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There's obviously a lot more people that would like to have sex with a 28 yr old female than a 52yr old male, goes without saying!! But do you think (age preferences apart) the big disparity between our 2 ages would deter people? |
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As a guy with a 21yold girlfriend id say if people are put off by you both then they obvs dont care how much you love each other we think its great age means nothing nowadays wouldnt put us off x You and your guy are a very sexy couple after all x |
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"There's obviously a lot more people that would like to have sex with a 28 yr old female than a 52yr old male, goes without saying!! But do you think (age preferences apart) the big disparity between our 2 ages would deter people?"
Well in truth it makes me think ' really' but if it's happening good luck to you
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For us no.. age is but a number..attitude and personality come first for us..but at our age, we do tend to only get meet requests from people our own age..when it comes to guys wanting to meet us we get offers from guys in their early 20 to guys in their 70's, before we had filters in place..young lads seem to bottle out in the end so we gave up .. |
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Age isn't a massive thing with me. I do however preffer my men older than me. I don't have an age limit on how old as long as I am attracted to them. As for women I don't have an issue with younger or older.
So to answer your question. Your ages wouldn't bother me in the slightest.xx |
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"As a guy with a 21yold girlfriend id say if people are put off by you both then they obvs dont care how much you love each other we think its great age means nothing nowadays wouldnt put us off x You and your guy are a very sexy couple after all x"
Thanks for your kind words x |
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"There's obviously a lot more people that would like to have sex with a 28 yr old female than a 52yr old male, goes without saying!! But do you think (age preferences apart) the big disparity between our 2 ages would deter people?Well in truth it makes me think ' really' but if it's happening good luck to you "
Can see that, that's why we asked. Thanks for your honesty |
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For some yes, for others no.
Lots of people like to have sex with people similar in age to themselves.
The breadth of the gap between you means for couples who like to meet with 5-10 years of themselves it would be unlikely to work.
We have played with a range of ages but the big key for us is attractiveness. We have met couples with a small age gap but decided not to play as there was not the level of attraction required between all four of us.
On the other hand just last week we met a couple with an age difference of about 20 years and the attraction was there. |
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"As a guy with a 21yold girlfriend id say if people are put off by you both then they obvs dont care how much you love each other we think its great age means nothing nowadays wouldnt put us off x You and your guy are a very sexy couple after all x
Thanks for your kind words x"
No worries your soulmates can tell x |
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I'm not so sure age has anything to do with it.
We struggle as a couple to meet other couples.
The dynamics change massively in a couples situation. There's always a risk that one out of the couples will not be atrracted to someone in the group.
We wouldn't be put off by your ages, quite the opposite.. |
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We have experienced the same issues (23 and 58 here) and it is not just swingers that make negative assumptions, it happens in day to day life as well.
If we get even a hint of small minded prejudice we just ignore/move on/not our problem
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For lots of people an age gap isn't a deal breaker in itself. What may be an issue is if one or both are quite a way outside of their age preferences.
I would quite happily meet someone in their 50's but wouldn't feel comfortable meeting people in their 20's.
Don't let the fact some people wouldn't want to meet you get you down though, there are plenty of others who will want to meet you. |
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I think once you get over a certain age the gap doesnt matter. I was 31 and met an 18 year old. But if i was 25 she would have been 12 so not good.
So age/gaps means nothing
Some people look fabulous at 50 and others dont
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"For lots of people an age gap isn't a deal breaker in itself. What may be an issue is if one or both are quite a way outside of their age preferences.
I would quite happily meet someone in their 50's but wouldn't feel comfortable meeting people in their 20's.
Don't let the fact some people wouldn't want to meet you get you down though, there are plenty of others who will want to meet you."
 You may both fall outside people's age ranges OP.
I'd be concerned if a couple with a big age range was a real couple.
People may also be more attracted to the younger woman than the older man, but finding both people in a couple attractive can be hit and miss and not always down to age. |
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"There's obviously a lot more people that would like to have sex with a 28 yr old female than a 52yr old male, goes without saying!! But do you think (age preferences apart) the big disparity between our 2 ages would deter people?"
I’m not sure but I reckon your fella wakes every day and thanks his lucky stars it wasn’t all a dream. But I’m sure you’re perfectly happy too. Good luck to you both. |
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Age isn't our issue, if there is an attraction then sparks fly, nice to mix it up. That's why were clubs only, it's about meeting real people plus given most lie about their age on fab (we don't) it's more a compliment if chatted on here & bumped into in club that were better than they thought lol. We've been shocked a few times couples on here claiming to be younger than us when we meet them clearly not xx |
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