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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just how rough do u like it, I’ve noticed a lot of women like really really rough hard sex, being pinned to the wall ect. Who likes the real rough stuff |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Grrr auto correct go away...
Take 2...
" do you really define rough sex as pinned against a wall!!!??"
And yes I like my sex rough and ready but doesnt mean I want abusing. Just no soppy crap |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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People have different opinions of rough, I’ve spoken to quite a few people who think rough is being pinned and taken. Some people think a slapped ass is rough. I’m just interested in peoples views that’s all x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d say its individual, i don’t mind a lil spanking or a swift position change or passionate pounding but the hair pulling, face slapping, choking out, next stop A&E type sex no thanks. |
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"I’d say its individual, i don’t mind a lil spanking or a swift position change or passionate pounding but the hair pulling, face slapping, choking out, next stop A&E type sex no thanks. "
A pretty good go at defining it sensibly. Well said.
We always wonder at the messages and stories that revel in the woman virtually choking while being forcibly face-fucked.
We'd love to be there when said lady vomits her lunch/tea all over the stupid sod who thinks she's enjoying it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Like I say people said real rough sector me are saying being pinned to wall choking slapping ect. Just wondered on other people’s views. I like all kinds of sex as stated by some one else it all depends on the individuals |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My ex liked being spanked, having her hair pulled, a hand around her throat, calling her a whore and slut before being vigorously fucked till she came repeatedly. I found the whole thing a bit weird to begin with but as our relationship grew I came to understand the intimacy and trust that was needed to make it mutually pleasurable and learnt to indulge and enjoy her kink. She was always very happy and elated after rough sex but then she was very special and I doubt I’ll meet anyone quite like her again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Grrr auto correct go away...
Take 2...
" do you really define rough sex as pinned against a wall!!!??"
And yes I like my sex rough and ready but doesnt mean I want abusing. Just no soppy crap"
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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Just how rough do u like it, I’ve noticed a lot of women like really really rough hard sex, being pinned to the wall ect. Who likes the real rough stuff "
When it is a climax, oh my goodness yes.
When he treats you gentle and then winds it up, and keeps winding it up.
It's the most awesome experience when he finishes,
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By *inkvaderMan
over a year ago
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"My ex liked being spanked, having her hair pulled, a hand around her throat, calling her a whore and slut before being vigorously fucked till she came repeatedly. I found the whole thing a bit weird to begin with but as our relationship grew I came to understand the intimacy and trust that was needed to make it mutually pleasurable and learnt to indulge and enjoy her kink. She was always very happy and elated after rough sex but then she was very special and I doubt I’ll meet anyone quite like her again"
Fingers xd you will ... trust !! It’s that word again... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My ex liked being spanked, having her hair pulled, a hand around her throat, calling her a whore and slut before being vigorously fucked till she came repeatedly. I found the whole thing a bit weird to begin with but as our relationship grew I came to understand the intimacy and trust that was needed to make it mutually pleasurable and learnt to indulge and enjoy her kink. She was always very happy and elated after rough sex but then she was very special and I doubt I’ll meet anyone quite like her again"
This is exactly how I like it too! With the right person of course. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People have different opinions of rough, I’ve spoken to quite a few people who think rough is being pinned and taken. Some people think a slapped ass is rough. I’m just interested in peoples views that’s all x"
Are we talking on the first meet or two?. I like all that at times but it sure as hell wont be when we first meet. You'll have to prove your worth over a good long while.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My ex liked being spanked, having her hair pulled, a hand around her throat, calling her a whore and slut before being vigorously fucked till she came repeatedly. I found the whole thing a bit weird to begin with but as our relationship grew I came to understand the intimacy and trust that was needed to make it mutually pleasurable and learnt to indulge and enjoy her kink. She was always very happy and elated after rough sex but then she was very special and I doubt I’ll meet anyone quite like her again"
she sounds like my kind of lady! Love the soft, romantic stuff with hubby too though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’d say its individual, i don’t mind a lil spanking or a swift position change or passionate pounding but the hair pulling, face slapping, choking out, next stop A&E type sex no thanks. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've found that men who like rough sex don't like being pinned to the bed, or a fast fuck with a strap on. "
 some definitely do  not many though I'll grant you. |
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"Just how rough do u like it, I’ve noticed a lot of women like really really rough hard sex, being pinned to the wall ect. Who likes the real rough stuff "
If someone tried pinning me up against a wall etc they would regret it OP. They wouldn’t be able to anyway as I would be gripping a pair of testicles!
Rough sex is definitely not for me! |
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"I've found that men who like rough sex don't like being pinned to the bed, or a fast fuck with a strap on.
some definitely do not many though I'll grant you."
