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over a year ago
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"Had a bit of a confidence knock and feeling a bit nervous and shy all over again! What's the best thing to do to get back on the horse, so to speak :p"
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"Had a bit of a confidence knock and feeling a bit nervous and shy all over again! What's the best thing to do to get back on the horse, so to speak :p"
Learn to love yourself. Trite and a bit facebooky I know but genuinely if you really appreciate yourself and know your worth it's very difficult to knock your confidence.
Don't let one bad thing outweigh a hundred good things.
learn to ignore things that are untrue and said to hurt.
on fab know that people will flatter and insult as easily as they breathe and with as little thought. It means nothing.
Only value the opinion of people you love or respect and who love or respect you. |
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"Had a bit of a confidence knock and feeling a bit nervous and shy all over again! What's the best thing to do to get back on the horse, so to speak :pmeet me it's only way "
Haha, excellent response  |
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"Had a bit of a confidence knock and feeling a bit nervous and shy all over again! What's the best thing to do to get back on the horse, so to speak :p
Learn to love yourself. Trite and a bit facebooky I know but genuinely if you really appreciate yourself and know your worth it's very difficult to knock your confidence.
Don't let one bad thing outweigh a hundred good things.
learn to ignore things that are untrue and said to hurt.
on fab know that people will flatter and insult as easily as they breathe and with as little thought. It means nothing.
Only value the opinion of people you love or respect and who love or respect you. "
Thank you, lovely post. I think I forget to appreciate myself and always picking at bits I don't like. Xxx |
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"Had a bit of a confidence knock and feeling a bit nervous and shy all over again! What's the best thing to do to get back on the horse, so to speak :pmeet me it's only way
Haha, excellent response "
yes but it's true I'm great fun and no pressure oh and I'm very complimentary |
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"Had a bit of a confidence knock and feeling a bit nervous and shy all over again! What's the best thing to do to get back on the horse, so to speak :p"
I feel your pain I have had a couple of pre arranged meets not turn up then block me. So my confidence is shot to pieces as well |
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"Had a bit of a confidence knock and feeling a bit nervous and shy all over again! What's the best thing to do to get back on the horse, so to speak :p
Learn to love yourself. Trite and a bit facebooky I know but genuinely if you really appreciate yourself and know your worth it's very difficult to knock your confidence.
Don't let one bad thing outweigh a hundred good things.
learn to ignore things that are untrue and said to hurt.
on fab know that people will flatter and insult as easily as they breathe and with as little thought. It means nothing.
Only value the opinion of people you love or respect and who love or respect you.
Thank you, lovely post. I think I forget to appreciate myself and always picking at bits I don't like. Xxx"
You're welcome.  When you're 61 like me you'll realise just how gorgeous your body is at 27. |
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You probably have your profile blocked to single men?, open it up for the day and see how many single men think you're stunning and appreciate your pics, that may help?
The reason you probably don't see it when your hubby says it is because his love and lust are unconditional, you probably think he'll want you no matter what so dont neccessarily believe him when he says you're beautfiul, which is why you often need a 3rd party to tell you.
And fyi both of us agree you are gorgeous  |
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"You probably have your profile blocked to single men?, open it up for the day and see how many single men think you're stunning and appreciate your pics, that may help?
The reason you probably don't see it when your hubby says it is because his love and lust are unconditional, you probably think he'll want you no matter what so dont neccessarily believe him when he says you're beautfiul, which is why you often need a 3rd party to tell you.
And fyi both of us agree you are gorgeous "
I think you hit the nail on the head. He's supposed to think I'm gorgeous no matter what. Haha
Thank you, you both are pretty hot yourselves ! Xxx
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All of the attractive women that we've met have had some hang up about their bodies. We always focus in on our 'bad' bits when we look in the mirror and ignore the rest. It's tricky but learning to celebrate your favorite attributes instead of glaring at your least favorite can help with body image and confidence.
