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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

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By *andonmessMan over a year ago

A world all of his own

The times that I've been in a relationship I've come off of here as they've been vanilla relationships.

As for open/swinging relationships I'm not sure. It's not that I'm jealous, far from it, just that it's not really my thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I’ll just mind my own business

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

I just hang around for the forums

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well if I end my 3 year single lifestyle and do end up in a relationship I’d think it would be with someone who’s open to at least try the fab lifestyle.

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

I would see how things develop with that person. I can't see myself not being part of the "not so secret world of swinging" for the foreseeable future

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

Yup, we were both singles on Fab before

Still working on how swinging and Fab will fit in to our relationship though.

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By *ools47Woman over a year ago

Failsworth

I can't do monogamy, I get bored to easily and need variety. So I guess an open relationship if I was looking for a relationship is what I would want.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Depends on how and what unfolded. I am a loyal and caring guy. So I would do what was needed for the person I am with. Would I give it up? I guess i would yes... If i ever fall in love again then that will be what rules the decision. If i meet someone who is in or open to this life then all the better... Sounds a bit of a cop out but we are who we are.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would close my account and wait for her to fall in Love with me. Then come back as a couple....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Definitely want to swing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd hide my profile and see what happens with the guy. if it goes well I'll delete. I like monogamy in a relationship.

that said, no desire to be in a relationship

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Interesting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No, I wouldn't continue using fab

I very much like the concept of monogamy in a relationship

And there's no way I'd date someone I met here

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"And there's no way I'd date someone I met here"

Why not?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And there's no way I'd date someone I met here

Why not?"

It's unlikely we would be compatible in regards to an actual relationship

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm on the cusp of shutting up my Fab shop anyway. I've always said if I found someone special I'd leave in a heartbeat. But now I'm a little confused as to whether I even want what's here anymore anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think you'll find that quite a few of the 'single' guys on here aren't actually single at all.

So i suppose that kind of answers your question ?

The forums are full of people forgetting they are single and mentioning a wife...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer monogamy just because I'm quite insecure in a relationship due to previous experiences. And although some healthy jealousy on your partner's side of okay, I think my job is enough to contend with for a bloke

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I prefer monogamy just because I'm quite insecure in a relationship due to previous experiences. And although some healthy jealousy on your partner's side of okay, I think my job is enough to contend with for a bloke

You’re insecure? Don’t know what for

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By *he Mac LassWoman over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Yes

Um. Unsure

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You’re insecure? Don’t know what for

Oh insanely so my darling, i tend to internalize it a lot but my anxiety shoots through the roof x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It would be up to her but I wouldn't be ok with her meeting guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

You’re insecure? Don’t know what for

Oh insanely so my darling, i tend to internalize it a lot but my anxiety shoots through the roof x

I was singing one direction to you

And I know honey. Some men are shitty. You’ll find someone worthy of you (that don’t try and catfish you and pretend to be their pal or whatever) xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I just don't want a relationship full stop.. it starts off great but goes down hill and I get bored

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You’re insecure? Don’t know what for

Oh insanely so my darling, i tend to internalize it a lot but my anxiety shoots through the roof x

I was singing one direction to you

And I know honey. Some men are shitty. You’ll find someone worthy of you (that don’t try and catfish you and pretend to be their pal or whatever) xx"

Ahahahaha

can you imagine if I'd said yes to the photo id seen and the other turned up..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm only here for the forums at the best of times however id probably not come on

If i met someone. I've no desire for a swinging relationship

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It would be up to her but I wouldn't be ok with her meeting guys

I was meeting with a guy who I discovered was in a relationship with a baby due this month (this was a few months ago). I obviously called the whole thing off with him when he told me but I try my hardest to be understanding so we were chatting. I asked if he’d be happy in an open relationship like I am, and he said that he would if his partner didn’t play

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would be off here in a serious relationship. I wouldn't want to be in an open relationship to start.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It would be up to her but I wouldn't be ok with her meeting guys

I would have no issue with my partner playing with other girls, on her own or wuth me but other guys are a no no

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

I would still chat to friends and use the forum, but until I'm in that situation and depending on how and where I met someone and how it all developed I have no idea to the rest.

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By *OCK FOR FREE HIREMan over a year ago

Hove

Its all about trust im honest and open I want a woman like that so id be open in what I wanted in a relationship no point bring in it if you can't give each other what you want thats why affairs happen on the first place

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By *igh Tower69Man over a year ago

Luton

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

I would continue using fab until the relationship became serious and only if she didn't want to get involved. But whichever way i would always be open and not hide anything... I would create a couple account too though. Haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I doubt very much I will bother wasting my time with another relationship... but if I did I can't so monogamy so I'd still be here.

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By *lick9Man over a year ago

Stockport

yep I have met someone on fab and it was supposed to be just a quick fuck. A year later we are in a relationship and swing together and separately. I don't think I could do a vanilla relationship now as its far to much fun and a big turn on swinging, don't you think ?

