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Do ladies like their hair pulled and to be covered in lovebites.
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By *rotica OP Couple
over a year ago
Gloucestershire |
We had a meet with a really lovely guy..well until we got into the bedroom..when he pulled my hair a lot and started to cover my breasts in lovebites. When I told him to stop he said every woman loves this. Does anyone else not like this? |
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Love bites are a no for me but I quite like some directional hair pulling. Partner needs to be aware of how hard they are doing it though and not yank the hair.
It's ridiculous to say that all woman like the same thing though. |
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I like having my hair pulled in the moment but not lovebites. I guess *some* women might like them and not like the hair pulling. Or indeed dislike either. Or love both. That's all beside the point though - he sounds like an inexperienced and/or selfish lover if he believes 'all women love' such and such instead of communicating properly and seeing you as an individual. It's probably closer to the truth to say this is what *he* likes doing  That attitude would have put me right off, I really hope he stopped when you protested. |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
I'm quite partial to a bit of hair pulling and I'm possibly one of the few people who loves lovebites but only when done in very specific (not visible when clothed) places, by the right person, (so for me done by someone I am submissive to as a mark or a reminder of that) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love bites? Fuck me that takes me back to the school disco and slow dances to careless Whisper..
Lol..who the fuck gives love bites over the age of 16.
Now hair pulling...   |
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"I like having my hair pulled in the moment but not lovebites. I guess *some* women might like them and not like the hair pulling. Or indeed dislike either. Or love both. That's all beside the point though - he sounds like an inexperienced and/or selfish lover if he believes 'all women love' such and such instead of communicating properly and seeing you as an individual. It's probably closer to the truth to say this is what *he* likes doing That attitude would have put me right off, I really hope he stopped when you protested."
I completely agree with this.
Any guy who started anything like that with me would very soon stop 
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"We had a meet with a really lovely guy..well until we got into the bedroom..when he pulled my hair a lot and started to cover my breasts in lovebites. When I told him to stop he said every woman loves this. Does anyone else not like this?"
No I would hate both. |
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"I'm quite partial to a bit of hair pulling and I'm possibly one of the few people who loves lovebites but only when done in very specific (not visible when clothed) places, by the right person, (so for me done by someone I am submissive to as a mark or a reminder of that)"
Spot on with your comments I agree with others you don’t want to be walking the streets with visible live bites
But I’ve had partners in the past who want to be bitten and marked especially when in the deep thrones of passion
I too like to be bitten at the right time and by the right person
So Visible bites no no no however at the right moment hidden ones yes yes yes |
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Hair pulling is a no for me. As are love bites. I think what would have annoyed me most if I had been in that situation is his attitude to you saying you didn't like it. Shows that he was only there for his own pleasure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Actual bites from my LTP I love.
He can basically do what he wants to me and I'll love it.
Has to be a deep desire for a man for me to enjoy anything but basic sex. |
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By *rotica OP Couple
over a year ago
Gloucestershire |
"I like having my hair pulled in the moment but not lovebites. I guess *some* women might like them and not like the hair pulling. Or indeed dislike either. Or love both. That's all beside the point though - he sounds like an inexperienced and/or selfish lover if he believes 'all women love' such and such instead of communicating properly and seeing you as an individual. It's probably closer to the truth to say this is what *he* likes doing That attitude would have put me right off, I really hope he stopped when you protested."
Yes i kept telling him he was hurting me. My partner kept saying to him to be gentle and told him "if you scare her you wont get anywhere mate. Treat her nicely and she is incredible!" He wanted my partner to go out so he could fuck me alone. Thank god he did not leave. He was getting more and more frustrated that I kept stopping him and he got nowhere. |
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"I'm quite partial to a bit of hair pulling and I'm possibly one of the few people who loves lovebites but only when done in very specific (not visible when clothed) places, by the right person, (so for me done by someone I am submissive to as a mark or a reminder of that)"
Me too! I love reminders the next day. |
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"We had a meet with a really lovely guy..well until we got into the bedroom..when he pulled my hair a lot and started to cover my breasts in lovebites. When I told him to stop he said every woman loves this. Does anyone else not like this?"
most definitely not!!!! i wonder where he got that idea from!!! maybe some do like it and not saying its wrong to like it ! but to say ALL women love it I can only assume he has not a lot of experience of women lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like having my hair pulled in the moment but not lovebites. I guess *some* women might like them and not like the hair pulling. Or indeed dislike either. Or love both. That's all beside the point though - he sounds like an inexperienced and/or selfish lover if he believes 'all women love' such and such instead of communicating properly and seeing you as an individual. It's probably closer to the truth to say this is what *he* likes doing That attitude would have put me right off, I really hope he stopped when you protested.Yes i kept telling him he was hurting me. My partner kept saying to him to be gentle and told him "if you scare her you wont get anywhere mate. Treat her nicely and she is incredible!" He wanted my partner to go out so he could fuck me alone. Thank god he did not leave. He was getting more and more frustrated that I kept stopping him and he got nowhere."
