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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve been on here for several months now and still haven’t got a first fab , I don’t get why it’s so hard to meet on here "
it may be your approach who knows, I find this an easy site to get meets  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are a couple looking for just one FB. That said, we are a bit fussy about who that is and therefore we would insist on one or meets in a public environment to see if we all get along.
When contact is established here on Fab, the person(s) often disappear off the Radar before a meet can be arranged. Afraid to say that most of the effort has to made by them.
That said, 90% of the men here are either married, want a shag and want it NOW, or are simply not fussy what they shag and willing to travel 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are a couple looking for just one FB. That said, we are a bit fussy about who that is and therefore we would insist on one or meets in a public environment to see if we all get along.
When contact is established here on Fab, the person(s) often disappear off the Radar before a meet can be arranged. Afraid to say that most of the effort has to made by them.
That said, 90% of the men here are either married, want a shag and want it NOW, or are simply not fussy what they shag and willing to travel
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Hey if you're seriously into the life why spend so much time just meet for a social, youre not going to tell much about anybody from a text or a pic fussy or not |
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"I’ve been on here for several months now and still haven’t got a first fab , I don’t get why it’s so hard to meet on here it may be your approach who knows, I find this an easy site to get meets "
meets that dont verify you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve been on here for several months now and still haven’t got a first fab , I don’t get why it’s so hard to meet on here it may be your approach who knows, I find this an easy site to get meets meets that dont verify you "
I don't and won't publish verifications they mean nothing to me ha I appreciate some need them mind to keep a tally ha |
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"I’ve been on here for several months now and still haven’t got a first fab , I don’t get why it’s so hard to meet on here it may be your approach who knows, I find this an easy site to get meets meets that dont verify you I don't and won't publish verifications they mean nothing to me ha I appreciate some need them mind to keep a tally ha"
Not so much to keep a tally but they are a good indicator of if someone is an arm chair swinger or if they actually meet. Especially if they have absolutely no veris. A well veried profile says alot about a person. |
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"I’ve been on here for several months now and still haven’t got a first fab , I don’t get why it’s so hard to meet on here it may be your approach who knows, I find this an easy site to get meets meets that dont verify you I don't and won't publish verifications they mean nothing to me ha I appreciate some need them mind to keep a tally ha"
You can have a verification summary, not show the actual verifications. If someone has been on the site as long as you have and don't have any verifications, I'll assume that they are just a picture collector who won't actually meet me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s not only single men who struggle on here over the last few months we have put posts up on meet today and been a waste of time . Would say maybe we are ugly but never had a problem playing in clubs even with much younger cpls |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve been on here for several months now and still haven’t got a first fab , I don’t get why it’s so hard to meet on here it may be your approach who knows, I find this an easy site to get meets meets that dont verify you I don't and won't publish verifications they mean nothing to me ha I appreciate some need them mind to keep a tally ha
Not so much to keep a tally but they are a good indicator of if someone is an arm chair swinger or if they actually meet. Especially if they have absolutely no veris. A well veried profile says alot about a person. "
yes it does I agree but as you well know two sides to every theory |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
To us, if there is a consistent theme running though the verifications it is a good indicator to the people they are.
My theory is, “if you want to meet people, put the effort in and go to where they are, don’t expect them to come running to you”. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve been on here for several months now and still haven’t got a first fab , I don’t get why it’s so hard to meet on here "
Months? I have been here years, also on my male profile. I do get meets, but not many. I don't like the club scene as I am not a performing seal. I am also on other sites for my trans side. And I a on dating sites as a guy and get dates. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are a couple looking for just one FB. That said, we are a bit fussy about who that is and therefore we would insist on one or meets in a public environment to see if we all get along.
When contact is established here on Fab, the person(s) often disappear off the Radar before a meet can be arranged. Afraid to say that most of the effort has to made by them.
That said, 90% of the men here are either married, want a shag and want it NOW, or are simply not fussy what they shag and willing to travel
Hey if you're seriously into the life why spend so much time just meet for a social, youre not going to tell much about anybody from a text or a pic fussy or not "
Do not blame us!