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

I hid my profile when I was seeing someone from here. But we had a couples profile anyway.

In theory I'd like to meet someone from here and carry on

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By *ana_nana_MATTMAN!Man over a year ago

Haywood Village, Weston-super-Mare

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

I would most likely come off, but if I did decide to stay just for the forums, I would change up my profile and remove the pics of my wang.

I'm strictly monogamous when in a relationship, which would probably make it unlikely (though not impossible) to find someone from here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Depends who I had the relationship with. If he wanted monogamy I can deal with that. If he wanted us to have other people sexually, I can deal with that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

Id happily date someone i met on fab if i was in a relationship id stay on fab just for the forums and if she was keen on swinging id be glad to show her the site if askes i use fab like i use Facebook

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

From reading how other couples find it hard to find what they want on here, I don't think it would be worth having a couples profile on here.

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By *ormalBlokeIncMan over a year ago

Preston,Blackpool,Blackburn

Good question. PM sent.

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By *ormalBlokeIncMan over a year ago

Preston,Blackpool,Blackburn

Good question. PM sent.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We met at clubf, entered into a relationship 10 days later agreeing that we wanted to carry on swinging but put rules and boundaries in. One being 100% honest 100% of the time. We very quickly stopped playing singley and only play as a couple. It’s worked really well for us and we’re now living together and get married in September. We have discussed going vanilla once we’re married though because neither of us know if we’ll feel different sharing a spouse rather than a partner. It’s a lot different

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By *iamondCougarWoman over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I'd hide my profile and see what happens with the guy. if it goes well I'll delete. I like monogamy in a relationship.

that said, no desire to be in a relationship "

same here!

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By *oodnitegirlWoman over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I can't do monogamy, I get bored to easily and need variety. So I guess an open relationship if I was looking for a relationship is what I would want."

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd hide my profile and see what happens with the guy. if it goes well I'll delete. I like monogamy in a relationship.

that said, no desire to be in a relationship

same here!"

I agree, however my last relationship was with a fellow fabber, both deleted our profiles, but I couldn't stay away missed the chat

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It would be dependent on the person.

I'd be open to a relationship with someone from here that I could have a swinging relationship with.

I would also be happy to go into a monogamous relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not sure - it would depend on the person.

I doubt I'll have a conventional relationship with anyone again - but I never say never

Monogomy is fine with me but the rest of the stuff that comes with a traditional relationship isn't.

I have no desire to be involved with anyone else's family or kids or live with anyone.

I would love a relationship without the baggage - someone to go out with - maybe swing together if it feels right.

I miss intimacy not someone else's laundry

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not sure - it would depend on the person.

I doubt I'll have a conventional relationship with anyone again - but I never say never

Monogomy is fine with me but the rest of the stuff that comes with a traditional relationship isn't.

I have no desire to be involved with anyone else's family or kids or live with anyone.

I would love a relationship without the baggage - someone to go out with - maybe swing together if it feels right.

I miss intimacy not someone else's laundry

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would have no issue with my partner playing with other girls, on her own or wuth me but other guys are a no no

Classic have cake and eat it then ... or are we to presume you would equally only play with your own sex and refrain from playing with women

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By *iSTARessWoman over a year ago

London

Yes to all. Pandora's box has been opened and don't think I could do monogamy again.

What baffles me is single guys I know from here and elsewhere say they're happy to fuck around as a single guy but would never be in an open swing relationship

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

When I date, I don’t meet off here. I tend to hide my profile. My dates tend to not go well enough to warrant deleting my profile. I could quite happily have an open relationship. It’s all about honesty for me. I told my buddy I’m on here. He’s now on here too.

So many questions, I’m so nosey

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I would have no issue with my partner playing with other girls, on her own or wuth me but other guys are a no no

Classic have cake and eat it then ... or are we to presume you would equally only play with your own sex and refrain from playing with women

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's no way I'd date someone I met on here

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

Met my other half on here. We went to clubs together but issues arose from that. He's not been back on Fab, I pop in now and then for the forums.

We're both free to see others...neither of us has to inform the other, only "rule" which we don't really need to voice is safe sex at all times.

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By *iamondCougarWoman over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I'm not sure - it would depend on the person.

I doubt I'll have a conventional relationship with anyone again - but I never say never

Monogomy is fine with me but the rest of the stuff that comes with a traditional relationship isn't.

I have no desire to be involved with anyone else's family or kids or live with anyone.

I would love a relationship without the baggage - someone to go out with - maybe swing together if it feels right.

I miss intimacy not someone else's laundry

And cooking, decision making, whiskers in the sink, grumpy moods, ...... blah blah blah

Don’t miss a relationship at all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

Im only on Fab because i am single. If i meet the right girl, this site stops instantly for me.

If i meet a girl who is into swinging, she's not for me either. Im the jealous type and can no way share my girlfriend with anyone. Unless shes into just women

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

Im only on Fab because i am single. If i meet the right girl, this site stops instantly for me.

