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By *GSS OP Couple
over a year ago
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FFS is it to much to ask to get couples to have photos of both of them on their profiles!!!! We’re a couple and look on site together it’s great for me I get to see thousands of pussies, Ann Summers underwear and stilettos but other then the one obligatory cock pick (in close up to make it look bigger) every woman seems to be either ashamed or scared to show of their man??? So how do you expect a couple to react to your profile when it could be from a single women????? |
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over a year ago
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The majority of people we get messages from are only interested in seeing pictures of the female half of a couple.
I'm sure this puts couples off from having pictures of the male half on profiles. Having a pic of the male half as a profile pic automatically means you'll get less people look at your profile. It's just the way on Fab, with so many men on here (singles and coupled up) they are looking towards the female half always! |
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"FFS is it to much to ask to get couples to have photos of both of them on their profiles!!!! We’re a couple and look on site together it’s great for me I get to see thousands of pussies, Ann Summers underwear and stilettos but other then the one obligatory cock pick (in close up to make it look bigger) every woman seems to be either ashamed or scared to show of their man??? So how do you expect a couple to react to your profile when it could be from a single women?????"
We upload a few uptodate torso & bum pics of hubby as its a couples profile. If no male pics on couples profile we'd just presume hes large or unnatractive or they don't play as couple more hotwife, so no reply from us  |
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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago
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All couples have their own dynamic and some guys don’t play so in those situations it’s fair enough there’s no male pics, but if the male joins in then I want to see what I’m getting!
Ours has an unfair split for sure, but there are plenty of SSS for the ladies to know what they’re getting 
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"All couples have their own dynamic and some guys don’t play so in those situations it’s fair enough there’s no male pics, but if the male joins in then I want to see what I’m getting!
Ours has an unfair split for sure, but there are plenty of SSS for the ladies to know what they’re getting
TB"
Totally agree, certainly eye candy your profile, one of the best couples profiles on here x |
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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago
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"All couples have their own dynamic and some guys don’t play so in those situations it’s fair enough there’s no male pics, but if the male joins in then I want to see what I’m getting!
Ours has an unfair split for sure, but there are plenty of SSS for the ladies to know what they’re getting
TB
Totally agree, certainly eye candy your profile, one of the best couples profiles on here x"
Wasn’t fishing for a compliment but we’ll take it  |
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"All couples have their own dynamic and some guys don’t play so in those situations it’s fair enough there’s no male pics, but if the male joins in then I want to see what I’m getting!
Ours has an unfair split for sure, but there are plenty of SSS for the ladies to know what they’re getting
TB
Totally agree, certainly eye candy your profile, one of the best couples profiles on here x
Wasn’t fishing for a compliment but we’ll take it "
Credit where its due  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can't you just ignore the profiles that don't have what you want?
Perhaps their profile isn't primarily aimed at you.
Fab has something for everyone,not everyone for someone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"FFS is it to much to ask to get couples to have photos of both of them on their profiles!!!! We’re a couple and look on site together it’s great for me I get to see thousands of pussies, Ann Summers underwear and stilettos but other then the one obligatory cock pick (in close up to make it look bigger) every woman seems to be either ashamed or scared to show of their man??? So how do you expect a couple to react to your profile when it could be from a single women?????"
the men generally lead the profiles so naturally they've pulled a woman who is stunningly sexy and want to show her off and plus their beer bellies just don't look good in pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All couples have their own dynamic and some guys don’t play so in those situations it’s fair enough there’s no male pics, but if the male joins in then I want to see what I’m getting!
Ours has an unfair split for sure, but there are plenty of SSS for the ladies to know what they’re getting
TB
Totally agree, certainly eye candy your profile, one of the best couples profiles on here x"
Have to agree there |
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"Can't you just ignore the profiles that don't have what you want?
Perhaps their profile isn't primarily aimed at you.
Fab has something for everyone,not everyone for someone"
I agree. Surely it’s a couples prerogative as to what photos they publish. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't you just ignore the profiles that don't have what you want?
Perhaps their profile isn't primarily aimed at you.
Fab has something for everyone,not everyone for someone"
This  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't you just ignore the profiles that don't have what you want?
Perhaps their profile isn't primarily aimed at you.
Fab has something for everyone,not everyone for someone
I agree. Surely it’s a couples prerogative as to what photos they publish. "
It is their perogative, but it can be frustrating when you get mails asking you to play with hubby as a single woman, and they have no photo's of him. Common reply is 'he is shy'. Not to shy to have sex with a random woman though ?? |
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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago
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"Can't you just ignore the profiles that don't have what you want?