Sounds like a fucking dickhead |
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"I like having my hair pulled in the moment but not lovebites. I guess *some* women might like them and not like the hair pulling. Or indeed dislike either. Or love both. That's all beside the point though - he sounds like an inexperienced and/or selfish lover if he believes 'all women love' such and such instead of communicating properly and seeing you as an individual. It's probably closer to the truth to say this is what *he* likes doing That attitude would have put me right off, I really hope he stopped when you protested.Yes i kept telling him he was hurting me. My partner kept saying to him to be gentle and told him "if you scare her you wont get anywhere mate. Treat her nicely and she is incredible!" He wanted my partner to go out so he could fuck me alone. Thank god he did not leave. He was getting more and more frustrated that I kept stopping him and he got nowhere."
sounds to me he was a knobhead!!!! lol |
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"I like having my hair pulled in the moment but not lovebites. I guess *some* women might like them and not like the hair pulling. Or indeed dislike either. Or love both. That's all beside the point though - he sounds like an inexperienced and/or selfish lover if he believes 'all women love' such and such instead of communicating properly and seeing you as an individual. It's probably closer to the truth to say this is what *he* likes doing That attitude would have put me right off, I really hope he stopped when you protested.Yes i kept telling him he was hurting me. My partner kept saying to him to be gentle and told him "if you scare her you wont get anywhere mate. Treat her nicely and she is incredible!" He wanted my partner to go out so he could fuck me alone. Thank god he did not leave. He was getting more and more frustrated that I kept stopping him and he got nowhere."
Bloody hell - any sort of non consensual deliberately inflicted pain and he should have stopped the very first time and apologised profusely. He should been out on his ear the second time he ignored you - you have every right to stop the meet dead at any point if it's not what you want. What a bastard. I hope you're okay. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
I don't mind my hair being pulled but love bites.....No way. We used to call them 'tramp stamps'.
If I was in that situation OP I've off stopped things and told him to go as he clearly wasn't listening to you. Or I would of expected my partner to!!! |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I like having my hair pulled in the moment but not lovebites. I guess *some* women might like them and not like the hair pulling. Or indeed dislike either. Or love both. That's all beside the point though - he sounds like an inexperienced and/or selfish lover if he believes 'all women love' such and such instead of communicating properly and seeing you as an individual. It's probably closer to the truth to say this is what *he* likes doing That attitude would have put me right off, I really hope he stopped when you protested.Yes i kept telling him he was hurting me. My partner kept saying to him to be gentle and told him "if you scare her you wont get anywhere mate. Treat her nicely and she is incredible!" He wanted my partner to go out so he could fuck me alone. Thank god he did not leave. He was getting more and more frustrated that I kept stopping him and he got nowhere."
Then if he ignored you, your partner should have stepped in and stopped play immediately and thrown him out if he was at yours or removed you from the situation if you weren't accommodating. Having a quiet word doesn't always work with people like that unfortunately. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Every woman is different,and have different places where she wants to be touch and stimulate some women love to pull her hair hard but not every man knows to "read" his partener, some man ar to selfish, and is important to communicate even when we do sex. |
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By *rotica OP Couple
over a year ago
Gloucestershire |
Some good lessons here.....I should have stopped him earlier...I should have made my boundaries clearer. In fairness after i saw the first one i went mad and told him no more but he insisted on having the lights off so neither me nor my boyfriend could see what he was doing. I thought he was pinching me. My solution was to get out of his bed and sleep in his sons tiny bed so he could not keep doing it all night. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We had a meet with a really lovely guy..well until we got into the bedroom..when he pulled my hair a lot and started to cover my breasts in lovebites. When I told him to stop he said every woman loves this. Does anyone else not like this?"
I love the feeling of being given a lovebite on my neck, gets me proper going! However the actual mark of a lovebite I don’t |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We had a meet with a really lovely guy..well until we got into the bedroom..when he pulled my hair a lot and started to cover my breasts in lovebites. When I told him to stop he said every woman loves this. Does anyone else not like this?
I love the feeling of being given a lovebite on my neck, gets me proper going! However the actual mark of a lovebite I don’t"
I’m in agreement on this |
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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
In a sleepy little village |
"Some good lessons here.....I should have stopped him earlier...I should have made my boundaries clearer. In fairness after i saw the first one i went mad and told him no more but he insisted on having the lights off so neither me nor my boyfriend could see what he was doing. I thought he was pinching me. My solution was to get out of his bed and sleep in his sons tiny bed so he could not keep doing it all night. "
The best solution would of been to show him the door |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"I'm quite partial to a bit of hair pulling and I'm possibly one of the few people who loves lovebites but only when done in very specific (not visible when clothed) places, by the right person, (so for me done by someone I am submissive to as a mark or a reminder of that)"
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love bite are a no go for either of us.. 