If i meet a girl who is into swinging, she's not for me either. Im the jealous type and can no way share my girlfriend with anyone. Unless shes into just women

Why only if she’s into women?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would get into a relationship with a single guy from Fab.

However, if we get on extremely well and serious feeling develop, I'd want us both to delete this site and concentrate upon building our relationship.

If within the future, we decide Fab is still for us, I'd consider both of us rejoining as a couple or have seperate profiles.

I'm quite openminded and rather not have a boring sex life with a future partner....if it becomes boring.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ll happily date someone in the scene and see where it leads.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

I need a woman who's compatible with me sexually and ticks those boxes... this would come before everything else when determining whether I want a relationship with her. This is why I don't really use conventional dating sites.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

It would depend, it's not a question I can answer until I actually met someone, but I really can't see me ever having a traditional monogamous relationship again.

I'd definitely say right now, an open relationship suits me best, and if it was someone I met through here, then yes, if the trust & respect was there then a swinging thing would be cool.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not sure how jealous I would feel if it was someone I loved...wouldn’t know until it happened.

I’d be open to finding someone off here though...I want to find someone like minded and open minded and I think most people are on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

Im only on Fab because i am single. If i meet the right girl, this site stops instantly for me.

If i meet a girl who is into swinging, she's not for me either. Im the jealous type and can no way share my girlfriend with anyone. Unless shes into just women

Why only if she’s into women? "

Quite simple... i dont see her playing with women as a threat and its something that i cant get jealous about.

There is no way i can sit back and watch my girlfriend/wife being pleasured or fucked by another guy. No way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

I would like to continue using fab

I would love to continue swinging as a couple with a new partner

I had an open relationship before so would be happy to again if they wanted

I would love to date someone from fab.

It would also solve the problem of crossdressing.

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By *aven RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

I hope when I do finally grow up and settle down it will be with someone from this lifestyle. An open relationship where we both also swing together would be ideal. If it happens, it happens. If not, then we shall see what my future holds for me x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

Im only on Fab because i am single. If i meet the right girl, this site stops instantly for me.

If i meet a girl who is into swinging, she's not for me either. Im the jealous type and can no way share my girlfriend with anyone. Unless shes into just women

Why only if she’s into women?

Quite simple... i dont see her playing with women as a threat and its something that i cant get jealous about.

There is no way i can sit back and watch my girlfriend/wife being pleasured or fucked by another guy. No way"

Makes me wonder what your impression of women on here is.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I stayed on here. Don't meet. We go to clubs together occasionally but having been involved in the scene for best part of 10 years as a single and a couple I enjoy just being on the fringes.

That said I was so absorbed in this and the kink lifestyle if you'd have asked me I'd have said there was no way I could pretty much walk away from it but I don't miss it

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

Im only on Fab because i am single. If i meet the right girl, this site stops instantly for me.

If i meet a girl who is into swinging, she's not for me either. Im the jealous type and can no way share my girlfriend with anyone. Unless shes into just women

Why only if she’s into women? "

Then he could have a threesome..win/win...for him!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

"
I've dated and had relationships and would again, I like the chatroom / forum so doesn't affect whether I'm here or not

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

Im only on Fab because i am single. If i meet the right girl, this site stops instantly for me.

If i meet a girl who is into swinging, she's not for me either. Im the jealous type and can no way share my girlfriend with anyone. Unless shes into just women

Why only if she’s into women?

Quite simple... i dont see her playing with women as a threat and its something that i cant get jealous about.

There is no way i can sit back and watch my girlfriend/wife being pleasured or fucked by another guy. No way"

Yet you have no qualms about fucking other mens wives. No doubt about how you feel about them then.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

Im only on Fab because i am single. If i meet the right girl, this site stops instantly for me.

If i meet a girl who is into swinging, she's not for me either. Im the jealous type and can no way share my girlfriend with anyone. Unless shes into just women

Why only if she’s into women?

Quite simple... i dont see her playing with women as a threat and its something that i cant get jealous about.

There is no way i can sit back and watch my girlfriend/wife being pleasured or fucked by another guy. No way"

If that's the case surely it's more an insecurity around your own sexual abilities rather than jealousy?

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

Im only on Fab because i am single. If i meet the right girl, this site stops instantly for me.

If i meet a girl who is into swinging, she's not for me either. Im the jealous type and can no way share my girlfriend with anyone. Unless shes into just women

Why only if she’s into women?

Quite simple... i dont see her playing with women as a threat and its something that i cant get jealous about.

There is no way i can sit back and watch my girlfriend/wife being pleasured or fucked by another guy. No way

Makes me wonder what your impression of women on here is."

Nothing to wonder.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

It depends on the person I met. If it was something which built off of a meeting on fab, possibly. If we both desired to watch each other and enjoy that lifestyle.

If I met someone off of fabs who wasn’t keen on the scene, then no.

Why you looking for a partner in crime?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

Im only on Fab because i am single. If i meet the right girl, this site stops instantly for me.

