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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’ve been looking for almost a year. Get chatting to women, then they just go quiet and we never meet. Had a couple of socials, but nothing has ever come of them. Dunno, maybe they like the idea of a couple but get spooked when it comes to the social. We’re not even full on, we’re chilled and laid back and play to suit limits and boundaries. Just one of those things I guess.
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By *j123456 OP Couple
over a year ago
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We really are such a chilled out couple who this for us is just a break from the chaos and reality that normal life brings and looking to experience everything we possible can , plus Kate had her first ff experience not long ago and loved it so looking to expand that some now x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've come across so many fake profiles and pic hunters on our old profile and lots of conversation with genuine ones that lead nowhere. We've given up the hunt for a unicorn now, we enjoy the way we play, one day we may play mff but it will more likely be in a "if it happens, it happens" scenario. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We really are such a chilled out couple who this for us is just a break from the chaos and reality that normal life brings and looking to experience everything we possible can , plus Kate had her first ff experience not long ago and loved it so looking to expand that some now x"
Is Kate the main communicator? I really look for couples where the woman is the main contact point now. I know then that she’s happy with what we are arranging, she wants me and there are no jealousy issues. So far it has also meant that the guy is really laid back too and not pushy. Just a thought. |
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By *j123456 OP Couple
over a year ago
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I would say we both use this the same amount , we will make it clear at all times which one of us is talking and neither of us would have a problem if someone would prefer to communicate with either of us more than the other x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm one.
The problem is 95% of cpls that have contacted me assume I will take on the job of an escort and do all in my power to entertain them regardless of what I'm interested in or would like to do. Except unlike an escort do it for free. It is almost always presumed I will go along with whatever they want because an mff is their fantasy.
The messages I get from cpls are almost always sent by the man who then want to chat or meet me separately. |
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Personally loathe being called a unicorn 
We're not here for the whim of couples looking to spice up their sex life it put on a show, just to be discarded when they're done. Alas too many couples have this attitude  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Something we’d love to happen, but not something we focus on. If it happens it happens, we’re not going to stress about it.
Living in the hope however, that a meet with a single bi female will be like catching a bus.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Plenty of us. I meet most couples through clubs - I think it’s easier when everyone meets face to face straight away. "
So teasing knowing your just round the corner too. . .  x |
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Unicorn blah blah, mythical blah blah, rare as hens teeth blah fekkin blah!
All this mystery is bollix, they are people, with wants and needs, sexual urges and desires.
Here's our simple, easy to follow guide to finding a "unicorn" aka a single bi fem.
1. Go to socials/parties/clubs.
2. Make friends with people.
3. Shag your friends... some of whom might be female, bi and single.
4. Brag about it on all the forums.
(no, not seriously, don't do number 4 lol)
Come on people, stop labelling them, and "hunting" them, there's no need.
As I often say in response to yet another "unicorn" thread... we have never payed with a single bi fem.... but we have played with loads of our friends who, it just so happens, are, bi, female, and single.
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By *louWoman
over a year ago
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I would love to meet a couple. The first couple I chat to off here the female had so many dos and donts (which I get, she wants to be comfortable)
But gave me the impression she wasn’t as into it as him! Kind of put me off. But I’m still hopeful  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would love to meet a couple. The first couple I chat to off here the female had so many dos and donts (which I get, she wants to be comfortable)
But gave me the impression she wasn’t as into it as him! Kind of put me off. But I’m still hopeful "
That’s a huge turn-off! Maybe look for a more experienced couple who are relaxed enough to take it at your pace. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm one.
The problem is 95% of cpls that have contacted me assume I will take on the job of an escort and do all in my power to entertain them regardless of what I'm interested in or would like to do. Except unlike an escort do it for free. It is almost always presumed I will go along with whatever they want because an mff is their fantasy.
The messages I get from cpls are almost always sent by the man who then want to chat or meet me separately. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've come across so many fake profiles and pic hunters on our old profile and lots of conversation with genuine ones that lead nowhere. We've given up the hunt for a unicorn now, we enjoy the way we play, one day we may play mff but it will more likely be in a "if it happens, it happens" scenario. "
Exactly this!
Pic hunters and those who just disappear just make the game a waste of time, time thats better spent with eachother. We keep this open for that "one day". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm one.
The problem is 95% of cpls that have contacted me assume I will take on the job of an escort and do all in my power to entertain them regardless of what I'm interested in or would like to do. Except unlike an escort do it for free. It is almost always presumed I will go along with whatever they want because an mff is their fantasy.
The messages I get from cpls are almost always sent by the man who then want to chat or meet me separately. "
Its because of those like that, that make others believe we want "preforming seals" and such. I am the male and yes, i want to sit back and watch, participating with my partner only. She is bi, has had experience and now is going to be marrying me. Therefore i want her to have her cake and eat it too as i dont believe she should shut that side of herself down just on my account. Also for us its also about the other lady would feel, want and expects from us. A long term thing would be the desired outcome. We wouldnt want someone to feel unwanted or pressured. Full communication beforehand is key i think, so all are on the same page from the get go. |
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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago
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I used to enjoy meeting couples but weary now due to some bad experiences. Too many rules too much drama and I find a lot of couples have a certain scenario they want to follow which is all about them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have many couples on here been fortunate enough to attract the elusive unicorn ? We would love the chance to entertain one soon x"
OP There are quite a number of single ladies, who play with couples, at local parties / events / socials. Could you try these for meeting and seeing if there’s a mutual interest? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We’re here!!!  its just finding a situation where all 3 people are happy. "
This I agree with, my issue is majority of the time I’m attracted to the woman and not the man x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve had a few threesomes but organically not through Fabs.