If you're looking to visit a club or arrange a meet, you could plan an outfit that covers any areas you're not happy with? That said, we totally agree with the praise about your looks! Your photos are stunning.  |
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From my own personal opinion. You look absolutely stunning. The kind of lady I would stop and appreciate. I know we are told that looks are superficial but in most cases they are the 1st impression you get of someone.
You are beautiful. You sound like a beautiful person and I would feel physically inadequate compared to yourself. |
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"All of the attractive women that we've met have had some hang up about their bodies. We always focus in on our 'bad' bits when we look in the mirror and ignore the rest. It's tricky but learning to celebrate your favorite attributes instead of glaring at your least favorite can help with body image and confidence.
If you're looking to visit a club or arrange a meet, you could plan an outfit that covers any areas you're not happy with? That said, we totally agree with the praise about your looks! Your photos are stunning. "
Thank you!
Body confidence has always been a struggle for me but it's nice to hear positive comments! Thank you xxx |
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Your body is stuning the person who knocked your confidence was pure jelous. Clearly the guys and ladies on here that repiled all agree your body is hot. If you need further validation go to chams on a naked night walk round and you will be complemented by all.
Real fabbers dont judge if you are not for them they just say no thanks.
Btw i have a group of naughty guys in birmingham that would assist mr and worship your your body till you are worn out?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have the same issue. I hate my body but my hubby always tells me off when I put myself down. When you get body shamed so much it's hard to let go of it.
I'm trying to listen to people but its easier send than done. Just remember it's your body and never let anyone make you feel ashamed for who you are. Xx |
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I’m super conscious about my body, and will always wear something as I’m not happy with it naked but be got to the point now where I think, I’d someone doesn’t like it - that’s their issue. Not mine.. you have a gorgeous figure that many women would love to have, don’t let one narrow minded person bring you down. Just smile and wave. Big love. |
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"I have the same issue. I hate my body but my hubby always tells me off when I put myself down. When you get body shamed so much it's hard to let go of it.
I'm trying to listen to people but its easier send than done. Just remember it's your body and never let anyone make you feel ashamed for who you are. Xx"
Thank you. I know exactly how you feel. Years of hating something is hard to change. You're hubby is right though. Nothing to be ashamed of !
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"You have a great body. Stunning. Be proud of the skin you're in x"
That doesn't really help saying that though. There are days I feel like Whistler's Mother and no amount of you look gorgeous helps. Yet within half an hour I could give Naomi Campbell a run for her money!
Personally, I wouldn't swing if I had confidence issues as it's supposed to be fun and not everyone wants to ego massage and counsell before getting down to it...it would make me feel worse. |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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OP, we ALL have things we don’t like about ourselves, but we have to live with it.
I have to agree with others though, I think you look great.
But if you still feel shy, just take it slow. Maybe find some lingerie that makes the most of whatever it is you don’t like for now. But, listen to your other half. |
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"Had a bit of a confidence knock and feeling a bit nervous and shy all over again! What's the best thing to do to get back on the horse, so to speak :p
Learn to love yourself. Trite and a bit facebooky I know but genuinely if you really appreciate yourself and know your worth it's very difficult to knock your confidence.
Don't let one bad thing outweigh a hundred good things.
learn to ignore things that are untrue and said to hurt.
on fab know that people will flatter and insult as easily as they breathe and with as little thought. It means nothing.
Only value the opinion of people you love or respect and who love or respect you.
Thank you, lovely post. I think I forget to appreciate myself and always picking at bits I don't like. Xxx"
That's human nature to pick at the bits we don't like, instead of like the bits we do. |
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Our own eye is always the keenest and we are always our harshest critic.
One of my things recently has been a loss of confidence and I can feel it coming back after a spell when I listened to the negative voice too much.
You will win the battle against your own thoughts x
Best of luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well Hun I think you look stunning. You are a curvy luscious lady with curves in all the right places.
Who ever gave you the confidence knock is their opinion worth anything?
Take it from another curvy lady you are stunning....x |
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