If i meet a girl who is into swinging, she's not for me either. Im the jealous type and can no way share my girlfriend with anyone. Unless shes into just women

Why only if she’s into women?

Quite simple... i dont see her playing with women as a threat and its something that i cant get jealous about.

There is no way i can sit back and watch my girlfriend/wife being pleasured or fucked by another guy. No way

Yet you have no qualms about fucking other mens wives. No doubt about how you feel about them then."

Yeah but there's different roolz for men.

Didnt you know that?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

Im only on Fab because i am single. If i meet the right girl, this site stops instantly for me.

If i meet a girl who is into swinging, she's not for me either. Im the jealous type and can no way share my girlfriend with anyone. Unless shes into just women

Why only if she’s into women?

Quite simple... i dont see her playing with women as a threat and its something that i cant get jealous about.

There is no way i can sit back and watch my girlfriend/wife being pleasured or fucked by another guy. No way

Makes me wonder what your impression of women on here is."

Your question is somewhat unfair. Im not one to judge as for a lot of profiles on here, choose to be on here because its a lifestyle they live.

All I am saying and have admitted to; is that once I meet a girl or in years to come marry. The swinging lifestyle is clearly not for me. Im get far too jealous and can no way share my gf/wife with any guy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

Im only on Fab because i am single. If i meet the right girl, this site stops instantly for me.

If i meet a girl who is into swinging, she's not for me either. Im the jealous type and can no way share my girlfriend with anyone. Unless shes into just women

Why only if she’s into women?

Quite simple... i dont see her playing with women as a threat and its something that i cant get jealous about.

There is no way i can sit back and watch my girlfriend/wife being pleasured or fucked by another guy. No way

Makes me wonder what your impression of women on here is."

This is the same guy who said on another thread he’d kick his son out, so basically make him homeless, if he wore makeup.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

I use a couple if dating sites as well, when I'm dating I always tell them about the swinging, if they want to join in I do that, if there not interested I delete my fab account (I lose my veri's and have to start again). I would and have dated a woman from fab and I've also introduced 3 women to swing ing from dating sites.

I've found if I'm honest from the start it's normally not a problem and most women are at least curious enough to ask a load of questions

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I was wanting to date at the moment, I’d be open to dating someone from Fab. I find most are far more open minded & experimental here which is what I’d want.

I’d probably speak with my partner first about it before continuing to use but it’d definitely be an interest for me, so he’d need to be into it too, or at least intrigued by the idea then I can persuade him in many ways!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

Im only on Fab because i am single. If i meet the right girl, this site stops instantly for me.

If i meet a girl who is into swinging, she's not for me either. Im the jealous type and can no way share my girlfriend with anyone. Unless shes into just women

Why only if she’s into women?

Quite simple... i dont see her playing with women as a threat and its something that i cant get jealous about.

There is no way i can sit back and watch my girlfriend/wife being pleasured or fucked by another guy. No way

Makes me wonder what your impression of women on here is.

This is the same guy who said on another thread he’d kick his son out, so basically make him homeless, if he wore makeup.

Yes that is the same guy. That's me and stand by my comment. Its how i feel and im being open and honest about it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

Im only on Fab because i am single. If i meet the right girl, this site stops instantly for me.

If i meet a girl who is into swinging, she's not for me either. Im the jealous type and can no way share my girlfriend with anyone. Unless shes into just women

Why only if she’s into women?

Quite simple... i dont see her playing with women as a threat and its something that i cant get jealous about.

There is no way i can sit back and watch my girlfriend/wife being pleasured or fucked by another guy. No way

Makes me wonder what your impression of women on here is.

This is the same guy who said on another thread he’d kick his son out, so basically make him homeless, if he wore makeup.

Yes that is the same guy. That's me and stand by my comment. Its how i feel and im being open and honest about it. "

I know you’re the same guy.

That’s what the green arrow is for.

I was making other people aware so they can see you probably don’t think that much of people & their choices if they don’t match yours.

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By *ickygirl41Woman over a year ago

Glasgow

Would depend on the person, I'm not looking for a relationship but if one happened either from someone I met here or from someone else I'd want to discuss whether it was open or swinging etc

Wouldn't cheat or sneak tho.

It's just a recipe for pain and angst imo.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

Im only on Fab because i am single. If i meet the right girl, this site stops instantly for me.

If i meet a girl who is into swinging, she's not for me either. Im the jealous type and can no way share my girlfriend with anyone. Unless shes into just women

Why only if she’s into women?

Quite simple... i dont see her playing with women as a threat and its something that i cant get jealous about.

There is no way i can sit back and watch my girlfriend/wife being pleasured or fucked by another guy. No way

Makes me wonder what your impression of women on here is.

This is the same guy who said on another thread he’d kick his son out, so basically make him homeless, if he wore makeup.

Yes that is the same guy. That's me and stand by my comment. Its how i feel and im being open and honest about it.

I know you’re the same guy.

That’s what the green arrow is for.

