"Struggling to find a coupe we are both attracted to rather than the sharing aspect I think. "
We were the other way round. We started off full swop and transitioned to soft swing.
I find I need to be just as attracted for soft swing though. |
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By *ipi2001Couple
over a year ago
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Full swap is better... The point is to find the right couple. Attraction is important... But also a couple who intends playing considering all people involved.its a combination difficult to find. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Struggling. x"
Be happy with soft play for now. Let it come naturally, if it don't then it's fine. We are in same place and both say we will "know" when time is right |
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What helped us was going with the energy rather than initial attraction.
When it feels amazing and smoothly flows, just go with what feels right at the time.
Lots of conversation, make sure you both are clear on your boundaries of it happens and ultimately enjoy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If soft play is same room and playing with own partner, what is it if you same room swap partners but just for kissing, masturbation and oral but no penetration? |
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