Perhaps their profile isn't primarily aimed at you.
Fab has something for everyone,not everyone for someone
I agree. Surely it’s a couples prerogative as to what photos they publish.
It is their perogative, but it can be frustrating when you get mails asking you to play with hubby as a single woman, and they have no photo's of him. Common reply is 'he is shy'. Not to shy to have sex with a random woman though ?? "
Definitely, of course it’s their choice but do they expect us girls to agree to play with someone we’ve not seen?
Often we’ll just ask for pics of Mr if the rest of the profile and the Mrs is of interest so no harm done in the long term, but i don’t see why it would hurt to have one or two on there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We try and have pics of both of us on ours but Rob is far less photogenic than Steph  All of her pics get the attention whereas Rob's might get a handful of Fabs so there's less incentive to try. "
exactly and robs fabs are all guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"FFS is it to much to ask to get couples to have photos of both of them on their profiles!!!! We’re a couple and look on site together it’s great for me I get to see thousands of pussies, Ann Summers underwear and stilettos but other then the one obligatory cock pick (in close up to make it look bigger) every woman seems to be either ashamed or scared to show of their man??? So how do you expect a couple to react to your profile when it could be from a single women?????"
For us it was my idea to join this site so I created the profile. Ben said he don't want his picture on here so I respect his wishes. However as soon as we talk to someone and like the sound of them we send them lots of full face pictures via kik. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Can't you just ignore the profiles that don't have what you want?
Perhaps their profile isn't primarily aimed at you.
Fab has something for everyone,not everyone for someone"
Exactly this!
A profile is an advert, and if you don't like what is being advertised then don't buy the product, just move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some couples just want the attention on the female side to attract people in. What I find weirder is dick pics taken by the male, on a single female profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have tried to get a bit of a mix on ours, but in all truth the female always gets the most attention"
Agree the women is the one looked at in most cases unfortunately! |
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The weird part is you can chat and ask for pictures of the male then people seem to get offended that the female pictures aren't enough.
Well no they aren't, we've seen enough fuckit couples at clubs we sure aren't travelling to meet a possible one. |
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We try to have a mix, but have inevitably ended up with more female pics. I suppose I just like taking pics a lot and MrT doesn’t bother as much.
But after having a profile pic of just me, we’ve now changed it to one of both of us.
What’s more irritating is when you’re talking to a couple and they send face pics but only of the fem  what’s that about? Why wouldn’t I want to see what the bloke looks like 
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This gets me very frustrated and one of the reasons we don't use our couple profile so much now.
So many have 10 of the woman in every pose and 1 cock pic or no pic of the male.
That's fine if they are looking for males only ,but as a straight woman I need to see what I'd potentially gets when a couple gets in touch.
We have a good mix on our couple profile ,I won't waste time chatting fot a while anymore ,just to find the male is not for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We try to have a bit of both on ours
Hubby wasn’t keen at first as it seemed only single males fabbed them but once some hotties gave him a fab he was all over it! |
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We have photos of both.
It annoys me when we get messages from couples and I can’t see the male. Mr BoF shows me the lovely lady, but the male could look like Quasimodo?
If we meet a couple it is helpful for the chemistry to be there for all of us! |
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We have gone with a bit of both, with hindsight probably not enough male, but at least some 
When we look at profiles, whilst we both enjoy looking at gorgeous women, unless a guy is pictured we tend to be less interested. It is part of the reason we only meet at clubs, at least then you can see the real people |
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Not all couples swap so not all couples need pictures of both.
My guy doesn't get physically involved at all and would only be present on the odd occasion during cuck scenarios.
So what he looks like is kind of irrelevant.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"FFS is it to much to ask to get couples to have photos of both of them on their profiles!!!! We’re a couple and look on site together it’s great for me I get to see thousands of pussies, Ann Summers underwear and stilettos but other then the one obligatory cock pick (in close up to make it look bigger) every woman seems to be either ashamed or scared to show of their man??? So how do you expect a couple to react to your profile when it could be from a single women?????"
Ours are equal and sometimes more of Ethan, but all on friends only due to pic thieves and people trying to “out” is. |
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over a year ago
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"FFS is it to much to ask to get couples to have photos of both of them on their profiles!!!! We’re a couple and look on site together it’s great for me I get to see thousands of pussies, Ann Summers underwear and stilettos but other then the one obligatory cock pick (in close up to make it look bigger) every woman seems to be either ashamed or scared to show of their man??? So how do you expect a couple to react to your profile when it could be from a single women?????"