We do meet for a socials, but generally the chap doesn't stay around long enough to exchange details.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve been on here for several months now and still haven’t got a first fab , I don’t get why it’s so hard to meet on here "
I think for some people the thought of meeting up and talking about it is a turn on for them even though they don't plan on it. It's happened to me a couple of time. We arranged a date and time, I'll will text them on the day and will get no reply until a week later and they pretend we never agreed to meet, it can be annoying |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ve been on here for several months now and still haven’t got a first fab , I don’t get why it’s so hard to meet on here
I think for some people the thought of meeting up and talking about it is a turn on for them even though they don't plan on it. It's happened to me a couple of time. We arranged a date and time, I'll will text them on the day and will get no reply until a week later and they pretend we never agreed to meet, it can be annoying "
I literally got that same sorta thing on Saturday-_- |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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I am always interested in people who start this threads.. Because I am a great believer in that you are the best person to sell you
I will say this in regards to the op
Went through the profile and if I was a couple or a single fem I would have no idea if I was what you were after
Reason being You don’t mention them at all... it’s all you 
Sometimes you have to help yourself help yourself... assuming your potential audience are mind readers isn’t helping yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve been on here for several months now and still haven’t got a first fab , I don’t get why it’s so hard to meet on here "
Because the guys outnumber the couples and single girls by 10 to 1
And with most couples having jobs / families - they only have limited time for meets.
We , for example can only meet every other weekend and mainly on a Friday and have meets planned way in advance x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve been on here for several months now and still haven’t got a first fab , I don’t get why it’s so hard to meet on here "
It is hard to generate any interest or meets on here. Not having any veri's can stand in your way but I found it quite amusing to find that some ladies that were communicating then fell away once the veris started to emerge. They didn't approve it seems  Meeting nor travelling or accomodating is an issue for me but lets be honest most people both male and female don't want to travel miles and want or need extra things to sort, everyone wants that local fwb, but unfortunately most ladies are inundated and aren't really that bothered about any newbies especially us chaps unfortunately. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve been on here for several months now and still haven’t got a first fab , I don’t get why it’s so hard to meet on here
Because the guys outnumber the couples and single girls by 10 to 1
And with most couples having jobs / families - they only have limited time for meets.
We , for example can only meet every other weekend and mainly on a Friday and have meets planned way in advance x"
spot on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Coz your male,like all the other males,if you like cock,you'll get loads of meets ,but finding couples for a single male,you'd be better off looking for gold in your local pond lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Try some better clearer pictures just saying
Good luck
Speak for yourself
Asking for advice, then being rude..... showing your true colours here OP "
I’m just sayinnggg speaking about pictures ain’t being clear but isn’t clear on the other end ? Pretty rich tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Try some better clearer pictures just saying
Good luck
Speak for yourself
Asking for advice, then being rude..... showing your true colours here OP
I’m just sayinnggg speaking about pictures ain’t being clear but isn’t clear on the other end ? Pretty rich tbh "
Yes, but she’s not asking for advice, unlike you OP. |
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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago
Filthy Desires Upon Trent |
"Try some better clearer pictures just saying
Good luck
Speak for yourself "
No need for that. The lady was giving advice.
And no wonder you’re not getting any meets.
That attitude would certainly put us off
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By *weberMan
over a year ago
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"I’ve been on here for several months now and still haven’t got a first fab , I don’t get why it’s so hard to meet on here it may be your approach who knows, I find this an easy site to get meets "
Says the man with no verifications |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ve been on here for several months now and still haven’t got a first fab , I don’t get why it’s so hard to meet on here it may be your approach who knows, I find this an easy site to get meets
Says the man with no verifications "
How am I Gunna get verified if I’ve not met anyone on fab to verify me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve been on here for several months now and still haven’t got a first fab , I don’t get why it’s so hard to meet on here it may be your approach who knows, I find this an easy site to get meets
Says the man with no verifications
How am I Gunna get verified if I’ve not met anyone on fab to verify me "
Dunno
But I doubt this thread has done you any favours |
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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago
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"I’ve been on here for several months now and still haven’t got a first fab , I don’t get why it’s so hard to meet on here it may be your approach who knows, I find this an easy site to get meets
Says the man with no verifications
How am I Gunna get verified if I’ve not met anyone on fab to verify me "
Try getting on Cam. You may get lucky. But remain respectful.
Too many entitled Single guys spoil it for the REAL Swingers on this Site |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ve been on here for several months now and still haven’t got a first fab , I don’t get why it’s so hard to meet on here it may be your approach who knows, I find this an easy site to get meets
Says the man with no verifications
How am I Gunna get verified if I’ve not met anyone on fab to verify me
Alright
Try getting on Cam. You may get lucky. But remain respectful.
Too many entitled Single guys spoil it for the REAL Swingers on this Site"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ve been on here for several months now and still haven’t got a first fab , I don’t get why it’s so hard to meet on here it may be your approach who knows, I find this an easy site to get meets
Says the man with no verifications
How am I Gunna get verified if I’ve not met anyone on fab to verify me
Alright
Alright
Try getting on Cam. You may get lucky. But remain respectful.
Too many entitled Single guys spoil it for the REAL Swingers on this Site"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think we make it harder for ourselves than it actually is.
Couples are hard because it requires us both to be attracted.
And if we're honest most couples are carried by the female (No exception here  )
Singles males never seem to have the full package. E.g great body etc but shit personality.
