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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Would you ? 
No chance .
In a relationship I want 100% from my partner , and that wouldn’t be possible if she was an escort .
How does swinging fit in, just curious."
not sure if it does at all . But the escort I had a relationship with liked to swing as well |
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Not an escort but a few years ago I dated a gorgeous looking girl who was a lap dancer and adult model. I confess I found it very horny when she packed her makeup and outfits in her bag to go off and do a photo shoot.
At first she used to claim it was only a girl/girl set but eventually I discovered that it was also guys, multiple guys and likely even gangbangs.
She found it more difficult to deal with this in a relationship than me. She was quite embarrassed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to have relationships with people, not with their job. Would much rather have one with an escort who enjoyed her job, than a bank manager who hated her job. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, but I did fancy a Ford Orion
Spoiler, get a skirt on it?
Yes I would - I’m a generous guy and always like to buy them a treat  "
Hooker red with the RS kit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, but I did fancy a Ford Orion
Spoiler, get a skirt on it?
Yes I would - I’m a generous guy and always like to buy them a treat
Hooker red with the RS kit "
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"Would you ?
No chance .
In a relationship I want 100% from my partner , and that wouldn’t be possible if she was an escort .
But yet you swing ? Tbh I don't quite get that argument  "
We swing together , never apart .
I can’t imagine too many guys wanting an escort would want her hubby tagging along . |
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"Would you ?
No chance .
In a relationship I want 100% from my partner , and that wouldn’t be possible if she was an escort .
But yet you swing ? Tbh I don't quite get that argument
We swing together , never apart .
I can’t imagine too many guys wanting an escort would want her hubby tagging along ."
Would your husband take you to work with him. |
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"Would you ?
No chance .
In a relationship I want 100% from my partner , and that wouldn’t be possible if she was an escort .
But yet you swing ? Tbh I don't quite get that argument
We swing together , never apart .
I can’t imagine too many guys wanting an escort would want her hubby tagging along .
Would your husband take you to work with him."
When we began swinging some seven years ago , we agreed we only wanted to do it together . We’ve never really strayed from that initial rule , a rule we both think works best for us . My wife gets off seeing me enjoy herself , and on the two occasions we’ve dabbled with me being either in another room , or her playing round the corner when dogging , neither of us enjoyed it .
So for her to escort would be similar in my mind , except that she would be earning money instead of getting pleasure . I wouldn’t be jealous , or worried she would want to go off with a client at all . It would simply be that she would be doing what we do for fun , for money instead , and that would impact on us in a negative way .
If we went out for a meal , or to a club , or did any of the stuff she did whilst working , I would inevitably think about whether she is bored of the same shit in her own time as she’s doing it as a job too . I can imagine it would be a nightmare . |
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"Would you ?
No chance .
In a relationship I want 100% from my partner , and that wouldn’t be possible if she was an escort .
But yet you swing ? Tbh I don't quite get that argument
We swing together , never apart .
I can’t imagine too many guys wanting an escort would want her hubby tagging along .
Would your husband take you to work with him.
When we began swinging some seven years ago , we agreed we only wanted to do it together . We’ve never really strayed from that initial rule , a rule we both think works best for us . My wife gets off seeing me enjoy herself , and on the two occasions we’ve dabbled with me being either in another room , or her playing round the corner when dogging , neither of us enjoyed it .
So for her to escort would be similar in my mind , except that she would be earning money instead of getting pleasure . I wouldn’t be jealous , or worried she would want to go off with a client at all . It would simply be that she would be doing what we do for fun , for money instead , and that would impact on us in a negative way .
If we went out for a meal , or to a club , or did any of the stuff she did whilst working , I would inevitably think about whether she is bored of the same shit in her own time as she’s doing it as a job too . I can imagine it would be a nightmare ."
I guess it will work for some but not others, no hard and fast rules.  |
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Yes, whats the difference between that job and working at tesco? I guess it depends on how insecure you are, for me it would be a perfect partner as i get off on my partner thoroughly enjoying theirself. So wouldnt be guilt tripping them all the time or getting jelous. Theyre just people. |
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"Would you ?