It also annoys us if were looking for couple fun as both of us are looking to be happy with going to the next step and meeting another couple and as such we both need to interested in the male and the female.  |
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"FFS is it to much to ask to get couples to have photos of both of them on their profiles!!!! We’re a couple and look on site together it’s great for me I get to see thousands of pussies, Ann Summers underwear and stilettos but other then the one obligatory cock pick (in close up to make it look bigger) every woman seems to be either ashamed or scared to show of their man??? So how do you expect a couple to react to your profile when it could be from a single women?????
We upload a few uptodate torso & bum pics of hubby as its a couples profile. If no male pics on couples profile we'd just presume hes large or unnatractive or they don't play as couple more hotwife, so no reply from us "
That suggests large men can't be attractive. |
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Totally agree with you.
When a couple message us and there’s no male pictures,it’s very offputting.As the female half of the couple I find it insulting that so long as my partner likes the female then am I expected to play no matter what the male looks like? I don’t think so,neither of us are worth less than the other.S xx
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For us mr just hates pics, posing etc but chatty and confident at clubs , if a couple message us we happlily send face pics etc but as for profile he just not the posing type and i respect that. Thats probably why most of our swinging fun as been at clubs  |
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"All couples have their own dynamic and some guys don’t play so in those situations it’s fair enough there’s no male pics, but if the male joins in then I want to see what I’m getting!
Ours has an unfair split for sure, but there are plenty of SSS for the ladies to know what they’re getting
TB
Totally agree, certainly eye candy your profile, one of the best couples profiles on here x"
I agree  *mrs |
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"FFS is it to much to ask to get couples to have photos of both of them on their profiles!!!! We’re a couple and look on site together it’s great for me I get to see thousands of pussies, Ann Summers underwear and stilettos but other then the one obligatory cock pick (in close up to make it look bigger) every woman seems to be either ashamed or scared to show of their man??? So how do you expect a couple to react to your profile when it could be from a single women?????
We upload a few uptodate torso & bum pics of hubby as its a couples profile. If no male pics on couples profile we'd just presume hes large or unnatractive or they don't play as couple more hotwife, so no reply from us
That suggests large men can't be attractive."
I dont personally find large men attractive, that's my choice  |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Can't you just ignore the profiles that don't have what you want?
Perhaps their profile isn't primarily aimed at you.
Fab has something for everyone,not everyone for someone
I agree. Surely it’s a couples prerogative as to what photos they publish. "
Agree with this, we have our reasons and we only tend to meet at parties and clubs, so people can see us in real life! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have photos of both of us on our profile. We find it so frustrating looking at couples profiles to find no pictures of the male. It has to be a balance of both of the male and female to find that we are interested..
Please feel free to fab our pics if you like them x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s some of the men they use their mrs pics because 9/10 the mrs is better looking than them it’s called bait been there done that "
As a couple we only play together so when we send pictures there is always a clear face picture of us both together. Then a few full body and face pictures of the wife if we are replying to a single male. If we are replying to a couple then we will send the same amount of pictures of each of us.
J & K x |
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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago
Lincoln |
"It’s some of the men they use their mrs pics because 9/10 the mrs is better looking than them it’s called bait been there done that "
Of course it is, but seems pointless cos we’d never even agree to consider a social before we’d seen both so it’s just wasting everyone’s time.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What sort of male pics do people prefer ?
We only send face pics privately not in our profile
But yeah....what’s people’s honest opinion on our profile then ? Any improvements would be appreciated |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What sort of male pics do people prefer ?
We only send face pics privately not in our profile
But yeah....what’s people’s honest opinion on our profile then ? Any improvements would be appreciated "
We try and keep a mix of body shots, some clothed, some topless, so others have a good idea of his body too. |
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over a year ago
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"What sort of male pics do people prefer ?
We only send face pics privately not in our profile
But yeah....what’s people’s honest opinion on our profile then ? Any improvements would be appreciated
We try and keep a mix of body shots, some clothed, some topless, so others have a good idea of his body too."
Nice we have just put up his body shot
(Only one I could find , as like most men he doesn’t like taking pics lol)
Is that one ok? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No point for us as we are at present only looking for a guy. I’m sure he won’t be interested in me as it’s my wife who is the star. So until the day comes she wants a couple then it stays this way. Certainly for us for the foreseeable future. |
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We are one of the few couples with both of us on our profile pic.