Definitely not a strap on but I like being pinned to the bed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It depends on who with how well we may know and trust each other and that mutual knowledge that "rough" is what is acceptable to both, and just what "rough" entails.
it's also about catching the mood and sharing all elements from sensual and gentle through to more adventurous that excites and delights both rather than something bordering on abuse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My ex liked being spanked, having her hair pulled, a hand around her throat, calling her a whore and slut before being vigorously fucked till she came repeatedly. I found the whole thing a bit weird to begin with but as our relationship grew I came to understand the intimacy and trust that was needed to make it mutually pleasurable and learnt to indulge and enjoy her kink. She was always very happy and elated after rough sex but then she was very special and I doubt I’ll meet anyone quite like her again"
Your arse though!!!
Sorry, what were you saying?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My ex liked being spanked, having her hair pulled, a hand around her throat, calling her a whore and slut before being vigorously fucked till she came repeatedly. I found the whole thing a bit weird to begin with but as our relationship grew I came to understand the intimacy and trust that was needed to make it mutually pleasurable and learnt to indulge and enjoy her kink. She was always very happy and elated after rough sex but then she was very special and I doubt I’ll meet anyone quite like her again
Your arse though!!!
Sorry, what were you saying? "
Yeah I know - too wordy for my own good sometimes but mystified by your arse???  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My ex liked being spanked, having her hair pulled, a hand around her throat, calling her a whore and slut before being vigorously fucked till she came repeatedly. I found the whole thing a bit weird to begin with but as our relationship grew I came to understand the intimacy and trust that was needed to make it mutually pleasurable and learnt to indulge and enjoy her kink. She was always very happy and elated after rough sex but then she was very special and I doubt I’ll meet anyone quite like her again"
She sounds like quite a woman! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love rough sex. Not so much the hair pulling and arse slapping mind you....more getting whipped with the flogger and force play. Love the feeling after sex that feels like your recovering from minor surgery x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love rough sex. Not so much the hair pulling and arse slapping mind you....more getting whipped with the flogger and force play. Love the feeling after sex that feels like your recovering from minor surgery x"
This totally agree x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love the passionate rough kissing and being pinned against the wall and hard or rough fucking. I also like the sensual side too so its nice to mix it up depending on how long you have and how horny you are i guess. |
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"I've found that men who like rough sex don't like being pinned to the bed, or a fast fuck with a strap on. "
I do. Although you have to add a ball gag into the equation as I get quite verbal and demanding when being pegged. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just how rough do u like it, I’ve noticed a lot of women like really really rough hard sex, being pinned to the wall ect. Who likes the real rough stuff "
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I always found that WRAC (Women's Royal Army Corps) Officers loved rough sex, preferably up against the wall. Probably because racks are items that you nail to walls. Great days ....  |
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Depends on the definition of ‘rough’.
I’ve no wish to hurt or mark anyone. However, rather late in life I’ve met a petite woman of five foot fuck all, size 6/8 who demands that I fuck her hard. As hard and rough as a manage and still she demands “fuck me harder”. It’s great but it’s knackering at the same time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My ex liked being spanked, having her hair pulled, a hand around her throat, calling her a whore and slut before being vigorously fucked till she came repeatedly. I found the whole thing a bit weird to begin with but as our relationship grew I came to understand the intimacy and trust that was needed to make it mutually pleasurable and learnt to indulge and enjoy her kink. She was always very happy and elated after rough sex but then she was very special and I doubt I’ll meet anyone quite like her again
Your arse though!!!
Sorry, what were you saying?
Yeah I know - too wordy for my own good sometimes but mystified by your arse??? "
It’s very distracting..so distracting you forget what the post was saying.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My ex liked being spanked, having her hair pulled, a hand around her throat, calling her a whore and slut before being vigorously fucked till she came repeatedly. I found the whole thing a bit weird to begin with but as our relationship grew I came to understand the intimacy and trust that was needed to make it mutually pleasurable and learnt to indulge and enjoy her kink. She was always very happy and elated after rough sex but then she was very special and I doubt I’ll meet anyone quite like her again
Your arse though!!!
Sorry, what were you saying?
Yeah I know - too wordy for my own good sometimes but mystified by your arse???
It’s very distracting..so distracting you forget what the post was saying.. "
Why thank you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends on the definition of ‘rough’.
I’ve no wish to hurt or mark anyone. However, rather late in life I’ve met a petite woman of five foot fuck all, size 6/8 who demands that I fuck her hard. As hard and rough as a manage and still she demands “fuck me harder”. It’s great but it’s knackering at the same time."
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Can I help  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like gentle, rough, spontaneous, unpredictable, sensual, primal....
I just like sex.
But I wouldn't allow any lover to get rough with me unless I trusted them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like gentle, rough, spontaneous, unpredictable, sensual, primal....
I just like sex.