No chance .
In a relationship I want 100% from my partner , and that wouldn’t be possible if she was an escort .
How does swinging fit in, just curious.my sentiments exactly"
I think I answered that earlier .
Am I insecure ?
Not a bit . |
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We escorted 7 years as a bisexual couple and loved it. During the time Suzie was fucked by a couple if hundred clients, and I was fucked many times too.
It's neat being able to say to new swinging partners 'this is my wife - she is a prostiture'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We escorted 7 years as a bisexual couple and loved it. During the time Suzie was fucked by a couple if hundred clients, and I was fucked many times too.
It's neat being able to say to new swinging partners 'this is my wife - she is a prostiture'."
Did they ever say “ do we have to pay “ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We advertised our services via an escorting site so yes, the guys knew they were paying."
No I meant the couples.... when you tell them your wife is a sex worker? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you ?
No chance .
In a relationship I want 100% from my partner , and that wouldn’t be possible if she was an escort ."
But would be possible if she's a swinger?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Would you ?
No chance .
In a relationship I want 100% from my partner , and that wouldn’t be possible if she was an escort .
But would be possible if she's a swinger? "
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"Would you ?
No chance .
In a relationship I want 100% from my partner , and that wouldn’t be possible if she was an escort .
But would be possible if she's a swinger? "
Of course it’s possible as a swinger , we swing together , never apart .
Something we enjoy together , and as I said before , I can’t imagine too many guys wanting her husband coming along when they hire her . |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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One of my best friends is a full-time escort. She makes good money, is very happy and has been with her BF for 8 years, they live together, have 2 kids. They both seem quite happy. I think the key is they're both very honest with each other and she considers her escorting as pure work nothing else. So it can work. |
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There is actually quite a large market for escort couples, especially where the guy of the escorts is bisexual. Some clients like to fuck her while he watches, some like to fuck him while she watches, others just like to have 5 holes on offer. |
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"I tend to have relationships with people, not with their job. Would much rather have one with an escort who enjoyed her job, than a bank manager who hated her job."
It's tricky finding someone who sees past your job as a sex worker. It's just a part of my life, doesn't define me as a very loving person
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
Some men have no problem with it. Either they see it as a turn on or they just see it as a normal job.
Others have massive issues, an ex of mine used to fling it at me as an insult, he'd known I had been an escort but not as recently as a month before we got together, it went from acceptable to not pretty fast in his eyes.
My husband knows about my past and it's fine with it, I'm looking at starting as a pro domme again and he just sees it as another job, not sure I'd ever escort again though, like most jobs 75% of the time it was tedious. |
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Met an escort the other week and had a fantastic time. She genuinely seemed to just love cock and her attitude was that if she could make a few Bob along the way then why not!
That's what I told myself anyway! |
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Was in a relationship that went from swinging to her (and later, myself) becoming an escort. It's a rollercoaster for a while but if you're secure with each other and take care then there's really little difference that situation and swinging. Except you get an extra holiday every year. |
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By *hechapMan
over a year ago
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I was with a black escort for 2 years and it worked out fine
but eventually got rid as the body was getting rough and she was rotten down below.
I then got myself an Opel Manta.
Joking aside it might work out ok but be careful she wouldnt start charging you and all of a sudden you find out everythings now extras
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Worst thing I ever did honest don’t do it
Exactly the kind of response I would have expected from someone who’s been there "
Well there you go just saying from experience |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
"Worst thing I ever did honest don’t do it "
I mean to be fair I could say that dating someone who worked for the DWP was the worst thing I ever did.
But that was because he was an abusive ass, nothing to do with his job... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Worst thing I ever did honest don’t do it
I mean to be fair I could say that dating someone who worked for the DWP was the worst thing I ever did.
But that was because he was an abusive ass, nothing to do with his job..."
No comparison sorry |
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