Single ladies.. Don't exist 
Adam |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think we make it harder for ourselves than it actually is.
Couples are hard because it requires us both to be attracted.
And if we're honest most couples are carried by the female (No exception here )
Singles males never seem to have the full package. E.g great body etc but shit personality.
Single ladies.. Don't exist
Adam "
Are you saying I have a shit body or shit personality  |
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"Think we make it harder for ourselves than it actually is.
Couples are hard because it requires us both to be attracted.
And if we're honest most couples are carried by the female (No exception here )
Singles males never seem to have the full package. E.g great body etc but shit personality.
Single ladies.. Don't exist
Adam "
Bollocks on a few counts there Adam! 
Firstly - I’ve met quite a lot of single males who are/have the full package!
Secondly - you’re both hot - neither of you carries the other!
Thirdly - I’m definitely single and last time I looked I was definitely a female - though a somewhat ancient one!
Peachy xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think we make it harder for ourselves than it actually is.
Couples are hard because it requires us both to be attracted.
And if we're honest most couples are carried by the female (No exception here )
Singles males never seem to have the full package. E.g great body etc but shit personality.
Single ladies.. Don't exist
Adam "
they do   but they avoid pushy couples where the account is controlled by the guy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think we make it harder for ourselves than it actually is.
Couples are hard because it requires us both to be attracted.
And if we're honest most couples are carried by the female (No exception here )
Singles males never seem to have the full package. E.g great body etc but shit personality.
Single ladies.. Don't exist
Adam
Are you saying I have a shit body or shit personality "
Neither.. I've told you before, your penis is just far too big.
Adam. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think we make it harder for ourselves than it actually is.
Couples are hard because it requires us both to be attracted.
And if we're honest most couples are carried by the female (No exception here )
Singles males never seem to have the full package. E.g great body etc but shit personality.
Single ladies.. Don't exist
Adam
Bollocks on a few counts there Adam!
Firstly - I’ve met quite a lot of single males who are/have the full package!
Secondly - you’re both hot - neither of you carries the other!
Thirdly - I’m definitely single and last time I looked I was definitely a female - though a somewhat ancient one!
Peachy xx"
Hey peachy.. not gunna lie kinda like a telling off 
On a serious note, I'm picky when it comes to guys. Eve is my world only the worthy can touch.
And you know I'll get my hands on you one day
Adam. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think we make it harder for ourselves than it actually is.
Couples are hard because it requires us both to be attracted.
And if we're honest most couples are carried by the female (No exception here )
Singles males never seem to have the full package. E.g great body etc but shit personality.
Single ladies.. Don't exist
Adam
Are you saying I have a shit body or shit personality
Neither.. I've told you before, your penis is just far too big.
Adam. "
Don't worry Adam, Eve can hold your hand, you can take it big boy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think we make it harder for ourselves than it actually is.
Couples are hard because it requires us both to be attracted.
And if we're honest most couples are carried by the female (No exception here )
Singles males never seem to have the full package. E.g great body etc but shit personality.
Single ladies.. Don't exist
Adam they do but they avoid pushy couples where the account is controlled by the guy "
Yeah.. I bet them kind of couples are a nightmare
Adam |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think we make it harder for ourselves than it actually is.
Couples are hard because it requires us both to be attracted.
And if we're honest most couples are carried by the female (No exception here )
Singles males never seem to have the full package. E.g great body etc but shit personality.
Single ladies.. Don't exist
Adam
Are you saying I have a shit body or shit personality
Neither.. I've told you before, your penis is just far too big.
Adam.
Don't worry Adam, Eve can hold your hand, you can take it big boy "
Wouldn't even touch the sides.
It's your superior thighs that scare me
Adam. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think we make it harder for ourselves than it actually is.
Couples are hard because it requires us both to be attracted.
And if we're honest most couples are carried by the female (No exception here )
Singles males never seem to have the full package. E.g great body etc but shit personality.
Single ladies.. Don't exist
Adam
Are you saying I have a shit body or shit personality
Neither.. I've told you before, your penis is just far too big.
Adam.
Don't worry Adam, Eve can hold your hand, you can take it big boy
Wouldn't even touch the sides.
It's your superior thighs that scare me
Adam. "
Oh don't be like that I'll be gentle...at first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Once you have a verification things will improve for you. Ask someone for a quick hello nothing else. My circumstances make it difficult but some prefer me discretion is guaranteed. Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think we make it harder for ourselves than it actually is.
Couples are hard because it requires us both to be attracted.
And if we're honest most couples are carried by the female (No exception here )
Singles males never seem to have the full package. E.g great body etc but shit personality.
Single ladies.. Don't exist
Adam "
I’m definitely single and I exist. |
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