I was making other people aware so they can see you probably don’t think that much of people & their choices if they don’t match yours. "

Everyone has preferences Chanelle as im sure you do to. Some people shy away from commenting, others lie about what they say just to keep the majority happy but I don't shy away from anything. I say It how i see it and share my personal opinion. Many will dislike what i say but some will nod and say fair play.

We all have opinions and i dont mind sharing mine in public. Doesn't make me a bad person though. Does it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

Im only on Fab because i am single. If i meet the right girl, this site stops instantly for me.

If i meet a girl who is into swinging, she's not for me either. Im the jealous type and can no way share my girlfriend with anyone. Unless shes into just women

Why only if she’s into women?

Quite simple... i dont see her playing with women as a threat and its something that i cant get jealous about.

There is no way i can sit back and watch my girlfriend/wife being pleasured or fucked by another guy. No way

Makes me wonder what your impression of women on here is.

This is the same guy who said on another thread he’d kick his son out, so basically make him homeless, if he wore makeup.

Yes that is the same guy. That's me and stand by my comment. Its how i feel and im being open and honest about it.

I know you’re the same guy.

That’s what the green arrow is for.

I was making other people aware so they can see you probably don’t think that much of people & their choices if they don’t match yours.

We all have opinions and i dont mind sharing mine in public. Doesn't make me a bad person though. Does it?"

I don't think it makes you a bad person.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

Im only on Fab because i am single. If i meet the right girl, this site stops instantly for me.

If i meet a girl who is into swinging, she's not for me either. Im the jealous type and can no way share my girlfriend with anyone. Unless shes into just women

Why only if she’s into women?

Quite simple... i dont see her playing with women as a threat and its something that i cant get jealous about.

There is no way i can sit back and watch my girlfriend/wife being pleasured or fucked by another guy. No way

Makes me wonder what your impression of women on here is.

This is the same guy who said on another thread he’d kick his son out, so basically make him homeless, if he wore makeup.

Yes that is the same guy. That's me and stand by my comment. Its how i feel and im being open and honest about it.

I know you’re the same guy.

That’s what the green arrow is for.

I was making other people aware so they can see you probably don’t think that much of people & their choices if they don’t match yours.

We all have opinions and i dont mind sharing mine in public. Doesn't make me a bad person though. Does it?"

I haven't seen the thread and dont know the context but threatening to throw your son out on to the streets for nothing more than wearing make up - I'd hardly say that makes you sound like a good person does it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

Im only on Fab because i am single. If i meet the right girl, this site stops instantly for me.

If i meet a girl who is into swinging, she's not for me either. Im the jealous type and can no way share my girlfriend with anyone. Unless shes into just women

Why only if she’s into women?

Quite simple... i dont see her playing with women as a threat and its something that i cant get jealous about.

There is no way i can sit back and watch my girlfriend/wife being pleasured or fucked by another guy. No way

Makes me wonder what your impression of women on here is.

This is the same guy who said on another thread he’d kick his son out, so basically make him homeless, if he wore makeup.

Yes that is the same guy. That's me and stand by my comment. Its how i feel and im being open and honest about it.

I know you’re the same guy.

That’s what the green arrow is for.

I was making other people aware so they can see you probably don’t think that much of people & their choices if they don’t match yours.

We all have opinions and i dont mind sharing mine in public. Doesn't make me a bad person though. Does it?"

Nobody said it makes you a bad person.

Everyone is entitled to an opinion, doesn’t mean we have to like the person giving the opinion or agree with it.

You are entitled to your opinion, as am I, and anyone else, we are also entitled to comment on it too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

Im only on Fab because i am single. If i meet the right girl, this site stops instantly for me.

If i meet a girl who is into swinging, she's not for me either. Im the jealous type and can no way share my girlfriend with anyone. Unless shes into just women

Why only if she’s into women?

Quite simple... i dont see her playing with women as a threat and its something that i cant get jealous about.

There is no way i can sit back and watch my girlfriend/wife being pleasured or fucked by another guy. No way

Makes me wonder what your impression of women on here is.

This is the same guy who said on another thread he’d kick his son out, so basically make him homeless, if he wore makeup.

Yes that is the same guy. That's me and stand by my comment. Its how i feel and im being open and honest about it.

I know you’re the same guy.

That’s what the green arrow is for.

I was making other people aware so they can see you probably don’t think that much of people & their choices if they don’t match yours.

We all have opinions and i dont mind sharing mine in public. Doesn't make me a bad person though. Does it?

Nobody said it makes you a bad person.

Everyone is entitled to an opinion, doesn’t mean we have to like the person giving the opinion or agree with it.

You are entitled to your opinion, as am I, and anyone else, we are also entitled to comment on it too.

indeed we all are

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

Im only on Fab because i am single. If i meet the right girl, this site stops instantly for me.

If i meet a girl who is into swinging, she's not for me either. Im the jealous type and can no way share my girlfriend with anyone. Unless shes into just women

Why only if she’s into women?

Quite simple... i dont see her playing with women as a threat and its something that i cant get jealous about.

