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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey All,
As a young male I find the older female much more exciting and thrilling than someone of my own age,
However why is it so hard to find anyone remotely interested the age ALWAYS seems to be the issue is it my profile? My pictures? Must be able to change some thing x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For me I wouldn't even look at the profile after seeing the age. And guess many ladies will be the same.. as I have children the same age or older. "
Ohhh I totally get and understand there situations etc but just feel it's like fighting a losing battle at time x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Caroline likes younger lads, providing they're intelligent, interesting, well turned out and able to travel."
Well I can certainly travel? The others would be for you both to decide care to private message? |
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"Hey All,
As a young male I find the older female much more exciting and thrilling than someone of my own age,
However why is it so hard to find anyone remotely interested the age ALWAYS seems to be the issue is it my profile? My pictures? Must be able to change some thing x"
Firstly let me say that some older women ARE interested in younger men. As such being given advice from an older woman who isn't might not be of much use to you  . However giving useless advice is a special talent of mine.
Have a bit of a rejig of your profile, nobody is going to message you to find things out, you need to have it all there.
I would say that if your main selling point is your youth, your pictures are spot on.
Have you actively searched out profiles that are specifically looking for your age group? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hey All,
As a young male I find the older female much more exciting and thrilling than someone of my own age,
However why is it so hard to find anyone remotely interested the age ALWAYS seems to be the issue is it my profile? My pictures? Must be able to change some thing x
Firstly let me say that some older women ARE interested in younger men. As such being given advice from an older woman who isn't might not be of much use to you . However giving useless advice is a special talent of mine.
Have a bit of a rejig of your profile, nobody is going to message you to find things out, you need to have it all there.
I would say that if your main selling point is your youth, your pictures are spot on.
Have you actively searched out profiles that are specifically looking for your age group?"
I haven't no I do feel my profile could do with spicing up etc so will give that a try the rest I'm not really too sure on etc  |
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"I’m an older female but younger men are hard work!!!
Sorry you feel that way may I ask what It is that's caused it?  "
Them not trying to listen or understand and pressuring me because they are simply horny...! |
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"I’m an older female but younger men are hard work!!!
Sorry you feel that way may I ask what It is that's caused it?
Them not trying to listen or understand and pressuring me because they are simply horny...! "
sorry to hear that I promise not all of us are like that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not always, my first few girlfriends really didn't know how they liked to be pleased. It was a kind of trial and error process untiof I learnt exactly how they liked it - which was great for both of us. |
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"I’m an older female but younger men are hard work!!!
Sorry you feel that way may I ask what It is that's caused it?
Them not trying to listen or understand and pressuring me because they are simply horny...! "
Quite childish if you ask me sorry you feel that way  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I agree I prefer older women as well as they know exactly how they like to be pleased
So do younger cwomen surely."
Updated my profile not sure if makes it any better lol |
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"I agree I prefer older women as well as they know exactly how they like to be pleased
So do younger cwomen surely.
Updated my profile not sure if makes it any better lol "
I would substitute "older women" for "older females" and "any questions feel free to ask" for "feel free to answer".
What exactly are you after? I don't get a feel for the type of meet you would enjoy. Don't say "I'm up for anything" a savvy older woman immediately interprets that as "show me stuff I've only ever dreamed of" . Do you like sensual, erotic sex or more roleplay or rougher encounters? |
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"Not always, my first few girlfriends really didn't know how they liked to be pleased. It was a kind of trial and error process untiof I learnt exactly how they liked it - which was great for both of us."
So older women communicate their needs better? |
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"In my opinion, yes. They have been through that process and know how to guide a new partner in how to please them. "
James, you need to use the quote button. That is my guidance for you  .
Do you think that older men might have developed the same abilities resulting in partners of a similar age being able to communicate their likes and dislikes to each other more effectively?
I know this not to be true. I see posts from women of all ages complaining that lots of men aren't very good at oral sex and wonder why on earth they don't show them how to do it in a way that they like. I see the same complaint from men and wonder the same.
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"Not always, my first few girlfriends really didn't know how they liked to be pleased. It was a kind of trial and error process untiof I learnt exactly how they liked it - which was great for both of us.
So older women communicate their needs better?"
yeah that is what I meant by what I said |
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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago
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"Hey All,
As a young male I find the older female much more exciting and thrilling than someone of my own age,
However why is it so hard to find anyone remotely interested the age ALWAYS seems to be the issue is it my profile? My pictures? Must be able to change some thing x"
dont worry it will wear of when your 60 and got one o0f your own lol
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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In a club I'm happy to play with a guy or guys of any age at all as long as they are clean, polite, not pushy and I find them attractive. If young guys want an older woman try a club, but don't tell them you want to fuck them because they are old - it isn't flattering |
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When i was in my mid twenties i was seduced by my violin teacher who was 19 years older than me and two years younger than my mother. I loved every single minute of it and couldnt get enough of her. She taught me a lot and we ended up having a relationship for a couple of years. By far some of the best sex i’ve ever had! Always loved older women! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree I prefer older women as well as they know exactly how they like to be pleased"
Yes, we know what we want
Young guys are inexperienced in my mind. Hence you want older because we are more than experienced in the sac. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always find its each to their own, everybodies different. Some women are mad for it some not so much. Just got to find the right one 
Don’t be disheartened just because you’re not somebodies cup of tea, I’d love to be everybody’s cup of tea haha but it’s unfortunately not possible |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've met younger and I have to say yes they are very hard work and some immature. I have met 1 that is 31 and boy does he stand out from the rest. Mature. Thoughtful. Sensual. Great sex. Can't fault him. Sadly he's the only one I'd go with that age plus I only go black |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ive had plenty of luck with older, just by being myself, showing maturity and that I have plenty to offer. Don’t bring the age difference up just try and get conversations going and then they can see the person you are and make a decision based on that, and the age won’t matter. Ive been someones youngest and I think that made them initially hesitant but they definately didnt regret it  |
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