We're going to do some more soon and it will be a mix of both of us (and no cock pics!) but I would say the lady is much better-looking than the gent, and guess which on of us is writing. |
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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago
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"No point for us as we are at present only looking for a guy. I’m sure he won’t be interested in me as it’s my wife who is the star. So until the day comes she wants a couple then it stays this way. Certainly for us for the foreseeable future. "
And in that scenario or a hot wife type thing then it’s fine |
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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago
Lincoln |
"What sort of male pics do people prefer ?
We only send face pics privately not in our profile
But yeah....what’s people’s honest opinion on our profile then ? Any improvements would be appreciated "
We like the kind of photos we have on our profile, appreciate some people like to be more explicit which is up to them
I’d not necessarily expect to see a face pic on a profile, again that’s an individual thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"FFS is it to much to ask to get couples to have photos of both of them on their profiles!!!! We’re a couple and look on site together it’s great for me I get to see thousands of pussies, Ann Summers underwear and stilettos but other then the one obligatory cock pick (in close up to make it look bigger) every woman seems to be either ashamed or scared to show of their man??? So how do you expect a couple to react to your profile when it could be from a single women?????"
We have pictures of Charlie on our profile, I am definitely not ashamed or scared to show him off, in my opinion he is hot as fuck xxx |
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"FFS is it to much to ask to get couples to have photos of both of them on their profiles!!!! We’re a couple and look on site together it’s great for me I get to see thousands of pussies, Ann Summers underwear and stilettos but other then the one obligatory cock pick (in close up to make it look bigger) every woman seems to be either ashamed or scared to show of their man??? So how do you expect a couple to react to your profile when it could be from a single women?????"
We have some of both, but more of the lovely lady as the pictures of the handsome gentleman don’t get so much attention . I guess we are pleasing the market !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No need for pics of the men. The men tell the women who they'll be fucking so they only need to see women pics so they can have a tug of their cock. Women: do as you're told. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"FFS is it to much to ask to get couples to have photos of both of them on their profiles!!!! We’re a couple and look on site together it’s great for me I get to see thousands of pussies, Ann Summers underwear and stilettos but other then the one obligatory cock pick (in close up to make it look bigger) every woman seems to be either ashamed or scared to show of their man??? So how do you expect a couple to react to your profile when it could be from a single women?????"
FFS why are so many people obsessed with telling others how to run their profiles? If a profile doesn't appeal to you simply move on to one that does. And if someone's profile works for them with or without pictures of the man, or with or without cock pics, or whatever else others complain about then good luck to them. Why should they change to suit other people? If it doesn't work for them they will change their profile to one that does of their own accord. |
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"No need for pics of the men. The men tell the women who they'll be fucking so they only need to see women pics so they can have a tug of their cock. Women: do as you're told. "
Thank you, finally someone's worked out how this all works. None of us men give a dam about our women's pleasure or what they want out of FAB. It's of total inconsequence if the female of the couple fancies the other guy. If his wife is hot you'll do as your told. God forbid women in couples have free will too. All us me are clearly just tyrants and all the women here clearly have no ownership of their own sexual desires.
And we would have got away with it too if it wasn't for pesky Miss Snowdon here blowing the whistle |
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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago
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We have a mini mix on our couples profile. We need more photos and more of him but he's away during the week and when he's home at the weekend were too busy to go oh let's take photos. But I totally get it. Although there's not a cock shot to be found on ours. If someone's that interested they can ask for one.
But women have more to offer than what men do and it's usually the woman that gets the attention so I can understand profiles having less of the man. But still nice to see photos of both. |
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"No need for pics of the men. The men tell the women who they'll be fucking so they only need to see women pics so they can have a tug of their cock. Women: do as you're told.
Thank you, finally someone's worked out how this all works. None of us men give a dam about our women's pleasure or what they want out of FAB. It's of total inconsequence if the female of the couple fancies the other guy. If his wife is hot you'll do as your told. God forbid women in couples have free will too. All us me are clearly just tyrants and all the women here clearly have no ownership of their own sexual desires.
And we would have got away with it too if it wasn't for pesky Miss Snowdon here blowing the whistle "
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"No need for pics of the men. The men tell the women who they'll be fucking so they only need to see women pics so they can have a tug of their cock. Women: do as you're told.
Thank you, finally someone's worked out how this all works. None of us men give a dam about our women's pleasure or what they want out of FAB. It's of total inconsequence if the female of the couple fancies the other guy. If his wife is hot you'll do as your told. God forbid women in couples have free will too. All us me are clearly just tyrants and all the women here clearly have no ownership of their own sexual desires.
And we would have got away with it too if it wasn't for pesky Miss Snowdon here blowing the whistle "
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