There is no way i can sit back and watch my girlfriend/wife being pleasured or fucked by another guy. No way

Makes me wonder what your impression of women on here is.

This is the same guy who said on another thread he’d kick his son out, so basically make him homeless, if he wore makeup.

Yes that is the same guy. That's me and stand by my comment. Its how i feel and im being open and honest about it.

I know you’re the same guy.

That’s what the green arrow is for.

I was making other people aware so they can see you probably don’t think that much of people & their choices if they don’t match yours.

We all have opinions and i dont mind sharing mine in public. Doesn't make me a bad person though. Does it?

Indeed this was a different post, labelled "Pretty boys or Rugged men". Something on thise lines anyway.

Amongst the conversations shared, teenagers wearing make up was bought up. I expressed my opinion and said that if my 18 year old lad goy dressed to go out wearing make up and eye liner, he wouldnt have a roof to come home to

Very harsh i know but the community and background roots im from have standards and ways of being brought up. Grown men wearing make up doesn't have a place in mu home.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes I would still use fab but for meeting as a couple . I want an open relationship. So it makes sense to stay on here. However. This isn't the only site and its not the best . ??.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I met M on fab. I closed down my singles profile, and now we’re on here together. Got a little bucket list of fantasies we wanna fulfil.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

Im only on Fab because i am single. If i meet the right girl, this site stops instantly for me.

If i meet a girl who is into swinging, she's not for me either. Im the jealous type and can no way share my girlfriend with anyone. Unless shes into just women

Why only if she’s into women?

Quite simple... i dont see her playing with women as a threat and its something that i cant get jealous about.

There is no way i can sit back and watch my girlfriend/wife being pleasured or fucked by another guy. No way

Makes me wonder what your impression of women on here is.

This is the same guy who said on another thread he’d kick his son out, so basically make him homeless, if he wore makeup.

Yes that is the same guy. That's me and stand by my comment. Its how i feel and im being open and honest about it.

I know you’re the same guy.

That’s what the green arrow is for.

I was making other people aware so they can see you probably don’t think that much of people & their choices if they don’t match yours.

We all have opinions and i dont mind sharing mine in public. Doesn't make me a bad person though. Does it?

Indeed this was a different post, labelled "Pretty boys or Rugged men". Something on thise lines anyway.

Very harsh i know but the community and background roots im from have standards and ways of being brought up. Grown men wearing make up doesn't have a place in mu home.

Wow. Just. Wow. No words at all.

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By *limaxinnylonCouple over a year ago

CHESTER

Jon and I met and then started swinging together, he had played as a single guy before me but when he was in relationships he only had one girlfriend that he swung with other than that he was monogamous. He introduced me in to the lifestyle as I have always been a very sexual person but was in a controlling marriage for most of my adult life. We have very open conversations about what we want and what we want to see each other do and experience. I think we are closer than a lot of straight couples as they cannot discuss fantasies etc without their partner becoming jealous. Jon and I love each other very much but I love to see him pleasure another woman and he loves to see me pleasured by another guy or woman or both or at the same time!! Ha ha!! We have an amazing sex life between the two of us but we both enjoy the horny sexual encounters with other people. We don't love each other any less because of it, sex and love are two completly different things. There's no one I want to cuddle up to more than Jon, no one I want to go to dinner with, to have those daft little chats or laughing at stupid things with but we both enjoy naughty sex, simple! Ha!

Jayne xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

Im only on Fab because i am single. If i meet the right girl, this site stops instantly for me.

If i meet a girl who is into swinging, she's not for me either. Im the jealous type and can no way share my girlfriend with anyone. Unless shes into just women

Why only if she’s into women?

Quite simple... i dont see her playing with women as a threat and its something that i cant get jealous about.

There is no way i can sit back and watch my girlfriend/wife being pleasured or fucked by another guy. No way"

Wowza

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

Im only on Fab because i am single. If i meet the right girl, this site stops instantly for me.

If i meet a girl who is into swinging, she's not for me either. Im the jealous type and can no way share my girlfriend with anyone. Unless shes into just women

Why only if she’s into women?

Quite simple... i dont see her playing with women as a threat and its something that i cant get jealous about.

There is no way i can sit back and watch my girlfriend/wife being pleasured or fucked by another guy. No way

Makes me wonder what your impression of women on here is.

This is the same guy who said on another thread he’d kick his son out, so basically make him homeless, if he wore makeup.

Yes that is the same guy. That's me and stand by my comment. Its how i feel and im being open and honest about it.

I know you’re the same guy.

That’s what the green arrow is for.

I was making other people aware so they can see you probably don’t think that much of people & their choices if they don’t match yours.

We all have opinions and i dont mind sharing mine in public. Doesn't make me a bad person though. Does it?

Indeed this was a different post, labelled "Pretty boys or Rugged men". Something on thise lines anyway.

Very harsh i know but the community and background roots im from have standards and ways of being brought up. Grown men wearing make up doesn't have a place in mu home.

