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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Basically I love the thought of getting into the swinging scene as a couple with my girlfriend but I don’t know how to bring up the subject and how to go around asking her... I’d really love too see her getting pleasured by another bloke whilst she’s looking me in the eyes.
Any help would be grateful guys and gals xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are dozens of forum threads on this.
Generally it is summarised as talk honestly to the lady.
It is usually followed up with, none of us know her whereas you (one assumes) do.
Someone will always suggest showing her your profile, this is clearly facetious.
I have yet to see one followed up with “hey guys, thanks for the advice, this is our new couple profile, let me introduce my girlfriend who is keen to explore the lifestyle with me as a couple” - odd that  |
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How long have you been together? Are you able to talk about fantasies easily?
Work on emotional communication so that you both feel secure in each other then work on sexual communication. Once you've established a strong relationship in those respects bringing up the subject of swinging will be easy. It doesn't guarantee she'll say yes though. |
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Swinging is usually something that develops slowly, like discussing fantasies then role play just the 2 of you like her sucking a dildo while you take her if she enjoys it move onto her fucking a dildo while you talk dirty with her she will become relaxed it that taboo scenario and open up if she likes it too.
When we first started going to swinger clubs we liked being watched only, a huge thrill at first, but we found swinging to be a bit like a drug needing to go further after a while you need a more daring swinging experience to get that same thrill until next thing you know only a room full of couples in an orgy or 2 studs spit roasting your wife will generate the sane thrill
Basically it's unlikely you will go straight into watching another guy fuck your Mrs or even have success asking that question out of the blue and her saying yes great idea |
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