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By *ehimus OP Couple
over a year ago
Beverley |
Hi people . Working in lots of customers homes i often wonder about the useage of fab by any of theses avarage folk . Of course unless its offered on a plate with a user name conection . WHICH NEVER happens  . I was just wondering if anyone uses a word or code showing they are open without actually coming out and saying it ? . If not can anyone suggest one x
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By *ehimus OP Couple
over a year ago
Beverley |
Oh well thats 5 of my last 6 customers then haha . Ok but joking apart could there be some sign etc so if you wanted to suggest your past time away from work and not get thrown outit would be very usefull . Ive tried answering to general stuff like . Cup of tea ? With yes that would be Fab .. as much as can get away with .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh well thats 5 of my last 6 customers then haha . Ok but joking apart could there be some sign etc so if you wanted to suggest your past time away from work and not get thrown outit would be very usefull . Ive tried answering to general stuff like . Cup of tea ? With yes that would be Fab .. as much as can get away with .
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Wouldn’t it be a bit unprofessional? Even if they did have ‘the sign’ you’re meant to be working. That would make me feel extremely uncomfortable, but hey, that’s just me
Plus, they may have ‘the sign’ and not know what it is. Lots of women wear anklets and some men from fab assume that means they’re hotwifes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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See what somebody's reaction is when you use the word vanilla, before Fab and Swinging, we didn't think anything of it, now, when the word is used, we look more closely at the person using it for signs of a secret life.
Most of the time, there's nothing to see, but now and again there are other signs, none that we've ever followed through on but if a tradesman started talking about something being a little too vanilla, it would definitely raise an eyebrow. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't think so, no. Real life is separate to Fab life. I would assume most would want to keep the two worlds separate. Especially if you risk the gas man hitting on you, just because there is a sign you are on fab and so are they. |
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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago
swingers clubs |
"Oh well thats 5 of my last 6 customers then haha . Ok but joking apart could there be some sign etc so if you wanted to suggest your past time away from work and not get thrown outit would be very usefull . Ive tried answering to general stuff like . Cup of tea ? With yes that would be Fab .. as much as can get away with .
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When you're working, why not concentrate on the job in hand and try not to let gave consume every moment of your life. Accept that not everyone are swingers.
Also, we swing, obviously. But we're not swingers all the time (if that makes sense). We'd be pretty annoyed if someone tried to cross that boundary of 'normality'. If we've hired someone to do some work for us, that's what we want. Whether we're swingers or not need not come into it.
Oh well, now that's off my chest, best get back to the daily grind before the boss asks what I'm doing on my phone again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is madness.
Are people really that desperate or obsessed with swinging and sex that they need to incorporate it into work? Where you should be focusing on the job?
Surely it’s best not to risk losing your job or being reported and leave swinging and everything around it to when you’re not being paid to be professional. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Oh well thats 5 of my last 6 customers then haha . Ok but joking apart could there be some sign etc so if you wanted to suggest your past time away from work and not get thrown outit would be very usefull . Ive tried answering to general stuff like . Cup of tea ? With yes that would be Fab .. as much as can get away with .
When you're working, why not concentrate on the job in hand and try not to let gave consume every moment of your life. Accept that not everyone are swingers.
Also, we swing, obviously. But we're not swingers all the time (if that makes sense). We'd be pretty annoyed if someone tried to cross that boundary of 'normality'. If we've hired someone to do some work for us, that's what we want. Whether we're swingers or not need not come into it.
Oh well, now that's off my chest, best get back to the daily grind before the boss asks what I'm doing on my phone again. "
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
Durham |
"Keys in a bowl a little more subtle lol x"
Wow this will beat our fridge Magnet. We are buying a fish bowl at the weekend and doing away with our key holder on the wall. It will be our new center piece on the kitchen table. |
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Leave your phone open and in view with the site home page visible. It's not initially obvious what the site is at a casual glance (scroll down a little so the title is hidden) but anyone who uses the mobile site will recognise it instantly. If they want to initiate anything then they can do. If not then on to the next job!
Obviously you may get questioned about why you're checking out other local perverts and not getting the job finished but that's by the bi  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Keys in a bowl a little more subtle lol x
Wow this will beat our fridge Magnet. We are buying a fish bowl at the weekend and doing away with our key holder on the wall. It will be our new center piece on the kitchen table. "
I have a chameleons fridge magnet and key ring lol  |
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By *ymaleMan
over a year ago
nr Bradford |
"This is madness.
Are people really that desperate or obsessed with swinging and sex that they need to incorporate it into work? Where you should be focusing on the job?
Surely it’s best not to risk losing your job or being reported and leave swinging and everything around it to when you’re not being paid to be professional. "
Some people just like to live dangerously. Risk can be quite the aphrodisiac, why else would people go dogging, the country air?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't think so, no. Real life is separate to Fab life. I would assume most would want to keep the two worlds separate. Especially if you risk the gas man hitting on you, just because there is a sign you are on fab and so are they. "
This exactly, all the other people in the club with you know what you’re there for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi people . Working in lots of customers homes i often wonder about the useage of fab by any of theses avarage folk . Of course unless its offered on a plate with a user name conection . WHICH NEVER happens . I was just wondering if anyone uses a word or code showing they are open without actually coming out and saying it ? . If not can anyone suggest one x
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No there’s not a sign.
Next question? |
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Most people won't be attracted or compatible with most others, so it makes sense to filter well for appropriate partners. A clear sign sent to all that you are available is not really showing the discretion most want.
There are thousands of people available, so it's better to just get to optimize this site etc, rather than make more risky steps.
There is an internationally recognized language of interest, including flirting and body language too |
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
Durham |
"I wouldn't think so, no. Real life is separate to Fab life. I would assume most would want to keep the two worlds separate. Especially if you risk the gas man hitting on you, just because there is a sign you are on fab and so are they.
This exactly, all the other people in the club with you know what you’re there for."
We don't understand swinging not being real life. Everything we do in our life is real. Nothing has its own little box to be hidden away in. Maybe if we as swingers can't be open with our lifestyle is why there is such a stigma by the people who just don't know how amazing life can be. When we say open we don't mean shouting it from the roof tops, just not a hidden or pretend part of ones life. To us life is all real. |
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"This is madness.
Are people really that desperate or obsessed with swinging and sex that they need to incorporate it into work? Where you should be focusing on the job?
Surely it’s best not to risk losing your job or being reported and leave swinging and everything around it to when you’re not being paid to be professional. "
Exactly this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi people . Working in lots of customers homes i often wonder about the useage of fab by any of theses avarage folk . Of course unless its offered on a plate with a user name conection . WHICH NEVER happens . I was just wondering if anyone uses a word or code showing they are open without actually coming out and saying it ? . If not can anyone suggest one x
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The lounge smells of fanny mate its a sure sign. Well unless they are just dirty fuckers. |
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