Wow. Just. Wow. No words at all. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

"
This is life we are real people, why wouldn't you date somebody you met here

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

This is life we are real people, why wouldn't you date somebody you met here

A few people have explained why

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

This is life we are real people, why wouldn't you date somebody you met here

A few people have explained why

"
I never read whole threads how boring

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's nothing wrong with monogamy; I'd be more than happy to only have sex with one man for the rest of my life.

I wouldn't tell him we had to swing together if he didn't want to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

I’d come off immediately, I’m not a swinger so wouldn’t be looking for an open relationship, I’m a one woman guy and I’d expect the same in return. I’m just here as a single guy looking for single girls. And yes, I’d date a girl I met on here if it felt right, why ever not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"There's nothing wrong with monogamy; I'd be more than happy to only have sex with one man for the rest of my life.

I wouldn't tell him we had to swing together if he didn't want to.

I married my husband thinking I would only be sleeping with him for the rest of my life. And I had only ever slept with him - and I was more than happy with that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's nothing wrong with monogamy; I'd be more than happy to only have sex with one man for the rest of my life.

I wouldn't tell him we had to swing together if he didn't want to.

I married my husband thinking I would only be sleeping with him for the rest of my life. And I had only ever slept with him - and I was more than happy with that

When I got married the thought of wanting another man never entered my head, and didn't until our marriage was long over.

Even people who have been swinging , or in my case, have had casual partners can meet someone and be content with that one person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"There's nothing wrong with monogamy; I'd be more than happy to only have sex with one man for the rest of my life.

I wouldn't tell him we had to swing together if he didn't want to.

I married my husband thinking I would only be sleeping with him for the rest of my life. And I had only ever slept with him - and I was more than happy with that

When I got married the thought of wanting another man never entered my head, and didn't until our marriage was long over.

Even people who have been swinging , or in my case, have had casual partners can meet someone and be content with that one person.

I totally agree. It never crossed my mind either

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman over a year ago

Hull

I’m open to meeting someone from here... however if it developed into a proper relationship I’m not sure if it would then become a proper ‘swinging’ relationship as such... I think I would want 1-1 only... unless it was a FMF birthday treat haha!?!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Completely come off Fab.

I'm only here to be honest until I find a new relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I could walk away tomorrow why you a backward glance. I'd probably miss the forums most, but if I and another made that decision together then it would have to be what both wanted ....

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By *inkynudeMan over a year ago

London

I’ve been in relationships and kept using fab, just not for meets. But I’d still come to lurk on the forums and the hot photos.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

[Removed by poster at 05/08/18 21:59:34]

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I could walk away tomorrow why you a backward glance. I'd probably miss the forums most, but if I and another made that decision together then it would have to be what both wanted ...."

Yup, I would walk away, it would be so much more important.

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By *tatMan over a year ago

Horrabridge

"I’m open to meeting someone from here... however if it developed into a proper relationship I’m not sure if it would then become a proper ‘swinging’ relationship as such... I think I would want 1-1 only... unless it was a FMF birthday treat haha!?!! "

This!!!

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By *edonistic Bi.Man over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

I met my fiancee on a hook up site.. we have both single and a couples profile on here.

We play together but as we both have links that the other is not keen on (she switches and I never sub for example) so we can seek play with others .

Any other questions. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’d happily give up fab if I met someone in the real world and put all this behind me but I’m also open to meeting a guy from here and making a go of things for real.

Who knows what the future holds x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd drop this shit hole like a hot turd

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd drop this shit hole like a hot turd"
lol don't mince your words

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By *..TheCurvyPetrolHead...Woman over a year ago

St Helens

It would depend where I met him.

If on here and we got into a relationship then I would hope we would delete single profiles and swing as a couple profile. This is what I want and I remain hopeful it will happen. Lovely to see soo many people who met on Fab. I want to be added to the "we met on Fab" demographic!

If I met someone away from fab and we became exclusive; this profile would be immediately deleted. Although that guy needs to be highly sexed! Haha. I would also on around the third date bring up that I've been to swingers clubs. He would either run a mile or get excited about the concept.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Yes I would stay on fab, but not meet. And I'd be honest about being on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes I would stay on fab, but not meet. And I'd be honest about being on here. "
honestly?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like the idea of a swinging relationship, not sure if I could handle the reality.

If it came down to a choice between monogamy and Fab, you wouldn't see me for dust.

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By *abloversCouple over a year ago

London

I like the fun of a Fab Relationship without all the laundry, the politics and stress of being in a relationship- Fab is my freedom to be who I was meant to be rather than someone’s wife, lover, mother etc.

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By *lanPartridgeMan over a year ago

nottingham

I think I could only have a relationship with a kinkster. I'm always impressed if a woman actively pursues the sensual life she wants.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well as people have Said depends on what you both need out of a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd drop this shit hole like a hot turd"

Lovely

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I'd drop this shit hole like a hot turd"

No one is forcing you to stay.