I have to say, the interaction I’ve had here from couples isn’t massively sexy to me. I see unicorn as a verb not a noun, it doesn’t define me.
Some couples come across as entitled, others pedestal you as their fantasy which I’m not a fan of as all interactions for me should be for mutual gratification. And I’m a completely normal woman and not a pornstar so it does put me off from that perspective.
I’m bisexual, I like men and women so it is harder with a couple as I like to be attracted to both, if I wasn’t then maybe it would be easier? There are a lot of us on here, I’ve met single female friends through Fabs who unicorn. |
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We've met and played with a number women in our time here. I'm not entirely sure if there's a specific reason why we should have attracted those playmates when other couples haven't, but I put my thinking brain on to see if anything seemed likely . Here are some ideas:
* We play with couples, we play with men (our profile says not looking for men because our dance card is already full in that regard ), and we play with women. Basically we play with sexy people that we get along with. We aren't "hunting for unicorns". I think that maybe makes us feel like less pressure.
* Whilst we do enjoy fulfilling fantasies - both our own and helping with others' - we aren't specifically looking for people (women or otherwise) to help with them. We're more likely to look to people we already know, or suggest a fantasy to fulfil during the chat before meeting if the sexy conversation brings up something we'd all like. Again, that probably makes for less pressure.
* We have met most of the women we have played with at clubs where we have caught someone's eye directly (or vice versa).
* It probably helps that we have met other women before. I guess that means we have a reputation for being genuine and playing in a mutually enjoyable way. Both by fab verifications and by word of mouth.
There we go - I hope that was useful and also doesn't come over as conceited.
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Never had the pleasure and to be honest we've kinda given up on that option on here. Too many guys playing as a single woman and not much being done by the powers. We had communicated with a "single woman" sent face pics and got some back which were all fake. Reported them but profile still active and been verified amazingly  |
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By *inny999Woman
over a year ago
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Interestingly i appear to be a unicorn!... main thing for me is safety and i imagine for others too x im very real .. at min wanting f only but consider the risks a single f faces.. hence clubs being more appealing xx dont give up they do exist! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm one.
The problem is 95% of cpls that have contacted me assume I will take on the job of an escort and do all in my power to entertain them regardless of what I'm interested in or would like to do. Except unlike an escort do it for free. It is almost always presumed I will go along with whatever they want because an mff is their fantasy.
The messages I get from cpls are almost always sent by the man who then want to chat or meet me separately.
Its because of those like that, that make others believe we want "preforming seals" and such. I am the male and yes, i want to sit back and watch, participating with my partner only. She is bi, has had experience and now is going to be marrying me. Therefore i want her to have her cake and eat it too as i dont believe she should shut that side of herself down just on my account. Also for us its also about the other lady would feel, want and expects from us. A long term thing would be the desired outcome. We wouldnt want someone to feel unwanted or pressured. Full communication beforehand is key i think, so all are on the same page from the get go."
What do you think 'performing seal' means? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've met and played with a number women in our time here. I'm not entirely sure if there's a specific reason why we should have attracted those playmates when other couples haven't, but I put my thinking brain on to see if anything seemed likely . Here are some ideas:
* We play with couples, we play with men (our profile says not looking for men because our dance card is already full in that regard), and we play with women. Basically we play with sexy people that we get along with. We aren't "hunting for unicorns". I think that maybe makes us feel like less pressure.
* Whilst we do enjoy fulfilling fantasies - both our own and helping with others' - we aren't specifically looking for people (women or otherwise) to help with them. We're more likely to look to people we already know, or suggest a fantasy to fulfil during the chat before meeting if the sexy conversation brings up something we'd all like. Again, that probably makes for less pressure.
* We have met most of the women we have played with at clubs where we have caught someone's eye directly (or vice versa).
* It probably helps that we have met other women before. I guess that means we have a reputation for being genuine and playing in a mutually enjoyable way. Both by fab verifications and by word of mouth.
There we go - I hope that was useful and also doesn't come over as conceited.
Hat"
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By *azza80Woman
over a year ago
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I am one but I only meet at clubs as much safer being a single fem plus being a single mum of littluns, it aint easy getting childcare so I only go out weekends. Because my free time is limited I prefer the club scene to the private meets xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've been very fortunate in finding ourselves a very sexy single lady. We fully appreciate her and the 3 way attraction is very evident. We are so lucky |
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"Have many couples on here been fortunate enough to attract the elusive unicorn ? We would love the chance to entertain one soon x"
They aren't elusive at all, not sure why people make such a, fuss about this and plaster it all over their profile. No idea if you have, however if I was a, single women that would put me off.
I would say we find it easier yo arrange a meet with a, single girl than a couple, most couples seem to be talkers not doers, almost all the single girls we contact seem to be doers. In fact message for message even easier arranging a meet with single guys.
I would guess 1 in 10 single guys, becomes a, real meet, 1 in 20 couples and 1 in 2 single, girls after the initial response.
I'm sure if they were treated like normal people instead of some prized exhibit it would be easier.
And if you're really desperate get along to a big club at a weekend and if you can have a conversation it's almost guaranteed.
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