I always struggled when i was younger. You must be straight or gay but not both. Now i have a partner that encourages me to be the full spectum of myself i truly shine as a person. We have no hang ups, no jelousy, we dont judge one another and barely argue, if what we do can be called argueing. We have each others back in every sense of the word. She is great with a strap on and knows how to lace me into a basque. I feel absolutely blessed to fuck and felt the need to put that out there. Be yourself and be with someone who encourages you to be so. Sorry if that was gush but it is 100% how i feel. Any other particularly bi couples that feel this way? So many bi guys pretending to be straight in a relationship, it makes me a bit sad. |
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You're very lucky OP in that you've found someone that you can be your true self with. It makes a huge difference. I imagine so many people are living their life not as the real them. It's sad. |
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"I always struggled when i was younger. You must be straight or gay but not both. Now i have a partner that encourages me to be the full spectum of myself i truly shine as a person. We have no hang ups, no jelousy, we dont judge one another and barely argue, if what we do can be called argueing. We have each others back in every sense of the word. She is great with a strap on and knows how to lace me into a basque. I feel absolutely blessed to fuck and felt the need to put that out there. Be yourself and be with someone who encourages you to be so. Sorry if that was gush but it is 100% how i feel. Any other particularly bi couples that feel this way? So many bi guys pretending to be straight in a relationship, it makes me a bit sad."
Unfortunately a lot of people have to pretend to be straight just to get Into a relationship. For some reason so many women find it a complete turn off and I don't understand why, who I'm attracted to that no bearing on my feelings for them. It doesn't change who I am. Ive got to the point that I've given up caring about women knowing I'm bi and of that dooms me to a life of singledom then so be it, I'd rather be lonely and honest with myself than in a relationship built on a lie |
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"Also any women out there that find bi guys sexy and a turn on, show yourselves, there are still guys out there that need to know you exist x"
Hi, we exist!
I love fully bi mmf threesomes. I've yet to have an ffm of any sort, but I hope to.
And I have a dear friend I met on Fab. He accepts me as I am, pushes me to be who I want to be, and is with me as moral support all the way. I've really evolved as a person with his help. (others try to push me, and that backfires) |
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"I always struggled when i was younger. You must be straight or gay but not both. Now i have a partner that encourages me to be the full spectum of myself i truly shine as a person. We have no hang ups, no jelousy, we dont judge one another and barely argue, if what we do can be called argueing. We have each others back in every sense of the word. She is great with a strap on and knows how to lace me into a basque. I feel absolutely blessed to fuck and felt the need to put that out there. Be yourself and be with someone who encourages you to be so. Sorry if that was gush but it is 100% how i feel. Any other particularly bi couples that feel this way? So many bi guys pretending to be straight in a relationship, it makes me a bit sad.
Unfortunately a lot of people have to pretend to be straight just to get Into a relationship. For some reason so many women find it a complete turn off and I don't understand why, who I'm attracted to that no bearing on my feelings for them. It doesn't change who I am. Ive got to the point that I've given up caring about women knowing I'm bi and of that dooms me to a life of singledom then so be it, I'd rather be lonely and honest with myself than in a relationship built on a lie"
I think being open will make it more likely you will find someone that loves you for you. 
It will put some women off but better that happens before you get involved with them. |
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Bi men rule. My biggest turn on.
Bi girls rule.
Anybody true to themselves and who they are as people including sexually also rule. Just saying.
Congrats op on finding someone who appreciates you x |
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Before Fab, I wouldn't have considered meeting a Bi guy, which was odd considering I loved watching gay porn. I can't remember exactly how or why, but now I am completely the other way!!
I adore my Mr and utterly love fucking other guys with him, and watching his bearded face slide down a cock.. He ticks every box in my book of kink and added more. Now I do not want to have another relationship with a straight guy again.
All hail the Bi Guys and TV's!!!  |
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When Ess discovered I was Bi, she thought all of her dreams had come true.
She finds it such a turn on and I love being able to be me after having to suppress who I really was when I was in a former relationship.
Now we both share what we enjoy and for us, it enhances how liberated we feel.
One thing that saddens us though, is the fact there is still so much stigma about being a Bi Male. It’s getting more accepted but still has a long way to go.
Happy and Safe Swinging you dirty lot.
Enn & Ess xxxx |
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"Bi men rule. My biggest turn on.
Bi girls rule.
Anybody true to themselves and who they are as people including sexually also rule. Just saying.
Congrats op on finding someone who appreciates you x"
 thanks, i feel very lucky. |
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"Before Fab, I wouldn't have considered meeting a Bi guy, which was odd considering I loved watching gay porn. I can't remember exactly how or why, but now I am completely the other way!!
I adore my Mr and utterly love fucking other guys with him, and watching his bearded face slide down a cock.. He ticks every box in my book of kink and added more. Now I do not want to have another relationship with a straight guy again.
All hail the Bi Guys and TV's!!! "
hehe love your post. X |
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When Ess discovered I was Bi, she thought all of her dreams had come true.
She finds it such a turn on and I love being able to be me after having to suppress who I really was when I was in a former relationship.
Now we both share what we enjoy and for us, it enhances how liberated we feel.
One thing that saddens us though, is the fact there is still so much stigma about being a Bi Male. It’s getting more accepted but still has a long way to go.
Happy and Safe Swinging you dirty lot.
Enn & Ess xxxx"
all power to you, lets fly our flags high and proud xx |
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"You're very lucky OP in that you've found someone that you can be your true self with. It makes a huge difference. I imagine so many people are living their life not as the real them. It's sad."
Indeed the last study I was involved in with regard to males attending gay cruising sites found that 70% of them defined themsevles as heterosexual males. Gender and sexuality are a spectrum not a label. |
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"Also any women out there that find bi guys sexy and a turn on, show yourselves, there are still guys out there that need to know you exist x
Hi, we exist!
I love fully bi mmf threesomes. I've yet to have an ffm of any sort, but I hope to.
And I have a dear friend I met on Fab. He accepts me as I am, pushes me to be who I want to be, and is with me as moral support all the way. I've really evolved as a person with his help. (others try to push me, and that backfires) "
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