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By *uciyassMan over a year ago

Leeds

"I'd drop this shit hole like a hot turd"

Night see ya bye

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This "
that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Monogamy. I'd stay on to check up on the forum now and then but I'd have my problem hidden.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd drop this shit hole like a hot turd"

A lot of people on fab are not swingers at all just singles treating it like it’s a dating website ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Monogamy. I'd stay on to check up on the forum now and then but I'd have my problem hidden."

What’s the problem?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Monogamy. I'd stay on to check up on the forum now and then but I'd have my problem hidden.

What’s the problem?

"
hernia

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd drop this shit hole like a hot turd

A lot of people on fab are not swingers at all just singles treating it like it’s a dating website .."

What is a swinger? How are singles treating it like a dating site?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, I would date someone from fab. In fact I've done years ago. To find out he was using me to get meets... Sucks sometimes how some guys treat us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A swinger isn't sitting in a swing all day long

Its mainly for couples not singles but for singles it's like a sex dating site

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah fuck it is for us singles

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd drop this shit hole like a hot turd

A lot of people on fab are not swingers at all just singles treating it like it’s a dating website ..

What is a swinger? How are singles treating it like a dating site?"

A swinger is someone that takes part in group sex or a couple that swop partners .. not a single guy meeting a single woman and having sex together.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd possibly stay on the forums with my profile hidden but would have absolutely no interest in meeting other men.

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By *ools47Woman over a year ago

Failsworth

The updated definition of a swinger:

Swingers can be couples (married or not) or singles.

They have a sexually free spirit. Couples tend to be in love with each other, and only "share" each other sexually with others. Sometimes this means "swapping wives" sometimes it means "group sex".

Single swingers generally despise the dating process and would rather meet at swinger gatherings where it is acceptable and in some cases expected that sex can/will occur on the spot with whomever they meet and feel attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd drop this shit hole like a hot turd

A lot of people on fab are not swingers at all just singles treating it like it’s a dating website ..

What is a swinger? How are singles treating it like a dating site?

A swinger is someone that takes part in group sex or a couple that swop partners .. not a single guy meeting a single woman and having sex together. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m a swinger (I’m on a swinging site). If I’m no longer single it would be a relationship that allowed this lifestyle as it’s what / who I am.

Meeting someone and saying I’d give it up is a romantic idea that people can change for someone. They don’t really. My sexual kinks are part of me and a long term partner has to have the same kinks.

This thread shows up those who are swingers and those who are looking for 1:1 hooks up; both give valid and respectable opinions based on which of these they are.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wrote on my tinder profile I was looking for a partner to attend swingers clubs and picked up a naughty little cracker.we are now in a relationship and having a great time swinging

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can you ever go back to vanilla after you have been a swinger? I would if I thought I had met my forever girl.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can you ever go back to vanilla after you have been a swinger? I would if I thought I had met my forever girl. "

She’s out there somewhere. But restricted from view.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

Im only on Fab because i am single. If i meet the right girl, this site stops instantly for me.

If i meet a girl who is into swinging, she's not for me either. Im the jealous type and can no way share my girlfriend with anyone. Unless shes into just women

Why only if she’s into women?

Quite simple... i dont see her playing with women as a threat and its something that i cant get jealous about.

There is no way i can sit back and watch my girlfriend/wife being pleasured or fucked by another guy. No way

Makes me wonder what your impression of women on here is.

This is the same guy who said on another thread he’d kick his son out, so basically make him homeless, if he wore makeup.

Yes that is the same guy. That's me and stand by my comment. Its how i feel and im being open and honest about it.

I know you’re the same guy.

That’s what the green arrow is for.

I was making other people aware so they can see you probably don’t think that much of people & their choices if they don’t match yours.

We all have opinions and i dont mind sharing mine in public. Doesn't make me a bad person though. Does it?

Indeed this was a different post, labelled "Pretty boys or Rugged men". Something on thise lines anyway.

Very harsh i know but the community and background roots im from have standards and ways of being brought up. Grown men wearing make up doesn't have a place in mu home.

Wow. This is a good filter for sure. I love a guy in guyliner and make up can be fun at festivals. I love people that express themselves individually.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would love a swinging relationship and if I met someone from here for that then even better. I could never go back to a conventional sexually monogamous relationship. I always felt something was missing for me.

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By *wentMan over a year ago

blackpool

"If you got into a relationship, would you continue to use fab (whether it be for meets, socials, the forum etc) or would you come off completely?

Would you want an open relationship/to swing together, or is monogamy for you?

Would you date someone you met on fab?

So many questions, I’m so nosey

I would come off Fab for the right person. But may tell her about it and the introduce her to it as would be good to play as a couple rather than a single male. If someone off Fab we would have I have a discussions

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would date someone from Fab.

If I met someone outside of fab, I’d leave.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I'd stay on fab whether or not I met them here. I would not be playing with others if we decided to be monogamous though. I would just stay for chat rooms and forums.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 07/10/19 19:19:07]"

I'd only date someone off fab if we both left

And if I met a guy away from Fab then yes I would leave

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If i meet someone away from fab then yes i would leave

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