lady in particular,I'm guessing it's an attention thing to generate more messages!
^ This ^
I know that attractive single women do get a lot of messages but I see some awful looking people with terrible profiles claiming the same. There is just no way they get many messages.
Do they think everyone will suddenly start messaging them thinking they are missing out on something?
I don't get it either."
I know, you’re like “ no way love have you got 100 messages  “ hahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see this pop up on my local updates from 1 lady in particular,I'm guessing it's an attention thing to generate more messages!
^ This ^
I know that attractive single women do get a lot of messages but I see some awful looking people with terrible profiles claiming the same. There is just no way they get many messages.
Do they think everyone will suddenly start messaging them thinking they are missing out on something?
I don't get it either."
I'm going to try it!
Status updated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If they can’t be arsed to go through their messages i wouldn’t be arsed to message them again.even if they had a sexy arse? "
If it was up to your standard, maybe |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If they can’t be arsed to go through their messages i wouldn’t be arsed to message them again.even if they had a sexy arse?
If it was up to your standard, maybe "
ooooo you like my arse it's very tanned at the minute |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m guilty of this status once.
I saw some messages I intended to reply to after work but by the time I got home I’d got loads more.
You can’t look at any message on another page until you’ve deleted the current page of messages.
I started working my way through messages trying to get to the page I’d seen earlier but it was going crazy so I just did a bulk delete. |
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I can now confirm, that someone on this thread currently has 1152 unread messages, as they have sent me a screenshot of their account. So, guys and girls (but mainly the guys), it does happen, it's no exaggeration  |
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"I see this pop up on my local updates from 1 lady in particular,I'm guessing it's an attention thing to generate more messages!
^ This ^
I know that attractive single women do get a lot of messages but I see some awful looking people with terrible profiles claiming the same. There is just no way they get many messages.
Do they think everyone will suddenly start messaging them thinking they are missing out on something?
I don't get it either.
I'm going to try it!
Status updated. "
How's it going? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"2 nice messages a day would be nice, not total “silence” I get now. If you view or message me please chat. We might have something in common. You may make a new chat friend, who knows???Hi how are you, nice day? "
Yh good thanks mate |
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"1000 messages....yeah right lol
I’ve got 580 unread at the minute. "
That's because you look gorgeous! Who wouldn't try to get in your in-box (wink wink nudge nudge) even if the odds were nearly 600-1.
And before anyone else says it, yes I know this looks like an alternative approach, here's hoping it works  ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I read on someone’s status
“ I had to bulk delete 1,000 messages, I’m sorry but message me again “
Why would you ask people to message you again? If you didn’t answer the first time....
This ....
It’s kinda like calling a exterminator to get rid of your rats and roaches ..... but leaving food out for them to come back again....it was an accidental bulk delete cmon give him a break I used to chat to a woman who lives local to me she put a really sexy pic of her very large breasts up and her inbox had 2109 unread messages you have no choice but to bulk delete you can only see the first 200"
I can only see the first 80 messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do it because I like to let everyone know how popular I am  I love your bum it looks same both ways up "
I turned my phone upside down & you’re correct |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Attention seeking statuses like that crack me up "
No different from any other attention seeking status.... and this one has had a whole forum thread dedicated to it... |
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It sounds like a covert attempt to make an explanation that they may not have responded to everyone that they were interested in - but the inbox was unmanageable for them, so they were sharing their predicament of overload, whilst inviting others to potentially repeat the same experience. Caveat emptor, springs to mind - but if people remember that they may have been interested, it's potentially easier sending a message to others that they've messaged before, effortwise. |
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"1000 messages....yeah right lol
Easily...
I deleted 1402 on Sunday...
Being Miss BMFC will do that. Congrats btw "
Oh god **facepalm** .. still blushing I had a fair few drinks to even get me up there. Cringe.
From your pics I can't really tell..but are you the blonde that hid around the front with me to avoid doing miss bmfc haha x |
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For what it's worth I don't think it's always a bragging thing guys.. sometimes you get annoyed guys wondering why you've ignored them ... or not replied.. but they've simply got lost in all of the messages .. so a status saying I've bulk deleted hundreds.. please try again is just that ... a chance that some decent guys can remessage and hope it gets through and not lost.
Why do people have to be cynical on here with the "yeah right " and "show off" etc .. if you can't say nothing nice and all that ....
The person is obviously explaining to the masses instead if individually why messages were deleted unread... sometimes a clean inbox is just easier to work through
No need to bitch..stay nice;) x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only get messages from guys saying things like "great cock, call to my house and I can drain you totally discreet"  
Over 30 views today and no messages either sadly haha
I'd consider that a lot but obviously not to the ladies around here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have lost too many messages from guys I woulda loved to have played with, while I was, but I would never have had the time to get through unread ones to find them again.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For what it's worth I don't think it's always a bragging thing guys.. sometimes you get annoyed guys wondering why you've ignored them ... or not replied.. but they've simply got lost in all of the messages .. so a status saying I've bulk deleted hundreds.. please try again is just that ... a chance that some decent guys can remessage and hope it gets through and not lost.
Why do people have to be cynical on here with the "yeah right " and "show off" etc .. if you can't say nothing nice and all that ....
The person is obviously explaining to the masses instead if individually why messages were deleted unread... sometimes a clean inbox is just easier to work through
No need to bitch..stay nice;) x"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For what it's worth I don't think it's always a bragging thing guys.. sometimes you get annoyed guys wondering why you've ignored them ... or not replied.. but they've simply got lost in all of the messages .. so a status saying I've bulk deleted hundreds.. please try again is just that ... a chance that some decent guys can remessage and hope it gets through and not lost.
Why do people have to be cynical on here with the "yeah right " and "show off" etc .. if you can't say nothing nice and all that ....
The person is obviously explaining to the masses instead if individually why messages were deleted unread... sometimes a clean inbox is just easier to work through
No need to bitch..stay nice;) x"
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm going to try it!
Status updated.
Ha! So, has it worked?
Maybe I should put up a status? - "Had to bulk delete the 1 message - please mail again""
I got 7 messages, just shagging the last one now. Give it a go. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For what it's worth I don't think it's always a bragging thing guys.. sometimes you get annoyed guys wondering why you've ignored them ... or not replied.. but they've simply got lost in all of the messages .. so a status saying I've bulk deleted hundreds.. please try again is just that ... a chance that some decent guys can remessage and hope it gets through and not lost.
Why do people have to be cynical on here with the "yeah right " and "show off" etc .. if you can't say nothing nice and all that ....
The person is obviously explaining to the masses instead if individually why messages were deleted unread... sometimes a clean inbox is just easier to work through
No need to bitch..stay nice;) x"
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've had to bulk delete as it just got too many to physically go though. I asked for friends to message me again as I felt guilty that they got 'lost' in amongst the hundreds. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had to bulk delete as it just got too many to physically go though. I asked for friends to message me again as I felt guilty that they got 'lost' in amongst the hundreds."
I didn't message you but ask me anyway
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