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Erm it was ok, but not amazing
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i love this thread!! i too have had the same issue and cant wait to see what peoples advice might be.....lets hope its not...you were crap...see yah!! lol |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"How do u tell sumone politely that u don't want to see them again wivout been offensive??
A little advice wud be much appreciated!"
Serious answer... I would be honest, thank them for a lovely time ... nothing else. How does that sound? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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erm say you have broken your leg and out of action for a while
or you need to go to the sti clinic for a urgent check up
or you have met the woman of your dreams...ME and then i will tell them to fook off coz they are crap on your behalf
simples |
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Honesty...always a good policy.
Either, yeah we had a good time, and we wouldn't mind seeing you again socially, then explain that while it was fun it wasn't what you were loooking for from the evening.
Or, flat out tell them, sorry guys, you're aren't our type, but its a great big world of swingers out there and i'm sure we're all gonna have a LOT more fun in the future? |
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"I would be polite and say thanks for a lovely time but you prefer to have new experiences rather than repeat experiences  "
perfect ! diplomatic and gives a get out of jail free card without hurting the other persons feelings
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"How do u tell sumone politely that u don't want to see them again wivout been offensive??
A little advice wud be much appreciated!"
Say thanks for a lovely time but one of the things you enjoy about swinging is the variety and meeting new people. Then tell them it is very rare you meet for a second time. |
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"I would be polite and say thanks for a lovely time but you prefer to have new experiences rather than repeat experiences
perfect ! diplomatic and gives a get out of jail free card without hurting the other persons feelings
xx"
HPC's reply looks very good to me, but if you think its to strong for you, just remember that many think, Read, Delete, Block, is acceptable response to mail.
Just say thanks very much and don't say anything else, just let it go quietly and always be busy.
Although I would prefer HPC's option myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not all of us will float everyones elses boat
At least they know where they stand and can just get on with swinging instead of wondering if they did anything wrong,or wonder why they're being ignored
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I would be polite and say thanks for a lovely time but you prefer to have new experiences rather than repeat experiences "
And one we have used in the past, not because anyone was rubbish but because we really do mean it.
But HPC's advice it is great advice for any situation really  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would be polite and say thanks for a lovely time but you prefer to have new experiences rather than repeat experiences "
**round of applause**
I'm so stealing that one!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if i meet someone an dont want 2 meet
again i just tell them..was nice meeting
but no realy wat im looking 4 soz..then
if they ask wat it is im looking 4
i just say no u lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would be polite and say thanks for a lovely time but you prefer to have new experiences rather than repeat experiences "
... then quickly adjust your profile to take out the bit about 'prefer regular fun rather than one offs' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would be polite and say thanks for a lovely time but you prefer to have new experiences rather than repeat experiences
... then quickly adjust your profile to take out the bit about 'prefer regular fun rather than one offs' "
Yes that too
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The serious answer would be along these lines so as not to offend...
Thank you for being so lovely, however as much as we had fun we'd rather we didn't try again as we felt something was lacking.. please don't be offended but can we save the memories we have already and leave things there.
See.... dead easy eh
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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see them again socially or sexually or both...
whats happened to the simple truth..
we had an ok night but maybe not sexually compatible..
they may be reading this thinking, @thank feck they asked, cause really they didna do it for us either'...
or even worse if they are reading this.. they gonna be gutted  |
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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago
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"I would be polite and say thanks for a lovely time but you prefer to have new experiences rather than repeat experiences "
I like this answer, we have been in the position of not wanting to see couples again and just keep putting them off with dates way in the future. This always comes back to haunt us. The truth is the best policy, nice time but prefer new experiences is so honest can't understand how it never occured to us |
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"I would be polite and say thanks for a lovely time but you prefer to have new experiences rather than repeat experiences
I like this answer, we have been in the position of not wanting to see couples again and just keep putting them off with dates way in the future. This always comes back to haunt us. The truth is the best policy, nice time but prefer new experiences is so honest can't understand how it never occured to us"
But if you do actually like meeting people again and they find out??????
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The serious answer would be along these lines so as not to offend...
Thank you for being so lovely, however as much as we had fun we'd rather we didn't try again as we felt something was lacking.. please don't be offended but can we save the memories we have already and leave things there.
See.... dead easy eh
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Honesty.. (Politely) is always the best policy....
You tell em Polo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would be polite and say thanks for a lovely time but you prefer to have new experiences rather than repeat experiences
I like this answer, we have been in the position of not wanting to see couples again and just keep putting them off with dates way in the future. This always comes back to haunt us. The truth is the best policy, nice time but prefer new experiences is so honest can't understand how it never occured to us
But if you do actually like meeting people again and they find out??????
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by that point they have been blocked deleted and forgotten about?  |
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Thanks for meeting the other night. Whilst we had a pleasant time and no regrets, it did feel that some of the chemistry we were hoping to find was missing from the evening. We hope you understand and we understand if you felt the same way. Once again, thank you for meeting us and we’ll remember you as we continue our search. Wishing you every success in finding your ideal playmates and hoping you have plenty of fun along the way. |
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"The serious answer would be along these lines so as not to offend...
Thank you for being so lovely, however as much as we had fun we'd rather we didn't try again as we felt something was lacking.. please don't be offended but can we save the memories we have already and leave things there.
See.... dead easy eh
Honesty.. (Politely) is always the best policy....
You tell em Polo"
It is indeed. |
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