But I wouldn't allow any lover to get rough with me unless I trusted them. "
Sounds fair enough |
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"I’d say its individual, i don’t mind a lil spanking or a swift position change or passionate pounding but the hair pulling, face slapping, choking out, next stop A&E type sex no thanks. "
In my experience, what you discribe falls into the BDSM spectrum of kin
Here's the thing, as you know there's a difference between forceful, assertive and rough.
For me, it's all about what the other wants, it's never about what the giver wants..
The receiver can often want to push their boundaries, push their limits. Get lost in the moment, It's about the giver find those limits accepting those boundaries within consensual agreement and leaving the receiver spent, breathless wanting more..
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I only like rough with my partner and no one else. It's a trust thing that we have built up over the course of our relationship and developed our boundaries together. I would never want this type of scenario when swinging and my partner would never allow another man to treat me like that. But each to their own, we all like something different and should respect that.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love rough sex forcing straight men to suck and take cock up the ass make them my dirty bitch kick slap in the face any kinda of humiliation haha ?? "
Well aren't you just a joy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OMG i love rough sex gettin slapped about, thrown about, ch0ked not having a say and feelin helpless is such a turn on for me. However my hubby is the only 1 i will let ch0ke me as u need 100% trust with that type of thing xx kay xx |
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By *rReyMan
over a year ago
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I like it hot and passionate, where you grab a women firmly from behind, kiss and nibble her neck, holding her with one arm across her tits and sliding the other down her knickers, before spinning her around and pressing her against the wall with your body. Deep passionate kisses, ripping off her knickers then lifting her up and fucking her hard against the wall. But it gets better when she switches it up and pushes me to the ground pinning me down and mounting me and driving herself onto me, slapping my face and digging her nails into my chest. Dunno if that is classed as rough or just good hard fucking.
Right need to go finish myself off after thinking about that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being pinned to the wall is rough sex now?
News to me.
Some like it rough, some don’t.
I like all kinds of sex, it depends on my mood. "
Couldn't agree more its surely about your frame of mind at the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it’s something that can be satisfying, but for me it requires a level of trust that’s usually not there in anything other that a long friendship or committed relationship. It also requires a lot of communication on multiple levels. It can be incredibly intimate - and requires incredible intimacy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmmmm ..... I'm not a small petite woman but I like to feel that way, I like a man to take charge and not treat me like China.
I think the " neanderthal " type sex is exciting and animalistic but none of that face fucking till you puke ya lunch on his nuts crap. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had an ex tell me how her ex panic attack and cried at feeling her teeth and nails against his cock, he swore she was cutting it off!!!!
I fuckin love it!!!
Of course not biting and scratching it like a feral animal just the feeling of a woman who knows exactly what she is doing drives me wild!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My ex loved me to be very assertive with her on occasions, she loved the release of giving herself over and me being rough. Other times our sex would be referred to as loving, so I guess it was very mood dependant.
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"OMG i love rough sex gettin slapped about, thrown about, ch0ked not having a say and feelin helpless is such a turn on for me. However my hubby is the only 1 i will let ch0ke me as u need 100% trust with that type of thing xx kay xx "
This! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My ex liked being spanked, having her hair pulled, a hand around her throat, calling her a whore and slut before being vigorously fucked till she came repeatedly. I found the whole thing a bit weird to begin with but as our relationship grew I came to understand the intimacy and trust that was needed to make it mutually pleasurable and learnt to indulge and enjoy her kink. She was always very happy and elated after rough sex but then she was very special and I doubt I’ll meet anyone quite like her again
This is exactly how I like it too! With the right person of course. "
Couldn't agree more with this! Certain level of trust and mutual respect required though |
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"I’d say its individual, i don’t mind a lil spanking or a swift position change or passionate pounding but the hair pulling, face slapping, choking out, next stop A&E type sex no thanks. "
Exactly this |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My ex liked being spanked, having her hair pulled, a hand around her throat, calling her a whore and slut before being vigorously fucked till she came repeatedly. I found the whole thing a bit weird to begin with but as our relationship grew I came to understand the intimacy and trust that was needed to make it mutually pleasurable and learnt to indulge and enjoy her kink. She was always very happy and elated after rough sex but then she was very special and I doubt I’ll meet anyone quite like her again"
This in a trusted relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just how rough do u like it, I’ve noticed a lot of women like really really rough hard sex, being pinned to the wall ect. Who likes the real rough stuff "
I like the rough stuff. Taking my pussy for his pleasure, banging me hard, shaking my body until it trembles with orgasm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont do rough since I lost my banjo in a vagina during summer 2017"
I once cut mine during doggy on Mrs dp's stupid lady finger nails lol spent the next ten mins having a panic attack on the bathroom floor haha we still love rough sex  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it’s something that can be satisfying, but for me it requires a level of trust that’s usually not there in anything other that a long friendship or committed relationship. It also requires a lot of communication on multiple levels. It can be incredibly intimate - and requires incredible intimacy. "
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